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PCIntern

(25,556 posts)
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:16 PM Oct 2017

As an aside I have three female employees who not only voted for Trump

but would beg to wipe his behind if he took a dump on their workspaces.

So they were uncharacteristically quiet and moody today and when I asked, "Are you OK...are you sure?", two of them snapped at me and one stayed "strangely silent".

Of course I was buoyant and talked sotto voce with my staff who are Democrats: that is the 'other' seven ladies. I kept saying what a good mood I was in and was whistling Chopin's funeral march all day. I haven't been smiling much due to political and unfortunately, some personal reasons, but I sure was on this day!!

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As an aside I have three female employees who not only voted for Trump (Original Post) PCIntern Oct 2017 OP
Makes you wonder how anyone can still GentryDixon Oct 2017 #1
Bad advice.. whathehell Oct 2017 #10
Don't worry, I'm sure they are not bright enough to know their classical music. Even one that famous kerry-is-my-prez Oct 2017 #35
Lighten up Francis emulatorloo Oct 2017 #77
What a fucked up thing to jump on someone with. Amimnoch Oct 2017 #192
Ah, a bit of DU irony SCantiGOP Oct 2017 #205
HAaaaaaaaaaa! And I always wondered if anyone got the reference when I use it. 7962 Oct 2017 #300
Thank you. whathehell Oct 2017 #208
Bad advice also because 2018 is coming up fast, and Hortensis Oct 2017 #227
... emulatorloo Oct 2017 #270
You lighten up, dear whathehell Oct 2017 #207
What would Trump do? Snake Plissken Oct 2017 #105
I agree. cwydro Oct 2017 #256
Its not nice to do that but I don't think she took advantage of "superior" position. LiberalLovinLug Oct 2017 #283
I believe you've misinterpreted my post.. whathehell Oct 2017 #289
Sorry, I did misinterpret LiberalLovinLug Nov 2017 #320
Workplace No Politics d206s50 Nov 2017 #328
Good idea. n/t whathehell Nov 2017 #329
"Funeral March of a Marionnette" would be even better. DavidDvorkin Oct 2017 #2
perfect! I'm impressed! renate Oct 2017 #3
There's a certain expectation in a work environment and being taunted for political opinion is wrong Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author whathehell Oct 2017 #7
What did he do wrong? He asked if they were ok ecstatic Oct 2017 #11
He is clear on his political stance. He understand theirs. He called them out and taunted. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #14
Were you allowed to curse him out (if you wanted to)? If not, that's ecstatic Oct 2017 #18
It is inappropriate for a work environment. That simple. I don't understand why you do not get that Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #20
Because every workplace is different. ecstatic Oct 2017 #29
Just like sexually harassing employee is wrong. Taunting employees making environment uncomfortable Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #55
I figured you'd go there. OP didn't sexually harass them. He whistled a song. emulatorloo Oct 2017 #85
What employer is going to allow this environment and call himself professional? Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #90
I might agree with you, but I find your claim that this is equivalent to sexual harassment emulatorloo Oct 2017 #94
I didn't say it was equivalent. You did. Like harassment of any kind, it is wrong. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #97
Read your post title, you equated it w sexual harassment. emulatorloo Oct 2017 #101
It is not equating it the same level, but equating harassment as wrong. We get sexual harassment is Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #107
I have zero tolerance for false equivalencies, especially when the end result is trivializing sexual emulatorloo Oct 2017 #112
I have zero tolerance for people with an agenda only hearing what they want to hear, Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #118
I have no agenda other than pushing back against hyperbolic nonsense. emulatorloo Oct 2017 #124
Harassing sexually, bad. Harassing in other manners, good. Ok. I was taught differently. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #133
I didn't say that. I asked you not to lie about me yet you did anyway emulatorloo Oct 2017 #161
I didn't not say sexual harassment was equal to this type harassment either. Doesn't seem to matter Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #170
I expect you to call me a rapist next emulatorloo Oct 2017 #180
Seriously? You accuse me of hyperbole all the while Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #184
A little taste of your own medicine, perhaps? Hyperbole is apparently fine when yr using it against emulatorloo Oct 2017 #261
"A little taste of your own medicine, perhaps?" Back pedaling much? Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #265
So now you're insinuating I'm in favor of threatening and abusive work environments? emulatorloo Oct 2017 #268
No. I am stating my position as an employer. Do keep playing the game. I see you doing it thru out Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #274
did you see this? Eko Oct 2017 #187
I had a genuinely abusive boss. Poster claiming whistling a song is the same as sexual harassment emulatorloo Oct 2017 #264
Well now, who is really guilty of false equivalency? 58Sunliner Oct 2017 #249
I am so sorry you had to go through that. That you were subjected to that makes us all here angry. emulatorloo Oct 2017 #267
You are just begging for a fight...what will stick? ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #127
Got caught up in his own OTT hyperbolic nonsense, now he's trapped in it and is super defensive emulatorloo Oct 2017 #153
Thank you.. whathehell Oct 2017 #210
There are other kinds of workplace harassement besides whathehell Oct 2017 #209
Your investment in this almost seems sincere. LanternWaste Oct 2017 #238
obviously they had talked politics before treestar Oct 2017 #236
I agree with you relayerbob Oct 2017 #142
Exactly. Thank-you. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #145
I just knew someone would be upset about this...they are lucky he didn't fire them for being so adigal Oct 2017 #167
So, you would fire someone with differing political views, or because you told them not to discuss Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #174
I'm being somewhat snarky, but really, I wouldn't want such stupid women who can't think critically adigal Oct 2017 #177
As an owner, I feel that tone I set is about creating a positive environment that will serve Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #183
I would not want racist pigs working for me at all.. stonecutter357 Oct 2017 #278
Some of this conversation is disheartening. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #279
Really. Firing someone for political beliefs? shanny Oct 2017 #175
i don't need racist working for me.... stonecutter357 Oct 2017 #277
Political beliefs racists? shanny Oct 2017 #288
HWP Attorney d206s50 Nov 2017 #330
I agree. 58Sunliner Oct 2017 #243
sexually harassing employee like this? stonecutter357 Oct 2017 #272
Said who? Reading comprehension and the lack of for an argument. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #275
Personally I made it a policy for myself to never discuss religion, politics or any hot button issue Kaleva Oct 2017 #25
Riiight. Sure. He was able to curse out a boss. Uh-huh. 58Sunliner Oct 2017 #246
if they were my employees I would have done more than that gopiscrap Oct 2017 #41
Then it works both ways. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #56
I agree, but I would never find myself working for some shit bag republican gopiscrap Oct 2017 #59
When living in a fucking red state, it is a matter of eating or not. Wow. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #74
You bring up cussing, then sexual harassment, now eating? ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #92
I'm in upstate NY, in a red area, work in a conservative school adigal Oct 2017 #169
Right. It makes work really lousy, right? As Democrats, we expect and work hard for more. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #176
Yes, it does. I have had anxiety when headed to work for 14 years now. NT adigal Oct 2017 #179
I do not believe any employee should have to live that way. I have worked in red most all my life Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #190
When your adminstration is conservative and very CAtholic, others Evangelicals adigal Oct 2017 #303
Your life is both righteous and pure. LanternWaste Oct 2017 #239
This is a hard one but I stand with PCIntern. Laffy Kat Oct 2017 #61
He took advantage of power and position to taunt employees. I am astounded. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #76
I can't believe you're being so rigid about this, when it's clear he was being *chipper* BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2017 #157
By smiling and whistling Chopin? Yeah, right. n/t pnwmom Oct 2017 #191
He knew what he was doing. They knew what he was doing. I have never gotten this pretending stuff. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #194
They knew he was happy. Tough. n/t pnwmom Oct 2017 #195
I think you do get the "pretending stuff." I think you get it very, very well indeed. LanternWaste Oct 2017 #240
I'm with you on this Lazy Daisy Oct 2017 #196
me too gopiscrap Oct 2017 #82
This is why we get called snowflakes... mreilly Oct 2017 #91
Being professional and a comfortable environment for all employees is being a snowflake? Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #93
His employees didn't adhere to professionalism mreilly Oct 2017 #96
Then as an employER it is his responsibility to address the employees not being professional Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #100
I 100% agree tammywammy Oct 2017 #106
Yes. Not hard. The job. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #108
Did you even read his post? mreilly Oct 2017 #109
I agree. He didn't even mention politics. Just asked them if they were okay. This is flat out loony. octoberlib Oct 2017 #152
Some people climb a hill, and then decide it's the one they must defend. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #254
And these days, folks will file a complaint on ANYTHING. 7962 Oct 2017 #301
No its not. Eko Oct 2017 #19
Thank you for your "concern" Tarc Oct 2017 #173
that's not cool man. Eko Oct 2017 #5
I have to say I agree TexasBushwhacker Oct 2017 #27
Why is smiling a lot and whistling Chopin workplace harassment? pnwmom Oct 2017 #140
Ask yourself why you think Eko Oct 2017 #147
Ask yourself why you think anyone would even recognize the whistled Chopin? I sure wouldn't. n/t pnwmom Oct 2017 #149
As with any legal thing Eko Oct 2017 #151
And how would you expect them to prove his intent? All they would even know is that pnwmom Oct 2017 #154
He already stated his intent to us. Eko Oct 2017 #162
On a message board they almost certainly don't read, using a screen name they won't recognize. nt pnwmom Oct 2017 #166
So if they dont know Eko Oct 2017 #171
Or, if you cannot prove it in a court of law, okey dokey. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #178
This whole thread has been very interesting Eko Oct 2017 #185
I was taught how to be a manager, that served me well as an owner, from an excellent mentor. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #193
Nice!! Eko Oct 2017 #197
Exactly. This is what being a manager is. I would handle it exactly the same way. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #198
Well, Eko Oct 2017 #202
Smiling and whistling in your own workplace has never been a crime. LOL. n/t pnwmom Oct 2017 #189
Sure it can be. Eko Oct 2017 #214
Please show me a single case won by an employee complaining that her employer pnwmom Oct 2017 #224
UCLA law good enough? Eko Oct 2017 #311
Nothing in here is remotely comparable to what PCIntern described: pnwmom Oct 2017 #313
Ok, no comparison. Eko Oct 2017 #314
Sounds like proposing "whatever you can get away with" whathehell Oct 2017 #211
He also said he was talking to the other employees in low tones. cwydro Oct 2017 #257
Promoting division in the workplace. Kaleva Oct 2017 #258
That would be considerate behavior if you had something to say to one employee pnwmom Oct 2017 #290
How about whistling hail to the chief after the last election? Amimnoch Oct 2017 #203
Yup. Eko Oct 2017 #204
Can of odd behaviour at your workplace. I wouldn't want to work there. Kaleva Oct 2017 #6
If you take advantage of your position whathehell Oct 2017 #8
Good to see others disapprove ClarendonDem Oct 2017 #9
Yes, I feel the same way. whathehell Oct 2017 #12
You should be ashamed of yourself hack89 Oct 2017 #13
+1 Kaleva Oct 2017 #17
Oh, please. These women voted for a pussy grabber. If they were so sensitive adigal Oct 2017 #181
So hostile work enviroments for women are not bad hack89 Oct 2017 #235
Nice straw man!!!!! nt adigal Oct 2017 #304
That is basically what you said hack89 Oct 2017 #305
