Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
Tue May 31, 2016, 11:04 AM May 2016

Twenty Nine years ago.. I had my last chemo treatment

for Ovarian Cancer at the end of May.. It was a glorious day.. My veins are still worthless trying to get blood samples they were so burned up by the chemo.. But the one thing I brought out of that awful experience.. was life can end in a heart beat and embrace those things that are truly important.. You do not get back your cup of coffee you had this morning.. Its all the past.. Before you let your politics get you so tied up that you feel alienated from friends you have here in DU.. this political season will pass.. just like chemo passed.. its going to be okay

46 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Twenty Nine years ago.. I had my last chemo treatment (Original Post) Peacetrain May 2016 OP
Congratulations to you on beating the Big C mnhtnbb May 2016 #1
Thank you... Peacetrain May 2016 #4
Congrats on 29 yrs Peacetrain Uben May 2016 #2
Some anniversarys stick with you Peacetrain May 2016 #6
YOU are a survivor!!!!! And thank you for your words of wisdom spoken from experience! tonyt53 May 2016 #3
i was also very lucky!! Peacetrain May 2016 #7
So happy for you! mcar May 2016 #5
Thank you.. Peacetrain May 2016 #8
Congratulations on the cancer-free record, and thanks for the wise words. Surya Gayatri May 2016 #9
Thank you Surya.. we are just pulling ourselves together Peacetrain May 2016 #10
Bon appetit ! Surya Gayatri May 2016 #11
WOW! 29 years. That was back in the Bronze Age of cancer treatment. IADEMO2004 May 2016 #12
Yes it was IADEM Peacetrain May 2016 #23
You just made my day. Glimmer of Hope May 2016 #13
Yes.. its amazing isn't it Peacetrain May 2016 #24
Thank you! I am so happy. Glimmer of Hope May 2016 #46
Wow, bravo for beating it! nt valerief May 2016 #14
Thank you!!! Peacetrain May 2016 #25
Congratulations on being a survivor! herding cats May 2016 #15
Thank you for your kind words Peacetrain May 2016 #26
Bravo, Peacetrain! Greybnk48 May 2016 #16
Yep... Peacetrain May 2016 #28
Congrats, lark May 2016 #17
Congratulations lark!! Peacetrain May 2016 #30
Pardon me for saying this, and I am very glad you survived, but as you described the current TryLogic May 2016 #18
You have to do what you think will work best for you Peacetrain May 2016 #33
From one survivor to another.. 840high May 2016 #19
Its a great feeling to have that behind you Peacetrain May 2016 #34
If I may - the day my 840high May 2016 #41
I know exaxtly what you are talking about Peacetrain May 2016 #45
((Peacetrain))) Solly Mack May 2016 #20
((Solly)) Peacetrain May 2016 #35
My last chemo was in 2001, so I'm just a baby compared to you. Congrats! (n/t) Jim Lane May 2016 #21
Fifteen years.. wow.. Peacetrain May 2016 #36
Great success! The mornings must be very bright. Eleanors38 May 2016 #22
It really is Eleanor.. Peacetrain May 2016 #37
29! Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #27
Way to GO!!!! Peacetrain May 2016 #39
So wise...Thank you, Peacetrain BeyondGeography May 2016 #29
Just loving the day!! Peacetrain May 2016 #40
I am so happy for you! redstatebluegirl May 2016 #31
Thank you for the kind thoughts.. Peacetrain May 2016 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author Turbineguy May 2016 #32
Thank you Turbine... Peacetrain May 2016 #43
Very good message, thanks. Turns out Hortensis May 2016 #38
I know..and we can Peacetrain May 2016 #44

mnhtnbb

(31,395 posts)
1. Congratulations to you on beating the Big C
Tue May 31, 2016, 11:07 AM
May 2016

and especially ovarian cancer: it's a bad one. They're all bad...but you have really beat the odds.

And you're right. Let it go. Find community. Let's embrace life, respect our differences, and work for the common good.

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
6. Some anniversarys stick with you
Tue May 31, 2016, 11:11 AM
May 2016

even as you get older.. getting that needle pulled out for the last time..that one will always be there

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
10. Thank you Surya.. we are just pulling ourselves together
Tue May 31, 2016, 12:30 PM
May 2016

to go out and have lunch to sort of celebrate the last chemo.. next year.. God willing it will be 30.. wow..

IADEMO2004

(5,555 posts)
12. WOW! 29 years. That was back in the Bronze Age of cancer treatment.
Tue May 31, 2016, 12:37 PM
May 2016

BRCA mutation was unknown then. Congratulations Peacetrain.

Glimmer of Hope

(5,823 posts)
13. You just made my day.
Tue May 31, 2016, 12:51 PM
May 2016

I have been an ovarian cancer survivor for a mere seven months and it is survivors like you that make me more confident than I already am. I wish you continued good health!

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
24. Yes.. its amazing isn't it
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:07 PM
May 2016

You will get stronger every month.. And before you know it.. normality will sneak back up on you.. its an awesome thing.. Congratulations on finishing chemo.. YEAH!! we should be celebrating for you too..

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
25. Thank you!!!
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:08 PM
May 2016

I was truly blessed.. and you know what.. the best part of my life began after chemo.. I know that sounds so strange.. but it really did

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
28. Yep...
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:12 PM
May 2016

In my group of four of my closest friends three of us have beaten back cancer.. 2 breast and me ovarian.. and my fourth closest never got it.. whew..

lark

(23,116 posts)
17. Congrats,
Tue May 31, 2016, 01:28 PM
May 2016

on 29 years of living cancer free. I've lived 17 years with no recurrence of breast cancer and 12 with no kind of cancer at all. I look forward to the day that I hit your milestone.

TryLogic

(1,723 posts)
18. Pardon me for saying this, and I am very glad you survived, but as you described the current
Tue May 31, 2016, 01:47 PM
May 2016

condition of your veins, I note that your experience did leave damage.

That comment was about cancer treatment and the use of poisons and radiation rather than alternative approaches.

Your point about not being alienated from friends... I absolutely agree with. Friends can make mistakes in perception as we all can.

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
33. You have to do what you think will work best for you
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:15 PM
May 2016

I truly believe that.. each of us is different and different things work..

 

840high

(17,196 posts)
41. If I may - the day my
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:22 PM
May 2016

treatments ended I walked down a hill and was amazed how beautiful and green the grass was. Simple pleasures - it took cancer for me to slow down and live. Hugs

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
45. I know exaxtly what you are talking about
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:28 PM
May 2016

the air was sweeter.. than anytime that I could remember .. I never let that go..

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
37. It really is Eleanor..
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:19 PM
May 2016

Sometimes the air is almost pink.. I can't explain it..but the mornings are wonderful.. I never take them for granted..

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
39. Way to GO!!!!
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:21 PM
May 2016

There is something about that 5 year check up..it is the best.. Congratulations!!!!.. Two of mly best girl friends are 9 and 10 years out now.. Its an awesome thing

Response to Peacetrain (Original post)

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
38. Very good message, thanks. Turns out
Tue May 31, 2016, 07:21 PM
May 2016

you and Glimmer and Jim Lane, and no doubt others are a special little community here.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Twenty Nine years ago.. I...