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Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 02:41 PM Aug 2016

Do you stand when the National Anthem is played at sporting events?


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Yes, I stand.
63 (86%)
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Do you stand when the National Anthem is played at sporting events? (Original Post) Nye Bevan Aug 2016 OP
Yes, and I put my hand over my heart. Old school. CentralMass Aug 2016 #1
Hand over heart is not old school. DURHAM D Aug 2016 #4
Well we did it in elementary school in the early 60s. cwydro Aug 2016 #6
I had a discussion with some friends last week DURHAM D Aug 2016 #8
I was born in 1960 and it was done in Massachusetts since I can remember. CentralMass Aug 2016 #9
The 2008 non-hand over heart candidate was President Obama citood Aug 2016 #18
Not according to Dear Abby - DURHAM D Aug 2016 #20
You Mis-Interpret Dear Abbey citood Aug 2016 #48
There is something very wrong with you? DURHAM D Aug 2016 #50
You will now end your day knowing more than you did this morning. citood Aug 2016 #53
You are still wrong among your other problems. DURHAM D Aug 2016 #64
Not a big fan of revisionist history citood Aug 2016 #65
Why don't you read down thread and figure out DURHAM D Aug 2016 #66
I'd say the congressional record and photos citood Aug 2016 #70
I thought this was America trixie Aug 2016 #75
Me too! trixie Aug 2016 #73
The question after the question you highlight trixie Aug 2016 #74
I started elementary school in the late 60's, we were taught back then to hold hand over heart. Waldorf Aug 2016 #39
I believe it was Obama who didn't keep his hand over his heart for the anthem hedda_foil Aug 2016 #40
Not quite shadowrider Aug 2016 #24
I was in elementary school in the late 50s and 60s dflprincess Aug 2016 #77
Yep - for the pledge not the anthem WyLoochka Aug 2016 #90
Same here same time duncang Aug 2016 #92
Yep. me too. In Massachusetts in school 50's to 60' for pledge not anthem. Fla Dem Aug 2016 #95
Me too. tazkcmo Aug 2016 #79
I think it is. Maybe you lived in a pocket where it wasn't practiced, but MADem Aug 2016 #16
Please see my comment just above. DURHAM D Aug 2016 #21
That's New School. Iggo Aug 2016 #23
Yep. We did that in the 50's for the PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE. B Calm Aug 2016 #45
Exactly. It annoys me that people mix the two: Solomon Aug 2016 #63
Everyone stands. DURHAM D Aug 2016 #2
Not everyone. I don't stand. masmdu Aug 2016 #85
Never mind. Iggo Aug 2016 #93
I did 20 in the military and this is what I was taught Separation Aug 2016 #96
Typically no. I have no need to prove anything in a public manner. uppityperson Aug 2016 #3
I would say you're trying to prove that religious belief or patriotism are private and personal The2ndWheel Aug 2016 #11
Whatever. I don't stand for most music and most of the time I'm not praying out loud. uppityperson Aug 2016 #29
I know what you mean Zing Zing Zingbah Aug 2016 #37
i didnt during the bush years. mopinko Aug 2016 #5
I think it's a ridiculous custom ... I was at a car show last week and they played it there too Auggie Aug 2016 #7
I stand but I do not put hand over heart (nt) bigwillq Aug 2016 #10
Retired military, I used to have to break my arm to not salute. MADem Aug 2016 #12
Being in a border state. roamer65 Aug 2016 #13
