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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSalt Lake City jogger stabs man who groped her during morning run
Then she chased him down the street.
By Paighten Harkins
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A woman jogging Friday morning in Salt Lake City fought back against a man who came up behind her and groped her.
She was attacked about 6 a.m. in a neighborhood near 1700 South and 500 East, Salt Lake City police spokesman Greg Wilking said.
The woman was carrying a small knife in her hand and stabbed the man multiple times when he grabbed her.
After he was stabbed, the man turned and ran toward a nearby bus stop, and the woman chased after him, Wilking said. He then fled toward Park Street.
She gave chase for a little bit, and then decided to go back home and make the report to police, Wilking said.
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Wounded Bear
(58,685 posts)moriah
(8,311 posts)... and didn't catch him and KEEP stabbing ...
So I think especially in Salt Lake any jury would acquit.
Well, if the jogger looks like a typical person from SLC at least.
That was a fear for a friend who had to fire in a mixture of self-defense/defense of another/stopping a violent felony in progress. She was a lesbian who had crossed the county line from her residence to the country to help a coworker leave a DV situation.
Her home county wouldn't have held her orientation against her, but was far less gun-friendly. The county that had jurisdiction unless she requested a change of venue was very gun friendly and certainly believed women should be allowed to defend themselves or have someone else defend them if they're getting dragged out of the window of a car by a person who has already beat the crap out of them multiple times on record. They might not say much if they saw a wife getting abused ("If she's letting it happen since she hasn't left, not my business" attitude), but they'd certainly support a woman trying to *leave* DV.
Even if the country jury didn't like lesbians, they certainly did believe any 5'1 woman should be able to shoot a guy much bigger than them if they feel in danger. And if nothing else the prosecution's weak argument that she could have just let him drag the wife out of the car so self defense didn't apply meant she could put the wife on the stand. *She* looked properly helpless, was able to show records of the multiple times the asshole had beaten her, and express gratitude and fear of what would have happened to her if her friend had abandoned her to that.
She was acquitted.
Cicada
(4,533 posts)She can not be convicted and supporters will contribute to any legal costs.
meow2u3
(24,768 posts)Enuf said.
samnsara
(17,631 posts)...radio show. I got them for all my female family members last Xmas.
Oneironaut
(5,519 posts)- They may not be legal where you are
- They require you to be within melee range of an attacker, when you want to have as much distance between you and the attacker as possible.
- The blades arent long enough. I saw a video where one took effort to and barely scratched a watermelon.
- They require you to swing or move your arms, meaning that the attacker can grab them and take hold of you. If youre female, youre slower and physically weaker than men. Once hes got you, the device may be useless anyways.
- The point is to get away, not inflict damage. Inflicting damage should be done with the goal of getting away.
- They scratch, which is next to useless in a self-defense situation. Youll just make the attacker more angry. I would rather be alive than be dead and have an attackers DNA all over my defense weapon (assuming the attacker is dumb enough to leave it there)
- They give someone (especially female with a male attacker) the sense of having more power in a life or death situation than they really do
- They need to be set up (make a fist to shoot claws out) when theres so little time to think and act. The attacker will be right on you in the blink of an eye if you werent ambushed already.
- Most men can overpower you. You need to do anything to get away. Go for the groin and the sensitive areas. Trying to scratch your attacker requires too much precision. Getting away and to safety is the most important thing.
IMO, theyre little more than novelty items that will get people killed more than theyll help. Opt for mace instead, imo. Just my personal opinion.
Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)moriah
(8,311 posts)Mace has some distance capacity, but bad wind and you're screwed.
It's not much, but I keep wasp spray in my car. Won't help except perhaps if I'm approached getting in/out of my car, haven't found a can that fits in my purse, but it's completely legal and has range if I'm able to grab it and get out. It's not likely to be something someone would think to use against me if they were waiting on me in the car, either, unlike a tire iron, etc.
Oneironaut
(5,519 posts)I mean, it's not ideal, but I'd rather have mace than stubby spikes that barely go above your knuckles. At least you have a chance in that case. Tiger Lady seems to be more gimmick than practical, imo.
Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)- They may not be legal where you are
- They require you to be within melee range of an attacker, when you want to have as much distance between you and the attacker as possible.
- The spray may backfire on you. I've seen video where the person using it sprayed themselves.
- They require you to swing or move your arms, meaning that the attacker can grab them and take hold of you. If youre female, youre slower and physically weaker than men. Once hes got you, the device may be useless anyways.
- The point is to get away, not inflict damage. Inflicting damage should be done with the goal of getting away.
- They spray, which is next to useless in a self-defense situation. Youll just make the attacker more angry. I would rather be alive than be dead.
- They give someone (especially female with a male attacker) the sense of having more power in a life or death situation than they really do
- They need to be set up (undo a safety catch and then aim) when theres so little time to think and act. The attacker will be right on you in the blink of an eye if you werent ambushed already.
- Most men can overpower you. You need to do anything to get away. Go for the groin and the sensitive areas. Trying to scratch your attacker requires too much precision. Getting away and to safety is the most important thing.
