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demmiblue

(39,986 posts)
Sat May 30, 2026, 04:05 PM 13 hrs ago

Platner's Texts With Women Concerned Campaign as Senate Race Took Off

Source: NYT

Graham Platner’s insurgent bid for Senate in Maine was gathering steam last summer when his campaign was confronted with some potentially explosive information.

Mr. Platner’s wife, Amy Gertner, told a senior campaign aide that he had been exchanging sexual messages with multiple other women.

It was the kind of revelation with the potential to damage the political newcomer just as his campaign to unseat Senator Susan Collins, a Republican, was beginning to resonate with voters, especially in a state where female voters make up a large share of the electorate.

Mr. Platner’s exchanges with women were confirmed by current and former campaign officials, who gave different accounts of some of the details. Ms. Gertner said the couple, who had married in November 2023, according to the town clerk of Sullivan, Maine, was working through his indiscretions in marriage counseling.

Read more: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/30/us/politics/graham-platner-maine-senate-texts.html?smid=url-share

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Platner's Texts With Women Concerned Campaign as Senate Race Took Off (Original Post) demmiblue 13 hrs ago OP
Why are we just hearing about this now? mcar 13 hrs ago #1
to be fair Skittles 13 hrs ago #6
Married less than two years and they are seeing a marriage counselor.. sheshe2 12 hrs ago #15
This message was self-deleted by its author sheshe2 12 hrs ago #16
OK, so Platner is finished... Escape 13 hrs ago #2
I just hope he doesn't suck up $$$ support.... Mark.b2 13 hrs ago #3
Another man who can't control himself. choie 13 hrs ago #4
Counseling is a good start for the married couple...... Lovie777 13 hrs ago #5
I'm pretty sure Collins isn't 'concerned' about her chances now....... unfortunately. cstanleytech 13 hrs ago #7
Texts like these is how Tillis beat Cunningham in 2020. dsc 13 hrs ago #8
too late now. WhiteTara 7 hrs ago #60
He held a 7 point lead over Collins prior to this . surfered 13 hrs ago #9
In Maine - that doesn't mean much I'm affraid FBaggins 11 hrs ago #31
Thank you for that. Visited their Coast one spring. Loved it. Tulips, Daffodils, coastline.. surfered 11 hrs ago #34
I think he has a 9 point lead now. Uncle Joe 8 hrs ago #49
Trump slept with a porn star while his wife was pregnant SamuelTheThird 12 hrs ago #10
It is absolutely not irrelevant mcar 12 hrs ago #14
Unless he was harrassing women, it's irrelevant SamuelTheThird 11 hrs ago #21
That's ridiculous whataboutism mcar 10 hrs ago #36
People don't vote based on infidelity SamuelTheThird 10 hrs ago #44
can't we have a candidate who isn't a creep with a nazi tattoo? Skittles 8 hrs ago #53
Another Weiner. Scruffy1 7 hrs ago #58
You know it's out there mcar 7 hrs ago #61
People look back and make that argument about the 90's Renew Deal 7 hrs ago #59
that's a pretty fucking low bar Skittles 12 hrs ago #17
When didn't he do that exactly to any of his many wives? cstanleytech 11 hrs ago #27
Yes but Trump is a republican PatSeg 11 hrs ago #32
NO! It is not irrelevant. sheshe2 5 hrs ago #66
Bring back Governor Mills LetMyPeopleVote 12 hrs ago #11
This message was self-deleted by its author Bumbles 12 hrs ago #12
I don't see why David Costello shouldn't be backed at this point and probably should have been when Janet dropped out chowder66 12 hrs ago #13
I agree. Bright, shiny objects distract. I was ready to vote for Graham, with reservations. Bumbles 11 hrs ago #23
Thank you for this. I wasn't aware of him. mcar 10 hrs ago #37
You're welcome. I think he may have registered late and has been overwhelmed by a flashier candidate in Platner. Bumbles 10 hrs ago #42
X1000. yorkster 8 hrs ago #55
I'm sick of people who know what they've done and run anyway. Susan Calvin 12 hrs ago #18
That is a very real problem.and reflects a major character flaw. Sarwell did the lostincalifornia 11 hrs ago #28
Governor Mills had to drop out for this guy? SamuelAdams 11 hrs ago #19
Just want to point out there's at least another Democrat running in rogue emissary 11 hrs ago #20
David Costello. See my posting above. Bumbles 11 hrs ago #24
Here's a link to a Maine Democratic Primary Ballot Quiet Em 10 hrs ago #45
A lesson to folks thar when you see red flags Miguelito Loveless 11 hrs ago #22
The excuses people have made for this guy makes me wonder mcar 10 hrs ago #38
Well, but Bernie likes him... eye roll radical noodle 8 hrs ago #56
IIRC Bernie liked Fetterman too mcar 7 hrs ago #62
And Tulsi Gabbard. LisaM 1 hr ago #71
The Progressive Establishment has anointed and it is always right. betsuni 4 hrs ago #69
David Costello Cirsium 5 hrs ago #68
no shit Skittles 8 hrs ago #52
This type of indiscretion VGuerra276 11 hrs ago #25
oh come on Skittles 8 hrs ago #51
I believe Trump doesn't text or email LeftInTX 7 hrs ago #57
So if he stays in..... Red Mountain 11 hrs ago #26
He'll stay in, and unless an alternative appears, Democrats will have no choice but to vote for him. The lostincalifornia 11 hrs ago #29
Post removed Post removed 11 hrs ago #30
Are you OK with him blaming women for their rapes? mcar 10 hrs ago #39
Not so much Orangenero 9 hrs ago #46
WTF? mcar 9 hrs ago #47
Maybe Platner should have done some PatSeg 11 hrs ago #33
This should be good for the Bro's vote mdbl 11 hrs ago #35
Who remembers Gary Hart? Kid Berwyn 10 hrs ago #40
Distasteful and upsetting but I'm delighted it's finally coming out. mahina 10 hrs ago #41
Epstein Class DoBW 10 hrs ago #43
Not surprised in the least DaBronx 9 hrs ago #48
IOKIYAR WestMichRad 8 hrs ago #50
I know the gop is worse, but DonCoquixote 8 hrs ago #54
David Costello is a much more qualified yorkster 6 hrs ago #63
Hope this is not repeat of Cunningham in NC in 2020 bmichaelh 6 hrs ago #64
Plantner is the candidate duckworth969 6 hrs ago #65
Okay if Mainers vote first before you declare the winner? MorbidButterflyTat 5 hrs ago #67
And then there's this Buddyzbuddy 4 hrs ago #70

