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mfcorey1

(11,001 posts)
Tue Apr 21, 2015, 11:46 PM Apr 2015

I Would Have Starved Without the Food Bank

I stood there shocked. It was the day after my roommates and I had thrown a huge party. I had opened the cupboards and realized that we had literally been eaten out of house and home....

When I first moved out on my own there was a tremendous amount of adjustment time. I was young, foolish and unfortunately in bad company. To make matters worse, I didn't know how to budget, I had bills to pay, I had to finish my schooling and couldn't find a job better than a counter attendant/bakery assistant at a doughnut shop. I worked graveyard shifts for over a year at the wage of $6.10/hour and I did this while attending high school. How I did it, I really don't know. These were not the best times in my life.

I remember moving from cupboard to cupboard and feeling completely overwhelmed by the disparity. There was nothing to eat. To make matters worse, we had no money. Nothing. Not a penny until our pay checks, which were over a week and a half away. I knew I could eat one free meal daily at the doughnut shop but I had no idea what I was going to eat for my other meals.

That was when I realized it. We needed to go to the food bank.

I recall trying to think of an alternative. I believed that food banks were for homeless people and that I would be taking from someone more needy than I.

However, I soon realized that if I didn't go, there would be repercussions. I needed food to keep my mind and body healthy.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jennifer-bly/i-would-have-starved-with_b_7089158.html

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I Would Have Starved Without the Food Bank (Original Post) mfcorey1 Apr 2015 OP
Threw a huge party? yeoman6987 Apr 2015 #1
I am glad she went Kalidurga Apr 2015 #2
I contribute to my local food bank Skittles Apr 2015 #3
I volunteer at a local food bank. There's a guy who's given us a lot over the past winter is coming Apr 2015 #4
There are examples of this... BojackFan Apr 2015 #5
I have never depended on a food bank Skittles Apr 2015 #6
I got an appeal from the Vermont Food Bank, but I get a LOT of requests for money in the mail DFW Apr 2015 #7
 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
1. Threw a huge party?
Tue Apr 21, 2015, 11:51 PM
Apr 2015

Glad he was able to get some food. Food banks are good I typically leave some stuff around thanksgiving time.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
2. I am glad she went
Wed Apr 22, 2015, 12:58 AM
Apr 2015

I might be reading more into this than is there. But, it seems like her growing up was less than optimal and she is minimizing the impact that had on her and her coping skills. It looks like she managed to overcome those problems, kudos to her.

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
3. I contribute to my local food bank
Wed Apr 22, 2015, 01:37 AM
Apr 2015

I like the newsletters I get from them featuring the stories of real people thanking the donors - they are very touching indeed.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
4. I volunteer at a local food bank. There's a guy who's given us a lot over the past
Wed Apr 22, 2015, 01:45 AM
Apr 2015

few years, but doesn't want to be acknowledged. All he'll say is that a long time ago, we helped him survive a rough patch in his life, so now he wants to help others through us.

DFW

(54,403 posts)
7. I got an appeal from the Vermont Food Bank, but I get a LOT of requests for money in the mail
Wed Apr 22, 2015, 03:36 AM
Apr 2015

So, I asked the one guy I trusted to give me straight info about Vermont as to whether or not they did good work. When Howard Dean said they were good people, I now give them a couple hundred bucks each year.

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