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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSomething doesn't add up with the family freed from the Taliban
If you were held hostage and your wife was being raped, why would you have two kids while in captivity?
Am I missing something in this story?
cilla4progress
(24,736 posts)I hate to question their veracity... but the other thing I think is weird is - backpacking in Afghanistan in 2012, while wife is pregnant? There are a million other places not in war zones to choose from...
yurbud
(39,405 posts)Since this guy took his pregnant wife, it looks like the latter.
On the other hand, this makes it a lot easier to advocate for sending more troops to Afghanistan, which pushes this back toward the first option.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)A few years ago some people were backpacking the Iraq-Iran border,
and were captured by Iranian troops.
JI7
(89,252 posts)Iran is not at war and many people travel there as tourists.
I can see some people being curious but still idiots with going to far in these type of countries.
But afghanistan is different.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)No sense tempting them by hiking along their border.
Dulcinea
(6,639 posts)Who goes hiking in Afghanistan while 7 months pregnant? Who goes hiking in Afghanistan at all?
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,414 posts)With all the bucolic splendor that America (at least until Pruitt has it all trashed for industry profits) has to offer for hiking, they choose......Afghanistan? Who does THAT? There are PLENTY of less dangerous places to hike even in Europe. I can't even imagine going ANYWHERE in the ME for any reason (and thankfully, don't have to).
Arkansas Granny
(31,518 posts)I haven't heard why they were backpacking in Afghanistan in the first place.
mahina
(17,668 posts)It reads fishy as hell to me too but I don't have any idea what I imagine they were really doing.
If a husband proposed such an idea to a pregnant woman, who would agree? Even if he said he knew it was God's will, I can imagine her explaining how God had a very different idea.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,414 posts)Appalachia? Inner cities?
Trust Buster
(7,299 posts)dalton99a
(81,515 posts)janterry
(4,429 posts)n/t
Chasstev365
(5,191 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)They were held five years.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)he would have to kill his wife in an honor killing because she got raped. The first thing I wondered why they had children why in captivity. Wouldn't they have kept them separate? If she was raped who's children are they really? Hiking in a dangerous area with a pregnant wife? How stupid can one be? They killed the girl but they let the boys live. The boys are the ones who have a chance of going and fighting them later and kill them. You would think the boys would have been taken and made into little militia men. Something is fishy.
PSPS
(13,601 posts)PSPS
(13,601 posts)The story has now evolved to "his wifes rape and forced abortion."
kcr
(15,317 posts)PSPS
(13,601 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)Like I said in another post, all I see is a mention of them using cryptic hints in their letters and videos because they can't talk about what is actually happening. No one that I can see is claiming it was actually an abortion.
PSPS
(13,601 posts)NPR broadcast a segment this morning with Michelle Shephard who, herself, had interviewed Boyle. She said Boyle talked about the conditions the family endured, including being held underground and at times in cells no larger than the size of a bathtub. He also told Shephard his wife was forced to have an abortion, referencing the infant daughter he said was killed.
You can hear the interview here:
http://www.npr.org/2017/10/15/557863642/canadian-man-details-horrors-family-endured-in-years-held-by-haqqani-network
kcr
(15,317 posts)"In a brief statement during a press conference in Toronto, Boyle said his wife had been raped and their infant daughter killed while they were in captivity."
Michelle Shepard seems to be the only one who thinks it was an abortion.
PSPS
(13,601 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)It is still being reported everywhere, including NPR, right in that article, that Boyle is stating his child was murdered. The only person who states it was an abortion is Shepard. But even if it was a forced abortion, it's still pretty horrific.
Of course, it's horrific any way you put it. But Boyle's use of the word "murdered" has a different connotation. They discuss this very issue in the interview. You should listen to it. It's only six minutes long.
kcr
(15,317 posts)It says nothing about it being an abortion. It does mention cryptic hints they gave during their captivity, one of them being a mention of an abortion.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)He seems to be radical, but not terrorist radical.
Igel
(35,320 posts)He might even support the Taliban. It was Haqqani that allegedly took him.
I'm hedging on that because for all the bad things we have just their word.
In August there was a crackdown on the Haqqani network by Pakistan. All kinds of leaders and others fled. Some were caught. They'll reorganize, to be sure, but they'll be weakened a bit for a while.
It was precisely during this time that the couple was caught in transit. Perhaps they were being transported to a safer place. Perhaps they were fleeing. Dunno. They control all the evidence, unless US or Pakistani intelligence has something on them. The Pakistanis aren't talking, and the couple went out of the way to avoid US jurisdiction--which might be relevant (of course, "might be relevant" logically is just another way of saying "might not be relevant" .
And, to be honest, it's a blip that will have no long or medium term consequences, and no short- or very-short term consequences that will affect me in any way or that I have any control over or say in.
Yupster
(14,308 posts)you don't marry someone you met at a beer bash or at work.
You are matched by your family with a suitable mujahadin family, often with a man that you never met before maybe in a foreign country.
The fact that an Al-Quaida family thought this man suitable to marry their daughter shows that at least they thought he was a supporter of theirs.
He probably has good reason to stay out of the USA.
I recommend the book "The Exile" by Cathy Scott- Clark. It tells the inside story of Al-Quaida from 9-11 to Osama's death. A lot of the book is about the family lives of the Al-Quaida leaders.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)And apparently, he was previously married to the sister of some Al Queda dude. Not that is immediate cause for suspicion, but I just have a strange feeling about it.
Cicada
(4,533 posts)malaise
(269,054 posts)Who would take their pregnant wife on a trip to Afghanistan?
Something is really wrong.
former9thward
(32,023 posts)when people try to make excuses or justify the Taliban raping women.
malaise
(269,054 posts)JI7
(89,252 posts)Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)But they are in Canada
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)and not just a little off, WAAAYYY off. Completely screwed up.
I cannot imagine willingly taking a pregnant spouse to somewhere like Afghanistan or Somalia or any war zone.
You're not missing anything. This guy was many cards short of a full deck.
edhopper
(33,587 posts)he and his wife as "Pilgrims".
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)edhopper
(33,587 posts)ain't so good sometimes.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)HOSTAGES, under the primitive conditions and the Taliban, reeks of MENTAL ILLNESS and/or SYMPATHY with the Taliban. Indeed, they had privacy for their marital relations?
Hubby also seems to like saying that his wife was raped often.
He's one sick puppy.