You must live very close to the border. Zing Zing Zingbah Aug 2016 #43
Yeah. I get CBC over the air. roamer65 Aug 2016 #49
Yes Bradical79 Aug 2016 #14
I do the exact same outside or at events yeoman6987 Aug 2016 #27
Of course I love America...always have, always will. ileus Aug 2016 #15
+1 FLPanhandle Aug 2016 #38
Of course, hat removed, with hand over my heart. TheCowsCameHome Aug 2016 #17
Yes but I don't think I'd put hand on heart treestar Aug 2016 #19
Except when I'm pole vaulting, yeah. bluedigger Aug 2016 #22
He comes to "attention" because there is no flag to salute.... Historic NY Aug 2016 #58
Nothing says Freedom like forcing people to stand up every time a certain song is played. NightWatcher Aug 2016 #25
Thank you for putting it so well uppityperson Aug 2016 #30
. Iggo Aug 2016 #55
Well said. nt DLevine Aug 2016 #60
THIS Kali Aug 2016 #82
Who's forcing anyone to stand for the anthem? WillowTree Aug 2016 #84
I agree alarimer Aug 2016 #94
my decades long tradition... northoftheborder Aug 2016 #26
Do you ever question why it is played at sporting events but not the opera? . . . Journeyman Aug 2016 #28
Yes, I do. uppityperson Aug 2016 #32
You didn't grow up military like I did. It got crazy. nolabear Aug 2016 #34
Done for all events in many countries unc70 Aug 2016 #41
Really? Lived in England a few years and never happened whatthehey Aug 2016 #98
I do and it pisses me off the way the right tries to shame those that don't. liberal N proud Aug 2016 #31
Nationalism is right wing group think. Warren Stupidity Aug 2016 #33
Affinity to tribe is a human trait. Maru Kitteh Aug 2016 #52
Hmmm yes it is. Warren Stupidity Aug 2016 #67
Well. I could sit. Maru Kitteh Aug 2016 #86
But Suwanee River is a pretty decent song, when the offensive dialect is flushed. Eleanors38 Aug 2016 #59
Seldom go to sporting events anymore. rurallib Aug 2016 #35
re: your reason 2 melman Aug 2016 #46
not buying into it - just rebelling against the idea that others would buy into it rurallib Aug 2016 #51
I don't go to sporting events. Rex Aug 2016 #36
Always sarisataka Aug 2016 #42
I stand when they play our anthem..I stand when the bride beachbum bob Aug 2016 #44
If you're not standing Quackers Aug 2016 #71
Stand but no hand SCantiGOP Aug 2016 #47
Yes, and during Suwannee River (FL), and both school anthems. Eleanors38 Aug 2016 #54
Yeah and usually just stand at attention. I never say "under god" when reciting the pledge. brewens Aug 2016 #56
I do and I place my hand over my heart. mourningdove92 Aug 2016 #57
Yes... Mike Nelson Aug 2016 #61
I don't even want to watch it on tv JonLP24 Aug 2016 #62
I stand. Cracklin Charlie Aug 2016 #68
I don't go to sporting events nt Raine Aug 2016 #69
It depends. Sometimes I use the opportunity to grab a beer. Philly-Union-Man Aug 2016 #72
Yes, but not for God Bless America... El Supremo Aug 2016 #76
Of course I stand PJMcK Aug 2016 #78
I don't do either one. Kali Aug 2016 #80
No. rug Aug 2016 #81
I find it a ridiculous custom at sporting events cvoogt Aug 2016 #83
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2016 #87
I don't go to sporting events. GoneOffShore Aug 2016 #88
Yes Liberal_in_LA Aug 2016 #89
No, because I think the last sporting event I actually attended was maybe in 1986 or thereabouts. Warren DeMontague Aug 2016 #91
I've been to 2 or 3 games in the last few years because they were charity events pinboy3niner Aug 2016 #97

