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RandySF

(59,221 posts)
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:02 PM Jun 2015

Jeb Bush forced single mothers publish sexual histories in Florida newspapers.

Public shaming would be an effective way to regulate the “irresponsible behavior” of unwed mothers, misbehaving teenagers and welfare recipients, former Florida Gov. Jeb Bush (R) argued in his 1995 book Profiles in Character.

In a chapter called "The Restoration of Shame,” the likely 2016 presidential candidate made the case that restoring the art of public humiliation could help prevent pregnancies “out of wedlock.”

One of the reasons more young women are giving birth out of wedlock and more young men are walking away from their paternal obligations is that there is no longer a stigma attached to this behavior, no reason to feel shame. Many of these young women and young men look around and see their friends engaged in the same irresponsible conduct. Their parents and neighbors have become ineffective at attaching some sense of ridicule to this behavior. There was a time when neighbors and communities would frown on out of wedlock births and when public condemnation was enough of a stimulus for one to be careful.

Bush points to Nathaniel Hawthorne's 1850 novel The Scarlet Letter, in which the main character is forced to wear a large red "A" for "adulterer" on her clothes to punish her for having an extramarital affair that produced a child, as an early model for his worldview. "Infamous shotgun weddings and Nathaniel Hawthorne's Scarlet Letter are reminders that public condemnation of irresponsible sexual behavior has strong historical roots,” Bush wrote.

