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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:09 PM Dec 2015

Community Wants Atheist Santa Billboard Taken Down

http://www.fox26houston.com/news/56870608-story

Residents in a North Carolina town are upset after an Atheist group put up a Santa billboard telling people to skip church. It sits off Business 40 Eastbound in Kernersville for thousands of drivers to see....

The billboard reads: "Go ahead and skip church! Just be good for goodness' sake. Happy Holidays!"...

"It is beyond disrespectful to my community and disrespectful to my beliefs," said a local resident.

It's a sign that seems out of place in a large faith-based community like Piedmont, but the New Jersey based group behind it, American Atheists, said that was part of the point.


I wonder how far this is from the town where the solar farm sucked up all the sun's energy?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1017314413
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Community Wants Atheist Santa Billboard Taken Down (Original Post) KamaAina Dec 2015 OP
"Disrespectful to my beliefs." Awww. DavidDvorkin Dec 2015 #1
I bet that resident complains about PC and "everyone always getting offended" arcane1 Dec 2015 #2
+1000 smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #3
They aren't really thin skinned, they don't give two squats tech3149 Dec 2015 #10
The answer to the atheist Santa billboard should be to put one up of their own meow2u3 Dec 2015 #36
Why don't they put up their own sign? Seems reasonable instead of complaining. yeoman6987 Dec 2015 #29
That's because the Religious Right has no respect for free speech meow2u3 Dec 2015 #37
They want the government (at whatever level) Mariana Dec 2015 #75
Too f'ing bad. Warren Stupidity Dec 2015 #4
One in Colorado Springs, too. earthside Dec 2015 #5
I have not seen that one yet, where is it? the fundy heads around here must be exploding. niyad Dec 2015 #16
North 25 I believe... TipTok Dec 2015 #23
haven't been on the highway recently. must tell all my friends to look for it! niyad Dec 2015 #43
I like that rockfordfile Dec 2015 #76
Spreading the idea of "being good for goodness' sake" disrespects their deeply-held beliefs ... muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #6
Sometimes people are not comfortable Snobblevitch Dec 2015 #7
This is a burb in the Winston Salem area. ms liberty Dec 2015 #8
it's in the research triangle? tishaLA Dec 2015 #74
No, Winston Salem is not the Research Triangle ms liberty Dec 2015 #83
Butbutbut... SDJay Dec 2015 #9
Kernersville is between Winston-Salem (to the west) and Greensboro (to the east) mnhtnbb Dec 2015 #11
I Love it! truegrit44 Dec 2015 #12
I love it too! peabody Dec 2015 #28
I used to have a conservative friend who'd argue "You don't have a right NOT to be offended" Bucky Dec 2015 #13
Why do Atheists have to insult other people's beliefs to define their own? Matariki Dec 2015 #14
I guess it's because the far right is just so open and loving... jmowreader Dec 2015 #15
umm, possibly because they are reacting to all the hatred and vitriol spewed by the fundie niyad Dec 2015 #17
Where is the insult. Specify. Explain. What the fuck is the problem? whatthehey Dec 2015 #19
Why do religious people put up billboards? Nt Logical Dec 2015 #20
That's EXACTLY what this billboard was doing Nevernose Dec 2015 #22
I think the message "be good for goodness sake" is great Matariki Dec 2015 #73
"Don't go to church" offends you? Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #82
No it doesn't offend me. It indicates who the billboard is targeting. Matariki Dec 2015 #99
Why is it okay for Christians to proclaim their beliefs but not for other people? Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #127
Hey, Arugula Latte Matariki Dec 2015 #129
You don't seem to be applying your tsk-tsk-tsking to anyone but atheists. Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #155
If you are a Christian, why on Earth would this offend you? Laffy Kat Dec 2015 #131
Good gods, I'm not a farking Christian. I've said that numerous times. Matariki Dec 2015 #135
My apologies. Laffy Kat Dec 2015 #149
How is that any different from "go to our church?" Nevernose Dec 2015 #98
Implying a person will 'go to hell' or whatever if they don't go to church is equally obnoxious. Matariki Dec 2015 #100
Because sometimes that's the only way to get the message across, NYC Liberal Dec 2015 #102
No, it's not. It makes people double down. Matariki Dec 2015 #104
The message that fear and superstition can be overcome. NYC Liberal Dec 2015 #116
How is reassuring people within a marginalized community RedCappedBandit Dec 2015 #120
I think it's because belief is mythology Kalidurga Dec 2015 #26
That's just your opinion. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #118
You should try to be more accepting of people who don't believe in fairy tales Kalidurga Dec 2015 #122
Please. Atheists simply proclaim their existence and certain people take it as an insult. RedCappedBandit Dec 2015 #32
My guess is that everybody's wrong. nt leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #119
Start with no assumptions, then build your case based on evidence, Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #126
I'm a mystic. And a Zen Buddhist. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #133
That makes you refreshingly different from most slightly-zealous-to-rabid religious people. Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #154
Not all religious people are angry zealots. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2015 #156
because we are reaching out to the children...ridicule and mockery actually work snooper2 Dec 2015 #42
I'm not a Christian. As I've matured Matariki Dec 2015 #71
I'm not following the "did it first", but tend to disagree on the respect thing... snooper2 Dec 2015 #88
Do you extend your disrespect to Muslims, Jews, Hindus? Matariki Dec 2015 #101
religion = mythology... Some mythology makes for good stories and movies though snooper2 Dec 2015 #105
"Atheist Santa" brooklynite Dec 2015 #54
The difference, of course, is that no one of sound mind really believes in Santa... TipTok Dec 2015 #57
You better watch out - You better not cry - Better not pout brooklynite Dec 2015 #62
Santa Claus is coming to town... TipTok Dec 2015 #79
Why do you speak of atheists as a monolithic bloc? JHB Dec 2015 #89
Because they're fairy tales. lindysalsagal Dec 2015 #110
Why do Theists have to insult other people's beliefs to define their own? Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #125
Target of religious bigotry here: callous taoboy Dec 2015 #140
Do you see an insult somewhere on that billboard? Orsino Dec 2015 #147
The problem with atheists justiceischeap Dec 2015 #152
goodness, are there enough fainting couches and pearls for the delicate little dears? niyad Dec 2015 #18
Persecution card played on O'Reilly in 3...2...1... Initech Dec 2015 #21