Oneironaut
(5,519 posts)- Some mace sprays have a longer range (though the wind or style of spray may affect that). You dont NEED to be in melee range.
- You dont need to touch someone with the mace container for it to work. Its still a ranged defense weapon (unlike the Tiger Lady).
- Mace gives you more distance because it is ranged, so you *could* get away and avoid a physical confrontation (situation depending). Tiger Lady doesnt give you that luxury. I acknowledge that the wind is a major factor.
- Mace is not useless. I know you copied + pasted, but thats simply untrue. The attacker will become angry, but also temporarily blinded (given a good shot). Tiger Lady leaves all of the senses intact, with only the possible pain of a flesh wound in the event of a direct hit.
- I wont disagree that mace can also make someone feel safer than they are, but my gripe is with the concept of Tiger Lady in any way slowing down or stunning your attacker. It probably wont.
- My mace has a firemans top. Just point and shoot. No setup required.
- The last point is true in all situations, and is exactly why you shouldnt rely on just Tiger Lady or just mace. Mace, however, may give you more of an edge by temporarily depriving your attacker of sight.
Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)Thank you for your opinions.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Ilsa
(61,696 posts)Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)when he grabbed her and tried to force her into the woods. She beat him so bad he ended up in the hospital for several days. She got him help. Called the police, asked them to send an ambulance as well. She felt bad about hurting another human that way - even one that intended her harm. She said she was pissed off that someone would interrupt her peaceful time of day by trying to hurt her and "lost it". She said the more she thought of what he was intending to do, the harder and longer she hit and kicked.
The man had attacked other women in the same park over the summer. The police were watching the park but the woods around the park are thick with multiple ways in and out. Multiple routes of escape.
CrispyQ
(36,492 posts)She said the more she thought of what he was intending to do, the harder and longer she hit and kicked.
Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)All of us hoped we could do the same.
The man wanted to press charges against her, saying she misunderstood his intentions and attacked for no reason. He wanted to talk, he said. Not rape her. She had bruising finger marks on her arms where he grabbed and yanked her to the woods.
get the red out
(13,468 posts)He could have continued to attack women but she stopped him.
demmiblue
(36,875 posts)During the attack, it occurred to her this doesnt have to be a fair fight, which is when her self-defense training kicked into gear. All those little things that I learned in my life how to punch and everything came back to me, she told ABC. I started to feel like I was going to lose consciousness but I got another surge of adrenaline and I reached for the door and was able to get out. In the class she took just three weeks before, I learned, hit with hard bones to soft fleshy places so I just started hitting the side of his head.
https://www.thecut.com/2017/03/seattle-jogger-attacked-in-public-bathroom-fights-back.html
A very good battle-cry, imo!
Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)I wish all such attacks could have similar outcomes. Where the woman gets the better of their attacker.
ailsagirl
(22,898 posts)ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)I agree...enough is enough.
cannabis_flower
(3,765 posts)about walking down a street and this small guy attacking her. She pushed him in a ditch and she was able to run away before anything happened.
markbark
(1,561 posts)dpd3672
(82 posts)not leave them.
Good for her. And for what it's worth, runners HATE to be called joggers...
mythology
(9,527 posts)But really this sort of thing shouldn't happen. Not groping is easy.
ProfessorGAC
(65,136 posts)I NOT grope all the time, and it requires zero effort.
packman
(16,296 posts)Was only there once on a tour thru that part of the country and was shocked at the amount of homeless I saw. What with the Mormons and their shining temple and the whole thingy, I was somewhat taken aback. Guess I expected, in my own naïve way, that there would be no human misery in that city.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)sort of a destination for SoCal gutter punks who were living in the street. They all wanted to go there. Quite a few of them ended up heading that way.
Never really got a good answer as to why.
L. Coyote
(51,129 posts)asked his friends to teach him a lesson. They did the dirty work for her.
L. Coyote
(51,129 posts)My bet, he's a GrOPer!
marble falls
(57,150 posts)and just about anyone else who do not look at me, a middle aged white male. After all: who's doing the overwhelmingly most of the rape, molesting, beating ... etc but people who look just like me in demographic if not in general appearance?
I make a point of keeping a respectful distance and not be overly "interested".
Its not their fault but it is the fault of men who look like me directly and indirectly by other men who look like me who joke and diminish the legitimate claims of crime and objectification by those who do not look like me.
Diversity is LONG past overdue and the establishments of our system need to accept that fact. I will give extra and more positive consideration to the "otherness" of two candidates being otherwise equal if one of them looks just like me.
Trumps group photos of his cabinet and legislators he works closely works with in his machinations only prove it more than necessary.
I give much more credence to the victims of men who look just like me then to those men who feel its their right to victimize anyone who doesn't look like them.
Bless all women, children, PoC, ethnic groups who resist being objectified and violated by men who look like me or anyone else who feels entitled to take advantage of others. Bless all the victims.
niyad
(113,513 posts)Orrex
(63,219 posts)I'm glad that she wasn't harmed beyond the assault itself.
rockfordfile
(8,704 posts)DBoon
(22,395 posts)And rely on fossil fuels
A lump of coal leaves ugly black smudges when used as a weapon