DURHAM D

(32,610 posts)
8. I had a discussion with some friends last week
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 02:52 PM
Aug 2016

after the Gabby Douglas thing. Many of us still don't do it and all of us were born when Franklin Roosevelt was President.

We finally came to the conclusion that it started early in the Reagan administration. Maybe this habit is somewhat regional.

There was some sort of kerfuffle during the 2008 primary when some Democrat didn't do it. It might have been Sen. Harkin, can't remember for sure.

citood

(550 posts)
18. The 2008 non-hand over heart candidate was President Obama
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:27 PM
Aug 2016

The custom of the hand over heart was made 'official' in the US Flag code in 1942. The 1942 codification replaced the Bellamy Salute...which was...interesting.

DURHAM D

(32,610 posts)
20. Not according to Dear Abby -
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:44 PM
Aug 2016

It was July 7, 1976, the 94th Congress


http://articles.philly.com/2011-06-14/entertainment/29656806_1_flag-day-national-anthem-94th-congress


As I mentioned above, it still seems to be somewhat regional or perhaps the older generation thinks it feels a little too nationalistic, think Nazi.

On another topic, to this day I have never said the words "under God" during the Pledge of Allegiance. My father told me it was unconstitutional and it would not be around long once it went before the Courts.

I reminded him of that just a few years back and shortly before he died. We got a big laugh out of it.

citood

(550 posts)
48. You Mis-Interpret Dear Abbey
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:36 PM
Aug 2016

Nobody asked her the genesis of the hand over heart custom, and she merely listed the law currently in force at the time.

Clue: Her citation lists 'as amended' in 1976...ie there was a flag code prior to 1976.

This isn't illuminati stuff - a simple Google search will show it started 'officially' in 1942...and was a custom prior to that.

What do you think the 1968 'black power fist' at the Olympic podium was in lieu of?

Anyhoo...in order to refute Dear Abbey, here is a photo of Eisenhower with hand over heart in 1955.

http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/news-photo/home-from-the-summit-washington-d-c-president-eisenhower-news-photo/515020710?#home-from-the-summit-washington-dc-president-eisenhower-stands-with-picture-id515020710

And here's LBJ:

http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/news-photo/emperor-haile-selassie-saluting-and-us-president-lyndon-b-news-photo/568917375

And Gerald Ford:

http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/news-photo/pres-ford-and-west-german-chancellor-helmut-schmidt-stand-news-photo/515120270

And Nixon:

http://www.fainebooks.com/jazz-blog/ethel-ennis-in-the-inaugural-spotlight

And Truman:

http://www.allposters.com/-sp/President-Harry-Truman-at-Attention-for-the-National-Anthem-Airfield-En-Route-from-Wake-Island-Posters_i8522162_.htm?stp=true

Probably just a regional custom















citood

(550 posts)
65. Not a big fan of revisionist history
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 07:22 PM
Aug 2016

Ignoring plain truths points at a problem. I should ask what exactly is wrong with YOU.

DURHAM D

(32,610 posts)
66. Why don't you read down thread and figure out
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 07:31 PM
Aug 2016

how off you are. Apparently you think what you read on the internuts is gospel and are unaware that what applies to government and military functions and a high school basketball game are not one and the same thing and you have no use for anyone's actual life experience.

At this point I must assume you are a Nationalist.



Done



citood

(550 posts)
70. I'd say the congressional record and photos
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 08:18 PM
Aug 2016

Of five presidents with their hands on their hearts trumps Dear Abbey.

You got corrected on the internet. Get over it and move on with your life...but don"t lash out at me.

trixie

(867 posts)
75. I thought this was America
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 10:15 PM
Aug 2016

We could do as we choose or not do as we choose. No? I disagree with any kind of pressure to do anything "state required" to me that is a red flag.

trixie

(867 posts)
73. Me too!
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 10:10 PM
Aug 2016

It burns my cookies to see that bastardized pledge being used like it was always that way.

It offends me to no end.

Waldorf

(654 posts)
39. I started elementary school in the late 60's, we were taught back then to hold hand over heart.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:07 PM
Aug 2016

This was in Maryland, since you mentioned region.

hedda_foil

(16,375 posts)
40. I believe it was Obama who didn't keep his hand over his heart for the anthem
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:08 PM
Aug 2016

Honestly, unit that kerfuffle, I had never heard of or seen many people doing it for the national anthem., though to contradict myself, it may have been since 9/11. Like the stupid flag pin.

shadowrider

(4,941 posts)
24. Not quite
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:10 PM
Aug 2016

"The Official Pledge of Allegiance Salute Used to be a ‘Hitler Salute’

… Yes, that title is correct. Read on, intrepid history-seekers.