Atheism is looking more and more like a religion of it's own every day. Egnever Dec 2015 #24
How so? Iggo Dec 2015 #25
Because religions are defined by their use of billboards, silly muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #39
Of course. That makes perfect sense. Iggo Dec 2015 #40
OFFENDED anoNY42 Dec 2015 #45
Prophet Burma Shave dmr Dec 2015 #50
That's the standard plea of religionists desperate to frame the world by their own dogma Orrex Dec 2015 #38
When they insult religion while trying to insult atheism, it goes right over their heads, don't it? Iggo Dec 2015 #41
It's always a surprise to see it again and again and again... Orrex Dec 2015 #48
Creative, though unsupported allegation... like a bumper-sticker sans wit. LanternWaste Dec 2015 #59
I'm always amazed that so many DU "progressives" seem to think that only religious Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #128
What an odd thing to say. Egnever Dec 2015 #130
Hardly odd. ronnie624 Dec 2015 #134
Didn't read the article Egnever Dec 2015 #137
Atheism is the absence of religious beliefs, actually. ronnie624 Dec 2015 #148
The use of Santa is so stupid. JackRiddler Dec 2015 #27
Know your audience anoNY42 Dec 2015 #47
Santa works better in the long game, too. Iggo Dec 2015 #69
Yeah, that might work with pavlov's dogs maybe. JackRiddler Dec 2015 #92
Also works with children. Iggo Dec 2015 #95
So the children living around some North Carolina highway... JackRiddler Dec 2015 #124
It's not their audience at all. JackRiddler Dec 2015 #91
The world, and even North Carolina, is not divided into just atheists and fundamentalists muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #97
I don't start from any assumption about atheists. JackRiddler Dec 2015 #123
It's great rockfordfile Dec 2015 #77
Excuse me? JackRiddler Dec 2015 #93
Because it's ironic that an imaginary Santa is more moral than lindysalsagal Dec 2015 #111
They love playing the victim. Scuba Dec 2015 #30
Just suck it up like everybody else does. There's lots of crap we all put up with every day. BlueJazz Dec 2015 #31
Lousy free speech. I wish I was blind. n/t leeroysphitz Dec 2015 #33
Krampus and Saturnalia are the reasons for the season Facility Inspector Dec 2015 #34
I thought it was the spring KamaAina Dec 2015 #44
The earth's tilt is the real reason for the seasons... anoNY42 Dec 2015 #49
well it sure as fuck ain't Jesus Facility Inspector Dec 2015 #53
Acculturation is the reason... LanternWaste Dec 2015 #60
Zombie Jesus was born in the Spring snooper2 Dec 2015 #144
Whether put up by atheists or not, it makes a good point. Vinca Dec 2015 #35
Too bad they couldn't put up a positive statement about their beliefs KittyWampus Dec 2015 #46
Where's the insult? NightWatcher Dec 2015 #51
Mommy, they did it firssssssssssst. KittyWampus Dec 2015 #56
Is it 'telling', or selection bias? JHB Dec 2015 #90
You may have a point, maybe atheists should actually start going to church! snooper2 Dec 2015 #145
What beliefs? anoNY42 Dec 2015 #52
Pretty much every human on the planet has a world view. KittyWampus Dec 2015 #58
Do you regard "just be good for goodness' sake" as negative, then? muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #64
-skip church- is telling people NOT to do something. KittyWampus Dec 2015 #67
"Too bad they couldn't put up a positive statement about their beliefs" muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #72
setting aside "skip church" there's "just be good for goodness sake" KittyWampus Dec 2015 #86
I wouldn't say it opposes the religious moral codes muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #96
Kind of like the Ten Commandments, right? hatrack Dec 2015 #94
You did sort of not quote the first part The2ndWheel Dec 2015 #70
I for one could live without the 30+ days of Christmas. Matariki Dec 2015 #107
They're saying it's OK to be an atheist. How is that not a positive statement? nt RedCappedBandit Dec 2015 #121
I honestly don't see the insult either. Laffy Kat Dec 2015 #132
They're just mad because there's one less anti choice billboard in the Carolinas NightWatcher Dec 2015 #55
Apparently, it's "insulting" to tell people to skip church. Mariana Dec 2015 #81
This is why a melting pot/multi-cultural society will always be contentious The2ndWheel Dec 2015 #61
What if the message was: "Go ahead and skip the mosque! Just be good for goodness sake" oberliner Dec 2015 #63
You know, you're right. Christians are at least as persecuted as Muslims. KamaAina Dec 2015 #65
Internationally, much more so oberliner Dec 2015 #66
Well rockfordfile Dec 2015 #78
True oberliner Dec 2015 #80
Sure. Mariana Dec 2015 #84
I certainly think it's reasonable to present that message there oberliner Dec 2015 #141
Sure it would be appropriate. Mariana Dec 2015 #153
Right oberliner Dec 2015 #157
I finally found the one I remember from a few years ago. Mariana Dec 2015 #158
Thanks for sharing that oberliner Dec 2015 #160
I think I already anwered that question in post #153. Mariana Dec 2015 #162
Forgot that was already covered in a previous post oberliner Dec 2015 #164
Pretty terrible analogy. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #85
Santa Claus is the one H2O Man Dec 2015 #87
It's disrespectul. Which apparently isn't a 'satisfactory answer' for you. Matariki Dec 2015 #103
"be good for goodness' sake" is not about what other people believe muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #108
A couple things Muriel Matariki Dec 2015 #109
It's not mocking muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #114
In truth Matariki Dec 2015 #117
No, it's not. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #143
It wasn't just meant to be an analogy oberliner Dec 2015 #139
Considering it seems to be a message for those who don't want to go to Church/Mosque anyways... Humanist_Activist Dec 2015 #138
But don't you think there might be closet atheists among the US Muslim population? oberliner Dec 2015 #142
You really seem to be obsessing about this. Mariana Dec 2015 #161
This is a discussion board oberliner Dec 2015 #163
I'm ok with both but i do agree many who are ok with this JI7 Dec 2015 #159
lolol Solly Mack Dec 2015 #68
The thin skinned are the men who ditch church in favor of Sunday golf Warpy Dec 2015 #106
I read a Facebook thread by religious family members which highlights why this is an "insult". ieoeja Dec 2015 #112
If they don't like the sign... LeftishBrit Dec 2015 #113
LOL, there are so many billboards up already Mariana Dec 2015 #115
Maybe they want others to believe what they believe? Democat Dec 2015 #136
Because it would be lost among the thousands of other billboards that say that. jeff47 Dec 2015 #151
The reason for the season..... Sivart Dec 2015 #146
Ha! You probably believe in evolution, too! KamaAina Dec 2015 #150
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
3. +1000
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:16 PM
Dec 2015

