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alp227

(32,034 posts)
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 10:51 PM Feb 2013

(Florida) Activists want state to end use of word 'retard'

Last edited Mon Feb 25, 2013, 01:29 AM - Edit history (1)

Source: Orlando Sentinel

Luminaries ranging from Lady Gaga to Super Bowl-winning quarterback Joe Flacco have come under fire for using the word "retard."

A nationwide campaign to end the use of the "r-word" which activists say is demeaning to people with special needs, has spread to Florida. Supporters of the move hope to persuade lawmakers to remove the word from state regulations when their upcoming session begins next month.

Advocates are working to pass a bill that would replace "mental retardation" and "mentally retarded" with "intellectual disability" and "intellectually disabled." Although the terms in the state regulations aren't meant to be cruel, advocates say replacing them will raise awareness on the insensitiveness of the word in its different forms and should no longer be acceptable.

Read more: http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/local/lake/os-florida-end-use-retard-word-20130224,0,7827604.story



The Young Turks had a 15 minute discussion last summer about campaigns against the "retard" and "gay" slurs, "Are We Too Politically Correct?":



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(Florida) Activists want state to end use of word 'retard' (Original Post) alp227 Feb 2013 OP
Isn't retardation a specific disability? Deep13 Feb 2013 #1
I don't think they use it any more Confusious Feb 2013 #2
I think wiki is right. A term evolves into how people use it. immoderate Feb 2013 #8
Remember all the trouble a city official in Seattle Kelvin Mace Feb 2013 #9
"It gets old quick." greiner3 Feb 2013 #16
The old part is that people pay too much attention to words Kelvin Mace Feb 2013 #17
"the euphemism treadmill" -- thanks dorkulon Feb 2013 #11
Political correctness is a political tactic to make out someone as a "the bad guy". valerief Feb 2013 #21
"Politically Correct" speech Kelvin Mace Feb 2013 #28
OK really I even have to hear complaints about PC on a LIBERAL message board? n/t alp227 Feb 2013 #33
Ever since "bitch" became politically incorrect, yes. nt valerief Feb 2013 #35
What if a man called you a bitch to your face? N/t alp227 Feb 2013 #36
Men, have. Context is everything, not words. nt valerief Feb 2013 #41
Incorrect. Orsino Feb 2013 #40
The PC people (people who can afford mass media) decide the connotation, per their valerief Feb 2013 #42
You're conflating propaganda with actual shifts in attitude. Orsino Feb 2013 #44
No. We use the term 'intellectually disabled' in my state. proud2BlibKansan Feb 2013 #5
I've used the word to denote somebody is retarded. It was classless of me and cruel... BlueJazz Feb 2013 #3
Yes, but you can still call someone stupid, even though there are stupid people in the world valerief Feb 2013 #22
What you say is true. Sometimes I piss off people and don't have a clue what the hell is going on. BlueJazz Feb 2013 #25
You can't use the word physicist. It sounds like fizzy cyst and someone might valerief Feb 2013 #26
I think it's just an inaccurate term union_maid Feb 2013 #4
Good for them. It's time. DesertRat Feb 2013 #6
That is exactly the problem with the PC. RC Feb 2013 #7
Exactly. dipsydoodle Feb 2013 #14
Neil Gaiman had a nice post about PC -> respect recently. Bibliovore Feb 2013 #18
+1 n/t Orsino Feb 2013 #45
I guess the ARC needs to change it's name... bobclark86 Feb 2013 #10
Give it time and Cognitive Disability will go the way of other terms Retarded, Imbecile, Moron. gordianot Feb 2013 #12
I'm waiting until DU's term "Moran" is deemed hurtful to the 3rd Way. RC Feb 2013 #23
It will probably happen at some point someone will object as for me I accept the term "moran". gordianot Feb 2013 #31
You still use spaz over there as abb. of spastic dipsydoodle Feb 2013 #13
My mom's education, and teaching, specialty was the deaf. greiner3 Feb 2013 #15
I can remember when "retarded" was the euphemism of choice. bemildred Feb 2013 #19
Consumers HockeyMom Feb 2013 #20
I have also heard the terms "lids" "mers" "bumper" and "ADD's" several others. gordianot Feb 2013 #24
When I worked through a temp agency they had code words for the clients KurtNYC Feb 2013 #27
WTH?? So now "gay" is a "slur", too???? kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #29
Go to your local jr. high school and you'll see why. alp227 Feb 2013 #34
Well I sure don't see gay people objecting to being called gay. kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #37
True BUT... alp227 Feb 2013 #39
But, vrp Feb 2013 #30
"I'll GET you for saying that!" radicalliberal Feb 2013 #32
Gollum? I thought he looked like Bat Boy in that photo yurbud Feb 2013 #38
the words, "Idiot" and "Moron" were originally medical terms for different gradations BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #43