The pledge of allegiance was originally written in 1892 by Francis Bellamy, a socialist magazine writer. When he wrote it for an children’s magazine, he also described a salute that he thought would be appropriate during its recital."

http://forgottenhistoryblog.com/the-official-american-flag-salute-used-to-be-a-hitler-salute/

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
77. I was in elementary school in the late 50s and 60s
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 10:27 PM
Aug 2016

hand over our hearts for the Pledge, not for the Anthem.

WyLoochka

(1,629 posts)
90. Yep - for the pledge not the anthem
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 07:15 AM
Aug 2016

Some started hand over heart during the anthem after 9/11.

I don't and I know others who don't participate in this nationalistic display.

Fla Dem

(23,681 posts)
95. Yep. me too. In Massachusetts in school 50's to 60' for pledge not anthem.
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 06:26 PM
Aug 2016

Here;s a picture from 1965. Evidently only men with hats placed hand over heart.



1965: Baseball fans stand during the National Anthem at the 1965 Opening Day. (Joe DiPaola/Baltimore Sun)

MADem

(135,425 posts)
16. I think it is. Maybe you lived in a pocket where it wasn't practiced, but
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:20 PM
Aug 2016

I know people in their nineties who will put hand on heart and have since their youth.

That said, I don't think Gabby Douglas did anything wrong. People standing in formation in the military simply stand at attention with hands at their sides, while the person LEADING the formation executes a hand salute.

I never put my hand over my heart in civilian clothing--I simply stood at attention. I think it's a matter of choice, and there's no "rule" about it.

DURHAM D

(32,610 posts)
21. Please see my comment just above.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:01 PM
Aug 2016

I live in an area that is predominately German American and that may be the reason why there is resistance to patriotic conformity. It scares them.

I attended the funeral of a WWII veteran last week and the manner in which he was honored was inspiring. However, later while we were at the grave side my cousin pointed out the descendants of a man my grandfather had gotten into a fight with during the run up to WWII because he was pro Hitler. I had to stifle a laugh...we are talking 80 years ago but in these small farming communities some things are never forgotten.

Solomon

(12,310 posts)
63. Exactly. It annoys me that people mix the two:
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 07:02 PM
Aug 2016

there's the pledge of allegiance, which is not the same as observing the playing of the nation anthem. I was born in 1955 and taught to hold hand over heart during the pledge, but NOT during the playing of the national anthem. We were taught to just stand during the anthem. Holding your hand over the heart for the anthem is a new requirement. Got really bad after 911.

DURHAM D

(32,610 posts)
2. Everyone stands.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 02:43 PM
Aug 2016

The better question is do you put your hand over your heart? If you do, how old are you and what year did you start.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
96. I did 20 in the military and this is what I was taught
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 06:33 PM
Aug 2016

If in uniform you stand at attention and salute at the first note and cut your salute at the last note.

If out of uniform you stand at attention, if wearing a hat you remove it.

Ive always stood at attention during the anthem, never put my hand over my heart. Now while reciting the Pledge I will cover my heart, but not during the Anthem.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
3. Typically no. I have no need to prove anything in a public manner.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 02:44 PM
Aug 2016

Not any sort of religious belief or patriotism. They are private and personal.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
11. I would say you're trying to prove that religious belief or patriotism are private and personal
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:06 PM
Aug 2016

by actively choosing to not stand in public.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
29. Whatever. I don't stand for most music and most of the time I'm not praying out loud.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:38 PM
Aug 2016

Not trying to "prove" anything.

Zing Zing Zingbah

(6,496 posts)
37. I know what you mean
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:02 PM
Aug 2016

You don't want to and don't feel compelled to do something just because the group is doing it. I'm not that into it either. I reluctantly do it just to not make a scene if I think it is going to. I usually have my kids with me and I have to act better than I sometimes want to because of them. My oldest son has got the nonconformist attitude that I have, except worse because he is also a teenager. He questions everything and it can be hard to get him to go along with things so I can't start being like that. It is a serious struggle to just get him to do a simple task without all the questions.

mopinko

(70,113 posts)
5. i didnt during the bush years.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 02:47 PM
Aug 2016

or during the viet nam years for that matter.
since the pentagon started paying sports teams to do propaganda for them, i am even less likely to stand.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
12. Retired military, I used to have to break my arm to not salute.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:09 PM
Aug 2016

Now they allow us to...!