As governor of Florida in 2001, Bush had the opportunity to test his theory on public shaming. He declined to veto a very controversial bill that required single mothers who did not know the identity of the father to publish their sexual histories in a newspaper before they could legally put their babies up for adoption. He later signed a repeal of the so-called "Scarlet Letter" law in 2003 after it was successfully challenged in court.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/06/09/jeb-bush-1995-book_n_7542964.html?1433860308
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Jeb Bush forced single mothers publish sexual histories in Florida newspapers. (Original Post) RandySF Jun 2015 OP
I wonder what stupid person thinks considering Her daughter had a child out of wedlock? kimbutgar Jun 2015 #1
Since an adoption would terminate the rights of both parents to the child there has to be kelly1mm Jun 2015 #2
You're defending the Scarlet Letter Law. On a progressive website. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #4
I am defending the rights of both parents to have due process before their kelly1mm Jun 2015 #6
That is a dishonest argument as applied to this law. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #7
Is it possible for you to have a conversation/disagreement without name calling/insults? nt kelly1mm Jun 2015 #9
You should learn what "due process" actually means geek tragedy Jun 2015 #11
You win the dumb argument of the day contest. BillZBubb Jun 2015 #36
To each of your 3 questions no, don't believe any of those asertions. Do you believe that both kelly1mm Jun 2015 #48
+1. If only they valued women's rights as much as they valued guns. nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #61
there is a mechanism in place KT2000 Jun 2015 #58
Holy shit! marym625 Jun 2015 #69
If due process was involved, the adoption agency wanting to make sure the father's rights are 1monster Jun 2015 #73
Guy meets girl at bar, they get drunk and have sex. lark Jun 2015 #90
Yeah, because it's not like there is any history in this country of trying to facilitate adoptions StevieM Jun 2015 #12
"I don't know anything about this particular law." geek tragedy Jun 2015 #13
I'm not arguing about it. I oppose it. But the subject of adoption came up and I am not StevieM Jun 2015 #17
No one is suggesting that the constitution be thrown out when a father's rights geek tragedy Jun 2015 #21
And I am passionately opposed to shaming single mothers. Jeb Bush and other Republicans StevieM Jun 2015 #25
Thank you! gopiscrap Jun 2015 #71
You forgot that if the father is unknown and uninvolved no consent is needed. Disposal of notice and consent Fred Sanders Jun 2015 #5
I did not forget. I do it all the time for my clients. But in the jurisdiction I practice in (MD), kelly1mm Jun 2015 #8
Forcing a woman to publish her sexual history geek tragedy Jun 2015 #10
Agreed. The law is bad. But we also need to make certain that fathers who object to an adoption StevieM Jun 2015 #15
I have been involved with over 70 adoptions in the past 12 years. In about 10 kelly1mm Jun 2015 #16
Are you really confused as to the difference between geek tragedy Jun 2015 #18
Since it was my case I am.intimately familiar with both of the orders. Basically in kelly1mm Jun 2015 #28
If your story is true, the judge violated the constitution and is a misogynist to boot. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #35
You really do seem to have a problem discussing issues without being snide, rude and generally kelly1mm Jun 2015 #45
He didn't believe her? treestar Jun 2015 #97
It is impractical treestar Jun 2015 #96
ugh Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #3
And this is from a person who is a member of a group of people who think... BlueJazz Jun 2015 #14
Men have an obligation to check back with their kiranon Jun 2015 #19
You think a man has abandoned a child who he doesn't know exists? StevieM Jun 2015 #22
That's generally correct. Though in case involving rape, incest, and domestic abuse geek tragedy Jun 2015 #23
Agreed on all counts. (eom) StevieM Jun 2015 #26
Yes. Having adopted 2 children, that is exactly what the court kiranon Jun 2015 #34
Well then we have different beliefs. I do think that she has such an obligation. StevieM Jun 2015 #38
Both are open adoptions n/t kiranon Jun 2015 #56
Yes. He had sex. If he does not check back to see if it resulted in pregnancy jeff47 Jun 2015 #37
I strongly disagree. (eom) StevieM Jun 2015 #39
Because it is so much trouble to check back in a month? (nt) jeff47 Jun 2015 #40
I don't think most women would appreciate a one-night stand contacting them a month later StevieM Jun 2015 #42
Why is it up to the woman to follow up? jeff47 Jun 2015 #43
Because the woman is the one who knows that there is a baby coming. (eom) StevieM Jun 2015 #46
Because the man's an idiot? jeff47 Jun 2015 #51
You think she'd more thrilled getting a call from every single former partner? SpartanDem Jun 2015 #91
I think if that former partner doesn't do so, he demonstrated he isn't interested in being a parent. jeff47 Jun 2015 #93
Your emphatic denial to act responsibly in this scenario is noted. LanternWaste Jun 2015 #66
I agree. If they cared whether or not they are parents, we should assume that they would. Slept on prayin4rain Jun 2015 #67
Do Republicans not comprehend literature at all? Johonny Jun 2015 #20
Thank you for pointing out how Mr. Bush, with an expensive education, doesn't comprehend the book. greatlaurel Jun 2015 #29
Does that apply to rich assholes with one child being a vandal, the other a junkie? Nt Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2015 #24
And the third a stalker. RandySF Jun 2015 #52
Wasn't the vandal the stalker? It's hard to keep up. It seems to be a problem in the republican Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2015 #54
Noelle is the addict, George is the stalker and John is the cop fighter. RandySF Jun 2015 #55
Guess I missed the cop fighter. I did remember that the recently elected stalker Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2015 #57
It was the lawn of the girl's family the night be broke into her bedroom. RandySF Jun 2015 #60
He honestly makes me ill...a horrible person AuntPatsy Jun 2015 #27
Kick Warren DeMontague Jun 2015 #30
How about ... NanceGreggs Jun 2015 #31
And this so-called "man" wants to be President. CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2015 #32
So what about Bristol Palin, Jeb? muntrv Jun 2015 #33
Didn't work with any of his siblings or for himself The Second Stone Jun 2015 #41
Profiles in Character?! frylock Jun 2015 #44
Fuck You. Mastuh Jeb. BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2015 #47
If such a law was enacted on Congress, about 500 men would have some FrankUnderwood Jun 2015 #49
Its over Dwayne Hicks Jun 2015 #50
But the GOP applauded Bristol Palin. Mz Pip Jun 2015 #53
HIS mother should go through a public,....oh wait,...she has. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #59
Sounds like the kind of Sunday reading Jebthro would enjoy Blue Owl Jun 2015 #62
How was this legal? WTF?! shenmue Jun 2015 #63
Unfortunately, some powerful FL Democrats pushed that law. madfloridian Jun 2015 #64
I am beginning to believe that W is the smarter brother of these two Gothmog Jun 2015 #65
the bushies appear to be very evil - the more we find out samsingh Jun 2015 #68
What a fucking pig! gopiscrap Jun 2015 #70
What did the unwed father get? A medal? meow2u3 Jun 2015 #72
Did Jeb Bush actually read the 'Scarlett Letter'? Or did he just read the highlights *spoilers* LynneSin Jun 2015 #74
1850...conservacons really do want to turn back the clock noiretextatique Jun 2015 #75
This has got to be some kind of record. KamaAina Jun 2015 #76
So misogyny is every bit as dead as is racism. Register. Vote. marble falls Jun 2015 #77
K&R nt. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #78
We were right all along. Jeb Bush is one sick fuck. Well....................that makes all of them. Enthusiast Jun 2015 #79
Because he belongs to the Gyno Oppression Party. nt valerief Jun 2015 #80
The Scarlet Letter was set in the years 1642-1649 CanonRay Jun 2015 #81
"has strong historical roots" awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #82
That's astonishing . . . even for a Republican. Vinca Jun 2015 #83
methinks mr. bush may have misunderstood the intent of The Scarlet Letter 0rganism Jun 2015 #84
If you want to protect your parental rights, it would be wise to avoid sex with uncommitted partners lostnfound Jun 2015 #85
And what does that have to do with dragging people's sex lives through the papers? RandySF Jun 2015 #86
I oppose dragging it through the papers... lostnfound Jun 2015 #88
I agree with Jeb KentuckyWoman Jun 2015 #87
They should have all listed Jeb Bush and every member of the Florida Legislature. Matariki Jun 2015 #89
Sounds like we was setting up a place to troll for The Wizard Jun 2015 #92
He was living mstinamotorcity2 Jun 2015 #94
Profiles in Douchery, more like. mahina Jun 2015 #95
Beautiful minder. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #98
I remember this Tab Jun 2015 #99
It is a hateful, vindictive policy TNNurse Jun 2015 #100
Yup, the Dems have a lot of bush garbage like this still_one Jun 2015 #101