The religious right have such thin skins. If other people are hurt or offended, that's just too bad. But god forbid anyone give them a taste of their own medicine.

tech3149

(4,452 posts)
10. They aren't really thin skinned, they don't give two squats
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:58 PM
Dec 2015

They just rely on playing the victim card because they don't have anything else. After that they have to assert that if you have no faith in some Bronze age religious interpretation of reality you can't have any moral or ethical standard in your behavior.

meow2u3

(24,772 posts)
36. The answer to the atheist Santa billboard should be to put one up of their own
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:26 AM
Dec 2015

Not to suppress speech they don't like.

A Christian would put up a sign such as "Keep Christ in Christmas." A Christianist would push to have the atheist sign taken down. See the difference now?

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
29. Why don't they put up their own sign? Seems reasonable instead of complaining.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:26 AM
Dec 2015

The other thing I find strange is they get upset about nativity sets in public spaces but if ever Christian put up a nativity scene on their yard. They'd have plenty. They certainly are not smart.

meow2u3

(24,772 posts)
37. That's because the Religious Right has no respect for free speech
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:29 AM
Dec 2015

They'd push to see the Consititution abolished before having to accept that people have religious--and non-religious--views other than their own shown to the public.

They're the ones trying to establish fundamentalist Christianity as the official religion, damn the Consitution. They'd also be very quick to throw Catholics, Orthodox Christians, and mainline Protestants in jail for not converting to their twisted version of Xtianity.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
75. They want the government (at whatever level)
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:47 PM
Dec 2015

to endorse their particular religion and their religious holidays. That's why it's so important to them to have their nativity scenes, crosses, 10 commandments plaques, or whatever displayed in public spaces. Certainly every church and every individual Christian homeowner could put a nativity scene in their front yards, and plenty of them do, but that's just not the same.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
6. Spreading the idea of "being good for goodness' sake" disrespects their deeply-held beliefs ...
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:46 PM
Dec 2015

... in Republicanism.

What is a "faith-based community", anyway? Do they all rent from the Catholic church or something?

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
7. Sometimes people are not comfortable
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:54 PM
Dec 2015

when people with beliefs contrary to their own choose to express them.

tishaLA

(14,176 posts)
74. it's in the research triangle?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:33 PM
Dec 2015

and it's getting that kind of pearl clutching? that's disappointing

ms liberty

(8,596 posts)
83. No, Winston Salem is not the Research Triangle
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:13 PM
Dec 2015

The Research Triangle area is Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill; it is about two and a half hours east of me, and about an hour to an hour and a half east of Winston Salem.

SDJay

(1,089 posts)
9. Butbutbut...
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:57 PM
Dec 2015

What about THE FREE MARKET IS ALWAYS RIGHT! Didn't someone pay real money for these billboards?

These idiots don't even seem to realize when they're chasing their own tails.

Good for the folks who put these up. I hope now more of them show up all over the place.

mnhtnbb

(31,402 posts)
11. Kernersville is between Winston-Salem (to the west) and Greensboro (to the east)
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:59 PM
Dec 2015

in an area known as the Piedmont of NC. It's a pretty right wing, conservative area.

Woodland (where the solar panel objections occurred) is east of 95 and about an hour and a half's drive from
the Outer Banks. It's very rural, conservative, and very small town compared to Winston-Salem area and not largely populated.

truegrit44

(332 posts)
12. I Love it!
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 09:01 PM
Dec 2015

As a devout Atheist I really like "be good for goodness sake"! So tired of all these signs about going to hell, loving god, blah, blah, blah........this is refreshing

peabody

(445 posts)
28. I love it too!
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:10 AM
Dec 2015

"Be good for goodness sake" says it all. I want to post it up on my Facebook page just to see what kind of replies I get from my hardcore religious friends and family members.

Bucky

(54,065 posts)
13. I used to have a conservative friend who'd argue "You don't have a right NOT to be offended"
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 09:07 PM
Dec 2015

it was something of a conservative meme in the 90s. This is before pouty pissypants culture took over the Republican Party

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
14. Why do Atheists have to insult other people's beliefs to define their own?
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 10:45 PM
Dec 2015

Why can't they simply say, I don't believe in god, or life after death, or whatever it is they believe? Rather than calling other folk's beliefs 'fairy tales' or whatever?

niyad

(113,551 posts)
17. umm, possibly because they are reacting to all the hatred and vitriol spewed by the fundie
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 11:08 PM
Dec 2015

reichwingnuts, who have no problem heaping scorn on other people.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
22. That's EXACTLY what this billboard was doing
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 11:53 PM
Dec 2015

It didn't call anyone's beliefs fairy tales or anything else.

In general, atheists believe that other folks religious beliefs are fairy tales. So what's the problem with them sharing that belief?

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
73. I think the message "be good for goodness sake" is great
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:33 PM
Dec 2015

If they'd let the "Don't go to church" bit off I'd agree with you.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
99. No it doesn't offend me. It indicates who the billboard is targeting.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:17 PM
Dec 2015

And therefore it is disingenuous to say that the message isn't intended to insult other people's religion. When clearly it is.

Why not just the "Be good for goodness' sake" and Happy Holidays and sign it American Atheists? Why direct the message specifically to Christians?

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
127. Why is it okay for Christians to proclaim their beliefs but not for other people?
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:14 AM
Dec 2015

Nice double standard you've got there.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
129. Hey, Arugula Latte
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:36 AM
Dec 2015


You clearly didn't understand a word I wrote if that's what you took away from it.
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
155. You don't seem to be applying your tsk-tsk-tsking to anyone but atheists.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 01:53 PM
Dec 2015

These signs were defaced by religious zealots who didn't like that atheists picked up litter on the highways, or that atheists even exist. I never hear tongue clucking over this type of stuff. It's always: "Those atheists are just rude and unpleasant! Why do they have to upset people by actually expressing their ideas?!"