I'd stand in my sleep. It's ingrained.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
13. Being in a border state.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:10 PM
Aug 2016

Last edited Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:50 PM - Edit history (1)

I stand for both the national anthem of the United States and Canada at live events.

I sing both of them as well.

Zing Zing Zingbah

(6,496 posts)
43. You must live very close to the border.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:19 PM
Aug 2016

My state borders Canada, but I'm still 2.5 hours from the border where I live. Never hear Canadian song at games unless a Canadian team came down to play. Maybe for hockey.

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
14. Yes
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:11 PM
Aug 2016

At least when I'm at an event live. I stand up and do the hand over your heart thing, and take off my hat. I don't stand up if I'm just watching on tv :-P

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
27. I do the exact same outside or at events
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:29 PM
Aug 2016

I feel weird not standing when the tv does it but I chalk it up to I'm too lazy to stand. Although that'd be weird if I did stand. No winning on that one. Lol.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
19. Yes but I don't think I'd put hand on heart
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 03:43 PM
Aug 2016

and don't get the big deal about the Olympic girl. Some people just have to have someone to criticize no matter how minor the issue is.

bluedigger

(17,086 posts)
22. Except when I'm pole vaulting, yeah.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:04 PM
Aug 2016


I was with a guy once who got out of the car to stand at a red light in Bangor, when the Red Sox game started on the radio. He was the driver.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
58. He comes to "attention" because there is no flag to salute....
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 06:26 PM
Aug 2016

that is why he was looking, and is the proper salute sans a flag being present.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
25. Nothing says Freedom like forcing people to stand up every time a certain song is played.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:12 PM
Aug 2016

Here's a new idea, how about we as a nation get pissed off because so many kids go to bed hungry in this great land instead of getting our knickers in a twist because an athlete at a damn sporting event doesn't do what you think he should while a certain song is played.

You want to honor America, start by treating Americans in need better than they currently are treated. You give a damn about the price some paid for your freedom, stop looking down your nose at the homeless vet on the corner and give him a few bucks for starters.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
94. I agree
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 05:52 PM
Aug 2016

People seem awfully concerned about obeying some stupid custom and what it says about a person than about actually doing something to make us live up to our principles.

northoftheborder

(7,572 posts)
26. my decades long tradition...
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:20 PM
Aug 2016

Hand over heart while saying Pledge of Allegiance but not necessarily during the National Anthem. It's just that usually they are done together. But many times the anthem is sung as entertainment by a singer or chorus, and I can't sing that song anyway, so I don't put hand on heart then.

This ultra patriotism and nationalism is slightly scary to me. Also I don't like the patriotic Christian fish emblem at all. I remember Germany and WWII too vividly.

Journeyman

(15,035 posts)
28. Do you ever question why it is played at sporting events but not the opera? . . .
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:33 PM
Aug 2016

Why at the ballpark but not the theater?

nolabear

(41,984 posts)
34. You didn't grow up military like I did. It got crazy.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 04:59 PM
Aug 2016

Before movies in the theater, before every on base sports event (like softball games), at school. That and taps when the flag was lowered and reveille when it's raised. I once saw some jackass officer make a friend's mother stand in a rainstorm with her sick child in her arms while he chewed her out for trying to run to the car from the hospital rather than stopping for taps.

I think shows of identity and solidarity are fine, but being punitive about it creates neither. It makes people feel excluded and shamed, and that never created patriotism in anyone.

unc70

(6,115 posts)
41. Done for all events in many countries
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:09 PM
Aug 2016

For example, you get "God save the Queen" before concerts and such.

BTW I stand for the anthem, parade rest to attention, but no salute with hand over heart. That is reserved for the Pledge. (I am old school, do not say "under God".)