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
2. Since an adoption would terminate the rights of both parents to the child there has to be
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:13 PM
Jun 2015

either consent by both parents to the adoption (preferred) or, at minimum, some type of due process before the other parents rights are terminated IMO. This law was an attempt to provide that due process.

Of course if you disagree that both parents have equal rights to the child then perhaps you would not have the same opinion.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
4. You're defending the Scarlet Letter Law. On a progressive website.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:27 PM
Jun 2015

This is not A Voice For Men.

Perhaps you are confused.

That law was obviously unconstitutional and one of the most sexist, hideous invasions of privacy this side of forced transvaginal sonograms.

And you are here defending it using a bullshit due process argument.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
6. I am defending the rights of both parents to have due process before their
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:34 PM
Jun 2015

parental rights are terminated. I don't think that is really controversial. I also do not believe a single father should have the right to have a child adopted without the consent/notification/basic due process safeguards of the mother.

Does that make me a radical feminist?

Maybe a little more conversation and a little less namecalling would make DU a better place.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
7. That is a dishonest argument as applied to this law.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:38 PM
Jun 2015

The Scarlet Letter Law was not "due" process.

It is rather amazing that anyone who ostensibly has the correct number of chromosomes thinks this law constituted due process.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
11. You should learn what "due process" actually means
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:47 PM
Jun 2015

before invoking it to defend hideously unconstitutional legislation.

Hint: the constitutional definition of "due process" does not encompass violating someone else's constitutional rights.

BillZBubb

(10,650 posts)
36. You win the dumb argument of the day contest.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:00 PM
Jun 2015

This is not a due process issue at all. This is an attempt to humiliate people and is a violation of their rights.

Do you also believe the recent spate of right wing anti-abortion legislation requiring ultra-sounds and that clinics be accredited surgical centers is about protecting women?

Or that the Patriot Act was about patriotism?

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
48. To each of your 3 questions no, don't believe any of those asertions. Do you believe that both
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:15 PM
Jun 2015

parents have equal parental rights to a child (before the Court determines custody) and that those rights cannot be terminated without due process?

KT2000

(20,587 posts)
58. there is a mechanism in place
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:49 PM
Jun 2015

that would see to it that the father maintains his rights. It is his responsibility to keep up with the women with whom he has had sex to determine whether or not he is a father. It is not the responsibility of the woman to notify anyone. Supposedly these are men who know that sexual intercourse can result in pregnancy.
If he does not want to be a father he should take the best precautions available and that way he could relive himself of having to keep track of the women in his life.

In my book, failure to do this is abdication of any so-called rights.

marym625

(17,997 posts)
69. Holy shit!
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jun 2015

If you want to advocate for a father's right, how about advocating men pay attention to what happens to women they have set with instead of shaming women?

Jesus christ on a cheese sandwich! That's just barbaric

1monster

(11,012 posts)
73. If due process was involved, the adoption agency wanting to make sure the father's rights are
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 12:53 PM
Jun 2015

considered, could ask the mother for that information. There is no reason on Earth to publish it in a newspaper.