Laffy Kat

(16,386 posts)
131. If you are a Christian, why on Earth would this offend you?
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 03:15 AM
Dec 2015

Respectfully, turn the other cheek. Believing it is "targeting" Christians is a bit paranoid.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
135. Good gods, I'm not a farking Christian. I've said that numerous times.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 03:59 AM
Dec 2015

Sheesh. I'm a devil worshiping satanist as far as most christians are concerned.

I simply asked why so many atheist define there beliefs in terms of deriding others', instead of simply saying they don't believe in a supernatural being or whatever.

Too many people write knee jerk responses without reading or understanding what they're responding to. Not worth the time.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
98. How is that any different from "go to our church?"
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 04:18 PM
Dec 2015

It's not insulting anyone, it's sharing a belief in a funny, polite manner.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
100. Implying a person will 'go to hell' or whatever if they don't go to church is equally obnoxious.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:18 PM
Dec 2015

Why behave like the assholes you are critical of?

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
102. Because sometimes that's the only way to get the message across,
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:21 PM
Dec 2015

is if people acting nasty get the nastiness thrown back at them. Then they understand how others feel.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
104. No, it's not. It makes people double down.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:24 PM
Dec 2015

And anyway, what exactly is the "message" you want to get across? That their beliefs are stupid?

If you think that you can teach people empathy that way...

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
120. How is reassuring people within a marginalized community
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 10:19 PM
Dec 2015

that it's okay to be members of that community equivalent to threatening eternal damnation for failure to participate in the dominant culture?

These billboards target atheists living in communities where being an atheist might not be so widely accepted and are intended to reassure them that they're not alone. The implication that that is insulting to anyone is heinous.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,870 posts)
118. That's just your opinion.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 08:49 PM
Dec 2015

You have every right to that opinion.

It's all opinion. No one knows anything for sure. There's no way to know.

No reason to be awful to other people who disagree with you. No reason to cram what you think down someone else's throat.

Often the anti people are just as fanatical as the pro people. It's all rude.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
122. You should try to be more accepting of people who don't believe in fairy tales
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 11:10 PM
Dec 2015

Even if they are fanatical. It's actually probably better to be tolerant if they are fanatical you never know with that type. They might start a war against Christmas or something.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
32. Please. Atheists simply proclaim their existence and certain people take it as an insult.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 08:24 AM
Dec 2015

What, specifically, is insulting about this billboard?

Yeah, just be good for goodness' sake. What a terrible idea. I can see why you would feel insulted by that.



You realize that, as atheists, our perception is that religious beliefs are myths? Should I feel insulted that you don't believe the same things I believe? Why do you think I'M wrong? How dare you?

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
126. Start with no assumptions, then build your case based on evidence,
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:12 AM
Dec 2015

instead of saying "this particular loony version of a supernatural realm is OBVIOUSLY the real deal!" from the get-go. Where is the evidence for supernatural phenomena and supernatural beings? Why assume something is there based on zero evidence?

leftyladyfrommo

(18,870 posts)
133. I'm a mystic. And a Zen Buddhist.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 03:39 AM
Dec 2015

I don't really belive in having opinions on anything.

We just dwell in emptyness. It's nice there.



leftyladyfrommo

(18,870 posts)
156. Not all religious people are angry zealots.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:36 PM
Dec 2015

I haven't really run into that with the mainstream churches like the Methodists or Presbyterians or Episcopalian or Lutheran churches. And I have lots of Catholic friends who aren't radical at all. I have known lots of really nice people who are pretty religious.

But living in the Bible Belt I am familiar with the zealots and they can be very unpleasant. I just ignore them. It's their right to believe whatever they want but I choose not to listen to it. And they are a rather small minority but they make a lot of noise. I just refuse to talk about anything religious with them. So we get along ok.

And nobody knows anything about Zen so they just leave me alone. Which is fine. Zen people are all kind of loners anyway. I really believe that mystics are just born that way. You either understand it or you don't.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
42. because we are reaching out to the children...ridicule and mockery actually work
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:03 PM
Dec 2015

When teenagers and young adults realize that, yeah, it is pretty silly what they have been "taught" they tend to stray away from it.


In 300 years the religious, at least in Western society, will be a small but loud fundy segment of society.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
71. I'm not a Christian. As I've matured
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:26 PM
Dec 2015

I've come to realize that mocking other people's religion doesn't make the world a better place. It isn't a respectful way to go through life.

I notice many of the replies to my post justify being dickish to people is because 'they did it first'. Can't think of anything much more childish than that.

I'm neither a christian or an atheist but can respect that people find their truth and meaning from either. I'm just curious about what I'd call 'fundamentalist atheists'. They seem the define themselves more by their scorn for others than their own core beliefs.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
88. I'm not following the "did it first", but tend to disagree on the respect thing...
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:38 PM
Dec 2015

I think extraordinary claims require large amounts of verifiable evidence. When you give respect it is tantamount to giving acceptance and justification to those extraordinary beliefs.


Regardless of our thoughts, it is working. This YouTube channel has over 76 million views because of greatness like this.

"The end is greatness "



If God Played Minecraft

&feature=iv&src_vid=2he4FGsafCA&annotation_id=annotation_439414985

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
105. religion = mythology... Some mythology makes for good stories and movies though
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:28 PM
Dec 2015

Like the Kracken in Clash of the Titans




brooklynite

(94,727 posts)
54. "Atheist Santa"
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:41 PM
Dec 2015

A guy people believe in without evidence of his existence, who magically travels around the world visiting every home in a single night, and who punishes or rewards based on his own standards of behavior.

Doesn't sound atheist to me...

 

TipTok

(2,474 posts)
57. The difference, of course, is that no one of sound mind really believes in Santa...
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:45 PM
Dec 2015

... and no one tries to create law and policy, that the rest of us are obligated to follow, based on what puts folks in the nice or naughty category.

