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MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 01:45 PM Aug 2015

I may disagree with you sometimes.

That does not mean that I am your enemy.

I may be vocal about my disagreement.
That does not mean I need to be silenced.

I may support a different candidate than you do.
That does not mean I am obviously wrong.

I may try to convince you to change your mind about something.
That does not mean I should be ignored entirely.

I may talk about something that doesn't interest you.
That does not mean it is a worthless topic.

I may have a very different life experience than you have.
That does not mean my life is meaningless.

I may look very strange or odd to you.
That does not mean you should look away.

We may be very different in many ways.
That does not mean we cannot work together toward common goals.

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I may disagree with you sometimes. (Original Post) MineralMan Aug 2015 OP
You're making it very hard to dislike you. Stop it! Xipe Totec Aug 2015 #1
LOL! MineralMan Aug 2015 #2
Yep! Forced to second your opinion. Damn! :) nt 7wo7rees Aug 2015 #3
Third time is a charm! Martin Eden Aug 2015 #17
Very good, and let me add one Jim Lane Aug 2015 #4
I agree with that. It's sort of a corollary of my statement. MineralMan Aug 2015 #5
Very well said sub.theory Aug 2015 #6
Excellent thread. Koinos Aug 2015 #7
Thank you very much. MineralMan Aug 2015 #8
Tolerance is not supposed to be easy. ^^^ Eleanors38 Aug 2015 #9
You're right - tolerance takes more effort, more brainpower. erronis Aug 2015 #15
Since you dumped Sanders for Clinton because Bernie Supporters suck, delrem Aug 2015 #10
Spreading peace and harmony wherever you go... Hekate Aug 2015 #12
Why are you allergic to the truth? Rex Aug 2015 #14
She rec'ed the MM OP in question. delrem Aug 2015 #19
Yeah kind of hard to take someone seriously if they are that shallow imo. Rex Aug 2015 #13
KnR Hekate Aug 2015 #11
Thanks, MineralMan. n/t murielm99 Aug 2015 #16
So what? You're right, we're wrong? Call Me Wesley Aug 2015 #18
Please read it aloud. The "I" and "you" are interchangeable. MineralMan Aug 2015 #24
Great OP Gothmog Aug 2015 #20
Thanks. MineralMan Aug 2015 #21
Who is this targeted to? ncjustice80 Aug 2015 #22
Democrats, primarily. Anyone can be the "you" or the "I" in the post. MineralMan Aug 2015 #23
So want to make Minnesota Nice now? aikoaiko Aug 2015 #25
Not a bad idea, actually. MineralMan Aug 2015 #26
That's a nice afterthought. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #27
It should go without saying. MineralMan Aug 2015 #28
I find this OP and your replies to me inconsistent with your "big reveal" post in GDP. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #30
I did nothing of the sort. I made a statement about my MineralMan Aug 2015 #31
I will remind you of your words. aikoaiko Aug 2015 #32
I remember my words just fine, thanks. MineralMan Aug 2015 #34
As was said earlier, HRC better hope Bernie supporters and liberals don't follow your logic for... aikoaiko Aug 2015 #36
How about just nice? MineralMan Aug 2015 #29
That makes two of us. I'm not a native Minnesotan, either. DFW Aug 2015 #33
Thank you for your link. Well said! MineralMan Aug 2015 #35

Martin Eden

(12,869 posts)
17. Third time is a charm!
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 04:35 PM
Aug 2015

I've certainly disagreed (sometimes very strongly) with Mineral Man, but I strongly agree with every this OP.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
4. Very good, and let me add one
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 02:47 PM
Aug 2015

You write:

I may be vocal about my disagreement.
That does not mean I need to be silenced.


My proposed addition:

I may be vocal about my disagreement.
That does not mean I think you need to be silenced.

My reasoning is that, for a political discussion board, this place seems to have some people who are awfully thin-skinned. Mere disagreement with such types prompts them to charge that you are trying to dictate their vote or prevent them from posting or whatever.

Everyone needs to recognize that, if you post here, there's a chance that another member (DUers being a highly opinionated bunch) will disagree with you. If you can't accept that, don't post.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
5. I agree with that. It's sort of a corollary of my statement.
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 02:50 PM
Aug 2015

I'm not talking about discussion forums like DU, specifically. I'm talking about all places where people discuss things.

erronis

(15,286 posts)
15. You're right - tolerance takes more effort, more brainpower.
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 04:24 PM
Aug 2015

It is way too easy to fall into the trap that everyone who is not like me (I'm getting up there white man) is not worth our time of day.