Girls who keep their babies and apply for public assistance are required to name the father/possible father of her child. Then the government goes after the father/possible father for reimbursement.

I'm guessing, that in most cases (I know that this is not true in all cases), the father has already abandoned his paternal rights and that is why he isn't in the picture.

No, you don't sound like a radical feminist. You sound like someone who hasn't thought your position through to its logical conclusions.

lark

(23,155 posts)
90. Guy meets girl at bar, they get drunk and have sex.
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 06:26 PM
Jun 2015

They go their separate ways and never see each other again. You seriously think that guy has rights to the child? Do you really support forcing the mother to "slut shame" herself in the name of this guy who would probably have conipitions if she even suggested he was the father and had any responsibilities?

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
12. Yeah, because it's not like there is any history in this country of trying to facilitate adoptions
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:50 PM
Jun 2015

whether both parents want it or not.

I don't want our whole country to turn into Utah when it comes to dismissing fathers' rights and allowing the adoption industry to run rampant. The rest of us are awful enough as it is when it comes to ripping children away from their blood relatives.

I don't know anything about this particular law and I don't like the way it sounds. But we definitely have to do something about adoption agencies deliberately trying to deny fathers the right to parent their children.

And to be clear, I am also passionate about preventing agencies and lawyers from bullying women and girls into coerced adoptions.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
13. "I don't know anything about this particular law."
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:52 PM
Jun 2015

Then what, pray tell, are you trying to accomplish by arguing about it?

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
17. I'm not arguing about it. I oppose it. But the subject of adoption came up and I am not
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:59 PM
Jun 2015

going to fail to take the opportunity to condemn coerced adoptions and involuntary TPRs.

In case you haven't realized, Republicans have a dream. They want EVERY SINGLE CHILD born out of wedlock to be given up for adoption. I don't. And I will speak out against their vision--a return to the Baby Scoop Era--every chance I get.

And perhaps I chose my words poorly when I said "I don't know anything." I know what I read in the article. I just meant that I was unfamiliar with this law, or the debate surrounding it, until tonight.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
21. No one is suggesting that the constitution be thrown out when a father's rights
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:12 PM
Jun 2015

are at stake.

This law was intended to shame single mothers.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
25. And I am passionately opposed to shaming single mothers. Jeb Bush and other Republicans
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:18 PM
Jun 2015

want to return us to those days....the Baby Scoop Era. That is worst thing we can do.

And if you think that "no one" is suggesting that fathers' rights should be ignored--I disagree. The people shaming single mothers very much want to ignore fathers' rights, because that gets in their way of promoting adoption.

They also want to ignore mothers' rights. So in some states you can bring a woman adoption papers in the hospital, 12 hours after delivery, when the mother is drugged out of her mind.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
5. You forgot that if the father is unknown and uninvolved no consent is needed. Disposal of notice and consent
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:32 PM
Jun 2015

happens in family law all the time.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
8. I did not forget. I do it all the time for my clients. But in the jurisdiction I practice in (MD),
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:40 PM
Jun 2015

if there is no father listed on the birth certificate and the mother was unmarried at the time of the birth then you can petition to the court for an adoption without a father named. The court is required to investigate the circumstances surrounding the conception to determine if the identity of the father can be reasonably determined before allowing the adoption to go forward.


 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
10. Forcing a woman to publish her sexual history
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:44 PM
Jun 2015

is not an example of "reasonably identifying" the identity of the father.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
15. Agreed. The law is bad. But we also need to make certain that fathers who object to an adoption
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:54 PM
Jun 2015

are given the opportunity to parent their children. No human being should be forced to become a birth parent against their wishes.

It is disgusting that Jeb Bush wants to go back to the days when single moms were shamed. Like his brother, he seems to yearn for a return to the Baby Scoop Era.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
16. I have been involved with over 70 adoptions in the past 12 years. In about 10
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:56 PM
Jun 2015

of those no father was listed. In two of those 10 cases the judge did not believe my client concerning why/how she did not know the identity of the father. In both those two cases the Court ordered a publication notifying potential fathers.

In one case the client withdrew consent and the adoption was dismissed before publication.

In the other case my client requested a rehearing and named the father (who then consented to the adoption) and the adoption went forward.

