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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 11:58 AM Dec 2012

Fleming: Muslim Couple Left ‘Big Mess’ In My Restaurant

Source: TPM

Rep. John Fleming pushed back publicly on Wednesday against a Muslim couple who said they were discriminated against at a Subway restaurant owned by the Louisiana Republican.

Fleming told The Baton Rouge Advocate newspaper that Mohammad and Talat Husain were denied service on Nov. 21 at the Shreveport, La. shop because they left a “big mess” in the bathroom, provoked employees and were scaring away other customers.

The congressman, who owns dozens of Subways in the state, said Mohammad Husain’s allegation that an employee asked about his religion was untrue and a security video proves it.

“She never asked if he was Muslim. That’s simply not true, and the audio and video supports it,” Fleming told the paper. “It really seems to me he was trying to provoke a reaction and only asked to eat after he’d provoked a reaction.”

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This OP updates this OP:

Congressman’s Restaurant Refused To Serve Muslim Couple

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1014325956
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Fleming: Muslim Couple Left ‘Big Mess’ In My Restaurant (Original Post) DonViejo Dec 2012 OP
Big mess in the bathroom is "code" and was used against the Vietnamese here kickysnana Dec 2012 #1
What does that imply? JustAnotherGen Dec 2012 #4
That they are dirty, uncivilized people, wink, wink. n/t kickysnana Dec 2012 #5
In the Jim Crow era, Dixie whites were obsessed with keeping nonwhites out of their bathrooms. Ken Burch Dec 2012 #7
Um JustAnotherGen Dec 2012 #14
I hear you on all of that-only referenced that movie because of the bathroom thing. Ken Burch Dec 2012 #29
The employee was an African-American woman oberliner Dec 2012 #44
Was that info in the article? Ken Burch Dec 2012 #46
It's in this one oberliner Dec 2012 #47
OK, but that info wasn't in the link in the OP. And even in your link, Ken Burch Dec 2012 #48
Yes, it was oberliner Dec 2012 #51
I did find it in one link, but it was STILL only Fleming saying the employee was African-American. Ken Burch Dec 2012 #57
I used to stop at this Subway at least twice a week Fastcars Dec 2012 #61
OK. You can understand my reasons for suspicion on this. Ken Burch Dec 2012 #84
What difference if the employee was African American? obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #66
"Dixie whites keeping nonwhites out of the bathroom" oberliner Dec 2012 #85
Wouldn't be the first incident of internalizing oppression. intheflow Dec 2012 #73
Or maybe her version of what happened is different oberliner Dec 2012 #76
Or maybe... they just left a big mess in the bathroom? RevStPatrick Dec 2012 #12
There are slobs and there are crazy people but no ethnic group behavior kickysnana Dec 2012 #17
If he wasn't lying through his teeth, JoeyT Dec 2012 #18
They sure do. Here in Los Angeles, public restrooms are often kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #33
Not being able to flush used TP is true...but I've never seen it thrown on the floor. antigone382 Dec 2012 #38
You are lucky. It's a HUGE problem here, and completely inexcusible. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #39
It happens daily in my store. Codeine Dec 2012 #49
They are filthy because nobody maintains them.n/t kickysnana Dec 2012 #54
Not true. I'm talking about stores and businesses where you go in the AM kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #62
There are plenty of Americans who are unexplainably filthy. iemitsu Dec 2012 #70
Not true. People do leave messes all the time. NYC Liberal Dec 2012 #53
I've heard that used against Hispanic men obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #65
Ohhhhhh I see Congressman; Dyedinthewoolliberal Dec 2012 #2
Well, we could always just wait and see what the video shows before passing judgement? cstanleytech Dec 2012 #22
See below. Ikonoklast Dec 2012 #25
Check post #23 as I acknowledged that there. nt cstanleytech Dec 2012 #37
