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friendly_iconoclast

(15,333 posts)
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 10:41 PM Jul 2015

Adventures in racism at the supermarket checkout

http://boingboing.net/2015/07/02/adventures-in-racism-at-the-su.html

To excerpt:

Writer of piece is at supermarket checkout. In front of her are three AA women
First one attempts to use her EBT card-rejected for "incorrect PIN"

Other two attempt same, with same results, machine rejects all three PINs.

Shoppers say "We entered correct PINs" Cashier says:
"No, NSF or you all used wrong PINs" Bystanders pass hat, pay for groceries. Then:

I'm not telling you this story to give a warm fuzzy about the good Samaritans of Giant Eagle. I am telling it because of what happened next, after my stuff was checked out.

“I hate to say it,” the cashier said, which means she didn't hate to say it at all, “but people like that just don't keep track of their money. They think they have all of it on their cards, but they just don't budget well.”

As I went to pay, I took out my debit card and entered my PIN.

Declined.

“My card was declined. It says I'm not using the right PIN.”

She looked at me blankly for a moment. Then she said this:



Need I add that the writer is white?


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Adventures in racism at the supermarket checkout (Original Post) friendly_iconoclast Jul 2015 OP
Powerful story. blue neen Jul 2015 #1
I wish I were surprised nadinbrzezinski Jul 2015 #2
Me, too. I've had other white people say all sorts of racist things to me, I think because... friendly_iconoclast Jul 2015 #3
If I had a nickel for every time MattBaggins Jul 2015 #6
OMG! SheilaT Jul 2015 #7
That is truly awful. I've never heard that before and hope I never hear it in person, as I'm KingCharlemagne Jul 2015 #14
Horrible. SusanCalvin Jul 2015 #23
I've seen the clerks be mildly abusive nilesobek Jul 2015 #4
Even in this case, SusanCalvin Jul 2015 #22
Oddly enough gratuitous Jul 2015 #5
+1000 nt abelenkpe Jul 2015 #8
^THIS^ Grey Jul 2015 #10
+1,000,000 nt Tree-Hugger Jul 2015 #11
What's truly odd.... A HERETIC I AM Jul 2015 #12
+one million malaise Jul 2015 #19
Feed, educate and provide medical care angel823 Jul 2015 #20
I think I am reasonably aware of my SheilaT Jul 2015 #9
Definitely agree with you're last sentence. romanic Jul 2015 #13
Missing from this narrative is what the writer said once the manager appeared. Gormy Cuss Jul 2015 #15
And yet, even on this website, I hear that white privilege doesn't exist. Sheldon Cooper Jul 2015 #16
Amazing madokie Jul 2015 #17
Good ole prole racism. AngryAmish Jul 2015 #18
I had figured out the ending before I saw the punch line. SusanCalvin Jul 2015 #21
 

friendly_iconoclast

(15,333 posts)
3. Me, too. I've had other white people say all sorts of racist things to me, I think because...
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 10:51 PM
Jul 2015

...I'm an older guy, have short hair and dress somewhat conservatively (don't judge a book...)
so presumably in their bigoted minds are "one of them"

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
7. OMG!
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 01:23 AM
Jul 2015

I have never heard that said! I'm glad I never had, and I'm horrified that anyone would actually say that.

God, I hate bigotry.

Says the older white lady.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
14. That is truly awful. I've never heard that before and hope I never hear it in person, as I'm
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 02:13 AM
Jul 2015

not sure I would be able to hold myself back.

nilesobek

(1,423 posts)
4. I've seen the clerks be mildly abusive
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 11:06 PM
Jul 2015

to white people too. At the local grocerteria I watched a male clerk humiliate and delay a couple buying groceries for their growing family on their WIC card. The clerk was dragging his feet and saying the WIC card #s didn't work. I was behind the line and protested LOUDLY about the way he treated this woman and her husband, an obvious combat vet home on leave, in uniform.

I caught myself behaving in a similar fashion when I worked for a year up the street at a convenience store. I was perturbed that a local woman, a tweaker, was spending her entire food stamp allowance, about 280$, in a convenience store.

Quickly I realized that the circumstances people live under are none of my business.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
22. Even in this case,
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 11:15 AM
Jul 2015

they are being abusive to people they can tell are different from them, and to whom they feel superior. Ah, humanity......

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
9. I think I am reasonably aware of my
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 01:30 AM
Jul 2015

luck in life. I was born white. I can recall even as a fairly young child, looking at the very few African Americans I saw, how difficult it must be to have dark skin in our culture.

While I have at various times been relatively poor, I've always known that for me it was a temporary condition, that I could get a better job, could go to school, could improve my lot in life. In short, there were no structural barriers for me.

Don't get me wrong. I've experienced plenty of discrimination as a female, but it's not ever been as terrible as having dark skin, or being sufficiently poor that I couldn't get out from under that.

I try very hard to remember that I have the privilege of white skin. I like to tell tales of how when I get stopped for some minor traffic offense I don't get a ticket because of the privilege of my age, but I also understand that my race also helps. Even though I live in a state that is very Hispanic and Native American (New Mexico), being Caucasian matters.

Every single person out there should have the same privilege that I do.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
15. Missing from this narrative is what the writer said once the manager appeared.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 04:09 AM
Jul 2015

I would hope that she related the whole story.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
17. Amazing
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 08:00 AM
Jul 2015

the shit the blacks have to put up with in this country. First they were rounded up and captured and loaded onto ships and if they survived the trip they were sold into slavery then forced to work for nothing except a meal and a place to sleep. Not much has changed for them in all these years. If I was black I'd be pissed way more than I am as it is.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
21. I had figured out the ending before I saw the punch line.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 11:12 AM
Jul 2015

In what world does three declined PINs in a row not arouse suspicion that the *machine* has an issue, no matter who was using it? Ours, unfortunately.

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