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Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:04 PM Jun 2012

Mother left her children on the side of the road while she went to "look for God."

WETUMPKA, AL (WSFA) -

The Elmore County Sheriff's Office is asking for help locating a woman they believe to be in extreme emotional distress after she left her children on the side of the road to go "look for God."

Authorities are searching for 28-year-old Lamona Fields Bender after she abandoned her children on Monday near the 600 block of Harragote Springs Road. Her vehicle was later located two miles away.

Investigators say Bender is in extreme emotional distress - authorities need to find her to evaluate her emotional state.

The children were found unharmed.

http://www.wsfa.com/story/18884891/police-search-for-mother-who-left-children-on-roadside-to-look-for-god?hpt=ju_bn4

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Mother left her children on the side of the road while she went to "look for God." (Original Post) Cali_Democrat Jun 2012 OP
So sad Marrah_G Jun 2012 #1
Missing mother's body found. :-( Tansy_Gold Jun 2012 #2
This is sad. At least she didn't do anything to her kids - only herself. Booster Jun 2012 #3
It does appear to be a suicide, but we don't know for sure Cali_Democrat Jun 2012 #4
I guess she found him 4th law of robotics Jun 2012 #5
What state is this? xxqqqzme Jun 2012 #12
there wingzeroday Jun 2012 #6
Shoulda looked behind the refrigerator and couch first. hifiguy Jun 2012 #7
The woman was mentally ill. Chorophyll Jun 2012 #10
Mental illness. nt raccoon Jun 2012 #8
Lamona Fields Bender; name sounds like a character in a Kurt Vonnegut story, sad...... wandy Jun 2012 #9
Actually, now that you mention it...it kind of does. Poll_Blind Jun 2012 #11
 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
4. It does appear to be a suicide, but we don't know for sure
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:18 PM
Jun 2012

This is very sad. Those poor kids are now without their mother

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
5. I guess she found him
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:18 PM
Jun 2012

I wish she'd dropped the kids off with someone then had an emotional breakdown.

But at least they were found.

wingzeroday

(189 posts)
6. there
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:20 PM
Jun 2012

"There is a difference between saying you found God...and saying that you know his address"


-Abbie Hoffman

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
7. Shoulda looked behind the refrigerator and couch first.
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:27 PM
Jun 2012

That's a lot less dangerous. Poor kids. They're just collateral damage of religious insanity.

wandy

(3,539 posts)
9. Lamona Fields Bender; name sounds like a character in a Kurt Vonnegut story, sad......
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:41 PM
Jun 2012

Sad. The whole story sounds like something Kurt Vonnegut might have written.
I don't think he would be pleased.

Poll_Blind

(23,864 posts)
11. Actually, now that you mention it...it kind of does.
Wed Jun 27, 2012, 02:55 PM
Jun 2012

If it were a fictional character, I think he might have commented on eventually finding god...at the bottom of 15 feet of water and then sadly tacking on "And so it goes."

One of the greatest things Vonnegut was able to do as a writer, IMO, was to take an extreme tragedy...extreme tragedy...and lay layer after layer of gentle sadness over it until the patina was thick enough a body could look at the thing without going mad at the insanity of the world.

This woman, I feel sorry for her. I feel sorry for her children. I am forever grateful she chose not to take the lives of her children, too, because I have read a sheaf of news articles reaching from the floor to the ceiling where the whole family dies.

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