JHB

(37,161 posts)
89. Why do you speak of atheists as a monolithic bloc?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:51 PM
Dec 2015

Answer that question and you answer your own: because atheists, being people, come with all sorts of personalities, just like everyone else. Including the parts where some feel the need to jab at some who jab at them, and a few who are just assholes.

You don't notice those of us atheists who already do pretty much what you ask, because there's nothing to draw notice.

I wonder if those signs are there because the area is home base for a particularly belligerent church or group.

lindysalsagal

(20,730 posts)
110. Because they're fairy tales.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:20 PM
Dec 2015

Right up there with Elves, Santa, unicorns, Leprechauns, the Loch Ness Monster and the Tooth Fairy.

And these fairy tales cause real suffering in the world.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
125. Why do Theists have to insult other people's beliefs to define their own?
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:10 AM
Dec 2015










Why can't they simply say, I don't believe in atheism, or anti-afterlifeism, or whatever it is they believe? Rather than calling other folks' beliefs wrong or implying that they will burn in hell or that they're anti-American or whatever?

callous taoboy

(4,588 posts)
140. Target of religious bigotry here:
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 10:01 AM
Dec 2015

My character in this small town has been much-maligned because I am a perceived non-believer. So anyone offended by that billboard, I say get over it.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
147. Do you see an insult somewhere on that billboard?
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 12:17 PM
Dec 2015

Is it insulting to suggest that church attendance be optional?

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
152. The problem with atheists
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 01:33 PM
Dec 2015

isn't an atheists tendency to be vocal about what we think of religion, it's that theists see our outspokenness as an affront to their beliefs. It's not insulting to say we think that the Bible is a great work of fiction that was (and is) used for controlling the masses through fear or that people shouldn't believe in fairy tales. It's an opinion that people don't like to hear, so therefore, they label it insulting.

As an atheist, I'm happy for you to believe (or not believe) whatever you'd like but keep in mind, that to some of us that come from religious backgrounds, see the theist community filled with pride, vanity and hypocrisy when it comes to their religious beliefs. According to the Bible, one should not be boastful about their religious beliefs because it's tied up in those very sins: vanity, pride and often hypocrisy. I'm using words straight from the Bible by the way, so when we see this and point it out, though we're atheists, we're actually being good theists (according to the Bible). Again, that's not insulting, it's being honest about what we see or have been taught in our previous lives as theists.

I know not all theists are assholes, just like not all atheists are assholes but people like to put things in boxes, so that being said, most theists will always be assholes to some and most atheists will always be assholes to others.

I think whining about one group putting another group down without acknowledging that it's a two-way street is tiring, and I for one, have grown weary of seeing the "why do atheists have to insult people" meme when what we're really doing is putting down a book that should be no more sacred than any other book, IMO. So yeah, everyone insults everyone in some way, two wrongs don't make a right but atheists aren't the only one's being assholes (according to your statement).

niyad

(113,551 posts)
18. goodness, are there enough fainting couches and pearls for the delicate little dears?
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 11:12 PM
Dec 2015

here, they can have some of my special smelling salts.

oooooppsss--that was the vial with the pepper juice in it!

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
39. Because religions are defined by their use of billboards, silly
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 10:31 AM
Dec 2015

Before the adoption of papyrus and parchment, the Rigveda, Torah, Bible, and Koran were all written as graffiti on rocks by the road side. You had to go on a day's walk just to finish a chapter. If it's not in letters at least a foot high, it's not holy scripture. Just ask the prophet Burma-Shave (i mean, a name like that must be religious, mustn't it?)

Orrex

(63,224 posts)
38. That's the standard plea of religionists desperate to frame the world by their own dogma
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:44 AM
Dec 2015

Those who insist that atheism is a religion understand neither atheism nor religion.

Iggo

(47,565 posts)
41. When they insult religion while trying to insult atheism, it goes right over their heads, don't it?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 11:43 AM
Dec 2015

Orrex

(63,224 posts)
48. It's always a surprise to see it again and again and again...
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:33 PM
Dec 2015

Atheism is a religion like the lack of measles is a disease.

Indeed, it goes right over their heads.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
59. Creative, though unsupported allegation... like a bumper-sticker sans wit.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:48 PM
Dec 2015

Creative, though unsupported allegation... like a bumper-sticker sans wit.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
128. I'm always amazed that so many DU "progressives" seem to think that only religious
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:17 AM
Dec 2015

people should be able to freely express their beliefs.

It astounds me.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
130. What an odd thing to say.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 02:56 AM
Dec 2015

Was that a response to my post?

I don't think I mentioned anyone being able to express their beliefs.

ronnie624

(5,764 posts)
134. Hardly odd.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 03:55 AM
Dec 2015

The fundamentalist who commented in the article wants to silence atheists, and then you post a comment criticizing them also, seemingly expressing solidarity with her. Why would anyone think you didn't agree with her?

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
137. Didn't read the article
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 04:22 AM
Dec 2015

Why would I bother? Useless information.

The sign says enough. Now the atheists need to group together to get their hate on as well. Looks a lot like a religion to me.

ronnie624

(5,764 posts)
148. Atheism is the absence of religious beliefs, actually.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 12:26 PM
Dec 2015

And expressing doubt about religious doctrine is not 'hate'.

Can't you see the lack of logic in your comments?

 

JackRiddler

(24,979 posts)
27. The use of Santa is so stupid.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:08 AM
Dec 2015

Santa is a religious figure. The religion is consumerism. New Atheism distinguishes itself by its acceptance of everything in the dominant ideology other than God-based religion. Big fucking deal. Like New Atheism the billboard is trivial minded and reactionary, it's just there to troll fundamentalists.

How about Galileo? Or Marx? Or anything other than a Coca-Cola advertisement ca. 1914?

 

anoNY42

(670 posts)
47. Know your audience
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:33 PM
Dec 2015

"How about Galileo? Or Marx? Or anything other than a Coca-Cola advertisement ca. 1914?"

Because these atheists know their audience. This is a conservative, religious area, so they just wouldn't understand who Galileo or Marx was. But they understand Santa, since he is basically the same as the Sky Fairy they worship.

Iggo

(47,565 posts)
69. Santa works better in the long game, too.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:20 PM
Dec 2015

Keep equating Santa with God, Santa with God, Santa with God.

Then when the kids realize there's no Santa...