Stockholm syndrome. Initech Oct 2017 #15
Lol @ whistling Chopin's funeral march! herding cats Oct 2017 #16
Excuse me: PCIntern Oct 2017 #21
You behave inappropriately and people didn't pat you on the back for it. Then you cuss them out. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #22
Cuss them out? ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #40
Excuse me. Eko Oct 2017 #26
Yes excuse you ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #42
lol. Eko Oct 2017 #54
Employers have a responsibility. If this happened to a Dem, from a Repub Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #57
Me neither. Eko Oct 2017 #60
PCIntern has been a loyal DUer for many years I enjoy reading his posts ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #66
Doesn't make him right. What would happen if friends gently told him, wrong. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #78
I set him up fro (sic) nothing ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #83
It is surprising indeed. nt cwydro Oct 2017 #285
I truly feel a bit like I am in bizzaro world, to be honest. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #286
I have worked in workplaces where people got away with nasty political comments. cwydro Oct 2017 #291
Of course he isn't ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #58
Really? Eko Oct 2017 #67
Yes really ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #70
I am the store manager. Eko Oct 2017 #75
The company that employs you and them ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #113
One tick? Eko Oct 2017 #122
Oh shit I didn't give you enough ticks? ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #129
I deal with harrasment Eko Oct 2017 #137
Little mite? You must be a brilliant manager ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #139
Well enough Eko Oct 2017 #141
Must be that mirror ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #144
Oh wow. Eko Oct 2017 #150
Yes that must be it..... ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #164
Doubling down. Eko Oct 2017 #168
Please do ChubbyStar Oct 2017 #172
This message was self-deleted by its author miyazaki Oct 2017 #216
Do Democrats have to drink wine? Jim Beard Nov 2017 #315
Nope. Eko Nov 2017 #317
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2017 #318
Lol! cwydro Oct 2017 #259
This reminds me of the Will Ferrell SNL sketch bluepen Oct 2017 #186
LOL! I'm glad I wasn't the only one! Coventina Oct 2017 #297
Kroger? snooper2 Oct 2017 #245
I think if it wasn't ok to do then you wouldn't of done it. I like how everybody Kirk Lover Oct 2017 #30
Key word Eko Oct 2017 #31
So, in your world only managers can make a hostile work environment? geardaddy Oct 2017 #287
Nope, Eko Oct 2017 #308
Managers are the responsible party. Tis their job and an hostile environment falls on owner or Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #309
Yup. Eko Oct 2017 #312
As a former employer, you are right. If they speak out and continue to do so, If they were to be Jim Beard Oct 2017 #36
exactly gopiscrap Oct 2017 #43
THANK YOU! mreilly Oct 2017 #63
I love this post nini Oct 2017 #114
Yes.. Bravo! mountain grammy Oct 2017 #125
+1 octoberlib Oct 2017 #160
+100 Duppers Oct 2017 #213
Excuse me, but if you are the boss, whathehell Oct 2017 #215
You get to set the standards of behavior. Mariana Oct 2017 #229
Love It!!! spanone Oct 2017 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author GulfCoast66 Oct 2017 #24
Like I care what you think and PCIntern Oct 2017 #32
Some are just stuck in a rut. Jim Beard Oct 2017 #37
White women voted for Trump 59% AngryAmish Oct 2017 #44
It was more like 53% which is bad enough mountain grammy Oct 2017 #135
At least the majority of College educated white women voted Hillary whathehell Oct 2017 #219
Nope..54 percent...A majority of white college educated women -- whathehell Oct 2017 #212
Right back at you GulfCoast66 Oct 2017 #49
To all the naysayers, from me: Jebus, people, lighten up. You act like you never met PCIntern before Hekate Oct 2017 #28
Thanks Hekate. nt PCIntern Oct 2017 #33
You are most welcome. Some days this place just irks the hell out of me. Hekate Oct 2017 #47
Pa harrasment laws. Eko Oct 2017 #53
Sounds like the few employees themselves created an "uncomfortable" atmosphere for everyone else Hekate Oct 2017 #65
As the boss Eko Oct 2017 #71
Please Hekate Oct 2017 #73
Eh, whatever then. Eko Oct 2017 #79
Reading down the thread, are you as amazed as I am with the complicity? We wonder how Republicans Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #80
Yup, Eko Oct 2017 #88
I am, too. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #95
Same. Amimnoch Oct 2017 #206
I have not met him, but I do know when a boss taunted me day after election, it made me physically Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #72
Go back and read the OP. You are spewing nonsense based on your personal trigger. Hekate Oct 2017 #163
I disagree with you. I think the OP makes his intent clear addressing the employees and what Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #165
As a shop Steward... druidity33 Oct 2017 #233
+1 mountain grammy Oct 2017 #138
+1 geardaddy Nov 2017 #319
Keep on whistling! democratisphere Oct 2017 #34
My thoughts... Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #38
There has been a large portion of women who voted against themselves in my town Jim Beard Oct 2017 #45
PCIntern says he's been taunted and lectured by the three for close to a year now Kaleva Oct 2017 #50
So maybe the usual atmosphere had been good-natured ribbing, but Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #62
No. What do you do as an employer? Sit there ass down and tell them no politics, Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #87
Bam! Eko Oct 2017 #102
So easy to judge when you are NOT an actual witness to the environment. Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #103
He bragged about making the environment uncomfortable for his employees. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #111
It was give-and-take. Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #115
This was harassment in a work environment. If embellished, then we were all played. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #123
A friend of mine was actually forced out of her job due to political differences. Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #132
I didn't talk politics or religion or discuss hot button issues at work or with my family. Kaleva Oct 2017 #119
Um, he's the boss.. whathehell Oct 2017 #223
That's right. He should have put a stop to it right off the bat. Kaleva Oct 2017 #241
Correct.. whathehell Oct 2017 #255
Whats the attitude on football games? No one is a team fan? Jim Beard Oct 2017 #39
Now THERE we have an issue!!! Texasgal Oct 2017 #310
Surely you aren't an Aggie? You in the Big 12? Jim Beard Nov 2017 #316
Unless you specifically brought up 45 and made them feel humiliated or that AJT Oct 2017 #46
Exactly. nt Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #64
Did you grab them by the.......? ornotna Oct 2017 #48
Yes, because that's all that counts as workplace "harassement" right? whathehell Oct 2017 #220
Obviously no ornotna Oct 2017 #242
Um, no whathehell Oct 2017 #253
You're funny ornotna Oct 2017 #299
Glad you had a good day. NCTraveler Oct 2017 #51
I don't talk politics sarisataka Oct 2017 #52
Same here... Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #69
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2017 #68
Attend charm classes, it's a good hobby uppityperson Oct 2017 #98
+ 1,000,000. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2017 #110
I literally can't believe what I am reading here. mreilly Oct 2017 #81
agreed gopiscrap Oct 2017 #84
I equally cannot believe a single Dem would encourage an hostile work environment for employees. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #104
WTF are you talking about? mreilly Oct 2017 #116
It's just good natured give and take. Chill. Kaleva Oct 2017 #131
PCIntern, I apologize GulfCoast66 Oct 2017 #86
No offense taken PCIntern Oct 2017 #89
As do I! GulfCoast66 Oct 2017 #121
Someone I went to grade school with just posted this from Trey Gowdy's Facebook. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2017 #99
Thanks for the warning HubertHeaver Oct 2017 #158
That is hurl worthy. snort Oct 2017 #159
I'm thinking like a jazzy, upbeat scat version of Chopin's funeral march Blue Owl Oct 2017 #117
that's not an aside, that's an affront spanone Oct 2017 #120
Thanks! I learned a new phrase today! gristy Oct 2017 #126
Whistling and asking someone if they're ok is not harassment oxbow Oct 2017 #128
I support PCIntern 100% and we all need to stick together mreilly Oct 2017 #130
Republicans do that. We all need to stick together whether counter to our core beliefs. Like a safe Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #136
Are you out of your mind? mreilly Oct 2017 #143
I would not treat my employees this way. I feel a greater responsibility to them. That simple. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #146
Ok fair enough but... mreilly Oct 2017 #148
I'm surprised you still employ them. aikoaiko Oct 2017 #134
Good for you! octoberlib Oct 2017 #155
I am ashamed of every single one of you who breathlessly stepped up to condemn this man. mreilly Oct 2017 #156
Oh please.."condemmed"? "crucified"?? whathehell Oct 2017 #221
+1. Many are just playing a game of "I'm more liberal than you." FSogol Oct 2017 #252
It's more of a question of maturity and practicing sound workplace ethos Kaleva Oct 2017 #260
He can talk about his employees anonymously. That doesn't affect them at all. FSogol Oct 2017 #266
Sure it affects them. Kaleva Oct 2017 #269
And a couple of them... Hekate Nov 2017 #321
One of them is no longer with us. n/t FSogol Nov 2017 #322
Color me grateful. If at all possible, can you PM me their name... Hekate Nov 2017 #326
I'm with ya, mreilly! nt Lisa0825 Oct 2017 #262
If you voted for a RACIST pig you are a Racist Pig . stonecutter357 Oct 2017 #182
I love this! I can see being shocked, but it seems they knew in their hearts that he was guilty... C Moon Oct 2017 #188
I agree with a lot of people Motownman78 Oct 2017 #199
Sex was the other one. I was thinking earlier today, and had religion and politics. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #201
Key Board Warriors , my oh my ! Wash. state Desk Jet Oct 2017 #200
Just be careful, specifically if you have an HR department. roamer65 Oct 2017 #217
Meh. I would have fired them a long time ago. miyazaki Oct 2017 #218
Just be careful RhodeIslandOne Oct 2017 #222
Sue for what? Mariana Oct 2017 #226
As if nobody has taken a molehill and made a mountain? RhodeIslandOne Oct 2017 #248
Politics from any side don't belong in the workplace Raine Oct 2017 #225
I agree. n/t demmiblue Oct 2017 #232
I think you should let events take their course. A time will come when most people who voted Trump Doodley Oct 2017 #228
America is a hostile environment JustAnotherGen Oct 2017 #230
Now that you mention it, some of the trumpets at work were unusually manic.... lindysalsagal Oct 2017 #231
Props to you for... Pacifist Patriot Oct 2017 #234
You can always reassure them it's really not so bad. All his friends will be in prison, too. Vinca Oct 2017 #237
Very unprofessional behavior. HR should whack your hand, at the very least. n/t MrModerate Oct 2017 #244
Yes, news like this puts a spring in every liberal's step. Nitram Oct 2017 #247
A boss who contempously speaks of employees in a forum doesn't deserve praise Kaleva Oct 2017 #250
Yeah. I agree. cwydro Oct 2017 #263
Hey. How about all the employees here PCIntern Oct 2017 #280
It's the boss that sets the tone Kaleva Oct 2017 #281
Rub it in my friend Soxfan58 Oct 2017 #251
Now, now. Dont play with your food. Qutzupalotl Oct 2017 #271
HAHA joshcryer Oct 2017 #282
It's a shame Trump is so divisive. JohnnyRingo Oct 2017 #273
This. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #276
I get the desire, but probably not the best thing to do.... Chakaconcarne Oct 2017 #284
Wow! This thread went WAY OFF THE RAILS! fleur-de-lisa Oct 2017 #292
Newbies trying to dictate anything to an oldie but truly goodie dentist who lunatica Oct 2017 #294
I retired recently from a hospital that has a religious affiliation. During the Obama years, japple Oct 2017 #293
.... ailsagirl Oct 2017 #295
Pink slip the three Swamp Cloggers Blue_Tires Oct 2017 #296
Wow...you opened a can of whoop-ass. Rustyeye77 Oct 2017 #298
What's appalling ... Hekate Nov 2017 #324
Ive noticed that theres no long term credit here at DU. Rustyeye77 Nov 2017 #327
Some of us have long memories for longtime associations here... Hekate Nov 2017 #331
You know, I'd like to take this opportunity to respectfully remind everyone, PatrickforO Oct 2017 #302
They should book a flight on Delta tirebiter Oct 2017 #306
I am a surgical nurse Texasgal Oct 2017 #307
totally agree! nt steve2470 Nov 2017 #325
I just think politics should be totally kept out of the workplace.... steve2470 Nov 2017 #323