My point being that both parents have equal parental rights (at least here in MD) and the rights of both parents should not be terminated without due process.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
18. Are you really confused as to the difference between
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:06 PM
Jun 2015

service by publication re: a legal proceeding and forcing a woman to set forth in detail her sexual history?

Are you aware of any service by publication that requires anyone to publish his or her:

name
age
height,
hair and eye color,
race
and weight
as well as details of the dates and places of sexual encounters and a description of all of their sexual partners?

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
28. Since it was my case I am.intimately familiar with both of the orders. Basically in
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:23 PM
Jun 2015

the first case the mother had told the judge she had 3 one night stands with individuals she met at a certain bar in our county but did not remember their names. The judge did not believe her. The judge ordered that she publish once a week, for 3 consecutive weeks that she had had sexual relations with 3 unknown men at that particular bar over the month of X, year Y and that a child was conceived as a result and that the child was up for adoption. The publication was to include her full name, age and physical characteristics. Like I said above she then withdrew her consent and the adoption was dismissed.

The second case was a bit more convoluted in that she mother knew the identity of one sexual partner that could possibly be the father but said that the actual father was a Craigslist person she had a one night stand with and did not know his name. The same judge as above issued a very similar order for publication. My client then named the father at a rehearing and the judge rescinded the order of publication. The father then consented to the adoption and the adoption went through.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
35. If your story is true, the judge violated the constitution and is a misogynist to boot.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:00 PM
Jun 2015

A competent attorney would have appealed.

kelly1mm

(4,734 posts)
45. You really do seem to have a problem discussing issues without being snide, rude and generally
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:11 PM
Jun 2015

unpleasant. There really is no need to make this personal.

Have a good day ......

treestar

(82,383 posts)
97. He didn't believe her?
Fri Jun 12, 2015, 08:50 PM
Jun 2015

I don't see what grounds he could have for that. And the publication he ordered has to be unconstitutional! How awful!

treestar

(82,383 posts)
96. It is impractical
Fri Jun 12, 2015, 08:44 PM
Jun 2015

Maybe some day there will be DNA data banks on all persons born, and you can run a check on the child to find the father. Not now though. You're limited to who the mother wants to name. There's no way to force that out of her in a decent and free society.

Fathers just don't have any rights until the mother says they do. Seems unfair but there's no reason to change it. And how many men want the child when the woman doesn't? So few that it's not worth pursuing.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
14. And this is from a person who is a member of a group of people who think...
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:52 PM
Jun 2015

...that Sex education is disgusting and a waste of time.

kiranon

(1,727 posts)
19. Men have an obligation to check back with their
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:06 PM
Jun 2015

sexual partners to see if it resulted in a pregnancy. Otherwise, it is abandonment of the child and a failure to provide support during the pregnancy. It should be a prima facie reason to terminate a father's rights and is in many states. Requiring a woman to delineate her sexual history is sick, punitive and says to me that Jeb Bush hates women. What other groups will he require to wear a "red" letter if he is elected? Doubt he will use "D" for drugs or "S" for smuggler.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
22. You think a man has abandoned a child who he doesn't know exists?
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:14 PM
Jun 2015

If a woman is pregnant, and she knows who the father is, I believe she is morally obligated to tell him about the baby before she goes through with an adoption.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
23. That's generally correct. Though in case involving rape, incest, and domestic abuse
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:15 PM
Jun 2015

certainly that doesn't hold.

Of course, a woman can abort the fetus without providing notice.

kiranon

(1,727 posts)
34. Yes. Having adopted 2 children, that is exactly what the court
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:53 PM
Jun 2015

held. After publishing notice and no one came forward, or ever did, the fathers' rights were terminated. Birthmom did not know who the father was in one case and in the other he had his then girlfriend (mother of another child he didn't support) tell the birthmom that he was dead. He later turned up alive (had been avoiding his responsibilities on purpose). He knew he had a son but didn't come forward then or ever. Do not believe the mother has any moral obligation to involve a father if he is not interested in finding out if their encounter resulted in a child. It's not hard to find out - just look.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
38. Well then we have different beliefs. I do think that she has such an obligation.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:02 PM
Jun 2015

I hope you are doing open adoptions.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
37. Yes. He had sex. If he does not check back to see if it resulted in pregnancy
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:01 PM
Jun 2015

then he abandoned the child.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
42. I don't think most women would appreciate a one-night stand contacting them a month later
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:07 PM
Jun 2015

to ask if they are pregnant.

