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Judi Lynn

(160,555 posts)
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 03:42 AM Mar 2021

Florida Rep. Matt Gaetz told Fox News he let his adopted son Nestor go on spring break to COVID hots

Source: Business Insider

Florida Rep. Matt Gaetz told Fox News he let his adopted son Nestor go on spring break to COVID hotspot Panama CIty
Cheryl Teh 44 minutes ago

Florida lawmaker Matt Gaetz said that he had allowed his adopted son Nestor Galban to go on spring break on Panama City Beach to make up for not being allowed to go to prom or having a "real graduation."

Speaking to Fox News, Gaetz said: "My son is a college freshman. He had no real graduation, no prom, and I struggled with whether or not to allow him to enjoy spring break at Panama City beach."

"I allowed him to have an abbreviated one," Gaetz added.

"I did not have a good night's rest the entire time he was there until I knew he was safe, OK, and back at school."

Panama City is struggling with one of the US's most severe COVID outbreaks, according to WFSU Public Media, with the area's COVID cases being the sixth highest in the nation.





Read more: https://www.businessinsider.com/matt-gaetz-told-fox-news-he-let-his-adopted-son-go-on-spring-break-2021-3

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Florida Rep. Matt Gaetz told Fox News he let his adopted son Nestor go on spring break to COVID hots (Original Post) Judi Lynn Mar 2021 OP
Well... Mike Nelson Mar 2021 #1
This grown ass "son" has a father that he even use to live with JI7 Mar 2021 #2
Found a photo of Matt and Donald Trump, Jr. with Matt Gaetz's "Sonny Boy." Judi Lynn Mar 2021 #4
"You're not my dad" JohnnyRingo Mar 2021 #24
Nestor may be a Freshman in college, but he is a grown man, not a minor... SunSeeker Mar 2021 #3
Except he was never actually adopted, so why is the media going along with that story? nt pnwmom Mar 2021 #5
In my immediate and extended family we have two children and one adult who were adopted... NurseJackie Mar 2021 #6
Same Here Roy Rolling Mar 2021 #7
Yes! "Creepy" is a good way to describe it. --- Something's up. NurseJackie Mar 2021 #8
agree. riversedge Mar 2021 #26
AFAIK, he did not refer to him as adopted here... thesquanderer Mar 2021 #9
But he actually isn't adopted at all. His father is still living and he use to live with him JI7 Mar 2021 #11
Lots of adopted kids have biological parents who are still alive. thesquanderer Mar 2021 #16
Yes, but in this case he actually isn't adopted JI7 Mar 2021 #19
when a single man has a kid, you sorta would qualify it. mopinko Mar 2021 #15
Republicans will always let you know IronLionZion Mar 2021 #20
Maybe Nestor is a cover for something else. ananda Mar 2021 #21
I've heard this done many times. People will refer to "so-and-so's adopted son." Nothing new. shrike3 Mar 2021 #28
Yup stevil Mar 2021 #29
Do you know what else is weird? Saying that he's your life. mahina Mar 2021 #35
You are correct. My little gray cells tell me things are not all that they appear to be. NurseJackie Mar 2021 #36
More evidence that Gaetz still doesn't understand covid... thesquanderer Mar 2021 #10
He's not bright enough to figure that out Evolve Dammit Mar 2021 #13
I just can't help thinking the anuerysm that fox/oann/newsmax would be having if Joe Biden had catbyte Mar 2021 #12
seriously Evolve Dammit Mar 2021 #14
Yeah, they'd be saying he was more like Falwell's 'pool boy'. nt woodsprite Mar 2021 #17
+1 dalton99a Mar 2021 #18
It's OK when cons do it. Like when Ted Nugent "adopted" a 17 year old girl. robertpaulsen Mar 2021 #32
feels creepy. AllaN01Bear Mar 2021 #22
Gaetz is officially a creep. ancianita Mar 2021 #23
'Secret son' for several years. keithbvadu2 Mar 2021 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author left-of-center2012 Mar 2021 #27
Fascinating... thanks for the background info. (It's all very fishy.) NurseJackie Mar 2021 #30
I believe he claimed it was his ex girlfriend's brother at one point BradAllison Mar 2021 #31
Free Nestor! NathanJenkins Mar 2021 #33
How would that headline read if it was changed to is not adopted and nonbiological son mahina Mar 2021 #34
It's creepy from any angle one chooses to look at it... NurseJackie Mar 2021 #37

Judi Lynn

(160,555 posts)
4. Found a photo of Matt and Donald Trump, Jr. with Matt Gaetz's "Sonny Boy."
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 05:35 AM
Mar 2021


Does he still bounce him on his knee?

Would he have adopted him if he looked like a Republican?

JohnnyRingo

(18,636 posts)
24. "You're not my dad"
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 10:28 AM
Mar 2021

"...I'm 19 years old, and you can't stop me."

Nestor probably told Gaetz he was going and that was it.

SunSeeker

(51,576 posts)
3. Nestor may be a Freshman in college, but he is a grown man, not a minor...
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 05:31 AM
Mar 2021

And I doubt Nestor would continue letting Gaetz call him his "son" if Gaetz put too many restrictions on him. So I'm guessing Gaetz didn't have much choice but to "let" Nestor do what he wants.



NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
6. In my immediate and extended family we have two children and one adult who were adopted...
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 06:26 AM
Mar 2021

... and except when "adoption" is the topic, we NEVER differentiate and label ANY of them as being an "adopted son" or an "adopted daughter". Nobody ever said: "This is my son John, and my adopted-daughter Jane."

Are we abnormal? Is it now trendy to make that distinction?

Why would he do that as often as he does? Does his "adopted son" call him "Daddy"? Is he really (legally) adopted? Or is this just a socially-acceptable cover story for some other relationship? Or maybe it's intended to keep people from jumping to the wrong conclusion about their relationship. I don't know.

What I do know, however, is this: it's bizarre.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
8. Yes! "Creepy" is a good way to describe it. --- Something's up.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 07:38 AM
Mar 2021

It's fishy. I'm afraid I can't take him at his word. I know it's a big world with many different family dynamics... but this is certainly not a "father-son" relationship that resembles any I've seen before.

The continual references to "adopted son" raises eyebrows more than just admitting he's some sort of protégé.


A protégé is a person who receives special protection and promotion from someone more established in a field. If your boss introduces you as his newest protégé, you're off to a good start in your career.

Essentially, a protégé is a teacher’s pet, someone who is given special status or favors. Often, the word is used for someone who has special standout talent and is taken up as an upcoming star or powerhouse. The word’s original associations, however, have nothing to do with talent and everything to do with how a person treats the protégé — the source of the word means “protection.”

thesquanderer

(11,990 posts)
9. AFAIK, he did not refer to him as adopted here...
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 07:46 AM
Mar 2021

...though the headline writer at Business Insider did.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
11. But he actually isn't adopted at all. His father is still living and he use to live with him
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 07:54 AM
Mar 2021

the whole Gaetz and "son" thing is bs .

thesquanderer

(11,990 posts)
16. Lots of adopted kids have biological parents who are still alive.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 08:42 AM
Mar 2021

Adopted doesn't mean they were orphaned.

mopinko

(70,144 posts)
15. when a single man has a kid, you sorta would qualify it.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 08:22 AM
Mar 2021

a couple, not so much.
since it isnt a legal adoption, tho, they should put the word in quotes.

i agree the whole thing smells funny, tho.

IronLionZion

(45,466 posts)
20. Republicans will always let you know
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 09:05 AM
Mar 2021

Matt Gaetz is a weird dude and likes saying he has an adopted Latino son. Amy Coney Barrett loves pointing out her adopted kids are black.

ananda

(28,868 posts)
21. Maybe Nestor is a cover for something else.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 09:11 AM
Mar 2021

Gaetz is clearly outside the norm on something
he wants to keep secret.

shrike3

(3,662 posts)
28. I've heard this done many times. People will refer to "so-and-so's adopted son." Nothing new.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 11:14 AM
Mar 2021

When George Burns died, his news obituary said that his adopted son was at his side. Rosie O'Donnell, whom I don't care for, said something I actually agreed with. She said, "When does he get to stop being the adopted son?"

I make no speculation as to the relationship between Gaetz and Nestor.

stevil

(1,537 posts)
29. Yup
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 11:50 AM
Mar 2021

It's a non-issue unless it's brought up and my family (I'm adopted) is very protective of me. This is not normal.

mahina

(17,676 posts)
35. Do you know what else is weird? Saying that he's your life.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 09:15 PM
Mar 2021

I can’t imagine saying that about my kids. It’s just weird

thesquanderer

(11,990 posts)
10. More evidence that Gaetz still doesn't understand covid...
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 07:52 AM
Mar 2021

"I did not have a good night's rest the entire time he was there until I knew he was safe, OK, and back at school."

How about, not feeling at ease until two weeks AFTER he was back? Incubation period can be 2 to 14 days before showing symptoms.

catbyte

(34,412 posts)
12. I just can't help thinking the anuerysm that fox/oann/newsmax would be having if Joe Biden had
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 08:13 AM
Mar 2021

"adopted" a grown-ass man like that. They would've gone into overdrive with the innuendos, etc.

robertpaulsen

(8,632 posts)
32. It's OK when cons do it. Like when Ted Nugent "adopted" a 17 year old girl.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 03:30 PM
Mar 2021

Reich-wing media doesn't bat an eyelash at that.

ancianita

(36,110 posts)
23. Gaetz is officially a creep.
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 09:44 AM
Mar 2021

What a creepy story.

If this is the mental capacity of newer Repubs in Washington, we should have an easy campaign in 2022 of showing it to voters, with the message that their district needs much smarter people in DC in the future, and to vote accordingly.

Response to Judi Lynn (Original post)

NathanJenkins

(3 posts)
33. Free Nestor!
Tue Mar 23, 2021, 05:25 PM
Mar 2021

The nestor thing by Gaetz takes creepy to a level rarely seen.

Still, it must be said; "Free Nestor!"

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
37. It's creepy from any angle one chooses to look at it...
Wed Mar 24, 2021, 08:02 AM
Mar 2021

... something ain't right. Why this pretense? The whole thing seems fishy to me.

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