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
10. Bad advice..
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:41 PM
Oct 2017

Taking advantage a "superior" position to taunt or harrass an employee for something not work related is not a good idea.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
77. Lighten up Francis
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:40 PM
Oct 2017

Doubt op is going to taunt or harass them. Certainly not going to grab them by the pussy, as you seem on the verge of insinuating.

 

Amimnoch

(4,558 posts)
192. What a fucked up thing to jump on someone with.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:19 PM
Oct 2017

"lighten up Francis"?? Just because the poster had the audacity to say "Taking advantage a "superior" position to taunt or harass an employee for something not work related is not a good idea."??

That's somehow an equivocation to insinuating that the op is going to say "grab them by the pussy."?

"Francis" isn't the one that needs to lighten up. It was good advice. Obviously given in good faith. It didn't deserve that kind of assholery kind of snark and insult.

I don't think the OP was over the top, or close to anything that would compromise standard business legal compliance ethics, but since when is recommending civility on DU something that deserves that kind of shitty response?

Shame on you.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
300. HAaaaaaaaaaa! And I always wondered if anyone got the reference when I use it.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 07:06 PM
Oct 2017

It DOES date us a bit!
At some point, someone will alert on it though, just watch.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
227. Bad advice also because 2018 is coming up fast, and
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:35 AM
Oct 2017

it sounds like these women just may be voters.

Anyone can be a barbarian; it requires a terrible effort to remain a civilized man. -- Leonard Woolf


whathehell

(29,067 posts)
207. You lighten up, dear
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:13 AM
Oct 2017

and read what's written, not what you imagine I "seem to be on the verge of insinuating"

LiberalLovinLug

(14,174 posts)
283. Its not nice to do that but I don't think she took advantage of "superior" position.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:12 PM
Oct 2017

Firstly, I don't interpret "harass" as being happy that a rapist, criminal, racist, megalomaniac asshole is a small step closer to being charged himself. Even if some of his cult followers are within earshot. If anything they should know just how despised he is. That others are not afraid to stand up and cheer his demise.

But also, are we in a "superior" position now just because Mueller has charged two of Trumps minions who may never testify against him?

I don't see that. Trump still rules with a super majority. He and the GOP are still daily dismantling every good thing Obama accomplished. To take a second and enjoy a small battle won...yes, even in front of the enemy...should be allowed for pete's sake.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
289. I believe you've misinterpreted my post..
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 04:19 PM
Oct 2017

The "superior" position I was referring to was the OP's because he is the Boss, not because he's anti-Trump. I do agree that too much may have been made of PC Intern's actions. I just thought that gloating too much may come close to "creating a hostile work environment", but that may not be the case, in this instance.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,174 posts)
320. Sorry, I did misinterpret
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 03:07 PM
Nov 2017

I hadn't read it correctly and thought this was about this persons fellow employees. I also wasn't even clear on their gender, not that that matters.

So I see your point that he is in a position of authority. But still, meh....I'm not above submitting to my baser instincts at times and after the absolute decimation of fairness and decency stemming from the debocle of last November, I'd have loved to be a fly on the wall in that office just to watch their sad little contorted faces having to bite their lips and just accept reality being shoved down their throats for a change. They can still claim the last laugh, that their very own pussy grabber is still in charge at the end of the day. Its only a tiny jab in the vast scheme of things IMO.

d206s50

(2 posts)
328. Workplace No Politics
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 04:46 PM
Nov 2017

As an employer, I never discuss politics and would never allow this in my business. Their politics is none of my business, and mine is none of theirs.
Same policy when I meet with clients.

Response to Mediumsizedhand (Reply #4)

ecstatic

(32,707 posts)
11. What did he do wrong? He asked if they were ok
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:44 PM
Oct 2017

Clearly they've made their political opinions known, so very light teasing is fair game, IMO.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
14. He is clear on his political stance. He understand theirs. He called them out and taunted.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:47 PM
Oct 2017

Whistled, sang a song, making it an uncomfortable place. I had an owner do it to me day after the election, two hours sleep and his "playing" with me that I certainly did not find, "funny". This person did the same. It is wrong.

ecstatic

(32,707 posts)
18. Were you allowed to curse him out (if you wanted to)? If not, that's
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:51 PM
Oct 2017

a problem. But if the boss/owner can dish it and take it, then I don't see a huge problem. The workplace isn't always going to be a sterile, joke-free atmosphere. Each place has different norms.

ecstatic

(32,707 posts)
29. Because every workplace is different.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:06 PM
Oct 2017

One size doesn't fit all. There are workersplaces (mine included) where people can and do joke about politics.

Also, re-read the OP. It's not as sinister as you're making it out to be. The whistling and pep in his/her step could have been related to anything, not necessarily the long overdue arrests. The only way the employees could link the happiness to the arrests would be if they're somewhat close (not a distant/ awkward boss/employee relationship).

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
55. Just like sexually harassing employee is wrong. Taunting employees making environment uncomfortable
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:26 PM
Oct 2017

is wrong. This is not rocket science.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
85. I figured you'd go there. OP didn't sexually harass them. He whistled a song.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:47 PM
Oct 2017

I understand over the top Hyperbole is the fuel of DU, doesn't mean it isn't bs though.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
90. What employer is going to allow this environment and call himself professional?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:49 PM
Oct 2017

This is not running a business 101, I assure you, however you want to argue it. Then jump in the mud with the rest?

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
94. I might agree with you, but I find your claim that this is equivalent to sexual harassment
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:52 PM
Oct 2017

BS. I wouldn't tweak these folk but insinuating what OP did = grabbing them by the pussy is garbage

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
97. I didn't say it was equivalent. You did. Like harassment of any kind, it is wrong.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:53 PM
Oct 2017

Making the work environment uncomfortable for any employee is wrong. Not rocket science. Pretty damn basic.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
101. Read your post title, you equated it w sexual harassment.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:55 PM
Oct 2017

"Just like sexually harassing employee is wrong." That's the title of your post I responded to.

