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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsOn their wedding day, turned away by NC magistrates
Using religion as a cudgel to enforce bigotry is nothing new at all:
On their wedding day, turned away by NC magistrates
By Carol Ann Person
I met the love of my life more than 40 years ago in Raleigh. Thomas is a lifelong North Carolinian. I was a recent transplant from Vermont. We are both legally blind, and soon after we met, we moved to Winston-Salem to work for the Industries of the Blind. Our friendship blossomed into love, and in 1976, Thomas proposed. I very happily said yes.
Soon after, we went to our local courthouse to receive a civil marriage license from one of the magistrates there, so we could commit our lives to each through a legal union. I was so excited. People always say your wedding day is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life, and I was expecting mine to be exactly that.
But when we walked into that government office together, we were told that the magistrate on duty wouldnt give us a marriage license. I was flabbergasted. We had planned everything, we had all our paperwork and we were legally eligible to get married.
So why wouldnt he marry us? The reason, it turned out, was because Thomas is African-American, and I am white. The magistrate told us that marrying an interracial couple went against his religious beliefs. Our happy day quickly turned into a nightmare.
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By Carol Ann Person
I met the love of my life more than 40 years ago in Raleigh. Thomas is a lifelong North Carolinian. I was a recent transplant from Vermont. We are both legally blind, and soon after we met, we moved to Winston-Salem to work for the Industries of the Blind. Our friendship blossomed into love, and in 1976, Thomas proposed. I very happily said yes.
Soon after, we went to our local courthouse to receive a civil marriage license from one of the magistrates there, so we could commit our lives to each through a legal union. I was so excited. People always say your wedding day is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life, and I was expecting mine to be exactly that.
But when we walked into that government office together, we were told that the magistrate on duty wouldnt give us a marriage license. I was flabbergasted. We had planned everything, we had all our paperwork and we were legally eligible to get married.
So why wouldnt he marry us? The reason, it turned out, was because Thomas is African-American, and I am white. The magistrate told us that marrying an interracial couple went against his religious beliefs. Our happy day quickly turned into a nightmare.
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On their wedding day, turned away by NC magistrates (Original Post)
MohRokTah
Jun 2015
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In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)1. Replace that NC magistrate.
Human101948
(3,457 posts)2. Especially since that magistrate is probably dead...
The incident was over forty years ago.
But don't worry. Someone equally stupid has probably replaced that magistrate.
ProfessorGAC
(65,211 posts)3. Probably A Little More Surreptitious Though
Stealth bigotry is far more likely since it's not fashionable to be openly bigoted.
MohRokTah
(15,429 posts)4. Under the new law that the NC House is about to override the veto on...
Magistrates will be able to return to the days of refusing to marry interracial couples due to religious beliefs.