How long should we wait...? LanternWaste Dec 2012 #36
Doctoring video isn't as easy as WeekendWarrior Dec 2012 #45
+1 lunasun Dec 2012 #77
Fleming's answer to the question I was wondering... Enrique Dec 2012 #3
bazinga! TeamPooka Dec 2012 #6
I cant fault that logic to much though you would think if they were lying cstanleytech Dec 2012 #23
The mess in the bathroom is Fleming Smilo Dec 2012 #8
If the Husains sued, could the presiding judge in the case compel Fleming to release the video? n/t. Ken Burch Dec 2012 #9
Ditto. SoapBox Dec 2012 #10
Discovery lobodons Dec 2012 #15
If it doesn't get erased first. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2012 #31
well, republicans never lie rurallib Dec 2012 #11
Regardless Roy Rolling Dec 2012 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author Magleetis Dec 2012 #16
The good stuff is deeper in the article Ash_F Dec 2012 #19
I Just Want To Know Caeser67 Dec 2012 #20
Racist Pig jpak Dec 2012 #21
The employee was an African-American woman oberliner Dec 2012 #43
As if African Americans can't be racist against Muslims. intheflow Dec 2012 #74
They certainly could be oberliner Dec 2012 #75
If you're just looking for the employee's version, why bring up her race? intheflow Dec 2012 #87
Mostly because of some other comments oberliner Dec 2012 #88
I wasn't there, so I'm not gonna take sides like so many have Ter Dec 2012 #24
I also wonder if a man who owns dozens of restaurants benefits from discriminating... immoderate Dec 2012 #28
I doubt it's an official policy among his restaurants. Bradical79 Dec 2012 #32
you don't send food back at a Subway CreekDog Dec 2012 #30
You could sit down and say it didn't taste right Ter Dec 2012 #34
No, but I've been tempted to. Ash_F Dec 2012 #56
None of that was claimed oberliner Dec 2012 #41
Not enough info. Was the waste-basket in the restroom overflowing BEFORE they used it? patrice Dec 2012 #26
Read the actual account of what happened oberliner Dec 2012 #42
You keep saying that and Occulus Dec 2012 #59
Hence, "for what it's worth" oberliner Dec 2012 #60
Exactly obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #67
How can he prove that a videotaped/photographed mess Lawlbringer Dec 2012 #27
Hmm, big mess in bathroom... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #35
An African-American female employee was the one who asked the man to leave oberliner Dec 2012 #40
Is it impossible that things went down just as the employee said? MrSlayer Dec 2012 #50
okay story could easily be true JCMach1 Dec 2012 #52
Do non-paying customers have the right to use the bathroom? oberliner Dec 2012 #58
I don't believe so but they ended up eating at another subway. Ash_F Dec 2012 #68
I don't know if that means they were likely going to order there oberliner Dec 2012 #71
Wudu jberryhill Dec 2012 #81
Interesting oberliner Dec 2012 #83
Video? proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #55
It seems to me that if the Islamic man washed then went outside iemitsu Dec 2012 #63
If it was just before prayer time, then he probably did wudu in the bathroom jberryhill Dec 2012 #79
The wife was STILL IN THE BATHROOM obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #64
And even if the bathrooms were a mess iemitsu Dec 2012 #69
let me just say again. ritual washing before prayers JCMach1 Dec 2012 #72
That's what it sounds like jberryhill Dec 2012 #80
This seems reasonable oberliner Dec 2012 #86
And what is with those women who stand and piss all over the seat tavernier Dec 2012 #78
Yep. It's call 'hovering'. ronnie624 Dec 2012 #82

kickysnana

(3,908 posts)
1. Big mess in the bathroom is "code" and was used against the Vietnamese here
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:03 PM
Dec 2012

30 years ago. It is a big fat ugly. lie.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
7. In the Jim Crow era, Dixie whites were obsessed with keeping nonwhites out of their bathrooms.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:35 PM
Dec 2012

(See "The Help" for an illustration of that).

It's a way of dehumanizing those that the majority culture sees as different.