My best learning experiences have been when I've made a snap judgement about a person - cubbyholed them into my limited slots - and then found out that I was totally / 180-degrees wrong. Each one of these, I hope, makes me be a little more willing to look, listen, and learn.

delrem

(9,688 posts)
10. Since you dumped Sanders for Clinton because Bernie Supporters suck,
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 04:15 PM
Aug 2015

you've achieved perfect consistency.
Now waiting for the rapprochement with FR...

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
13. Yeah kind of hard to take someone seriously if they are that shallow imo.
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 04:21 PM
Aug 2015

Not just Sanders supports, DU Sanders supporters! That one is not even close to being clever imo.

Call Me Wesley

(38,187 posts)
18. So what? You're right, we're wrong?
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 04:40 PM
Aug 2015

Nice poem, though.

You have done the LGBT community on here pretty much harm and installed yourself as an idol of joking about their cause. Shall I look away, because you therefore look very strange and odd to me
and respect your vocal disagreement just for the sake of it?

We may be different in way too many ways.
That does not mean that your ways are on the right path.

And no, your not my enemy, and never were. You're just a lonesome keyboard warrior with a full blown self-esteem of sheer pity.

Common goals, my ass.

ncjustice80

(948 posts)
22. Who is this targeted to?
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 09:50 PM
Aug 2015

If it is liberals of different stripes (We're a big spectrum!) I understand. But I don't see any common goal I could possibly have with a conservatard or tea bagger.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
23. Democrats, primarily. Anyone can be the "you" or the "I" in the post.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 09:32 AM
Aug 2015

However, it can also apply across the board. In this country, everyone has a vote and a voice. Without some sort of cooperation, our society can't work. So, we do have to communicate with a broad spectrum of people, with many different beliefs and priorities. That's reality.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
27. That's a nice afterthought.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:06 AM
Aug 2015


I don't do Minnesota Nice because its passive-aggressive, fake, and/or patronizing.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
28. It should go without saying.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:11 AM
Aug 2015

As any person is reading it, that person is the "I" in the text. The OP is not about me. It is about all of us. Too subtle, I guess, but perhaps not for everyone. Try reading it again, but disregard who wrote it. It's original with me, but directed to everyone. You are the "I" in the post when you read it.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
30. I find this OP and your replies to me inconsistent with your "big reveal" post in GDP.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:18 AM
Aug 2015

You declared yourself an enemy because you didn't like supporters of a certain candidate.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
31. I did nothing of the sort. I made a statement about my
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:20 AM
Aug 2015

own, individual decision. That's all. Whether that's relevant to anyone else was not my concern. I believe that some Sanders supporters are damaging his campaign, and I want to support someone who can become President.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
32. I will remind you of your words.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:27 AM
Aug 2015


Sanders supporters are making enemies, not friends. That simply will not work, and I will not support it.


MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
34. I remember my words just fine, thanks.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:46 AM
Aug 2015

I'll give you an example. This morning, one of the first threads I read on DU was one that seriously misrepresented Hillary Clinton's response in Iowa to a mother whose child is dying. Here's the link:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1251&pid=521122

That's what I was talking about in the thread you quoted. As I said, that strategy will not work, and I will not support it. There are many such examples, both here on DU and on many other websites on the Internet.

The OP for this thread is not about that. It's about something altogether different, although it could be applied to the post you quoted from, as well as to almost any discussion. This thread is far more general than specifics about a single election or a single candidate. I'm sorry you cannot see that.

aikoaiko

(34,170 posts)
36. As was said earlier, HRC better hope Bernie supporters and liberals don't follow your logic for...
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 11:03 AM
Aug 2015

...deciding whether or not they can support her based on what HRC supporters say and do if she is the nominee.

You can write a little ditty about respecting each others opinions and working for common goals, but you didn't apply that to Bernie supporters.

We don't have to keep discussing this anymore. You'll get lots of support from HRC and OM supporters for your posts and anyone who doesn't really follow your posting history. On the face of it, its a very nice OP.








DFW

(54,397 posts)
33. That makes two of us. I'm not a native Minnesotan, either.
Sun Aug 16, 2015, 10:42 AM
Aug 2015

Come to think of it, I've never even been to Minnesota. Actually, today is one of those rare days when I am actually back in Dallas. It won't last!

As for your OP, for the second time today, I'll remind you of a post of mine from 2008, when things were equally as acrimonious around here:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x3369762

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