Do not play games w me or lie about me

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029772676#post55

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
107. It is not equating it the same level, but equating harassment as wrong. We get sexual harassment is
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:59 PM
Oct 2017

wrong. Hence, using that term, just as this type of harassment, political belief is wrong. This is not hard. We Dems fight for the employee.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
112. I have zero tolerance for false equivalencies, especially when the end result is trivializing sexual
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:02 PM
Oct 2017

harassment as you've done by equating it with whistling a tune. It's bullshit and we are done.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
118. I have zero tolerance for people with an agenda only hearing what they want to hear,
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:04 PM
Oct 2017

so they can say how they have zero tolerance for defending something indefensible.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
124. I have no agenda other than pushing back against hyperbolic nonsense.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:09 PM
Oct 2017

As I said above, you have trivialized sexual harassment in the workplace with your false equivalencies.

Again own your bullshit and don't lie about those who point out your bullshit. Everyone one can read your nonsensical posts and dishonest smears.

Have the last word, we are done.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
133. Harassing sexually, bad. Harassing in other manners, good. Ok. I was taught differently.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:13 PM
Oct 2017

Harassing bad. Bullying, bad. My bad.

Done. Have the last word to dismiss and embrace creating an uncomfortable environment to employees, which Dems have always fought against.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
170. I didn't not say sexual harassment was equal to this type harassment either. Doesn't seem to matter
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:03 PM
Oct 2017

to you

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
184. Seriously? You accuse me of hyperbole all the while
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:11 PM
Oct 2017

addressing your comments to me in a more extreme manner. I will not be replying again.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
261. A little taste of your own medicine, perhaps? Hyperbole is apparently fine when yr using it against
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:31 PM
Oct 2017

others. Not so fine when someone gets hyperbolic at you.

I had a genuinely abusive boss. Manipulative, Liar, humiliated us in public, had loud screaming fits at us. The least harmful thing she did was having us rearrange all the furniture in our large space every two months because she read in some dipshit book it would shake up her employees.

Your nonsense cheapens and diminishes those who have actually been in an abusive work environment.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
265. "A little taste of your own medicine, perhaps?" Back pedaling much?
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:40 PM
Oct 2017

I am good championing a safe, non threatening, non abusive environment for employees. You disagree with me, that this Op went over the line. As I have the right to my opinion, you have the right to yours. I have luckily never had an employer that was so childish or thought a hostile environment was a good idea. I have never felt it a good idea when I was an employer. Other than that, there is not much to say.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
274. No. I am stating my position as an employer. Do keep playing the game. I see you doing it thru out
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 02:22 PM
Oct 2017

the subthread.

I get you do not have issues with what the Op did. I do. As an employer I would not behave in this manner. I do feel a greater responsibility and those that would do this to employees I feel are creating an hostile work environment. I AM allowed an opinion and preference in behavior and beliefs.

Now, how will you twist this to some kind of false accusation?

Eko

(7,318 posts)
187. did you see this?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:17 PM
Oct 2017

"Just like sexually harassing employee is wrong. Taunting employees making environment uncomfortable is wrong. This is not rocket science."
Because you are acting like you didnt.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
264. I had a genuinely abusive boss. Poster claiming whistling a song is the same as sexual harassment
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:37 PM
Oct 2017

really irks me.

No this boss did not sexually harass us. But this boss psychologically manipulated us, gaslighted us ("I never said that!), tried to pit us against each other by pulling one person into the office and lying about the other person, screamed at us, you name it.

58Sunliner

(4,386 posts)
249. Well now, who is really guilty of false equivalency?
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 11:20 AM
Oct 2017

As a rape survivor and a survivor of workplace sexual harassment, you are offensively jumping the shark.

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
267. I am so sorry you had to go through that. That you were subjected to that makes us all here angry.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:49 PM
Oct 2017

That the poster equated whistling a song with sexual harassment is what irked me.

IMHO his rhetorical tactic trivializes real workplace abuse.

I had a boss who psychologically manipulated and abused us. Screamed at us, lied about other employees to other employees, gaslighted us constantly. None of that is the same as whistling a tune.

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
127. You are just begging for a fight...what will stick?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:09 PM
Oct 2017

Cussing, sexual harassment, food, now intolerance. This is comedy gold!

emulatorloo

(44,131 posts)
153. Got caught up in his own OTT hyperbolic nonsense, now he's trapped in it and is super defensive
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:38 PM
Oct 2017

Of course we're the bad guys

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
209. There are other kinds of workplace harassement besides
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:25 AM
Oct 2017

sexual, and as far as "going there", you went there first by accusing me of "being on the verge of insinuating" that connection.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
236. obviously they had talked politics before
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 07:52 AM
Oct 2017

it is not like sexual harassment; don't make light of sexual harassment by making it equal to kidding around about politics. He could fire them if he was so evil - no law says you can't fire someone because they are of a political party.

relayerbob

(6,544 posts)
142. I agree with you
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:25 PM
Oct 2017

It's called "Creating a hostile work environment". It's ethically wrong and in many states can result in lawsuits.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
167. I just knew someone would be upset about this...they are lucky he didn't fire them for being so
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:00 PM
Oct 2017

stupid. I may have.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
174. So, you would fire someone with differing political views, or because you told them not to discuss
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:05 PM
Oct 2017

politics at work, creating an uncomfortable environment and they continued?

Cause if you fire someone because they do not believe the same as you, well.... Harsh. Some liberals would not be working in these red states.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
177. I'm being somewhat snarky, but really, I wouldn't want such stupid women who can't think critically
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:06 PM
Oct 2017

working for me. I wouldn't fire them, but I sure wouldn't tiptoe around them. It's my company. I get to set the tone as one of liberal, caring values.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
183. As an owner, I feel that tone I set is about creating a positive environment that will serve
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:10 PM
Oct 2017

productivity and profit well. I think what happened here is wrong. I would have called the women on it immediately if they had addressed the boss as the boss said they did. I would not have allowed that to continue, allow them to make a lousy environment for me and others. But, I certainly would not egg it further.

So when Trump wins next time? Do they get to go around doing a happy dance rubbing it in others face. I mean, it does not make sense, as an employer.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
279. Some of this conversation is disheartening.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 02:31 PM
Oct 2017

Is that all Republicans, all who voted Trump, all who voted Trump, didn't vote or voted third party allowing Trump? You would really discriminate in that manner?

Or are you simply stating if an employee proved themselves racist, that is who you would find a way to fire, or not hire?

d206s50

(2 posts)
330. HWP Attorney
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 04:56 PM
Nov 2017

Then you would have a hostile workplace lawyer in you office faster than a New York minute.
Better get out your checkbook.

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
25. Personally I made it a policy for myself to never discuss religion, politics or any hot button issue
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:00 PM
Oct 2017

I was a blank slate at every workplace. The primary task was getting the job done and I didn't want anything to interfere with that.

58Sunliner

(4,386 posts)
246. Riiight. Sure. He was able to curse out a boss. Uh-huh.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 11:11 AM
Oct 2017

That's a reality many of us have, with no repercussions.

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
41. if they were my employees I would have done more than that
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:18 PM
Oct 2017

if I owned the company I would have found a way to fire them

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
59. I agree, but I would never find myself working for some shit bag republican
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:31 PM
Oct 2017

I have always worked for the State or in progressive churches/church agencies because I know what I am like and I would have popped off and gotten fired

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
169. I'm in upstate NY, in a red area, work in a conservative school
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:03 PM
Oct 2017

Lots of Republicans and evangelical Christians. Ugh. Phonies.

I put up with a LOT of crap, including the most blatant sexism you could believe.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
176. Right. It makes work really lousy, right? As Democrats, we expect and work hard for more.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:06 PM
Oct 2017

That is all I am saying.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
190. I do not believe any employee should have to live that way. I have worked in red most all my life
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:18 PM
Oct 2017

and I was treated respectfully. I have had excellent bosses and managers and they would never allow an environment that was hostile for political beliefs. Once, some fool man thought he was being funny and caused a ripple for three days until I addressed it, when I was ready, to relieve the anxieties that were created by this mans one faux pas.

I am sorry you have had to live that for 14 yrs. Maybe that is why I feel so strongly about this. It does not have to be, with good management.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
303. When your adminstration is conservative and very CAtholic, others Evangelicals
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 08:32 PM
Oct 2017

The management is a huge part of the problem.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
239. Your life is both righteous and pure.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 08:46 AM
Oct 2017

Your life is both righteous and pure. We are wonder-found.

Else, it would be the petulant irrelevance of third-grader to scold others on their behavior when ours falls so short of the mark.

Laffy Kat

(16,383 posts)
61. This is a hard one but I stand with PCIntern.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:31 PM
Oct 2017

And if we were talking about just regular politics, I'd totally agree, but....I mean, it's Trump. This is not politics as usual. Under 45 our country is heading toward fascism. Our reproductive rights are blatantly under attack, voting rights are rolling backward; our president actually ENCOURAGED police to beat people! I'm sorry, I say, gloat proudly.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
157. I can't believe you're being so rigid about this, when it's clear he was being *chipper*
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:40 PM
Oct 2017

No more, no less.

The circumstances of this orange monster are so different from anything we've experienced before in the U.S. as to require modifications of judgment. Similar to openly opposing Hitler--which we still have the right to do without fear of repercussions (well, mostly without fear.).

I'd say PCIntern was admirably self-restrained.

I wonder, by the way, if the trump loving "ladies" were as respectful of their colleagues as you rightly think they should be.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
240. I think you do get the "pretending stuff." I think you get it very, very well indeed.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 08:46 AM
Oct 2017

I think you do get the "pretending stuff." I think you get it very, very well indeed.

 

Lazy Daisy

(928 posts)
196. I'm with you on this
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:28 PM
Oct 2017

As much as it may have felt really good to do so, it's wrong. It create hostility and animosity

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
96. His employees didn't adhere to professionalism
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:53 PM
Oct 2017

... nor did he abuse those boundaries.

He didn't abuse them.

He didn't harass them.

He didn't fire them.

He gave it back to them. Meaning he stood up. Oh, he whistled a tune. I'm sure the little sweethearts will survive.

Anyone remember standing the fuck up?