 

JackRiddler

(24,979 posts)
91. It's not their audience at all.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:07 PM
Dec 2015

The billboard trolls fundamentalists with a triviality. (Who says church is necessarily a bad thing, by the way? Something that New Atheists do not understand from their position of privilege at all - that people want community.)

Ahem, as I was saying: The billboard cannot possibly win over fundamentalists. It is designed to troll them and prompt them to react, so as to produce headlines and responses back in the neighborhoods of the New Atheists, so that they can feel smug as though they did something that matters.

Why are they telling people to skip church (where their friends may be) as opposed to making a logical or doctrinal point about the dangers of fanatical irrational belief? Do you see the difference? This is just insulting the people for being stupid - a form of ad hominem. It doesn't make an argument against what they believe.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
97. The world, and even North Carolina, is not divided into just atheists and fundamentalists
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:55 PM
Dec 2015

There are also people who have a vague relation to Christianity, who are the kind of people who won't go to church often, but turn up when they feel "they ought to". So this advert is suggesting to them that attendance is not only not mandatory, it's not a part of being 'good' either - you can work out what you think is 'good' without a preacher telling you, or the disapproval of your neighbours for not turning up at church implying you've done something wrong.

if you start from the assumption that atheists are trolls, and therefore their audience must be the people who would be most offended by a message, you're just going to see trolling, and you'll end up seeing the whole message as insulting, because that's what you expect from a troll. But that is, ironically, an ad hominem. You're arguing that because it's atheists saying it, it must be insulting.

 

JackRiddler

(24,979 posts)
123. I don't start from any assumption about atheists.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 01:12 AM
Dec 2015

Being one myself, at least with regard to sentient single-entity planner-creators of everything, and knowing a great many otherwise.

I have developed a particular set of observations about the counterproductive, narrow New Atheist schtick, however, mostly from first-hand experience of going to a bunch of NA-inflected atheist meetings some years ago in New York. Mostly likable people (unlike, say their matinee idols, Harris, Hitchens and Maar) and not bad as drinking partners. Tend to be on the autistic-libertarian-idealist side of things, not that I mind too much. Their PR sense is certainly terrible, as with the series of Santa ads, and they're willing to pander to nationalism, as with the campaign to get "under God" out of the Pledge of Allegiance. (The only credible and consistent position with regard to Pledges of Allegiance is that the entire text should be struck and forgotten as a quasi-totalitarian relic.) The worldview is too narrow. It's not enough to make a drama out of rejecting non-natural gods and pretend this is the first solution to the ills of the world.

 

JackRiddler

(24,979 posts)
93. Excuse me?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:13 PM
Dec 2015

Thank you for illustrating a high level of relevant argument. No doubt this is exactly the pitch that will win things for New Atheism over fundamentalists. I promise not to "make up" anything again, such as that the New Atheists use Santa for their campaign and don't address questions of belief in it.

It's "bonkers," by the way, not bunkers, and it's either "ape shit" or "bonkers," not "ape bonkers."

lindysalsagal

(20,730 posts)
111. Because it's ironic that an imaginary Santa is more moral than
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:26 PM
Dec 2015

the official religious party line: Everyone already accepts that Santa isn't real, but the truth is, he knows that goodness, in and of itself, is the higher morality.

With religion, there's always that nasty secondary consequence, you know, heaven, hell, etc. Santa knows that goodness is it's own best reason, not some other secondary result, like getting presents from your parents.....

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
31. Just suck it up like everybody else does. There's lots of crap we all put up with every day.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 08:02 AM
Dec 2015

Lousy drivers, slow-ass people at the grocery store and a cornucopia of other stuff. My feelings get hurt 10 times a day. It's called life.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
44. I thought it was the spring
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:05 PM
Dec 2015

the sign of Pisces, hence, the Piscean age (to be followed by the Age of Aquarius, Age of Aquarius...)

Vinca

(50,303 posts)
35. Whether put up by atheists or not, it makes a good point.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:06 AM
Dec 2015

Christmas is 99.9% Santa and gift buying. I bet there is a good chunk of the population that can't even tell you what it's supposed to be celebrating.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
46. Too bad they couldn't put up a positive statement about their beliefs
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:30 PM
Dec 2015

But opted to be insulting jerks instead.

Technically, I am an athiest. But I sure as heck don't identify with the majority of those who call themselves that.

Immature. Like adolescents needing to "get even".

HEY, they were obnoxious first….

Which is essentially what almost every post on this thread has said so far.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
51. Where's the insult?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:37 PM
Dec 2015

The South is full of religious billboards threatening condemnation, scaring poor pregnant girls, and ...

How is "skip church and just be good" an insult?

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
56. Mommy, they did it firssssssssssst.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:44 PM
Dec 2015

Telling people to just "skip church", which is a meaningful practice for many who are both liberal and conservative, is insulting.

And it's very telling so many atheists seem incapable of expressing themselves in a positive manner. It's mostly a philosophical weakness, I suppose.

JHB

(37,161 posts)
90. Is it 'telling', or selection bias?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:57 PM
Dec 2015

If you only notice when there's some kerfluffle, don't you only notice people involved with it? How do you notice people not involved in the kerfluffle?

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
145. You may have a point, maybe atheists should actually start going to church!
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 11:04 AM
Dec 2015

We can all enjoy it together and discuss!




 

anoNY42

(670 posts)
52. What beliefs?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:38 PM
Dec 2015

"Too bad they couldn't put up a positive statement about their beliefs"

Too bad they don't have "beliefs", which means there is nothing they could put on that sign that would satisfy you.

Or, to argue in the alternative, perhaps their belief is that one should be "good for goodness sake". That sounds pretty inoffensive, if you ask me. Much better than the idea that being good gets you into heaven (which means that all of your charity is really not so selfless after all)...

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
58. Pretty much every human on the planet has a world view.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:45 PM
Dec 2015

The exceptions are those with an extremely low IQ.

So again, it seems many atheists are intelligent but not philosophically well rounded.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
64. Do you regard "just be good for goodness' sake" as negative, then?
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:58 PM
Dec 2015

You've rejected it as a positive worldview. Why is saying it a sign they are "not philosophically well rounded"?