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
14. Um
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:11 PM
Dec 2012

I'm anti 'The Help' as a black American woman - doesn't really represent us! Read this book for more information:Melissa Harris-Perry's. Sister Citizen: Shame, Stereotypes, and Black Women in America (The author of the The Help even put me - the 'tragic mulatta' chick in the book. ). But I'll use my dad's Jim Crow experience for that. I've just never heard it used towards Asian Americans.

So - it's like how some white folks think we are 'dirtier' because we leave a darker ring around the tub (dead skin).

This Congress Critter oughta be ashamed of himself.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
29. I hear you on all of that-only referenced that movie because of the bathroom thing.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:54 PM
Dec 2012

Not holding that film or that book up as an exemplar of how to depict Jim Crow.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
44. The employee was an African-American woman
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:40 PM
Dec 2012

She is the one who is responsible for the actions described in the article.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
47. It's in this one
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 06:02 PM
Dec 2012

An African-American female employee, Fleming said, justifiably saw him as a behaving oddly and possibly being a vagabond.

She asked him to leave and, when he tried to force his way back in to finally order food, she then locked him outside, Fleming said.

http://theadvocate.com/news/4609500-123/fleming-rebuts-couples-subway-story

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
48. OK, but that info wasn't in the link in the OP. And even in your link,
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 06:54 PM
Dec 2012

We only have Fleming's WORD(and he doesn't make himself sound all that trustworthy so far) that it was "an African-American female employee". It's in Fleming's interest to imply that the employee who objected to the Husains wasn't white.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
51. Yes, it was
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 10:36 PM
Dec 2012

If you read the article linked to in the OP, you would see that it hotlinks to two other articles on the subject, one of which is what I provided for you above.

If Fleming is lying and the employee was not African-American, I would think this would be easily uncovered as such.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
57. I did find it in one link, but it was STILL only Fleming saying the employee was African-American.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 01:54 AM
Dec 2012

The fact that all we have is Fleming asserting the race of the employee might partially explain why he's refusing to release the video.

It's in his interest(given the long-standing Southern white obsession with potty purity)to put a black face on the person doing the exclusion.

Bear that in mind.

Fastcars

(204 posts)
61. I used to stop at this Subway at least twice a week
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 12:57 PM
Dec 2012

I would stop at this Subway on my way to work and I don't know that I ever saw a non-African American employee there.

There is usually much more to these stories than what appears in the press. I would be willing to bet that neither side is without blame, but I find it really hard to believe that the employee took it on herself to lock the man out for absolutely no reason other than being Muslim.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
66. What difference if the employee was African American?
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 03:56 PM
Dec 2012

That doesn't mean she can't be eitehr xenophobic or anti Muslim.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
76. Or maybe her version of what happened is different
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:07 AM
Dec 2012

Maybe there was no racism of any kind involved at all.

I'd love to see an interview with her.

 

RevStPatrick

(2,208 posts)
12. Or maybe... they just left a big mess in the bathroom?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:03 PM
Dec 2012

People do that.
I've seen it happen.
I used to have to clean it up, when I worked in restaurants.

kickysnana

(3,908 posts)
17. There are slobs and there are crazy people but no ethnic group behavior
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:28 PM
Dec 2012

I am riding in the car in Nashville with my Mom's cousin in 1999 and an all American African American couple are crossing at the light with a stroller and the cousin says "Those people are so dirty and ignorant" for no particular reason other than that they were there.

It is code, it is a slur. You are supposed to say uh-huh.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
18. If he wasn't lying through his teeth,
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:32 PM
Dec 2012

he'd be releasing the video that he claims completely backs his side of the story. He isn't because it doesn't.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
33. They sure do. Here in Los Angeles, public restrooms are often
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:54 PM
Dec 2012

in frighteningly filthy condition, with urine and feces all over the floor of the stall, and mountains of used toilet paper right there with it. Rumor is that poor folks from south of the border and possibly other 3rd world immigrants are not used to being able to flush used TP so they just throw it on the floor.

