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True Dough

(17,305 posts)
Thu Dec 7, 2017, 02:59 AM Dec 2017

This is the conundrum faced by victims of sexual harassment/sex assault




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Woman reports a predator anonymously.
"Anonymous accusations aren't credible!"
Woman reports under her name.
"She just wants fame and attention..."
Woman reports years after the attack.
"Why did she wait so long?!"
Woman reports immediately.
"What was she drinking/wearing/doing?"
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This is the conundrum faced by victims of sexual harassment/sex assault (Original Post) True Dough Dec 2017 OP
They should be the loudest voices clamoring to be heard Egnever Dec 2017 #1
Maybe because I'm older.. a forced kiss from a man, a grab of flesh at the waist flamingdem Dec 2017 #2
Agreed. N/t Horse with no Name Dec 2017 #4
Thought this would be about those who equate horndogs who like women Hortensis Dec 2017 #3
 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
1. They should be the loudest voices clamoring to be heard
Thu Dec 7, 2017, 03:03 AM
Dec 2017

Not cheering when no due process is given. They should be calling for all of these folks to face justice not a mob mentality unless we have completely given up on the law.

They should be clamoring for their day in court to take their oppressors to task.

My ears are open but what I am hearing is a mob not a call for justice.

flamingdem

(39,313 posts)
2. Maybe because I'm older.. a forced kiss from a man, a grab of flesh at the waist
Thu Dec 7, 2017, 03:11 AM
Dec 2017

these are not the same as pedophilia and rape.

I am female but not convinced by the wave of anger because degree is not being taken seriously.
Everything is being broad brushed.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
3. Thought this would be about those who equate horndogs who like women
Thu Dec 7, 2017, 03:14 AM
Dec 2017

with those who specifically don't and prey on them. But, there are many conundrums.

I disagree, btw, with those who are demeaning women by portraying all those come on to as victims, even happily consenting and conjoining women. Right now talking heads are equating Bill Clinton, whose zipper problem is inextricably combined with a genuine liking of women, with scumdog, creep, hostile predator Senator Bob Packwood, whose behavior was so appalling that he was forced to resign when no one else was back in the 1990s.

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