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
67. -skip church- is telling people NOT to do something.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:19 PM
Dec 2015

Edit- and we both know according to human psychology that telling people NOT to do something almost never works and is counter-productive. It causes a defensive reaction.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
72. "Too bad they couldn't put up a positive statement about their beliefs"
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:33 PM
Dec 2015

Why is "be good for goodness' sake" not positive?

"telling people NOT to do something almost never works and is counter-productive. It causes a defensive reaction. "

Have you counted the number of "do not"s in the Ten Commandments? Or, to be more seasonal, is "fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people" a counter-productive message that would have caused shepherds to be afraid? Just like the billboard message, that is "don't do that - do this instead".

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
86. setting aside "skip church" there's "just be good for goodness sake"
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:16 PM
Dec 2015

so besides telling people not to go to church

they are saying "just be good for goodness sake" which is as OPPOSED to Christians, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, Jains, Sikkhs being good as part of a moral code.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
96. I wouldn't say it opposes the religious moral codes
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:39 PM
Dec 2015

The given reason is slightly different - idealistic rather than supernatural - but it's pretty close. Are you saying you think that a moral code needs a supernatural reason to be 'positive'?

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
70. You did sort of not quote the first part
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:25 PM
Dec 2015

The skip church part. I imagine that would be the negative aspect of it, from the point of view of those that go to church.

Then again, even if the billboard said "Merry Christmas from the atheists", people could see that as mocking, because it wouldn't be thought of as sincere. Then there's the Christians that force Christmas on everyone. And round and round we go.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
107. I for one could live without the 30+ days of Christmas.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:44 PM
Dec 2015

I wish the christians could keep it to one or two days. Or perhaps I mean the capitalists. I also think the American Atheists could make their message a little less outwardly focused.

Laffy Kat

(16,386 posts)
132. I honestly don't see the insult either.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 03:24 AM
Dec 2015

There is absolutely nothing obnoxious about the sentiment. Be good without the fear of going to hell? That offends you?

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
55. They're just mad because there's one less anti choice billboard in the Carolinas
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:44 PM
Dec 2015

So much of the interstates in the South are dotted with billboards for Asian massage parlors, adult toy stores, anti abortion groups, and miscellaneous out of context bible verses.

It's a positive message, just be good. How is that horrible?

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
81. Apparently, it's "insulting" to tell people to skip church.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:06 PM
Dec 2015

Amazing the knots people will twist themselves into so they can feel persecuted.

Pretty much every billboard is telling you to do or not do something. Shop at this store. Eat at this restaurant. Buy this product. Use this service. Don't drive drunk. Go to this church. Don't have an abortion. But this particular one is "insulting".

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
61. This is why a melting pot/multi-cultural society will always be contentious
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:51 PM
Dec 2015

Actually, any difference in any society will be contentious. Diversity is inefficient.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
63. What if the message was: "Go ahead and skip the mosque! Just be good for goodness sake"
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:54 PM
Dec 2015

Let's say the atheists put up a similar sign but in a predominately Muslim neighborhood with the same message, but suggesting skipping going to the mosque as opposed to going to church.

Perhaps the sign could go up during Ramadan.

And there was an image of, let's say, Mohammed, presenting that message.

How would that go over?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
66. Internationally, much more so
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:17 PM
Dec 2015

In the United States, not so much.

Maybe an atheist group in, let's say, Egypt ought to give it a go.

rockfordfile

(8,704 posts)
78. Well
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:59 PM
Dec 2015

Well religion is a scam. It's just that where we live the Christian religionscam is the dominate religionscam.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
84. Sure.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:14 PM
Dec 2015

But Christians are the overwhelming majority in the US, and certainly in this part of NC. It's reasonable to choose to present the message to them.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
141. I certainly think it's reasonable to present that message there
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 10:10 AM
Dec 2015

But do you think it would be reasonable to present a similar message to Muslims in a part of the US that has a large Muslim population? Or do you think that because Muslims are a minority in the US that it would not be appropriate to do so for that reason?

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
153. Sure it would be appropriate.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 01:43 PM
Dec 2015

Maybe it's already been done. But most billboards aren't aimed at just the immediate neighborhood, they're on major roads so many people from all around can see them.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
157. Right
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 05:59 PM
Dec 2015

But it's a fairly narrow swath of people who would be driving on Business Route 40 in Kernersville, NC.

I think a similar billboard directed at going to the mosque rather than to church, placed in, let's say Dearborn, MI would result in a different kind of discussion (And perhaps justifiably so).

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
158. I finally found the one I remember from a few years ago.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 06:13 PM
Dec 2015

It wasn't in Dearborn, but it was certainly meant for Muslims as well as Christians.

http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-758697

So you see, it has been done.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
160. Thanks for sharing that
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 06:56 PM
Dec 2015

They had a similar one directed at Jewish people at the time also:

http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2012/03/01/atheist-group-targets-muslims-jews-with-myth-billboards-in-arabic-and-hebrew/

What's your take on the whole thing? Do you think all are equally valid? Or do you think such things ought to be directed at Christians only since they are the dominant power in the US?

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
162. I think I already anwered that question in post #153.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 07:05 PM
Dec 2015

Honestly, I'm not bothered about where they choose to place their ads, or which particular population they are trying to reach. I really don't get why you're going on and on about it.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
85. Pretty terrible analogy.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:14 PM
Dec 2015
Let's say the atheists put up a similar sign but in a predominately Muslim neighborhood with the same message, but suggesting skipping going to the mosque as opposed to going to church.


To date, no one has provided a satisfactory answer as to why this is offensive. So the billboard says don't go to church, or don't go to mosque. Has it occurred to you that, perhaps, there are people in church or people in mosque who would really prefer to be somewhere else?

Perhaps the sign could go up during Ramadan.


Is Ramadan a federal holiday? Is Ramadan season accompanied by a set of associated secular traditions? No? Well, okay, then.

And there was an image of, let's say, Mohammed, presenting that message.


Now this is an interesting proposition.

Are you suggesting Santa Claus is, in Christianity, a figure of importance akin to Mohammed in the Muslim tradition? Or are you suggesting Mohammed is, in Islam, a figure of importance akin to Santa Claus in the Christian tradition?

I don't think you're going to win many friends in either camp with that one, buddy.