Or what about a BF and GF who broke up right after conception? Would she want him to call her a month later to verify that she isn't pregnant?

If a woman knows who the father is there is (usually) no reason she can't tell him she's pregnant.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
43. Why is it up to the woman to follow up?
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:10 PM
Jun 2015

So the girlfriend should be thrilled to call up her ex-boyfriend in your scenario?

Why is it the woman's job to follow up after sex? We menfolk are somehow incapable of keeping track of where we left our sperm?

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
51. Because the man's an idiot?
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:17 PM
Jun 2015

The man either knows he effectively used birth control (aka the condom didn't break), or it's very likely that a baby is coming.

If he wants to be a father, he's going to have to do a hell of a lot more unpleasant things than make one phone call. If he can't be bothered to make even that trivial effort, why should he get to assert parental rights?

SpartanDem

(4,533 posts)
91. You think she'd more thrilled getting a call from every single former partner?
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 06:29 PM
Jun 2015

as opposed to having the one who impregnated her?

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
93. I think if that former partner doesn't do so, he demonstrated he isn't interested in being a parent.
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 08:59 PM
Jun 2015
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
66. Your emphatic denial to act responsibly in this scenario is noted.
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 09:42 AM
Jun 2015

Your emphatic denial to act responsibly in this scenario is noted.

prayin4rain

(2,065 posts)
67. I agree. If they cared whether or not they are parents, we should assume that they would. Slept on
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 10:09 AM
Jun 2015

rights are often legally lost.

Johonny

(20,888 posts)
20. Do Republicans not comprehend literature at all?
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:07 PM
Jun 2015

Can you seriously read The Scarlet Letter and think the author thought this was a good idea for society? This is dumber than Ted Cruz not knowing the point of Green Eggs and Ham. This is stupid on a Bush level of reality. I'm convinced there is no smart brother. There is just mean and really mean.

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
29. Thank you for pointing out how Mr. Bush, with an expensive education, doesn't comprehend the book.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:33 PM
Jun 2015

It is clear from his statement that he never bothered to actually read The Scarlet Letter.

Your observation about the lack of a smart brother is spot on.

Guy Whitey Corngood

(26,505 posts)
54. Wasn't the vandal the stalker? It's hard to keep up. It seems to be a problem in the republican
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:31 PM
Jun 2015

community. Shitty parenting that is.

RandySF

(59,221 posts)
55. Noelle is the addict, George is the stalker and John is the cop fighter.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:43 PM
Jun 2015

Of course, none of them have ever spent a day in jail.

Guy Whitey Corngood

(26,505 posts)
57. Guess I missed the cop fighter. I did remember that the recently elected stalker
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:48 PM
Jun 2015

had also vandalized someone's yard with his car. Holy fuck! Is there anyone on that family who's not a first rate douche? ( He asked rhetorically......)

NanceGreggs

(27,818 posts)
31. How about ...
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:39 PM
Jun 2015

... publishing the names of family members of pResidents who lied a country into war, turned a surplus into the largest deficit in US history, read "My Pet Goat" to schoolchildren while the country was under attack, etc.?

"One of the reasons a man like me is able to run for the presidency is that there is no longer a stigma attached to this behavior, no reason to feel shame."

The fact that this idiot is touted as "the smart brother" goes a long way to explaining just how fuckin' stupid the entire family is.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,699 posts)
32. And this so-called "man" wants to be President.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 10:40 PM
Jun 2015


He must not get anywhere near the White House, except maybe on a public tour.

 

The Second Stone

(2,900 posts)
41. Didn't work with any of his siblings or for himself
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:04 PM
Jun 2015

Personally, I think publicly shaming people other than elected officials for misconduct is idiotic. That's quite a statement on the "profile of character" of Jebbie Bush. He has no shame.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
47. Fuck You. Mastuh Jeb.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:13 PM
Jun 2015

And Fuck You in advance for what I predict will be your next move:

Legally collecting data on Bad Women and using it to provide information sharing to corporate executives. The Job Providers, you know.

They would pay you for it, I bet.

They would pay you....
For women and the information on them, that is. So useful.

 

Dwayne Hicks

(637 posts)
50. Its over
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:16 PM
Jun 2015

For Jeb this and the terri Shaivo situation are more than enough to crush his election hopes. Welcome to the WH President Clinton.