Even that doesn't explain why they leave such a filthy mess, because there ARE trash cans available.

antigone382

(3,682 posts)
38. Not being able to flush used TP is true...but I've never seen it thrown on the floor.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:57 PM
Dec 2012

Everywhere I've gone they had trash cans to deal with the used TP, and they were used for that purpose.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
62. Not true. I'm talking about stores and businesses where you go in the AM
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 01:46 PM
Dec 2012

and they are spotless and then later in the day after the hordes have had at them, they have crap all over the floor.

Human waste and TP don't just magically appear on the floor because somebody hasn't come in with a broom or mop lately. They are put there by PIGS.

iemitsu

(3,888 posts)
70. There are plenty of Americans who are unexplainably filthy.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 06:34 PM
Dec 2012

And I don't believe the behavior is exclusive to any one economic or ethnic group, or age category, or gender identity.
Since I prefer to live in a clean and tidy environment, I clean up the messes I make. But many people don't.
Have you seen "Hoarders"? All of those featured have some resources. They have a place to live and enough money to buy and hoard enough junk to make their homes uninhabitable. I don't mean to suggest that all hoarders are personally filthy, and on the show none of them appear dirty, but those who hoard pets and those whose hoards are homes to vermin have become accustomed to filthy environments. They have to smell bad. Their bathrooms are in worse condition than the public restrooms described above. People who live in these conditions might leave such conditions behind in public spots?
One can think that angry people are responsible for creating these messes, and perhaps that explains some of the behavior (evidently teenaged girls are particularly hard on public restrooms) but I suspect that mental illness is at the root of most of this sort of filthy and unclean behavior.
People who function normally just don't do that.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
53. Not true. People do leave messes all the time.
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 11:02 PM
Dec 2012

However, since it's coming from a Republican I am certainly willingly to believe he is lying about it.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
65. I've heard that used against Hispanic men
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 03:53 PM
Dec 2012

Guys who were doing tile work. They refused to let them use the bathroom, because of teh mess those types made -- "those types" didn't mean tilers.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,577 posts)
2. Ohhhhhh I see Congressman;
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:03 PM
Dec 2012

2 people, members of a religion that isn't exactly popular in the US, a religion that many believe makes them automatic enemies of the state, deliberately cause a disturbance in your sandwich shop (it's not really a restaurant- snark! :O) )
Why would they do that?

cstanleytech

(26,295 posts)
22. Well, we could always just wait and see what the video shows before passing judgement?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:11 PM
Dec 2012

I know, its a radical new idea and thus its scary but hey, it might actually work.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
36. How long should we wait...?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 05:22 PM
Dec 2012

How long should we wait...? The fine congressman appears to be stalling the release of this alleged video.

But yeah... it might actually work.

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
3. Fleming's answer to the question I was wondering...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:06 PM
Dec 2012
Fleming said there was no current plan to release the security video because it could give the Husains extra information if they choose to sue.

cstanleytech

(26,295 posts)
23. I cant fault that logic to much though you would think if they were lying
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:14 PM
Dec 2012

he would have filed suit against them already for libel.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
9. If the Husains sued, could the presiding judge in the case compel Fleming to release the video? n/t.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:45 PM
Dec 2012

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,330 posts)
31. If it doesn't get erased first.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:28 PM
Dec 2012

If the victims are planning to sue, they better move fast to start preserving the evidence.

Roy Rolling

(6,918 posts)
13. Regardless
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:06 PM
Dec 2012

Who knows what the truth is, but for sure it would be much clearer with a video.

Withholding the video to prevent them from suing is bogus. They can sue and subpeona the video in an instant, so not giving it does nothing to prevent litigation.

Response to DonViejo (Original post)

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
19. The good stuff is deeper in the article
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:50 PM
Dec 2012

"Fleming said there was no current plan to release the security video because it could give the Husains extra information if they choose to sue."

Sounds like he's really confident that he was right.

"He also suggested the Husains could have “political reasons” for their actions and said the Council on American-Islamic Relations, which publicized the couple’s complaints, had “nefarious connections” and ties to Hamas."