H2O Man

(73,605 posts)
87. Santa Claus is the one
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:19 PM
Dec 2015

American-born member of the Founding Fathers who is recognized by all of the world's religious faiths and political theologies. You need to read a comic book or two, before attempting to discredit him.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
103. It's disrespectul. Which apparently isn't a 'satisfactory answer' for you.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:24 PM
Dec 2015

If you are an atheist and can't define your beliefs without it being about what other people believe, your thinking is shallow. If your atheism is about mocking other people's religions, then you are not only shallow, but also a jerk.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
108. "be good for goodness' sake" is not about what other people believe
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:49 PM
Dec 2015

and neither is "skip church", for that matter. That's suggesting that people don't take part in a public ceremony, which some people feel pressured to do so, even though it doesn't mean anything to them (by family or neighbours).

Why is it that you are throwing around the words 'jerk', 'asshole' and 'shallow' about atheists, but you are the one complaining about atheists being disrespectful?

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
109. A couple things Muriel
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:17 PM
Dec 2015

My criticism was directed at people who think that mocking other people's beliefs is acceptable, not at atheists. I would have thought that was clear, apparently not. Coercing and pushing one's beliefs on others is something fundamentalists do.

Second, the "skip church" part clearly makes it about what other people believe and value - specifically Christians. It makes it very clear that the billboard isn't about the very worthy atheist message (that morality and decent behavior is better when motivated for it's own sake than a fear of punishment) but instead makes it a dig at Christians. I only ask why that part is necessary. If you bother reading what I wrote, you'll notice that I didn't attack atheists for their beliefs. I simply asked why some atheists tend to define their beliefs only through mocking other people's religions.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
114. It's not mocking
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 07:25 PM
Dec 2015

It's suggesting that there's no need to go to church. You can find some Christians who think that too.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
117. In truth
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 08:36 PM
Dec 2015

I was referring mostly to the "skip church, I'm too old for fairy tales" message in the image that Earthside posted. It's obvious that the message is a poke at christians, and it seems gratuitously petty. I find it amusing that suggesting respect for other people's beliefs is met with doubling down on the disrespect. Not you, just a lot of responses in this thread. So anyway, I'm done with this.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
143. No, it's not.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 10:13 AM
Dec 2015

I'll ask you the same question: has it occurred to you that some people sitting in church don't really want to be there?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
139. It wasn't just meant to be an analogy
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 09:56 AM
Dec 2015

I was seriously wondering if a billboard suggesting that people not go to the mosque on a Muslim holiday and instead just be good to one another would engender a similar response as this one encouraging people not to go to church on Christmas.

I don't think that it would - but I could be wrong.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
138. Considering it seems to be a message for those who don't want to go to Church/Mosque anyways...
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 06:04 AM
Dec 2015

not sure what's wrong with the message.

In fact, most of the Atheist billboards are callings to closet atheists and other non-believers to stop pretending to believe for society's sake.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
142. But don't you think there might be closet atheists among the US Muslim population?
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 10:13 AM
Dec 2015

It might be helpful to those individuals to get the message out in those communities as well, where, potentially, people also feel a lot of pressure to believe for the sake of their community.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
161. You really seem to be obsessing about this.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 06:59 PM
Dec 2015

If you think there should be more atheist billboards in Muslim neighborhoods, by all means go raise the money, rent the space and have them put up.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
163. This is a discussion board
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 07:07 PM
Dec 2015

I thought that this was an interesting topic to discuss.

I don't want to put up any billboards and I am not in the least bit obsessed. I was just curious to hear different perspectives on this question that I find somewhat thought-provoking.

Thoughtful discussion is what I like most about DU.

JI7

(89,264 posts)
159. I'm ok with both but i do agree many who are ok with this
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 06:53 PM
Dec 2015

Would be offended if it referred to Muslims instead.

Warpy

(111,338 posts)
106. The thin skinned are the men who ditch church in favor of Sunday golf
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:37 PM
Dec 2015

and are terrified the neighbors are going to think they're atheists.

 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
112. I read a Facebook thread by religious family members which highlights why this is an "insult".
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:32 PM
Dec 2015

Part 1 of 2: an explanation for my fellow Atheists.

They were trying to decide: do we tell young children that Santa is not real, or that he was just a nice person?

Most common reply by Atheists to, "when did you stop believing in God," is, "same time as I stopped believing in Santa Claus." Christians have heard this so many times they now realize that Santa is a problem. So they feel the need to break the Santa Claus news early while the children are still young enough to trust their parents unquestionably.

One of those family members still ran into the problem as her son immediately started questioning his belief in Jesus when she told him Santa was not real. She was the one who started the thread looking for ways to explain the difference. Apparently, there are several books out there on how to do this as other relatives recommended a few.

This billboard ties the two together just when Christians combat that tie. So while there is absolutely nothing remotely insulting about this billboard, it pisses off Christians. And some seem to define "insult" as "that which pisses me off".

With great difficulty I refrained from commenting in the Facebook thread that maybe she should think about what her 5 year old was telling her instead of just dismissing his comments.

--------------------------------------

Part 2 of 2: a Christian message from an Atheist friend because you guys seem to have difficulty dealing with these issues.

How to explain this billboard to your children:

The philosophy taught in the New Testament does not merely call for people to "do" good. It calls for people to "be" good. Jesus wants you to be genuinely good. This billboard is emphasing that going to church is not enough. You need to be good at heart.

It is like the man who kills another man because he can legally kill him, but he does not have to. Is that man good? No. He chose to kill someone he did not have to. He may not be a criminal, but he is unquestionably a bad person.



That, or ask yourself, "which is worse, a 5 year old thinking about it or you not thinking about it?"


LeftishBrit

(41,210 posts)
113. If they don't like the sign...
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 07:00 PM
Dec 2015

why don't they put up one of their own, exhorting people to attend church at Christmas, rather than demand that other people avoid putting up signs that disagree with them?

They have a right to their views, but not to suppress other people's free speech.



Mariana

(14,860 posts)
115. LOL, there are so many billboards up already
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 07:29 PM
Dec 2015

that exhort people to attend church that yet another one wouldn't draw any attention!

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
151. Because it would be lost among the thousands of other billboards that say that.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 01:31 PM
Dec 2015

The "insult" is that someone dared to put up a billboard that did not threaten me with eternal torture.

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