Response to mcar (Reply #1)

Mark.b2

(827 posts)
3. I just hope he doesn't suck up $$$ support....
Sat May 30, 2026, 04:34 PM
13 hrs ago

in states like NC, OH and AK where I think we can flip. I won’t be sending a dime to Maine.

choie

(7,047 posts)
4. Another man who can't control himself.
Sat May 30, 2026, 04:36 PM
13 hrs ago

I’m so sick of people (mostly men) who go online to fulfill god knows what outside their relationship. You can’t respect your partner? Then you don’t belong in a relationship.

dsc

(53,449 posts)
8. Texts like these is how Tillis beat Cunningham in 2020.
Sat May 30, 2026, 05:00 PM
13 hrs ago

We can do better than this candidate.

FBaggins

(28,773 posts)
31. In Maine - that doesn't mean much I'm affraid
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:58 PM
11 hrs ago

In her 2020 race - every single poll showed Gideon beating Collins. There was one minor poll showing her losing by a single point, but most of the polling was like the one you mention... with one Quinnipiac poll showing her losing by double digits.

Yet she won by nine points.

surfered

(14,535 posts)
34. Thank you for that. Visited their Coast one spring. Loved it. Tulips, Daffodils, coastline..
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:01 PM
11 hrs ago

..but I know nothing of their political history.

SamuelTheThird

(1,298 posts)
21. Unless he was harrassing women, it's irrelevant
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:16 PM
11 hrs ago

Or should JFK and Clinton have been thrown out of office?

mcar

(46,415 posts)
36. That's ridiculous whataboutism
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:09 PM
10 hrs ago

This is just the latest in a long line of issues with this candidate that his supporters have willfully ignored or excused - sound familiar?

It is absolutely relevant, especially because, as many of us warned, the Collins campaign is just getting started - and why shouldn't they? The Maine Democrats have handed them all the ammunition team Collins needs by supporting a highly questionable candidate.

We are happy that Talarico is going after Paxton for all of his issues. Are you seriously suggesting that Collins' camp wouldn't do the same re Platner?

SamuelTheThird

(1,298 posts)
44. People don't vote based on infidelity
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:41 PM
10 hrs ago

Gas and grocery prices are 100,000X more important in voters' heads

Skittles

(173,137 posts)
53. can't we have a candidate who isn't a creep with a nazi tattoo?
Sat May 30, 2026, 09:55 PM
8 hrs ago

is that too much to ask?

