Stanford Sexual Assault Case Survivor Emily Doe Speaks Out
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We all know the statistics: One out of every six females will have someone rape heror attempt to. Doe sent those women a message: I am with you. Glamour is honored to name Emily Doe a Woman of the Year; here, for the first time, she tells what happened next. Cindi Leive
From the beginning, I was told I was a best case scenario.
I had forensic evidence, sober unbiased witnesses, a slurred voice mail, police at the scene. I had everything, and I was still told it was not a slam dunk. I thought, if this is what having it good looks like, what other hells are survivors living? Im barely getting through this but I am being told Im the lucky one, some sort of VIP. It was like being checked into a hotel room for a year with stained sheets, rancid water, and a bucket with an attendant saying, No this is great! Most rooms dont even have a bucket.
After the trial I was relieved thinking the hardest part was over, and all that was left was the sentencing. I was excited to finally be given a chance to read my statement and declare, I am here. I am not that floppy thing you found behind the garbage, speaking melted words. I am here, I can stand upright, I can speak clearly, Ive been listening and am painfully aware of all the hurt youve been trying to justify.
I yelled half of my statement. So when it was quickly announced that hed be receiving six months, I was struck silent. Immediately I felt embarrassed for trying, for being led to believe I had any influence. The violation of my body and my being added up to a few months out of his summer. The judge would release him back to his life, back to the 40 people who had written him letters from Ohio. I began to panic; I thought, this cant be the best case scenario. If this case was meant to set the bar, the bar had been set on the floor.
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The morning after the sentencing, my phone screen was stacked with texts and I turned it over saying, not today, on this day I deserve to sleep. My phone kept ringing and I learned that BuzzFeed was waiting for my permission to publish my court statement in full. As soon as it was posted, I remember thinking, what have I done, making myself exposed and vulnerable again. I texted my sister when it hit 20,000 views, thinking that was it, the comments were actually quite nice, and I closed my computer.
The Rest:http://www.glamour.com/story/women-of-the-year-emily-doe?mbid=partner_facebook_huffpowomen
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/brock-turner-survivor-glamour-essay_us_5818941ce4b064e1b4b4aa59
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A must read.