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
100. Then as an employER it is his responsibility to address the employees not being professional
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:55 PM
Oct 2017

and not be a participant in the catty.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
106. I 100% agree
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:59 PM
Oct 2017

As a manager you're job is to manage. Which means if you have employees treating you like he says they did you manage the situation - you put a stop to it. As a boss or manager you don't behave the way the OP did either.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
109. Did you even read his post?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:01 PM
Oct 2017

It's literally like being in Bizarro Universe. This is like I logged onto Freepershitville.com instead of DU.

This ally reported that some of his Trump supporting employees were being pissy today.

Talked quietly to some of fellow political supporters.

Whistled a fucking tune.

And now we've got you recommending HR interaction if our pal didn't like them being Trump fans yada yada yada.

Can you stop? Is it possible for you to stop?

Donald Trump is out there, friend. Help us go get him. Stop this nonsense.

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
152. I agree. He didn't even mention politics. Just asked them if they were okay. This is flat out loony.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:37 PM
Oct 2017

GoneOffShore

(17,340 posts)
254. Some people climb a hill, and then decide it's the one they must defend.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:19 PM
Oct 2017

Or find a bunch of windmills that reminds them of giants.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
19. No its not.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:53 PM
Oct 2017

He is the Boss, they don't get to say what they want without fear of reprisal. Its harassment.

Tarc

(10,476 posts)
173. Thank you for your "concern"
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:04 PM
Oct 2017

Last edited Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:59 PM - Edit history (1)

It has been filed in the appropriate receptacle.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,202 posts)
27. I have to say I agree
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:04 PM
Oct 2017

Being a Democrat in Texas, my jobs have usually been around lots of Republicans. I avoided political discussions and I would be pissed if someone tried to drag me into one.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
140. Why is smiling a lot and whistling Chopin workplace harassment?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:23 PM
Oct 2017

I wouldn't recognize that funeral march or draw any inference from it.

I think you're overblowing this. After a long difficult year, many of us were happy today. That's all PCIntern was doing -- expressing his happiness.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
147. Ask yourself why you think
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:30 PM
Oct 2017

he was whistling Chopin's funeral march, was that because he was happy?
Also ask yourself this, was this said with no ill intent? "This reasoning is EXACTLY why liberals and Democrats lose every frigging time: you can't bear to dish it out"
Dish it out.
At work.
To employees.
By the boss.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
149. Ask yourself why you think anyone would even recognize the whistled Chopin? I sure wouldn't. n/t
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:32 PM
Oct 2017

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
154. And how would you expect them to prove his intent? All they would even know is that
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:40 PM
Oct 2017

he was smiling and whistling a lot. Not much of a legal case there.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
162. He already stated his intent to us.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:48 PM
Oct 2017

"This reasoning is EXACTLY why liberals and Democrats lose every frigging time: you can't bear to dish it out"
Even if they understood it or not does not make it untrue that he engaged in harassment by his own words.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
166. On a message board they almost certainly don't read, using a screen name they won't recognize. nt
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:58 PM
Oct 2017

Eko

(7,318 posts)
185. This whole thread has been very interesting
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:15 PM
Oct 2017

Hasn't it? I'm amazed at the people coming to the defense of someone admittedly harassing their own employees.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
193. I was taught how to be a manager, that served me well as an owner, from an excellent mentor.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:21 PM
Oct 2017

Not to mention, I have always had kick ass bosses that would never allow this in a work environment and it served all us well. That has always been my goal, when I was in that position.

Surprised as hell. Truly. lol. Knock me on my ass surprised.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
197. Nice!!
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:29 PM
Oct 2017

My job is awesome, my company is great, my employees are great and we don't tolerate harassment at all. I do everything I can to make the workplace as fun and conformable to everyone as I can. I would never, ever do what the op did. The op owes apologies to the employees involved, that is exactly what I would do in that situation, then I would have that conversation on politics in the workplace.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
198. Exactly. This is what being a manager is. I would handle it exactly the same way.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:32 PM
Oct 2017

We seem to be in the minority, lol.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
202. Well,
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:37 PM
Oct 2017

We actually have experience at it, a lot of the people posting don't. It's part of our job, not theirs. Doesn't make them right, just ignorant and wrong.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
214. Sure it can be.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:53 AM
Oct 2017

If you are doing so in retribution for something while you talk, discipline, or fire them yes it is. Key word of which the op has stated, in retribution. Maybe you should google employment discrimination before you opine on it, it would be helpful to the discussion.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
224. Please show me a single case won by an employee complaining that her employer
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:02 AM
Oct 2017

smiled or whistled classical music or did something equally harmless -- and that she just KNEW that her employer was trying to harass her.

You are the one suggesting google, so you do the googling. Show me that a comparable case exists. The burden of proof is on the person asserting that something exists.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
311. UCLA law good enough?
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 10:51 PM
Oct 2017

"Art and Music: Likewise, art or music that is seen as politically offensive, misogynistic, or sexually themed can lead to harassment liability. A U.S. Court of Appeals in Slayton v. Ohio Dep't of Youth Services, for instance, upheld a $125,000 damages award based in part on a coworker's playing "misogynistic rap music" and displaying "music videos depict[ing] an array of sexually provocative conduct." 52"
"In fact, speech can be punished as harassment even if it isn't overheard by anyone who is offended. Consider Schwapp v. Town of Avon, a Second Circuit case holding that "ten racially-hostile incidents of which [plaintiff] allegedly was aware during his 20-month tenure," of which only four occurred in his presence, were enough to create a potential harassment case. "The district court," the Circuit held, "erred in failing to consider the eight . . . incidents that did not occur in Schwapp's presence," including one "made prior to Schwapp's employment" and "two comments made during Schwapp's employment [but outside his presence] that were hostile toward minority groups of which Schwapp is not a member. . . . [T]he fact that a plaintiff learns second-hand of a racially derogatory comment or joke by a fellow employee or supervisor also can impact the work environment . . . ." 55"

http://www2.law.ucla.edu/volokh/harass/breadth.htm

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
313. Nothing in here is remotely comparable to what PCIntern described:
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 11:34 PM
Oct 2017

whistling Chopin, smiling, and speaking in a low voice.

No political language, nothing sexually themed, misognynistic, or racially derogatory.

There's no comparison.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
314. Ok, no comparison.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 11:50 PM
Oct 2017

"This reasoning is EXACTLY why liberals and Democrats lose every frigging time: you can't bear to dish it out"

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
257. He also said he was talking to the other employees in low tones.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:28 PM
Oct 2017

I dont think this was good behavior either.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
290. That would be considerate behavior if you had something to say to one employee
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 04:25 PM
Oct 2017

and you didn't want to disturb anyone else who was doing their work.

Good grief. No wonder they call Democrats "snowflakes."

 

Amimnoch

(4,558 posts)
203. How about whistling hail to the chief after the last election?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:40 PM
Oct 2017

How about whistling I wish I was in Dixie after the Charleston protests?

Taunting is still taunting even if it's done with a pleasant demeanor. The work place is one place where people shouldn't have to deal with that kind of stuff. Unless it is a political party workplace, like a DNC, or campaign office where everyone shares the same leanings.

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
6. Can of odd behaviour at your workplace. I wouldn't want to work there.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:32 PM
Oct 2017

You show contempt towards your employees. A couple of your employees snapped at you. A very hostile work environment IMHO.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
8. If you take advantage of your position
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:37 PM
Oct 2017

to taunt them, you become the kind of bullying creep that is generally despised. Don't do it.

 

ClarendonDem

(720 posts)
9. Good to see others disapprove
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:40 PM
Oct 2017

Of this type of unacceptable behavior. Democrats lose the high ground inch by inch when they act like this. Eventually just becomes a race to the bottom, which I won't support.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
13. You should be ashamed of yourself
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:46 PM
Oct 2017

A good boss knows how to separate professional from personal. Your behavior is extremely unprofessional.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
181. Oh, please. These women voted for a pussy grabber. If they were so sensitive
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:08 PM
Oct 2017

they never would have voted for a sex offender.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
235. So hostile work enviroments for women are not bad
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 07:51 AM
Oct 2017

if the boss feels strongly about it and the women believe the wrong things.

I assume that is a universal standard that all bosses can adopt? Can't imagine you would hold to double standards.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
305. That is basically what you said
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 09:16 PM
Oct 2017

If women believe certain things it is ok to create a hostile work environment to punish them.

Initech

(100,080 posts)
15. Stockholm syndrome.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:48 PM
Oct 2017

The GOP has held this country hostage and bullied the opposition for so long that those who are under their spell have fallen for their captors.

PCIntern

(25,556 posts)
21. Excuse me:
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 08:56 PM
Oct 2017

I have been taunted and lectured to by these Trumpistas for well over a year now and if any of you had been the recipient of an employee's vitriol in the manner in which I have, you'd have fired their behinds months ago. Or you wouldn't because most of you are a bunch of self-righteous keyboard warriors who pontificate about how others should behave and then go into your workplace or your social scene and do exactly the opposite of what you post here and you know it.

I can only imagine any of you withstanding what I had to listen to on the day after the election of this sonofabitch and just taking it with aplomb the way I had to. You'd have come up with all kinds of retaliatory nonsense: I on the other hand gave them merit raises where appropriate and very good bonuses as well as respect and personal undestanding of each of their individual needs and none of them would leave me for a job anywhere else: the average length of employment in my office approaches twenty years so don't bother telling me that you wouldn't want to work for me.