Scruffy1

(3,550 posts)
58. Another Weiner.
Sat May 30, 2026, 10:23 PM
7 hrs ago

Someone who can't control their impulsive behavior. Makes me wonder about what else he's been up to.

PatSeg

(53,676 posts)
32. Yes but Trump is a republican
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:58 PM
11 hrs ago

These days they seem to get a free pass on almost anything.

sheshe2

(98,614 posts)
66. NO! It is not irrelevant.
Sun May 31, 2026, 12:14 AM
5 hrs ago
Trump slept with a porn star while his wife was pregnant

This is irrelevant


Trump is not the standard we should be setting for our candidates!

Response to demmiblue (Original post)

chowder66

(12,564 posts)
13. I don't see why David Costello shouldn't be backed at this point and probably should have been when Janet dropped out
Sat May 30, 2026, 05:21 PM
12 hrs ago

or even before.

Bumbles

(521 posts)
23. I agree. Bright, shiny objects distract. I was ready to vote for Graham, with reservations.
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:25 PM
11 hrs ago

David Costello has a fine resume.

"Having grown up in a working-class family in Old Town and having served for more than 30 years in senior-level government positions, both in the USA and abroad – managing, not simply legislating or talking about complex multi-million-dollar programs and operations – David has the broadest and most fitting knowledge and experience to defeat Senator Collins in 2026 and best represent the people of Maine in the United States Senate.

Born in Bangor and Raised in a Working-Class Family in Old Town

Son of an Army veteran and labor organizer. Grandson of French and Irish American shoe, textile, and railroad workers.

Graduate of Old Town High, George Washington University, and the London School of Economics

​Senior Aide, Maine Secretary of State

Developed elections, campaign finance, and motor vehicle safety reforms.

​Maine State Senate Aide

​​Country Program and Regional Team Leader, United States Agency for International Development (USAID)

Conducted and managed foreign aid work in such conflict torn countries as Cambodia, Haiti, Bosnia, Croatia, Serbia, and Kosovo.

Senior Aide, Mayor of Baltimore

Directed community efforts to improve City’s schools and City's assistance to children, youth, and families at risk.

Assistant Secretary, Maryland Department of Planning (MDP)

Managed cross-agency efforts to support smarter, more sustainable growth.

Senior Aide, Governor of Maryland

Directed cross-agency efforts to achieve Governor’s most important goals.

Deputy and Acting Secretary, Maryland Department of the Environment (MDE)

Helped to manage 1,000+ employees, various programs, and $380 million annual budget.

Climate Action Now! and Energize Maryland Projects Coordinator

Directed foundation funded projects to aggressively tackle climate change."

Susan Calvin

(2,473 posts)
18. I'm sick of people who know what they've done and run anyway.
Sat May 30, 2026, 05:59 PM
12 hrs ago

They should work on the assumption that past indiscretions will be revealed. If they're bad enough to hurt the campaign, don't run. Or have a damn good cover story, which he doesn't appear to have.

lostincalifornia

(5,597 posts)
28. That is a very real problem.and reflects a major character flaw. Sarwell did the
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:53 PM
11 hrs ago

same thing.

The other problem is the double standard presented by our MSM.

We have the best press bought and paid for by the Republican Party.

SamuelAdams

(224 posts)
19. Governor Mills had to drop out for this guy?
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:05 PM
11 hrs ago

This guy is the left's new savior, after Sinema and Fetterman worked out so well.

Quiet Em

(3,058 posts)
45. Here's a link to a Maine Democratic Primary Ballot
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:49 PM
10 hrs ago

David Costello

Janet Mills

Graham Platner

(Write in)

are all on the ballot to be ranked

https://durhammaine.gov/uploads/state-of-maine-dem-primary-election.pdf

Miguelito Loveless

(5,949 posts)
22. A lesson to folks thar when you see red flags
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:20 PM
11 hrs ago

Like Nazi tattoos, there is probably worse yet to be unearthed. We cannot win elections without women, and non-MAGA women do not like cheaters, creeps, and child rapists. Platner ticks two of those three boxes.

mcar

(46,415 posts)
38. The excuses people have made for this guy makes me wonder
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:13 PM
10 hrs ago

why.

The flaws were right in front of us. The Nazi tattoo? A foolish young man. Rape apolgia? He's renounced what he said. The list goes on.

Now we have this and again it's "oh, it's between him and his wife." Really?

