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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI am so Fucking Sick and Tired of...
The "Our Hearts and Minds go out to the victims of this tragedy"
Fuck that forever as far as I am concerned..
"Hearts and Minds" ain't gonna do anything to stop this shit!
Fucking Action? That's it!
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)PJMcK
(22,037 posts)The Wielding Truth
(11,415 posts)stollen
(419 posts)It means "we accept this behavior."
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,693 posts)which, along with $2.50, will get you a latte at Starbucks.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)MountCleaners
(1,148 posts)Having been the victim of a crime, I can say that we don't CARE whether you care or not. We want it to not keep happening. You don't need to prove squat, or say the "right" things.
If you feel the need to say the "right" things or act a certain way, you're being self-indulgent. You're making it about YOU and how YOU feel, and you don't want people to gossip about you and say you didn't react appropriately. That's not what matters to victims. What matters to the victims is WHY this happened, and how we can make it happen less often.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)MountCleaners
(1,148 posts)...after one shooting, and he said, "this can't keep happening," and he was visibily angry, and I was so grateful at that moment that we had someone in the WH who was thoughtful and UNDERSTOOD what the appropriate response was. This thoughts and prayers stuff is distancing yourself from the victims. Be angry on their behalf. Ask why it happens.
busterbrown
(8,515 posts)7wo7rees
(5,128 posts)I am not a victim of a crime like this, but if I were, I would not give two shits about your condolences.
I would want to know why you think that I was just another unlucky churchgoer that got mowed down, as if the victim should have known better after all the senseless murders by gun nuts, to not go out where innocents are slain.
You want to give thoughts and prayers, but I want revenge. I want lawmakers exiled for voting with the NRA. I want 2A idiots to admit their fetish for blood and machismo. And I want IQ and EQ tests for everyone entering a gun show or store.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Yeah the reason is they were shot, someone wanted to kill them
no puzzle clues needed
3catwoman3
(23,987 posts)...harder than, "Everything happens for a reason," and the various theme and variations thereof.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Irish_Dem
(47,071 posts)Oneironaut
(5,495 posts)Basically, the laziest form of feigning concern possible.