Always thought the details of military in and out of uniform, active duty or non-AD, and indoor or outdoor distinctions were confusing enough. Does a domed sports stadium follow the indoor rules?

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
98. Really? Lived in England a few years and never happened
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 07:16 PM
Aug 2016

Last Night of the Proms I guess from tradition. But never once at any other concert or event I saw even on TV when she wasn't actually present.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
67. Hmmm yes it is.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 07:37 PM
Aug 2016

Right wing authoritarian political movements exploit our innate tendency toward tribal affinity to promote war and intolerance, to obstruct global humanitarianism, to derail everything from effective action against climate change to universal healthcare. Oh and we've been in a perpetual state of war since 1941. But by all means let's keep mindlessly saluting the flag, mumbling offensive oaths, singing awful songs, and fawning over soldiers. Because well humans have been tribal forever so really what can we do.

Maru Kitteh

(28,340 posts)
86. Well. I could sit.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 11:56 PM
Aug 2016

I could keep my ass parked on the bench, raising one smug little eyebrow as the rest of my fellow event-goers rose to sing the national anthem. I could sit, trying oh so hard not to look like I'm looking, whilst I cast quick glances about to see if anyone has noticed my totally meaningful, very cutting-edge protest. I could even grumble random words into my nachos about sheeple - hell, I might even cut Godwin straight off at the knees and invoke Goebbels!

But the nachos don't care. Most of my fellow even-goers don't really care or even notice if I rise for the anthem or sit. Unless someone is expecting me to complete a 26yard pass or bring home the Stanley Cup, it's a pretty lame form of protest, imo.

Participating in the anthem has never changed how I felt about local issues or world affairs. I stood for the anthem when I protested Bush's attempt to turn Social Security over to Wall Street. I stood for the anthem when I protested the Iraq war. I stood for the anthem when I protested the Keystone pipeline. I just prefer to actually protest, when I protest.

In the end we each have to do what makes us most comfortable. I don't have any problem with those who burn the flag in protest. A flag is what you think it is, and nothing more. I certainly have no problem whatsoever with anyone who wishes to sit through the anthem.

Warren, you can come to my town anytime and we can attend the sporting event of your choice. You can sit through the anthem; and talk to my nachos. Oh, and hold my beer please?

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
59. But Suwanee River is a pretty decent song, when the offensive dialect is flushed.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 06:26 PM
Aug 2016

Apparently, Foster's use of heavy African-American dialect was fairly authentic up through the 1940s, according to Z.N. Hurston. But the state approved a new version in 2007.

rurallib

(62,418 posts)
35. Seldom go to sporting events anymore.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:00 PM
Aug 2016

The last dozen or so I did attend, no I did not.

Two reasons:
1) I think the national anthem has no place at a sporting event and
2) the seizing of patriotism by right wing fringe groups makes me feel like I am approving of their tactics were I to stand. So we choose not to.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
46. re: your reason 2
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:25 PM
Aug 2016

Then you are really buying into the idea that patriotism belongs to the right. You are handing them that issue.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
36. I don't go to sporting events.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:01 PM
Aug 2016

However when applicable, I do stand and put my hand over my heart.

sarisataka

(18,656 posts)
42. Always
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:19 PM
Aug 2016

And if any choose to not stand, I respect it is their right and freedom to do so.

The flag is a symbol of their freedom. That is why I stand for the anthem.

 

beachbum bob

(10,437 posts)
44. I stand when they play our anthem..I stand when the bride
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 05:20 PM
Aug 2016

Walks down the aisle, I stand when they say a prayer in church....it's respect..

Quackers

(2,256 posts)
71. If you're not standing
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 08:20 PM
Aug 2016

When the the bride walks down the aisle, you won't be standing when the paramedics take you out of the wedding.

brewens

(13,590 posts)
56. Yeah and usually just stand at attention. I never say "under god" when reciting the pledge.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 06:20 PM
Aug 2016

If asked to lead the pledge some day, I will say I would be glad to but warn whoever is asking, that I will recite the original, traditional pledge. You know, the one that several generations grew up reciting, including kids that ended up helping win two world wars.