Mz Pip

(27,453 posts)
53. But the GOP applauded Bristol Palin.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:29 PM
Jun 2015

Bristol and her wayward boyfriend were all the rage at the GOP 2008 convention. It's okay when it's a Republican.

Not so much if it's a Democrat.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
64. Unfortunately, some powerful FL Democrats pushed that law.
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 01:27 AM
Jun 2015

It was painful to see Pam Bondi call them out on it, considering the anti-woman behavior of FL Republicans.

From 2010:

Scarlet Letter Law came back to bite Florida Dems in the butt today.

This post tells how Dan Gelber and Skip Campbell supported the bill.

gopiscrap

(23,765 posts)
70. What a fucking pig!
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 12:39 PM
Jun 2015

What is wrong with people who vote for a shit stain like this self entitled puke?

meow2u3

(24,772 posts)
72. What did the unwed father get? A medal?
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 12:47 PM
Jun 2015

Why isn't the unwed father ever shamed for his "hit and run" tactics, i.e., getting a woman or girl pregnant and leaving her to hold the bag?

Personally, I think if unwed mothers should be publicly shamed, unwed fathers, especially the "hit and run" types, should be, too--and equally shamed for using a girl for sex and then saddling her with all the responsibility of raising the kid. What's good for the gander is good for the goose.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
74. Did Jeb Bush actually read the 'Scarlett Letter'? Or did he just read the highlights *spoilers*
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 01:39 PM
Jun 2015

Did Jeb Bush realize who punished Hester Pryne and who baby Pearl's father was.

So how is public shaming actually going to work.

Personally I think we should just put a Scarlett DA on Jeb Bush's suits to denote he is a Dumbass.

(spoilers for the few people who haven't read the book or watched the wreteched Demi Moore movie)

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
75. 1850...conservacons really do want to turn back the clock
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 01:45 PM
Jun 2015

I suggest Jeb lead the way by donning a scarlet I for idiot

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
79. We were right all along. Jeb Bush is one sick fuck. Well....................that makes all of them.
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 04:34 PM
Jun 2015

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CanonRay

(14,113 posts)
81. The Scarlet Letter was set in the years 1642-1649
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 05:06 PM
Jun 2015

We now have a definitive answer to the question of how far back in time the GOP wishes to take us. Thanks Jeb.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
82. "has strong historical roots"
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 05:33 PM
Jun 2015

So does slavery. Just because something has strong historical roots does not mean it is good.

0rganism

(23,970 posts)
84. methinks mr. bush may have misunderstood the intent of The Scarlet Letter
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 05:52 PM
Jun 2015

not that it was my favorite piece of literature either back in high school, i rank it slightly higher than Pride & Prejudice on my scale of adolescent tolerability

still even i was able to recognize there was more to the story than slut-shaming.

lostnfound

(16,189 posts)
85. If you want to protect your parental rights, it would be wise to avoid sex with uncommitted partners
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 06:40 PM
Jun 2015

Women have risks associated with sex that simply can't be equalized (a man doesn't carry for 9 months or go through childbirth). Unfortunate physical fact.
Men have risks associated with sex that simply can't be equalized: no way to know if a pregnancy results unless he stays in touch with the woman. Unfortunate physical fact. If you want to know if a pregnancy results, you'd better pick your partners wisely. If not committed, at least look for honesty and integrity.

lostnfound

(16,189 posts)
88. I oppose dragging it through the papers...
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 09:16 PM
Jun 2015

There's nothing about procreation that is fair, and although it is unfortunate that some guys may never learn that they have offspring, it is not something that can be fixed by dragging people's sex lives through the papers.

KentuckyWoman

(6,692 posts)
87. I agree with Jeb
Wed Jun 10, 2015, 09:14 PM
Jun 2015

Not about unwed mothers. But I'm pretty sure if we hook Jeb up "Truman Show" style for the rest of his miserable life it will get him uninvited to family functions.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
89. They should have all listed Jeb Bush and every member of the Florida Legislature.
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 03:42 AM
Jun 2015

That is seriously f'd up. What a creep.

TNNurse

(6,929 posts)
100. It is a hateful, vindictive policy
Sun Jun 14, 2015, 03:49 PM
Jun 2015

which they would be sure none of their children would have to follow if "something happened that is a private family matter". Just like daughters of wealthy and influential people will always have access to abortion.

It is making sure that women and especially poorer women, "know their place."

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