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With the gay marriage ruling (Original Post) lancer78 Jun 2015 OP
this gal wonders the same Skittles Jun 2015 #1
"Just curious here." NuclearDem Jun 2015 #2
YOU PEOPLE should know the answer Skittles Jun 2015 #3
Got a facebook post saying lancer78 Jun 2015 #4
"those types" Aerows Jun 2015 #12
The community interested in such an option isn't large enough to make a difference... brooklynite Jun 2015 #5
I agree lancer78 Jun 2015 #7
"you people"??? Lil Missy Jun 2015 #6
"Why should gay people be allowed to be married" lancer78 Jun 2015 #8
Editied the question lancer78 Jun 2015 #9
"Gay marriage" isn't a change to the state of marriage. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #10
If ten people want to get married and all live together I don't care. Kalidurga Jun 2015 #11
Second time in just two days that Betty Karlson Jun 2015 #13
The most significant argument would be immunity for mass coupling. joshcryer Jun 2015 #14
 

lancer78

(1,495 posts)
4. Got a facebook post saying
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:01 AM
Jun 2015

that the SSM ruling would also allow polygamous marriages. Was just wondering what the reasoning behind that argument would be. Personally, I think the state has a rational basis for banning those types of marriages.

brooklynite

(94,581 posts)
5. The community interested in such an option isn't large enough to make a difference...
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:08 AM
Jun 2015

The legal reasoning against would be that a three person relationship is far more complicated (legally speaking) than a two person relationship, and everyone has the opportunity for a two person relationship of their choice.

 

lancer78

(1,495 posts)
7. I agree
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:19 AM
Jun 2015

that it would be vastly more complicated, and therefore the state would have an interest in banning it. I also can understand that some responders to this thread might be sensitive over the question that I asked because "Gay marriage will lead to polygamy" was an argument used by the opponents of SSM.

 

lancer78

(1,495 posts)
8. "Why should gay people be allowed to be married"
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:21 AM
Jun 2015

Was considered a stupid question 20 years ago. As I noted above, I understand people's sensitivity to my question as that was an argument made by those who wanted to keep their bans on marriage equality.

 

lancer78

(1,495 posts)
9. Editied the question
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:25 AM
Jun 2015

took out the phrase "you people" as it was a poor choice of words and was not intended to be hurtful.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
10. "Gay marriage" isn't a change to the state of marriage.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:28 AM
Jun 2015

That was part of the ruling by the SC. It's an expansion of the right that already currently exists, the right of two people to join legally. It was found that discriminating on the basis of gender and orientation (I think? legal eagles can correct me) was unconstitutional.

We don't currently have any basis of marriage that is poly. People who are poly will have to fight that battle on a different basis, if they want plural relationships to be legal.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
11. If ten people want to get married and all live together I don't care.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 02:27 AM
Jun 2015

If they all want to break up again don't care. It will be a headache to sort out like other people said, it's much more complicated. As it is it's not really something the government can stop. These theoretical 10 people figure out how to pair up and get legally married and if they have a big enough house they can live together, but just not all be married at once legally.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
13. Second time in just two days that
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 05:32 AM
Jun 2015

the homophobic connection (gay marriage will lead to polygamy) is posted in GD. Always as a short question. Always JUUUST short of trolling.

Here's the thing, pal: gays and lesbians wanted to take part in an existing institution. They wanted the same recognition that every other couple had for their life-long commitments. They didn't want to change it.

Alternatively, as Dan Savage once said: "I have been to a few poly weddings, but I have never been to a fifth poly anniversary."

Either way, I don't think there wil be a push. And I doubt that you were "just curious".

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
14. The most significant argument would be immunity for mass coupling.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 05:42 AM
Jun 2015

That is, say someone commits a major crime, and has a few co-conspirators. They then all get married before the trial. None of them now have to be witnesses against one another. They have immunity from testifying against their "loved one."

It can get complicated.

I think in theory it should be allowed, but that's the argument that would be used in cases against it.

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