Oh yeah, I am really feeling this guy's credibility now. Oh and he's a Republican. Strike three.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
75. They certainly could be
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:06 AM
Dec 2012

But this article makes it seem like the RW Republican was responsible for what happened, when it was really the employee who take the action in question. Maybe someone can interview her about what happened from her perspective?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
88. Mostly because of some other comments
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 10:40 AM
Dec 2012

A few comments made note of the history of white racism against people of color especially in that region. In this case, however, it appears that the employee in question was not white.

 

Ter

(4,281 posts)
24. I wasn't there, so I'm not gonna take sides like so many have
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:17 PM
Dec 2012

Who knows, maybe he did crap all over the toilet seat and give the employees a hard time and send food back more than once. It happens.

 

immoderate

(20,885 posts)
28. I also wonder if a man who owns dozens of restaurants benefits from discriminating...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:44 PM
Dec 2012

and if it's a pattern, why wasn't it noticed before?

--imm

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
32. I doubt it's an official policy among his restaurants.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:28 PM
Dec 2012

If the story of the guy leveling the accusations is true, it's more likely that there was a racist store level manager and Fleming has no problem giving him benefit of the doubt. Most Republican lawmakers seem to share anti-Muslim xenophobic views, and are pretty quick to label any accusation of discrimination as someone "playing the race card" (or gender card, or whatever form of bigotry seems to be the issue).

 

Ter

(4,281 posts)
34. You could sit down and say it didn't taste right
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 04:04 PM
Dec 2012

I don't jump to conclusions just because the owner disagrees with my policies. I find it highly unlikely they were thrown out (and told!) because they were Muslim.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
26. Not enough info. Was the waste-basket in the restroom overflowing BEFORE they used it?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:30 PM
Dec 2012

What exactly is this precise "big mess"? Water on/around the wash-basin? A couple of paper-towels on the floor?

Only the right kinds of actual information enables us to separate trolls, or people with attitudes that are the reciprocal of the racism aimed against them, from those who have actually been abused.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
42. Read the actual account of what happened
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:37 PM
Dec 2012

For what it is worth, the employee was an African-American woman.

Occulus

(20,599 posts)
59. You keep saying that and
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 11:05 AM
Dec 2012

I keep wondering how being an African American precludes bigotry against Muslims...

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
60. Hence, "for what it's worth"
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 12:45 PM
Dec 2012

Maybe it doesn't mean anything - maybe it does. People can draw their own conclusions, but I do think it helps to have as much information as possible.

Obviously, there is no way of knowing who is telling the truth and who is lying. If this employee actually asked this person if they were a Muslim and then, upon receiving the answer of yes, declined to serve them - well that is obviously clear and disgusting bigotry.

If, however, the employee noticed non-paying customers using the bathroom for a half hour and, in the process, making a mess of it, coming in and out of the store without purchasing anything, and laying out a blanket in the parking lot, I could see why the employee may ask that person to leave.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
40. An African-American female employee was the one who asked the man to leave
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:35 PM
Dec 2012

Fleming had nothing to do with it.

The reason she asked the man to leave was, according to her, because they entered the Subway, used the restrooms for a half hour without ordering anything, left and re-entered the Subway three times over a 45 minute span without seeking food service.

The employee also noted that the man spread a blanket out on the ground near the entrance to the store. The woman asked him to leave. She said he blocked the door and became aggressive at that point so she called the police.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
50. Is it impossible that things went down just as the employee said?
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 09:16 PM
Dec 2012

Of course not. Sometimes people just want to stir up shit and then try to sue, what is more uniquely American than that?

Check the tapes.

JCMach1

(27,559 posts)
52. okay story could easily be true
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 10:37 PM
Dec 2012

In the Middle East when there are no proper washing facilities at prayer time restrooms get trashed. How many times did i find myself in public toilets with feet marks all over the seat and wat.er everywhere. While not dirty for worshippers... they were doing their necessary. However by normal hygiene and western standards.... totally disgusting.

Culture clash.... Do you really want to have that discussion with the couple?

