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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 02:08 PM Oct 2015

Lawyer: Mom too meek to stop fatal beating of son in church

http://news.yahoo.com/police-unsure-sins-provoked-attack-brothers-054706362.html

A woman charged with beating her teenage son to death inside a church felt helpless to stop an intervention that spiraled into violent punishment by others, her lawyer said Thursday.

Deborah Leonard stands charged with manslaughter in the death of her 19-year-old son, Lucas, but her lawyer Devin Garramone, said he believed other people caused the fatal injuries. Six people have been arrested in the beatings of Lucas and his 17-year-old brother, Christopher, who were pummeled with fists and kicked at the Word of Life church in New Hartford during what police have described as a spiritual counseling session to urge them to confess their sins and seek forgiveness.

Like police, Garramone said he wasn't certain what supposed conduct led to the encounter Sunday night. But he said Deborah Leonard "had no idea how far it would be taken" and didn't have the emotional strength to oppose others in a church where she'd worshipped for 30 years.

"It looks like she went along with it, and it spun out of control," he said. "This woman is so meek and timid, she didn't have the temerity to stand up to them and say, 'You're not punishing my kid. You're not doing this.'"


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Lawyer: Mom too meek to stop fatal beating of son in church (Original Post) KamaAina Oct 2015 OP
Then walk out the door and call the police alcibiades_mystery Oct 2015 #1
Better yet don't bring your kids there in the first place Major Nikon Oct 2015 #2
If watching her sons being beaten (one to death) in front of her SamKnause Oct 2015 #3
Why manslaughter? exboyfil Oct 2015 #4
Sounds like murder 2naSalit Oct 2015 #5
Religion aside exboyfil Oct 2015 #10
Indeed. 2naSalit Oct 2015 #13
"The parishioners so firmly kept to themselves that when a fire broke out a few years ago, they Brickbat Oct 2015 #6
Bullshit, the parents TRIED to say their son was shot to hide what they did! Rex Oct 2015 #7
sounds less like a church and more like a cult dembotoz Oct 2015 #8
One persons cult is another person's religion exboyfil Oct 2015 #11
This is a cult with about 30 members from 5 families, GreatGazoo Oct 2015 #9
59% of US churches have congregations< 100. whatthehey Oct 2015 #12

SamKnause

(13,108 posts)
3. If watching her sons being beaten (one to death) in front of her
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 02:17 PM
Oct 2015

did not bring her out of her religious stupor, nothing will.

(She didn't have the emotional strength to oppose others in a church

where she'd worshipped for 30 years.)

Something is very wrong with people who put their religious beliefs

above the well being of their family.

Shaking head is disbelief.

2naSalit

(86,660 posts)
5. Sounds like murder
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:03 PM
Oct 2015

one. How could it be anything else?

Religion is about controlling the lives and actions of others based on fear and guilt.

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
10. Religion aside
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:36 PM
Oct 2015

Beating someone to death is murder whether you are a father/mother and crazy congregation or a cop (see recent death after tasering a restrained man in the genitals).

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
6. "The parishioners so firmly kept to themselves that when a fire broke out a few years ago, they
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:06 PM
Oct 2015

extinguished it themselves and didn't want to let firefighters in, Inserra said."

Honestly, we can't imagine what any of those people are experiencing.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
7. Bullshit, the parents TRIED to say their son was shot to hide what they did!
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:06 PM
Oct 2015

They lied to the hospital to keep their worthless asses out of prison! THIS IS why I say fundamentalism is a plague on mankind.

dembotoz

(16,808 posts)
8. sounds less like a church and more like a cult
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:11 PM
Oct 2015

they can exert extreme pressure on an individual to conform.

proof....waco and johnstown

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
11. One persons cult is another person's religion
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:42 PM
Oct 2015

My daughter asked me if these folks were a cult. That prompted me to respond with the Reply Title.

If the older boy hadn't died these folks would be in the range of a relatively popular book among some circles.
http://www.amazon.com/Train-Up-Child-Michael-Pearl/dp/1892112000/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1444941643&sr=8-1&keywords=to+train+up+a+child

GreatGazoo

(3,937 posts)
9. This is a cult with about 30 members from 5 families,
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:12 PM
Oct 2015

a closed community that homeschooled and walled themselves off from neighbors for decades.

This sentence seems odd: "...during what police have described as a spiritual counseling session to urge them to confess their sins and seek forgiveness." If the cult describes it that way it is one thing but if the police actually accept that explanation that is problematic. Hours (about 3 hours ?) of beatings ending in the death of a teenager is simply a crime. Leave the excuses and the cray cray to the trial. Murder in the 2nd degree should have been the charge IMHO.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
12. 59% of US churches have congregations< 100.
Thu Oct 15, 2015, 04:55 PM
Oct 2015

Don't try to do the Pilate thing and wash your hands of these folks by pretending they are anything other than a Christian church. People always do that and it's a transparent NTS fallacy pretending they are not REAL Christians so others get to avoid any comparison to their own churches. There are about 1.8MM homeschooled kids in the US and 64% of their parents listed religion as an important reason why, so again this is not an indication of anything beyond the norm for religious folks.

Beating teenagers to death is of course, but it's just another way in which religious, not cultic or outre but just Christian, people have killed their kids for faith-based reasons, from other punishments (the Pearls made millions shilling books on how to beat your kids for Christ. Fatalities are far from unheard of) to ooga-booga primitivist nonsense like exorcisms, to relying on prayer to heal infections. It's religious people doing this. Not some weird other that you get to pretend aren't of the same faith.

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