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cilla4progress

(24,736 posts)
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:10 PM Apr 2015

Bruce Jenner interview

I thought Diane Sawyer did an excellent job. Jenner strikes me as a bit eccentric - not at all related to his gender, just to a life in Hollywood, with the Kardashians, etc.

That being said - what he had to say was really eye opening. I especially appreciated learning that gender and sexuality are not necessarily the same. There was a great quote: Sexuality is who you go to bed with; gender is who you go to bed as (or something like that).

It kills me that transgendered folks are tortured, humiliated, beaten. To not be accepted for who you are at your essence... Children and young people. High rates of suicide.

I hope Bruce's coming out is helpful to this community. Aside from his own personal idiosyncracies, unrelated to this aspect, I think it will be. I believe him when he says that is his goal. And shame on those in the media and others who mock him for this. I'll admit it's been a learning curve for me.

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Bruce Jenner interview (Original Post) cilla4progress Apr 2015 OP
One of the most interesting things I found was... Hepburn Apr 2015 #1
His 89 year old mother put a tear in my eye. I'm sure it did for him when he saw that, too. pnwmom Apr 2015 #2
Exactly cilla4progress Apr 2015 #3
She appears to be an amazing woman Hepburn Apr 2015 #4
I think this was the turning point moment for the trans community LittleBlue Apr 2015 #5
LaVerne Cox was the turning point. alphafemale Apr 2015 #7
We as a society have alot to learn about trangender. vankuria Apr 2015 #6
Sweet. cilla4progress Apr 2015 #8

Hepburn

(21,054 posts)
1. One of the most interesting things I found was...
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:16 PM
Apr 2015

...the explanation of the difference between the issues of transgender issues and homosexuality. As close as I can quote this is:

One is about who you go to bed WITH and the other is about who you go to bed AS. Gave me some clarity on the issues.

I enjoyed the interview and also thought Sawyer did a good job. I also had a lot of compassion for Jenner and realized why at age 65 years he is making the transition.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
2. His 89 year old mother put a tear in my eye. I'm sure it did for him when he saw that, too.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:24 PM
Apr 2015

And I thought all of his kids were wonderful, especially the sons who spoke the most.

And his sister was lovely.

None of them were asking for this kind of publicity, but they were so supportive.

Hepburn

(21,054 posts)
4. She appears to be an amazing woman
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:53 PM
Apr 2015

Still as beautiful as she was in the old family pictures and so proud of her son -- no matter what. Helluva Mom!!!

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
5. I think this was the turning point moment for the trans community
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:56 PM
Apr 2015

Kind of like Queen Eye for the gay community.

He's done a lot of good with that interview

vankuria

(904 posts)
6. We as a society have alot to learn about trangender.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 02:00 PM
Apr 2015

I can only speak for myself, having been comfortable in my gender since probably the day I was born, so the whole concept of transgender is so alien. I think what people don't understand or what makes them uncomfortable they tend to make fun of and perhaps having a high profile individual to discuss this is good for us all...I hope so.

cilla4progress

(24,736 posts)
8. Sweet.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 02:44 PM
Apr 2015

I know for my own self I was pretty insensitive 7-10 years ago.

Remember "Pat" on SNL? Julia Sweeney's androgynous character? I can't recall if the joke was on us, or on her? I hope it was us.

There were people I knew whom I couldn't decipher if they were male, female, or something in between. I now see how barbaric it was of me to even care ...

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