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
58. Do non-paying customers have the right to use the bathroom?
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 08:23 AM
Dec 2012

I've seen signs at some places saying that restrooms are for customers only.

I know that this is an issue in some cities where people use restrooms to extensively clean themselves leaving it a mess.

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
68. I don't believe so but they ended up eating at another subway.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 04:12 PM
Dec 2012

So they were likely going to order there.

I fairly commonly use the bathroom at a place, before ordering, when I've been on the road for a while. Never had an issue with anyone.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
71. I don't know if that means they were likely going to order there
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 07:08 PM
Dec 2012

Perhaps they only made that decision after and because of what happened at that Subway.

And, I would say that it is indeed common to use the bathroom before ordering. However, it appears that the bathroom use was more extensive than normal - involving what seemed to be activity better suited to a shower or private residence, according to the reports from what the employee allegedly observed.

Also, I would say it is unusual to enter and exit a Subway three times over the course of 45 minutes to use the bathroom while not placing any order. I can see why the employee may have thought this was not someone who may not have been intending to be a paying customer.

In any case, it's all speculation at this point.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
83. Interesting
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 09:12 AM
Dec 2012

A Malaysian company has made a Auto Wudu Machine last week specially for Wudu of Muslims. This Machine is made to save water wasting during Wudu. This Machine has made Wudu more easy, better as well as faster. Most importantly it will save lot of water that many people usually waste during doing Wudu. its an green color computerized Machine. while doing Wudu its is not required to to touch the taps because taps will active with water proof diffuser sensors.

http://islam44.blogspot.com/2010/02/first-islamic-auto-wudu-machine.html

iemitsu

(3,888 posts)
63. It seems to me that if the Islamic man washed then went outside
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 02:33 PM
Dec 2012

and opened a prayer rug, which even the congressman recognized, "Fleming said Mohammad Husain spread a blanket and trinkets on the ground of the parking lot and that the 63-year-old might have been trying to pray" that the customer was probably engaged in religious activity, then being afraid and refusing to serve him was clearly unjustified.
And the congressman's refusal to release the tape, that demonstrates his employee's innocence because, 'it could give the Husains extra information if they choose to sue" suggests the film does not entirely support the congressman's claims.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
64. The wife was STILL IN THE BATHROOM
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 03:52 PM
Dec 2012

So, how would they know she made a mess?

How did that scare off customers not even in teh store, and

Release the video if true.

Doubling down.

JCMach1

(27,559 posts)
72. let me just say again. ritual washing before prayers
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 10:36 PM
Dec 2012

In a facility not designed for it gets really really nasty and disgusting. Also if he were in a hurry, he wouldn't necessarily be careful at all.

For those that haven't lived in the middle east this means dirty feet and footprints all over the toilet seat . There will be toilet paper here and there and water everywhere. If they don't wash using the toilet that same mess will be in the sink.

There is also normal bathroom hygiene which involves water for .tp. .tp would only be used to dry.

There is a good chance that the folks left a huge mess to clean up. That would leave the restaurant well within their rights to ask them to leave.

I had to follow cultural norms in Arabia . Most Muslims and Arabs figure it out early on how to manage religious washing. Probably these folks need to speak with their local clergy for some pointers in how to do this in the West.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
80. That's what it sounds like
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 01:41 AM
Dec 2012

...and it can depend on their particular background what, in particular, they scrub.

tavernier

(12,392 posts)
78. And what is with those women who stand and piss all over the seat
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 12:31 AM
Dec 2012

because they have a phobia about sitting on a toilet seat someone else's butt has touched. Of course their phobia doesn't extend to others because they don't clean up after themselves. This is totally disgusting, especially if the lights in the bathroom are kind of dim and being unaware, you sit in it.

ronnie624

(5,764 posts)
82. Yep. It's call 'hovering'.
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 03:43 AM
Dec 2012

I've had to deal with that before, and it is very irritating. I completely lost all respect for a woman I once regarded highly, because of the mess she left in my restroom, by 'hovering'.

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