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RandySF

(58,907 posts)
Mon May 25, 2015, 02:21 AM May 2015

Jessa Duggar’s Father-In-Law Says Jim Bob And Michelle Duggar Should Be Commended

Jessa Duggar’s father-in-law couldn’t resist sharing his thoughts about the Josh Duggar underage sex abuse scandal.

Michael Seewald, the father of Jessa’s husband, Ben, is a religious zealot who occasionally shares his beliefs on the Seewald family blog. Many of his posts involve the Duggars in some way, and his latest lengthy screed is a defense of Josh Duggar and Josh’s parents.

As the Inquisitr previously reported, Josh recently confessed to sexually molesting four of his sisters by forcibly fondling their breasts and genitals, usually while they were asleep. He was 14 at the time, and the Duggars had five underage daughters (ages at the time in parentheses): Jana Duggar (12), Jill Duggar (11), Jessa Duggar (10), Jinger Duggar (9), and Joy-Anna Duggar (5).

Like many 19 Kids and Counting fans, Jessa Duggar’s father-in-law seems more upset about the family’s good name being tarnished than he does about the family’s decision to allow their daughter’s molester to continue living under the same roof as his victims instead of turning him into the proper authorities. In a post titled “Grace Greater Than Sin,” Michael Seewald begins by whining about the media uncovering the dark secret that the Duggars wanted so desperately to hide.

“It pains me to see that they are now having to relive the nightmare that had been laid to rest well over a decade ago with Josh’s repentance and reformation, but I feel compelled to bring some context and reason to the bloodletting that many are engaging in and to come to the aid of our dear friends and family.”


Notice how he only mentions Josh while talking about how the family put this behind him — he doesn’t say anything about the victims, and there’s a good chance that neither they nor Josh got the help that they needed. According to People, Josh’s “treatment” consisted of a very short stay at the Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP) Training Center in Little Rock, Arkansas. The Institute in Basic Life Principles is a religious organization, and its training center “has been the subject of a local Child Protective Services investigation.” Josh was most likely getting preached to and studying the Bible, not getting psychological help. So far, no one has revealed what kind of help Jessa Duggar and her sisters received, if any.


http://www.inquisitr.com/2116741/jessa-duggars-father-in-law-defends-josh-says-jim-bob-and-michelle-should-be-commended-for-handling-of-molestation/#P2jw16PzM5Qd8v76.99
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riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
1. Holy shit! He thinks being all rape-y and incestuous is fucking normal!!
Mon May 25, 2015, 02:43 AM
May 2015

Jessa Duggar’s father-in-law goes on to say that fans shouldn’t be shocked by Josh’s actions — he claims that many people would do the same thing if they didn’t fear the consequences of their behavior.

"Many times it is simply lack of opportunity or fear of consequences that keep us from falling into grievous sin even though our fallen hearts would love to indulge the flesh. We should not be shocked that this occurred in the Duggar’s home, we should rather be thankful to God if we have been spared such, and pray that he would keep us and our children from falling."






 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
2. What people would those be!?
Mon May 25, 2015, 03:14 AM
May 2015

I was never tempted to sexually molest kids while they slept when I was 13 or 14 (or ever).

JI7

(89,252 posts)
3. one moment they felt so lucky , their teenage son gets married to a Duggar and they can get in
Mon May 25, 2015, 03:24 AM
May 2015

on the fame and cash and then it comes crashing down . and now their teenage son is married and expecting a child later this year.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
4. Only if "commended" is now a synonym for "prosecuted!"
Mon May 25, 2015, 03:50 AM
May 2015

They enabled a molester and didn't get him the psychological help he clearly needs (sending him to the Hobby Lobby outfit), and they also didn't care for their children, the victims, by getting them the help they needed to process and come to some sort of understanding about the abuse they endured.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
5. So if anyone was wondering why it's so hard to keep children from being sexually abused...
Mon May 25, 2015, 05:59 AM
May 2015

this is why. People like this who will cover, deflect, and minimize abuse. No doubt if this guy happened upon a child being abused by a male relative he wouldn't say anything to the authorities. He would do the same thing Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar did, cover it up, keep the punishment of the offender to a minimum and make damn sure the victims were properly blamed so they wouldn't tell anyone. The whole culture is as much to blame as any individual. They make sure that the victims are always under someone's thumb and shaming them is the easiest and most effective way to do that.

He is as sick as Huckabee. If I found out a relative got into a family like that I would make sure they knew I would want them to run not walk away from that mess.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
8. I'm guessing Anna Duggars parents might feel the same way @ SIL Josh
Mon May 25, 2015, 10:40 AM
May 2015

Josh is having the wagons circled around him by a certain set of like minded patriarchal religious leaders.



SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
9. If you read the entire blog post
Mon May 25, 2015, 11:22 AM
May 2015

he does indeed talk about the victims.

The victims of Josh’s actions should not be lost in all of this. Sadly, this type of thing is all too common. Victims of sexual abuse of any kind often suffer greatly for many years as a result of these sins. We should not downplay the seriousness of these offenses particularly, nor gloss over the pain and confusion they often bring, sometimes for a lifetime.


Finally, a word to the millions of muted victims of sexual abuse all over the world. It is not your fault. No matter what the abuser may have said, you are not the one to blame. Do not keep silent if you are being abused, tell someone you trust, a parent, a teacher, a friend, anyone is better than silence. You are likely not the only one who has been abused. Tell someone so that they will be stopped. If the person you tell doesn’t contact the right people to help, tell someone else. Stay away from the abuser if at all possible, or avoid being alone with them. If the abuser is in your family, you may feel conflicted. You may love this person and can’t understand why they are hurting you. No matter how much you love the abuser you must tell someone. Remember, it is never okay for someone to treat you that way even if they are a parent, a sibling, or a friend. There are many people who will help you if you just break the silence.


I agree that no one has talked about what kind of help, if any, the victims in this case received. Being as all but one are now adults, perhaps they'll discuss that at some point.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
11. Sounds just like the fans who thought Joe Paterno did the right thing...
Mon May 25, 2015, 11:34 AM
May 2015

Covering up for Jerry Sandusky.

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
12. They failed to protect their children from a predator.
Mon May 25, 2015, 11:36 AM
May 2015

Then they did everything they could to protect the predator.

That is not commendable behavior.

They deserve scorn.

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