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herding cats

(19,564 posts)
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 02:21 PM Aug 2020

Business partner of Falwells says affair with evangelical power couple spanned seven years

Source: Reuters

WASHINGTON – In a claim likely to intensify the controversy surrounding one of the most influential figures in the American Christian conservative movement, a business partner of Jerry Falwell Jr has come forward to say he had a years-long sexual relationship involving Falwell’s wife and the evangelical leader.

Giancarlo Granda says he was 20 when he met Jerry and Becki Falwell while working as a pool attendant at the Fontainebleau Miami Beach hotel in March 2012. Starting that month and continuing into 2018, Granda told Reuters that the relationship involved him having sex with Becki Falwell while Jerry Falwell looked on.

Granda showed Reuters emails, text messages and other evidence that he says demonstrate the sexual nature of his relationship with the couple, who have been married since 1987. “Becki and I developed an intimate relationship and Jerry enjoyed watching from the corner of the room,” Granda said in an interview. Now 29, he described the liaisons as frequent – “multiple times per year” – and said the encounters took place at hotels in Miami and New York, and at the Falwells’ home in Virginia.

His friendship with the Falwells eventually soured, Granda told Reuters, in part because he wanted to dissolve his ties with the couple and fell into a business dispute with them.

Read more: https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/usa-falwell-relationship/



Mr Granda has a more interesting version of the story than Falwell. The only person we're not hearing from here is Ms Falwell.

I'd love to know what was in those texts, emails and other evidence Granda showed to Reuters.
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Business partner of Falwells says affair with evangelical power couple spanned seven years (Original Post) herding cats Aug 2020 OP
'nother grifter bites the dust! stand by for "Jim Fakker" tears of repentance and claims of bringthePaine Aug 2020 #1
Is that what they're calling it these days? 'Business partner?' fleur-de-lisa Aug 2020 #2
I'll bet it involved some double-entry accounting, if you know what I mean. NT mahatmakanejeeves Aug 2020 #11
LOL SunSeeker Aug 2020 #16
At least Falwell didn't claim the pool boy was his "adopted son." SunSeeker Aug 2020 #15
Ew. volstork Aug 2020 #3
Pool boy. What's not classic about that? yonder Aug 2020 #4
Life imitates porn? apnu Aug 2020 #5
Well well well....Jerry Falwell Jr is a Cuck Pachamama Aug 2020 #6
And gets off on it! SunSeeker Aug 2020 #18
that's redundant waddirum Aug 2020 #30
No, not all cuckolds are voyeurs about it like this creep. nt SunSeeker Aug 2020 #31
Holy Crap :) BadGimp Aug 2020 #7
Yup. Sounds like a good Christian marriage to me. Was it all "missionary"? Wondering (not too much) Evolve Dammit Aug 2020 #8
ROFL mdbl Aug 2020 #24
Falwell is 58, this guy is 28. I'd say there is unequal power besides all the other unequal power. Maraya1969 Aug 2020 #9
Becki Falwell is 53 dalton99a Aug 2020 #25
Since the Falwells have ripped the band-aid off, anything else they want to get off their chests? NCDem47 Aug 2020 #10
Probably coke and maybe some Jeff Epstein get togethers..... OAITW r.2.0 Aug 2020 #13
Those damn gay people ruined his marriage IronLionZion Aug 2020 #12
Don't care what people do in private, but I hate hypocrites. flibbitygiblets Aug 2020 #14
Who! Wait a minute.... paleotn Aug 2020 #21
He is such a piece of garbage. StevieM Aug 2020 #27
"Important, smaller things I needed to do"!! central scrutinizer Aug 2020 #29
You can't eat just one. Politicub Aug 2020 #17
Going down in flames.... paleotn Aug 2020 #19
I could care less if he likes to watch his wife get pounded. Just don't be a fucking hypocrite! OverBurn Aug 2020 #20
I did not have "religious leader outed as a cuckhold" on my 2020 bingo card. sobenji Aug 2020 #22
Remember when Ted Haggard said Christians have the best sex of anyone mdbl Aug 2020 #23
LOL, I was just remembering that. (eom) StevieM Aug 2020 #28
Cat Scratch Fever produces Seven Year Itch bucolic_frolic Aug 2020 #26
That's a lot of watching. Kid Berwyn Aug 2020 #32

bringthePaine

(1,728 posts)
1. 'nother grifter bites the dust! stand by for "Jim Fakker" tears of repentance and claims of
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 02:29 PM
Aug 2020

victimhood; check the wife for an NDA🤫? she can still testify...my guess is she cuts the deal
and waves from the dock as his yacht becomes a prison ship, maybe called the
"Jerry FallFromGrace II"🧐🤣

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
9. Falwell is 58, this guy is 28. I'd say there is unequal power besides all the other unequal power.
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 02:47 PM
Aug 2020

I can't find Falwell's wife's age.

NCDem47

(2,248 posts)
10. Since the Falwells have ripped the band-aid off, anything else they want to get off their chests?
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 02:48 PM
Aug 2020

Because I'm sure there's more about something. Get it all out in the open while crazy man in having his convention and the Post Office guy is getting grilled. Get that zoo of monkeys off your back.

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
14. Don't care what people do in private, but I hate hypocrites.
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 03:24 PM
Aug 2020
https://www.chicagotribune.com/nation-world/ct-nw-jerry-falwell-wife-affair-blackmail-20200824-oyjh7jazeballnxumtfjyko2au-story.html

Cue the victimization:

(Falwell) saying the man involved had been threatening to reveal the relationship “to deliberately embarrass my wife, family, and Liberty University unless we agreed to pay him substantial monies.”

(Falwell) stepped down after an uproar sparked by a photo he posted on social media that showed him with his pants unzipped, stomach exposed and arm high around the waist of a woman who was not his wife. Falwell has said the photo was taken at a costume party during a family vacation.

Ah, the old "costume party" excuse.

Falwell said he was seeking mental health counseling amid the “trauma” of the situation and that he remains “fully devoted” to his wife.

The statement said that “while her indiscretion may have been more obvious and apparent, I realized that there were important smaller things I needed to do better too.”

paleotn

(17,918 posts)
21. Who! Wait a minute....
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 04:38 PM
Aug 2020

Her indiscretion? The slime ball is tossing his wife under the bus in a desperate attempt to save himself? Somebody cue Tammy Wynette.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
27. He is such a piece of garbage.
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 07:25 PM
Aug 2020

She banged the other guy, at least in part, because it turned Falwell on and he wanted to watch. For most people I would say that is fine, if it makes them happy, and if everyone is consenting and not coerced. But Falwell is a hypocrite for spending so many years lecturing the rest of us about how evil we are if we don't defer to him and his stated values in our sexual choices and then failing to meet his own standards.

OverBurn

(950 posts)
20. I could care less if he likes to watch his wife get pounded. Just don't be a fucking hypocrite!
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 04:32 PM
Aug 2020

Hypocrite's are the worst. Standing up there in the pulpit telling people what horrible sinners they are, while the preachers are usually some of the worst offenders. I grew up in mostly Baptist and Southern Baptist Church's. I remember one of the Preachers ran off with the money. Another one ran off with a Deacon's Wife. The Preacher's kids were the absolute worst of the bunch.

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