This reasoning is EXACTLY why liberals and Democrats lose every frigging time: you can't bear to dish it out - you're all so "fair and reasonable" but in fact you just knuckle under to the Fox and Friends hostility and repayt it with kindnesses and respect. Tell President Hillary Clinton how important it is to take the high road when they go low.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
26. Excuse me.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:02 PM
Oct 2017

I am a store manager where we do 4 million a year in sales. I probably have 3 times the employees you have. If you have an employee doing that to you then you should have had a conversation with them a long time ago on inappropriate conduct at a workplace. It sounds entirely your own fault, and you don't get to turn your own management deficiency around and then conduct inappropriate conduct yourself and then use that as an excuse. You should take some harassment classes buddy.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
57. Employers have a responsibility. If this happened to a Dem, from a Repub
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:29 PM
Oct 2017

they would be up in arms. As a manager and owner, no way would I behave so imappropriately and to see others defend really is surprising to me.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
78. Doesn't make him right. What would happen if friends gently told him, wrong.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:41 PM
Oct 2017

Instead you set him up fro a law suit and the least, pay workmens comp.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
286. I truly feel a bit like I am in bizzaro world, to be honest.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:56 PM
Oct 2017

So every time someone sees it from the same angle as I do, I appreciate it more than I would generally. Just to know I am still sane, lol.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
291. I have worked in workplaces where people got away with nasty political comments.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 04:45 PM
Oct 2017

Only two, thank goodness.

Most of my workplaces have been professional and respectful to all employees, as it should be.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
67. Really?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:35 PM
Oct 2017

So when I hire them they are not my employees? When I have to fire them they are not my employees? Who's are they? My district managers? My regional managers? The CEO of the company? The Boards? Give me a break.

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
113. The company that employs you and them
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:02 PM
Oct 2017

Store manager is just one tick higher than they are. You must be an excellent manager!

Eko

(7,318 posts)
122. One tick?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:08 PM
Oct 2017

right,,,,,,,,,, 5 ticks would be correct. Well, the way I look at it, and granted you may think differently, but the person who hired me, and the person who can fire me on their own, is my boss, and I am their employee. Another way is the person that I schedule, discipline and am responsible for where no one else is responsible for is my employee. Im sure you are right though, lol.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
137. I deal with harrasment
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:19 PM
Oct 2017

as part of my profession every day, keeping an eye out for it, talking to customers that harass my employees, guiding conversations away from uncomfortable subjects, talking with my employees about it, taking classes about it, even dealing with actual charges of harassment at the workplace and dealing with it abiding by laws and company policies every blue moon. You? Nope. None. Ya right, so go away little mite.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
141. Well enough
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:24 PM
Oct 2017

to recognize someone who doesn't want to have a conversation and just wants to troll.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
150. Oh wow.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:32 PM
Oct 2017

The teenage version of "no I'm not you are!!!!!!".
Awesome reply, I'm just floored with your intelligence and grasp of the subject.

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
164. Yes that must be it.....
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:52 PM
Oct 2017

But you keep responding....Hey manager...I made more money today than you will make in 6 months. Have a great night!

Eko

(7,318 posts)
168. Doubling down.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:01 PM
Oct 2017

Insulting someone for how much money they make,,, wow, I am not quite sure what kind of Dem you are but maybe you should go drink some wine. I believe you will be the very first person that I will put on ignore in my over 6 years on here, and it is well deserved buddy.

Response to ChubbyStar (Reply #172)

Response to ChubbyStar (Reply #164)

bluepen

(620 posts)
186. This reminds me of the Will Ferrell SNL sketch
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:16 PM
Oct 2017

where he keeps demanding respect by shouting, “I AM A DISTRICT MANAGER!”

 

Kirk Lover

(3,608 posts)
30. I think if it wasn't ok to do then you wouldn't of done it. I like how everybody
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:08 PM
Oct 2017

just judges and they really know NOTHING about your office and it's workings etc etc etc. Now I can see their point but I would trust more your judgement if these little jabs were ok or not.

I made sure to slightly torture my Trashbag loving coworker today....this is the day! He is getting worn down. He was barely bleating back today. I danced around the friggin office singing happy indictment day to all. Ya know just water cooler talk.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
309. Managers are the responsible party. Tis their job and an hostile environment falls on owner or
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 10:46 PM
Oct 2017

management, for sure.

 

Jim Beard

(2,535 posts)
36. As a former employer, you are right. If they speak out and continue to do so, If they were to be
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:13 PM
Oct 2017

with another employee for promotion, I would give it to the Democrat.

Been there, done that.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
63. THANK YOU!
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:32 PM
Oct 2017

This is hands down the biggest problem I have with DU.

The fact these right-wing pieces of garbage gleefully dish it out - nonstop screaming and hatred and lies and endless, ENDLESS revisionism - but our side says "oh, no you can't dare possibly be mean to them in return (with the finger wagging and the tut-tut-tutting) since that would be mean and we have to show how much better we are than them and never fight back or lift a finger to defend ourselves or do ANYTHING that might piss them off or....."

FUCK THAT.

Ignore these naysayers, PCIntern. I'm with you. I have the flamethrower out too.

nini

(16,672 posts)
114. I love this post
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:03 PM
Oct 2017

I too am sick and tired of listening to their shit then to have them get all butthurt when it comes back at them.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
215. Excuse me, but if you are the boss,
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:53 AM
Oct 2017

you did not NEED to be "taunted and lectured" by your employees -- Why didn't you just nix the political talk to begin with?

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
229. You get to set the standards of behavior.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:48 AM
Oct 2017

It sounds like these people have been making for an uncomfortable work environment not just for you, but for your other employees as well. You may be willing to listen to Trumpsters give you a hard time while they're on the clock, but you should protect the rest of your staff from that crap. Lay down the law - No political talk on the premises, period, because it is creating a hostile work environment. Treat violations as you would habitual tardiness or any other disciplinary problem. That is a very reasonable rule and if they don't like it they can go work somewhere else - where they'll find that most other employers won't put up with that shit, either.

Response to PCIntern (Original post)

PCIntern

(25,556 posts)
32. Like I care what you think and
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:10 PM
Oct 2017

Yes. Gender does matter in an election where women voted for an abuser. You may think that self-righteous nonsense but it isn’t applicable in the real world.

And on edit: I’ll ignore the ad hominem attack and not report you because I’m a great guy.

mountain grammy

(26,623 posts)
135. It was more like 53% which is bad enough
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:15 PM
Oct 2017

don't make it worse..

I'll never understand it, and I'll never get over it.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
219. At least the majority of College educated white women voted Hillary
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:57 AM
Oct 2017

which is more than can be said for the majority of white college educated men.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
212. Nope..54 percent...A majority of white college educated women --
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:49 AM
Oct 2017

unlike White college educated men -- voted for Hillary.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
49. Right back at you
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:24 PM
Oct 2017

Report away. My nightmare is having a leader who holds my politics against me professionally. And to be ‘reported on’ for objecting strongly is no big deal.

You have power over these ‘females’ and they are not free to respond to your taunting. That is not cool. And do you think this is going to make your workplace more productive? Or more importantly, make them even consider the superior message our party has?

And really, be careful. We members of the Democratic Party have managed to get at least some workplace harassment laws in place. If you are posting things on Facebook like your OP here you are pushing up against a very dangerous place.

Have a nice evening

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
28. To all the naysayers, from me: Jebus, people, lighten up. You act like you never met PCIntern before
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:05 PM
Oct 2017

Based on my years of online interaction, I always thought he ran a perfectly clean office, with care for both employees and patients. I've been harrassed, and believe me, this (what he reported) is not harassment.

BTW, I myself was quite cheerful all day.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
47. You are most welcome. Some days this place just irks the hell out of me.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:23 PM
Oct 2017

Days of good news have been few and far between. Today is a day of rejoicing. Rejoice!

Eko

(7,318 posts)
53. Pa harrasment laws.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:26 PM
Oct 2017

"The law defines harassment as unwelcome comments or actions that create a hostile or offensive working environment or that the victim must endure as a condition of employment. "

https://www.lawyers.com/legal-info/research/pennsylvania/employment-law-in-pennsylvania.html

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
65. Sounds like the few employees themselves created an "uncomfortable" atmosphere for everyone else
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:34 PM
Oct 2017

And PCIntern just let it roll off his back like a duck. But he's being hostile by asking employees who look like reality is finally, finally setting in, if they are okay?

Spare me.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
71. As the boss
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:37 PM
Oct 2017

One of your jobs is to not let a hostile work environment exist. Letting something roll off your back is easier than having uncomfortable conversations about what is acceptable and not acceptable behavior at a workplace.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
79. Eh, whatever then.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:41 PM
Oct 2017

I take a class four hours long each year for harassment in the workplace but I'm sure you know better. lol.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
80. Reading down the thread, are you as amazed as I am with the complicity? We wonder how Republicans
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:44 PM
Oct 2017

can do it and who the hell is supporting their wrong. This is interesting and an education for me.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
88. Yup,
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:49 PM
Oct 2017

This is harassment in the workplace, pure and simple. I feel sorry for the people defending this and I am sickened by it.

 

Amimnoch

(4,558 posts)
206. Same.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:49 PM
Oct 2017

We go through LCEC (Legal Compliance and Ethics Certification) courses every year. My own work place is extremely diverse, international, and ranges from the extremely conservative to the extremely liberal. Despite this we work in pretty great harmony. Neither this, nor similar actions from the conservatives would be tolerated.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
72. I have not met him, but I do know when a boss taunted me day after election, it made me physically
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:38 PM
Oct 2017

sick. I was minding my own business, doing my work when I did not want to be in the office of 14 Republicans, with two hours sleep because I had a call from someone so upset it took most of the night.

Taunt me. Because it is funny.

Wrong.

One woman, the only other liberal, Latino, walked out of the office, crying, and called our immediate boss, and the whole world titled because this male owner would not shut the fuck up as he told me eventually I would be happy having Trump, following me down the hall, while I told him to leave me alone. Finally slammed the damn bathroom door in his face.. All my boss wanted from me was to get my work done.

Now, this poster is bragging taunting employees.

That is beyond wrong. I truly find it disgusting having experienced it with an owner, not my immediate boss so I felt pretty safe in telling the owner to get out of my face. Who knows about these women.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
163. Go back and read the OP. You are spewing nonsense based on your personal trigger.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:50 PM
Oct 2017

I worked for the campus Lothario at a major university. Why he never put the moves on me I will never know, but it may have had something to do with me being practically frozen with anxiety over trying to support two small children alone. When I moved on after 4 years he promptly seduced my replacement and gave her an STD.