There have been times in recent years where I was busy setting up blood drives when the anthem or pledge was going on and just kept right on working. It's not unusual for us to be doing that at such events or at school first thing in the morning. No one has ever gave me any crap about it. If the did, I'd just say it's critical for us to be ready to go on time to avoid donors having to wait. I can skip one once in awhile since I have participated a couple of thousand times at the least!

mourningdove92

(2,583 posts)
57. I do and I place my hand over my heart.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 06:21 PM
Aug 2016

I choose to do this. I have no problem with those who choose not to.

Mike Nelson

(9,958 posts)
61. Yes...
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 06:51 PM
Aug 2016

...although I don't go to many sporting events and wonder what's patriotic about them. Still, I am very comfortable showing patriotism.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
62. I don't even want to watch it on tv
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 06:54 PM
Aug 2016

It's been while since I attended a live sporting even but I would prefer not to simply because of the "obligation".

 

Philly-Union-Man

(79 posts)
72. It depends. Sometimes I use the opportunity to grab a beer.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 08:31 PM
Aug 2016

Since everyone else is standing still. Other times I'll sing the song.

I don't think ritualistic jingoism is all that important.

PJMcK

(22,037 posts)
78. Of course I stand
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 10:28 PM
Aug 2016

I put my right hand over my heart, too. In fact, most of the time, I'll sing the lyrics. I certainly did when our American athletes excelled in the Olympics.

Why wouldn't you stand in respect and pride for our nation?


 

rug

(82,333 posts)
81. No.
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 10:38 PM
Aug 2016

And on the rare occasions someone asks me why, I point to the flag and say that means I don't have to.

cvoogt

(949 posts)
83. I find it a ridiculous custom at sporting events
Sat Aug 27, 2016, 11:11 PM
Aug 2016

When I do attend (which is exceedingly rare) I don't stand. Why can't a sporting event just be a sporting event? I don't see what local/domestic sporting events have to do with patriotism. I could understand it if it's a game vs some other country, and would stand then. Also, I don't say the pledge because I consider it an onerous Cold War artifact that should go away.

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Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
91. No, because I think the last sporting event I actually attended was maybe in 1986 or thereabouts.
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 07:17 AM
Aug 2016

But yes, in that or any analagous situation, I would behave in a ceremonially appropriate fashion. I'm nothing if not appropriate.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
97. I've been to 2 or 3 games in the last few years because they were charity events
Sun Aug 28, 2016, 06:54 PM
Aug 2016

I don't even know what division our minor league baseball team is in, but they have a stadium and some games have involved a local charity created and run by high school students to assist local disabled veterans. Half the ticket price goes to the charity and it has a pavilion at the game, participates in the ceremonial first pitch, etc.

It's no small thing, as the students' first project raised nearly a half million dollars to build two adjacent homes, one for a severely disabled Iraq War vet and his kids and one for his caregivers.

One game was a Jimmy Buffet event involving both a SoCal parrothead group and our charity, so I donned a Hawaiian shirt and a vet cap and saw a good friend, a former Vet Center PTSD counselor, throw out one of the first pitches on behalf of the charity. We had two large sections in the stands for our charity students and supporters, who include a lot of vets.

We follow protocols for the patriotic displays. A lot of us are vets who still adhere to our oath to uphold the Constitution, and that's what these ceremonial displays mean to us, regardless of how we may individually feel about our country's policies.

In my experience at these events, the only ones not standing are my vet friends who are in wheelchairs. They place hand over heart or salute, as appropriate, unless they can't do that--like my friend that disabled Iraq War vet, in a wheelchair, with one arm, and his other arm's mobility severely limited.

For those who choose not to stand, I respect their feelings and I'm not bothered or offended a whit about it.

We have another parrothead game coming up, again coupled with our students' charity. Time to get my colorful Hawaiian shirt ready.

Love & Peace, Pinboy

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