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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 06:14 PM Sep 2012

Romney’s Insensitivity To LGBT People: ‘I Didn’t Know You Had Families’

Source: ThinkProgress

Boston Spirit magazine has dug a bit deeper into Mitt Romney’s past interactions with LGBT people, particularly during his time as governor. Many of these stories are known: his firing of two state employees ostensibly for marrying their same-sex partners, his dissolution of the Governor’s Commission on Gay and Lesbian Youth, his blocking of an anti-bullying guide because it contained the words “bisexual” and “transgender,” and his testimony against marriage equality to the Senate Judiciary Committee after the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled the state’s ban was unconstitutional. But this new profile illustrates a more profound level of insensitivity to the experience of LGBT people than his past position statements suggest.

David Wilson and Julie Goodridge, two of the plaintiffs whose case led to the legalization of marriage equality in Massachusetts, described meeting with Romney to discuss their experiences. According to Wilson, “it was like talking to a robot. No expression, no feeling.” At one point, Romney remarked, “I didn’t know you had families.” Goodridge recalls her final exchange with the governor, which proved to her that he had “no capacity for empathy”:

GOODRIDGE: Governor Romney, tell me — what would you suggest I say to my 8 year-old daughter about why her mommy and her ma can’t get married because you, the governor of her state, are going to block our marriage?

ROMNEY: I don’t really care what you tell your adopted daughter. Why don’t you just tell her the same thing you’ve been telling her the last eight years.

Romney described the meeting to the press as “pleasant,” as Goodridge cried.

Read more: http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2012/09/11/831201/romneys-insensitivity-to-lgbt-people-i-didnt-know-you-had-families/

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Romney’s Insensitivity To LGBT People: ‘I Didn’t Know You Had Families’ (Original Post) DonViejo Sep 2012 OP
What an idiot... SoapBox Sep 2012 #1
You can't say it enough. He really is an idiot. southernyankeebelle Sep 2012 #4
Another example of how out-of-touch Romney is DesertRat Sep 2012 #2
what a dick..... dhill926 Sep 2012 #3
Just Another Day elbloggoZY27 Sep 2012 #5
“it was like talking to a robot. No expression, no feeling.” Hello, you were talking to a robot. olddad56 Sep 2012 #6
Willard,your Majic Underwear Wellstone ruled Sep 2012 #7
Clue-by-fours! Get your clue-by-fours here! sakabatou Sep 2012 #8
"Adopted daughter" was just another way to emphasize Gormy Cuss Sep 2012 #9
Another "you people" moment when transformational grammar in the deep structure is considered. gordianot Sep 2012 #10
OMG DemKittyNC Sep 2012 #11
God he is such a BASTARD!! smirkymonkey Sep 2012 #13
The 99% are not human in his eyes. Truly. nt valerief Sep 2012 #12
Especially eyes that view anything ONLY through the lens of what's good for business. calimary Sep 2012 #14
That's it..he is a certified idiot! goclark Sep 2012 #15
The ideal GOP candidate tonekat Sep 2012 #16
The hallmark of malignant narcissism is the profound lack of empathy, pnwmom Sep 2012 #17
my god, he calls meeting "Pleasant", as Goodrich cried...... BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2012 #18
“I didn’t know you had families.” Stupefying. Festivito Sep 2012 #19
He is a LOSER. xxqqqzme Sep 2012 #20
I am gobsmacked by how incredible tone-deaf this man is politically TrogL Sep 2012 #21

DemKittyNC

(743 posts)
11. OMG
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 06:39 PM
Sep 2012

Did he really say that? I don't really care what you tell your adopted daughter? My god how heartless!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
13. God he is such a BASTARD!!
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 07:41 PM
Sep 2012

I hate him more with each passing day. I can't even believe he said that. What a f**ktard.

calimary

(81,317 posts)
14. Especially eyes that view anything ONLY through the lens of what's good for business.
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 08:29 PM
Sep 2012

To hell with how it impacts families. What does it do for business - especially if the business isn't "comfortable" with a couple or a family that "doesn't look like them."

SHEESH.

You don't run a COUNTRY with a mind focused ONLY on cost-benefit analysis. You run for-profit outfits on cost-benefit analysis, because the reason for being is profit. The government is NOT built on for-profit motivation!!!!

tonekat

(1,815 posts)
16. The ideal GOP candidate
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 10:47 PM
Sep 2012

A tabula rasa, he would do his masters billing as commanded. No emotions to get in the way there. Prick.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
17. The hallmark of malignant narcissism is the profound lack of empathy,
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 10:52 PM
Sep 2012

together with grandiosity.

Romney's a classic.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
18. my god, he calls meeting "Pleasant", as Goodrich cried......
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 12:19 AM
Sep 2012

This sociopathic creep must NOT get the win.

There is just NO way!

god, I just am at a loss for words--who the hell treats other people that way????? Psycho/Sociopaths, that's who.

TrogL

(32,822 posts)
21. I am gobsmacked by how incredible tone-deaf this man is politically
Wed Sep 12, 2012, 03:30 PM
Sep 2012

How in hell did he get elected in the first place?

"I don't really care..." sums it all up.

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