Oh, but he's for Medicare for all so it's all OK.

LisaM

(29,693 posts)
71. And Tulsi Gabbard.
Sun May 31, 2026, 04:41 AM
1 hr ago

I agree with Bernie on most issues (which actually align with Democratic values, Sanders did not invent those positions). A great judge of character, he is not.

VGuerra276

(93 posts)
25. This type of indiscretion
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:29 PM
11 hrs ago

This type of in discretion seems to affect everyone except Frump. Platner came in with a bang and now I'm not sure there's any way to overcome this disaster. Is anyone vetting our candidates?

Red Mountain

(2,383 posts)
26. So if he stays in.....
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:48 PM
11 hrs ago

and becomes the candidate, who would you vote for?

Would you not vote?

(pretend you can vote if you can't)

lostincalifornia

(5,597 posts)
29. He'll stay in, and unless an alternative appears, Democrats will have no choice but to vote for him. The
Sat May 30, 2026, 06:56 PM
11 hrs ago

question is what will independents do

Response to demmiblue (Original post)

PatSeg

(53,676 posts)
33. Maybe Platner should have done some
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:01 PM
11 hrs ago

oppo research on himself before he decided to run for office. Did he really think none of this would ever come out?

Kid Berwyn

(25,160 posts)
40. Who remembers Gary Hart?
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:21 PM
10 hrs ago


Apart from the owner of Monkey Business, and his then-millionaire chums, none of the players knew they were getting played until checkmate.

ETA: For all his flaws, he woulda made a great President.

mahina

(20,755 posts)
41. Distasteful and upsetting but I'm delighted it's finally coming out.
Sat May 30, 2026, 07:30 PM
10 hrs ago

He always gave me the Lettermans. The tattoo creeped me all the way out and his gruff hypermasculine thing was a turnoff for me as much as it is a positive for others.

Good for David Costello!

DaBronx

(781 posts)
48. Not surprised in the least
Sat May 30, 2026, 08:57 PM
9 hrs ago

Upstanding moral individual he seems not to be. Evidence continues to present.Maine messed up big time. Sad.

WestMichRad

(3,435 posts)
50. IOKIYAR
Sat May 30, 2026, 09:45 PM
8 hrs ago

Sexual peccadillos are so 20th Century.

But it is an indication that he’s a sleazebag. Wouldn’t hurt him if he was running in, say, the Deep South. But in Maine? Could easily be enough to torpedo his candidacy.

DonCoquixote

(13,985 posts)
54. I know the gop is worse, but
Sat May 30, 2026, 10:00 PM
8 hrs ago

why oh why can't democrats keep their lust in their pants People are getting HURT

yorkster

(3,969 posts)
63. David Costello is a much more qualified
Sat May 30, 2026, 11:12 PM
6 hrs ago

choice than Platner. Early voting has started, but the primary is June 9.

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,801 posts)
67. Okay if Mainers vote first before you declare the winner?
Sun May 31, 2026, 12:52 AM
5 hrs ago

Maine Primary Elections are happening June 9.

Buddyzbuddy

(2,932 posts)
70. And then there's this
Sun May 31, 2026, 01:44 AM
4 hrs ago

From a previous post by demmiblue. Thank you, demmiblue.
Excerpt:
Earlier this week, the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC) launched the joint fundraising page, which urged donors to “Contribute to pro-Israel Candidates for U.S. Senate,” displaying Stevens and Collins together with preset donation amounts. The joint fundraiser was “paid for and authorized” by both candidates, according to AIPAC.

The fundraising campaign, which included an email blast, also attacked one of Stevens’s Democratic rivals, Abdul El-Sayed, the race’s most outspoken critic of Israel’s war in Gaza. He also was the only candidate endorsed by Track AIPAC, a grassroots group that documents and opposes the influence of AIPAC and pro-Israel political spending. The fundraiser accused El-Sayed and Graham Platner, the Democrat running against Collins in Maine, of “embracing extreme rhetoric,” pushing “false accusations of genocide,” and supporting cuts to aid for Israel.

“There is a coordinated, well-funded effort to punish anyone who stands with Israel and it’s gaining ground fast,” the email said. “It’s being driven by the far-left fringe of American politics, pushed by Bernie Sanders and amplified by voices like Hasan Piker, who are normalizing hostility toward Israel and turning it into a political weapon.”


https://www.metrotimes.com/news/politics-elections/aipac-pairs-haley-stevens-with-republican-in-joint-senate-fundraiser-attacks-el-sayed/


Timing is everything.

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