I got a promotion and ended up working for a screamer with a volcanic temper. I lasted 9 months, cracked 2 molars, all that. The next two replacements lasted only a month or two with that bastard.

I refuse to look at the whole world through that lens. I worked for some really decent people in my time.

I'm sorry for your lousy experiences, but that is not what the OP was describing. All I can recommend is you try to separate one experience from another.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
165. I disagree with you. I think the OP makes his intent clear addressing the employees and what
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:54 PM
Oct 2017

his motive was. I called him on it. You do not agree. Fine. As an employer, I would not create that environment for employees to work in.

druidity33

(6,446 posts)
233. As a shop Steward...
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 06:36 AM
Oct 2017

I have to say, not all workplace issues revolve around such obvious wrongs as you describe. Many times bosses can be more insidious... leaving comments vague, walking by whistling a tune that has overt implications, leaving things for an employee to find, changing work schedules to inconvenience an employee, etc. I have represented people who would certainly consider PCIntern's behavior inappropriate. If someone reported his "behavior" at my workplace, we would have a nice sit-down and talk it all out. I work in a kitchen so i see that PC was careful with language, but not saying something doesn't mean you didn't imply it... and well, when someone gets offended, they might report you to HR or their servicing rep... often while making the "offensive" action seem worse than it is. Most of the workplace disputes i deal with stem from general dislike or political disagreements.



Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
38. My thoughts...
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:17 PM
Oct 2017

No one here is privy to the actual atmosphere at PC's office, except PCIntern. How could anyone know whether or not it is a place where good-natured ribbing is a usual thing, except that this time, the Trump votes are unusually testy?

Myself, I prefer to keep politics out of the workplace (along with religion), but not all workplaces are the same. I think it is very plausible that this was just a matter of someone being able to dish it out ever since the election, and being testy because now they have to take it.

Also, regarding the question about why he mentioned that they are women - I think it is even more mystifying that any woman voted for Trump, so I think that is also likely a pretty innocent comment.



 

Jim Beard

(2,535 posts)
45. There has been a large portion of women who voted against themselves in my town
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:20 PM
Oct 2017

so ribbing is called for.

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
50. PCIntern says he's been taunted and lectured by the three for close to a year now
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:25 PM
Oct 2017

His words:

"I have been taunted and lectured to by these Trumpistas for well over a year now and if any of you had been the recipient of an employee's vitriol in the manner in which I have, you'd have fired their behinds months ago."

This isn't good natured ribbing. It's a hostile work environment.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
62. So maybe the usual atmosphere had been good-natured ribbing, but
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:32 PM
Oct 2017

the past year, the Trumpistas have been going overboard. Rather than fire them, since they are otherwise good employees, he has tolerated it and now is giving some back. That doesn't seem (to me) to rise to the level of a "hostile work env."

This is just a message board. Some things may also be overstated.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
87. No. What do you do as an employer? Sit there ass down and tell them no politics,
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:48 PM
Oct 2017

that you expect to have a comfortable work place for all. This was a horrible OP. But you do not allow employees to make it uncomfortable for the rest, nor as an employer do you play the game back at them. How totally unprofessional.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
103. So easy to judge when you are NOT an actual witness to the environment.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:56 PM
Oct 2017

Poutrage on the internet is so rampant.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
111. He bragged about making the environment uncomfortable for his employees.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:01 PM
Oct 2017

He bragged and started an OP to brag.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
115. It was give-and-take.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:03 PM
Oct 2017

And unless you are new to the internet, you should know people usually embellish for dramatic or comic effect.

Again, poutrage.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
123. This was harassment in a work environment. If embellished, then we were all played.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:08 PM
Oct 2017

I am done. This was wrong for any employer to treat employees in this manner and then brag about it. Out on the street, in the grocery store. Family. Whatever, that is fine. But we Dems fight for better, in our work environment because we are dependent on that place, for survival. I take it seriously. I am so surprised so many defend this behavior.

But, I am done.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
132. A friend of mine was actually forced out of her job due to political differences.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:12 PM
Oct 2017

It started out as friendly banter, until Obama won, and the boss got pissed. He directly changed the way he treated her as an employee due to her politics - not just banter.

So I DO understand that this is a touchy subject, and I do not recommend discussing politics at work.

That all being said, I still do not feel that this particular situation rose to the level or harassment or a hostile workplace.

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
119. I didn't talk politics or religion or discuss hot button issues at work or with my family.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:06 PM
Oct 2017

I preferred to remain a blank slate. With my family, I didn't want to be part of any rifts or hard feelings and at work, the task at hand was the priority and I didn't want any potential animosity to interfere with that.

If I was PCIntern, none of my employees would know who I supported, my voting history or what party I belonged to. They wouldn't know where I stood on most any issue other then those issues which have an impact on the work place such as sexual harassment, equal pay for equal work, respect for gender and sexual orientation and such.

Texasgal

(17,045 posts)
310. Now THERE we have an issue!!!
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 10:47 PM
Oct 2017

Don't fuck with my college football team of choice! I WILL cut you!

AJT

(5,240 posts)
46. Unless you specifically brought up 45 and made them feel humiliated or that
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:22 PM
Oct 2017

their jobs were threatened then I can't imagine it being harassment. Feeling good isn't a crime.

ornotna

(10,803 posts)
242. Obviously no
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 09:22 AM
Oct 2017

But you knew that. I hardly call stating how good you feel and whistling a tune workplace harassment. see, I can do that too.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
253. Um, no
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:18 PM
Oct 2017

It's not obvious at all when it's automatically conflated with sex assault as you and some others here have done.

It's simple, really: If one doesn't think the OP's behavior constitutes harassment, one simply states that rather than falsely equating it to sexual harassment.. It's called "communication".



ornotna

(10,803 posts)
299. You're funny
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 06:58 PM
Oct 2017

My comment equates his actions with sexual harassment?
Seriously, you're reading way too much into this whole incident. Get a grip.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
52. I don't talk politics
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:25 PM
Oct 2017

At work. If others try talking to me I politely excuse myself and leave the conversation.

YMMV

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
69. Same here...
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:36 PM
Oct 2017

except with some actual friends (not just workplace acquaintances) who I know are like-minded. And when we DO talk, it is privately.

Response to PCIntern (Original post)

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
81. I literally can't believe what I am reading here.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:45 PM
Oct 2017

Good guy PCIntern is being assailed by some of you people for criticizing mindless Trump fans.

Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you critics??

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
104. I equally cannot believe a single Dem would encourage an hostile work environment for employees.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:57 PM
Oct 2017

Seems to counter the very basics of what we fight for.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
116. WTF are you talking about?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:03 PM
Oct 2017

He reported on some pissy Trump fans, talked to some fellow Dems and whistled a fucking song, and now he's out there making for a hostile work environment?

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
86. PCIntern, I apologize
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 09:48 PM
Oct 2017

And am about to delete my harsh post. Not worried about be alerted on, but worried about how social media makes it so easy for us to fight amongst ourselves while the world burns. Still think you were wrong, but we are in the same team. Have a nice evening.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
121. As do I!
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:08 PM
Oct 2017

But I have to remind myself when online that I am speaking to strangers. When BSing with my buddies I would not hesitate to tell them they are a shitty boss. And we would all laugh.

But the insidious thing about online is we lose all the comradeship and multiply the vitriol. Which is why I do not Facebook!

Still think you handled it incorrectly but will keep my criticism friendly.

And BTW, I do love seeing the trumpers rolling in their evil irony!

Blue Owl

(50,418 posts)
117. I'm thinking like a jazzy, upbeat scat version of Chopin's funeral march
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:04 PM
Oct 2017

Do, do-do-do, dee do do do do-do-do...

oxbow

(2,034 posts)
128. Whistling and asking someone if they're ok is not harassment
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:10 PM
Oct 2017

I can appreciate that others have had negative experiences around politics in the workplace but the worst thing you can accuse the op of being is passive aggressive. Given that it sounds like his employees have been rubbing the election in his face all year, it sounds like even that is minor for this particular workplace culture.

I would advise against trying to make others accountable to your own oversensitivity. Progressives need to strengthen up and stop sweating the small stuff in general, if they want to make any progress on the big issues threatening all of us.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
130. I support PCIntern 100% and we all need to stick together
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:11 PM
Oct 2017

... PCIntern did nothing wrong and while you might argue over the tactics involved I see nothing wrong with any of this.

NOTHING.

Oh, someone's going to say that whistling is a bad thing or something or whatnot and hostile work environment?

PLEASE. Grow older than 14, we'd appreciate it.

I'm going to say it straight up here.

If you're going to fight among yourselves instead of fighting Republicans, you're going to keep losing elections.

WE'RE going to keep losing elections.

Knock this shit off and figure out how to work together, and quit complaining some butthurt Trump supporters might feel life is unfair!

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
136. Republicans do that. We all need to stick together whether counter to our core beliefs. Like a safe
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:16 PM
Oct 2017

working environment.

I will not be a part of that.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
143. Are you out of your mind?
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:25 PM
Oct 2017

What did he do?

Did he grope?

Did he grab?

Did he harass?

You talk about sticking together - how the hell are you sticking together with us because you think this guy might have made some Trump supporters uncomfortable by... whistling?

Something they would have had to use intellect to piece together?

Context to assign to Trump?

Some actual realization that "OMG he's insulting us!"

By definition Trump supporters are fucking stupid. And there is no way in hell they could have pieced that song along with an attack on the orange shitgibbon.

Jesus Christ Almighty, on a day we should be coming together and celebrating you people manage to turn PC into a walking fucking joke.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
148. Ok fair enough but...
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:31 PM
Oct 2017

You said:

"We all need to stick together whether counter to our core beliefs."

He went counter to your core beliefs. You're not supporting him.

aikoaiko

(34,172 posts)
134. I'm surprised you still employ them.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:14 PM
Oct 2017

If I recall, you're particularly harsh toward your RW patients.
 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
156. I am ashamed of every single one of you who breathlessly stepped up to condemn this man.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 10:40 PM
Oct 2017

I'm just shaking my head figuring out why Trump supporters call us "snowflakes."

Because you will go off tilting at windmills trying desperately to prove how "tolerant" and "fair" you are. Even if it means vilifying one of our own.

PCIntern posted nothing incendiary. Nothing inflammatory. Nothing inappropriate.

He said he asked some Trump supporters at work if they were OK.

Spoke to some fellow Democrats about how they felt.

Whistled a tune.

And some of you crucified him for promoting a "hostile work environment!"

Are you serious??!

Today... the first day since Obama defeated Romney in 2012 that I've felt we have a hope in this country, this man shares his views with some of you?

And what do some of you prissy finger-wagging holier-than-thou types do?

You try to castigate and crucify him.

Not the Pussy Grabber in Chief.

Not his buddies who just got indicted.

Not the campaign staffer who just admitted Russian collusion happened.

This guy. Our guy. Our friend and confidante. Oh, he whistled something, big fucking deal!

I'm willing to go all the way and get kicked off DU if that's what it comes down to.

You critics of PCIntern are WRONG and you owe him an APOLOGY. And we should all be fighting in the same direction - towards Trump and the Republicans, rather than acting like snowflakes just the way these right-wing assholes assume us to be.

Jesus, God Almighty, people!

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
221. Oh please.."condemmed"? "crucified"??
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:16 AM
Oct 2017

Exaggerate much?

I think the appropriate word is simply "criticized".

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
260. It's more of a question of maturity and practicing sound workplace ethos
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:30 PM
Oct 2017

OP says, in a later post in this thread, he's been the target of his employee's vitriol for a year now. And look how he talks about his employees in the very first sentence of the OP.

How liberal one is has nothing to do with the situation.

FSogol

(45,488 posts)
266. He can talk about his employees anonymously. That doesn't affect them at all.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:44 PM
Oct 2017

That is not harassment.

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
269. Sure it affects them.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:56 PM
Oct 2017

Last edited Tue Oct 31, 2017, 02:28 PM - Edit history (1)

Note how they interact at the workplace. OP talks to the others in a hushed voice. His relationship with the three is in his own words, caustic and OP in return has no respect for them as shown clearly by how he talks about them in private.

I wish I could say more but it may be construed ad an attack on a fellow member but I think he could benefit from management leadership training.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
326. Color me grateful. If at all possible, can you PM me their name...
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 04:04 PM
Nov 2017

...so I can gloat in an unseemly fashion?

C Moon

(12,213 posts)
188. I love this! I can see being shocked, but it seems they knew in their hearts that he was guilty...
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:17 PM
Oct 2017

but they just didn't want him to get caught.
What is wrong with people?

 

Motownman78

(491 posts)
199. I agree with a lot of people
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:34 PM
Oct 2017

Religion, Sex, and Politics, leave that shit at the front door of the office. If the 3 women were celebrating after the election, I would have called them in to talk with them.

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
201. Sex was the other one. I was thinking earlier today, and had religion and politics.
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:37 PM
Oct 2017

But, I could not remember the other. Sex. I agree with you.

Wash. state Desk Jet

(3,426 posts)
200. Key Board Warriors , my oh my !
Mon Oct 30, 2017, 11:35 PM
Oct 2017

I always like the long view far better than the shortsighted easy end. The Trumpkins were saddened today ,indeed . Many more of them are becoming down right scared ,not because of the indictments ,but because everything they have seen thus far of Trump is not what they bargained for.

Some pretty weird shit even for some of the worst of them.
Worse yet, they really don't quite know where to go with it.

PC Intern's people do have a place to go with it, and that place is a friendly work environment.
The shit will continue to run deep and than deeper .
And the deeper it gets the more scary it gets .

It is not so easy for those who come into the know about everything they believed not being true.
Worse yet would have to be having no place to go with it.

Key board warriors .

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
217. Just be careful, specifically if you have an HR department.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 12:55 AM
Oct 2017

They can go and complain about harassment, especially if you are their manager.

So put thought into what you say and do, first.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
222. Just be careful
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 01:19 AM
Oct 2017

Trumpsters are vindictive pieces of shit who could sue you. They wouldn't deserve a dime though. Fuck them.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
226. Sue for what?
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:25 AM
Oct 2017

Asking them if they're all right because they're acting like they're down? Letting it be known he's in a particularly good mood? Especially if he never said why he's in such a good mood. There's nothing there.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
248. As if nobody has taken a molehill and made a mountain?
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 11:15 AM
Oct 2017

I'm sure they know what they were doing and know what he's doing too.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
225. Politics from any side don't belong in the workplace
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:19 AM
Oct 2017

don't know who started this in the first place but it should've been put to an end by someone in authority long ago.

Doodley

(9,093 posts)
228. I think you should let events take their course. A time will come when most people who voted Trump
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:37 AM
Oct 2017

will be ashamed to admit it. Let your employees arrive at that place without any form of harassment.

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
230. America is a hostile environment
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 05:26 AM
Oct 2017

All we can do is smile and be happy to the voters who declared it AOK to be hostile.

Smile, be happy, having a great day in the face of their tacit approval of the It in the WH -

That to them is hostile.

lindysalsagal

(20,692 posts)
231. Now that you mention it, some of the trumpets at work were unusually manic....
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 06:27 AM
Oct 2017

at the time I knew to keep quiet and just move on, but they were covering for their embarassment...

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
250. A boss who contempously speaks of employees in a forum doesn't deserve praise
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 11:50 AM
Oct 2017

And it doesn't matter what their political leanings are.

Wrong is wrong.

PCIntern

(25,556 posts)
280. Hey. How about all the employees here
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 02:33 PM
Oct 2017

Who speak contemptuously of their bosses? I don’t hear your sanctimony on those occasions.

Kaleva

(36,309 posts)
281. It's the boss that sets the tone
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 02:53 PM
Oct 2017

but if you could direct me to a recent thread where a member belittles a supervisor, I'll read it and make my opinion known and I thank you in advance for directing me to it.

PCIntern, don't take what I've said too personally as I don't know you at all. I find the topic, workplace ethos, to be very interesting but it's an abstract one and not specifically targeted towards you as I don't know the real you or what the real situation is at your workplace. You just laid out the framework for it.

I'm probably coming across as a jerk and I apologise to you as a living person, for that.

JohnnyRingo

(18,636 posts)
273. It's a shame Trump is so divisive.
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 02:21 PM
Oct 2017

The workplace shouldn't have to be such a battlefield in the political war.

It wasn't this bad, even when we had a black man in office. Trump has purposely laid the groundwork for an "us vs them" society and it's painful to watch. Having said that, it's satisfying to finally get a victory.

Chakaconcarne

(2,453 posts)
284. I get the desire, but probably not the best thing to do....
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 03:23 PM
Oct 2017

why risk escalation, especially if you have to live there 8 hours per day?

fleur-de-lisa

(14,627 posts)
292. Wow! This thread went WAY OFF THE RAILS!
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 05:04 PM
Oct 2017

I haven't seen this much bickering on DU over a relatively tame subject in quite a while.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
294. Newbies trying to dictate anything to an oldie but truly goodie dentist who
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 05:39 PM
Oct 2017

not only works very hard in low income clinics but also volunteers his services gets some oldies a bit miffed. but some people can't help wagging their fingers at every chance.


japple

(9,833 posts)
293. I retired recently from a hospital that has a religious affiliation. During the Obama years,
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 05:20 PM
Oct 2017

everyone ragged me something awful for being the only liberal in the surgery dept. It was esp. bad during the 2009 election. I would love to have been there today to celebrate their misery. I haven't kept up with many of the folks I worked with for 10 years because we were never friends, but on Monday I was tempted to send a "nonny nonny boo boo" to those some of those people.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
324. What's appalling ...
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 04:01 PM
Nov 2017

...Is the amount of sheer pot-stirring by people who don't know what the hell they are talking about, and are only too happy to jump on a long-time, respected member of this community who has built up a lot of cred as a responsible and thoughtful human being.

This "stone the witch" behavior does absolutely nothing for "Democratic core values" or unity or indeed the reputation of DU.

Disgusting.

 

Rustyeye77

(2,736 posts)
327. Ive noticed that theres no long term credit here at DU.
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 04:11 PM
Nov 2017

ONE MINUTE they love you.
next minute you're a pos dino.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
331. Some of us have long memories for longtime associations here...
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 07:20 PM
Nov 2017

We've been through some bad, bad times, and I for one remember who my comrades and allies are.

Strangely (or not) the people most inclined to shit-stirring against respected members of this community are those who have not been here all that long (allegedly -- some seem to know a lot of history after just a month or two).

Two of them from this thread have just had a pizza delivery. My heart bleeds for them.

PatrickforO

(14,576 posts)
302. You know, I'd like to take this opportunity to respectfully remind everyone,
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 08:18 PM
Oct 2017

because I have worked in a toxic environment before, how very harmful it is when a supervisor wears his/her opinions out in the open and forces them on subordinates.

It hurts, and it could just as easily be the other way around, with the boss being a knuckle-dragging MAGA Trump-turd. Imagine, if you will, your boss walking around and talking about fake news, the deep state and the 'lying' Dems. How would you feel?

I know Trump and his minions are traitors, and it is often difficult to find the right stream of invective to describe them, because they are so bad. But we don't do this at work.

Texasgal

(17,045 posts)
307. I am a surgical nurse
Tue Oct 31, 2017, 10:11 PM
Oct 2017

and work in a huge complex with other health care employees.

We are not allowed to discuss politics and that's a good thing. I actually prefer it. I could not imagine being mocked for my political views. It's work. I have plenty of other outlets to vent my displeasure.


steve2470

(37,457 posts)
323. I just think politics should be totally kept out of the workplace....
Wed Nov 1, 2017, 03:42 PM
Nov 2017

unless you're at the DNC or some other very political place. I just think politics is asking for problems.

Just my $0.02.

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