Confusious

(8,317 posts)
2. I don't think they use it any more
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 11:12 PM
Feb 2013

But wikipedia had an interesting take on it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mental_retardation

The terms used for this condition are subject to a process called the euphemism treadmill. This means that whatever term is chosen for this condition, it eventually becomes perceived as an insult. The terms mental retardation and mentally retarded were invented in the middle of the 20th century to replace the previous set of terms, which were deemed to have become offensive. By the end of the 20th century, these terms themselves have come to be widely seen as disparaging and politically incorrect and in need of replacement.


I don't like it simply for the fact it messes with science.

How long before activists want another word for black hole?

 

immoderate

(20,885 posts)
8. I think wiki is right. A term evolves into how people use it.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 12:13 AM
Feb 2013

Whatever is used to euphemise some mental defect will cycle down as an insult. "Mental defect" providing an example.

--imm

 

Kelvin Mace

(17,469 posts)
9. Remember all the trouble a city official in Seattle
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 12:23 AM
Feb 2013

(I think) got into for using the word "niggardly"? I think it cost him his job.

I have to admit that I am annoyed by the constant changing of words. When I grew up my wife who has MS would have been called crippled, then "handicapped", then "disabled", then "physically challenged", then "differently abled", all this in a period of 20 years or so.

It gets old quick.

 

greiner3

(5,214 posts)
16. "It gets old quick."
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:18 AM
Feb 2013

I am sorry 'accepted' labels for your your wife's MS have evolved over time.

I think the changing terms of any human disease or condition is the result of both newly conceived breakthroughs in the medical understanding of said maladies and the changing mores of the general public.

See my post #15.

 

Kelvin Mace

(17,469 posts)
17. The old part is that people pay too much attention to words
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:38 AM
Feb 2013

and almost no attention to context. If the accepted term for what was formally called "retarded" is now "developmentally disabled", then why are folks getting upset when we call politicians like Florida's governor retarded?

We are not talking about the developmentally disabled, we are talking about people willfully stupid.

As always, George Carlin said it best:

valerief

(53,235 posts)
21. Political correctness is a political tactic to make out someone as a "the bad guy".
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:45 AM
Feb 2013

That's all it does. It "invents" new connotations for words and uses those new connotations as weapons against "the other".

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
40. Incorrect.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 03:21 PM
Feb 2013

Political correctness documents changes in meaning. It does't invent them.

When medical diagnoses of mental retardation gave rise to the shorthand "retarded," sooner or later the bigoted were going to start equating the term with "stupid" or "bad" (c.f. "gay&quot . That taints the word in the eyes and ears of many.

PC people did not invent the process. Language evolves, and polite people evolve with it.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
42. The PC people (people who can afford mass media) decide the connotation, per their
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 04:49 PM
Feb 2013

social engineering objectives, and propagandize it via media campaigns. Connotations don't change by "magic". Smearing the words "liberal" and "union" didn't just happen. Just like abortion is a contrived problem used to pit 99%ers against each other, these "un-PC" words are also a contrived problem.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
44. You're conflating propaganda with actual shifts in attitude.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 01:50 PM
Feb 2013

Have all civil rights movements been corporate-driven? No.

Politically correct speech is also interpersonal, as we attempt not to offend one another.

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
5. No. We use the term 'intellectually disabled' in my state.
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 11:39 PM
Feb 2013

I don't think any states use 'retarded' anymore.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
3. I've used the word to denote somebody is retarded. It was classless of me and cruel...
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 11:19 PM
Feb 2013

...and hurtful to others.
My only (shitty) excuse is that I didn't mean it the way most people think of the word.

I shan't do it again.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
22. Yes, but you can still call someone stupid, even though there are stupid people in the world
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:46 AM
Feb 2013

who may get insulted (once they're told to get insulted, because they're too stupid to get insulted in the first place).

This "don't use this word" shit is just a distraction from real problems.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
25. What you say is true. Sometimes I piss off people and don't have a clue what the hell is going on.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 10:41 AM
Feb 2013

Like crawling through reality trying not to step on fragile eggs.
One persons perception of a word is miles apart from what you would think...

Being a Physicist, people ask me : Do you have the answers??

I tell them: Fuck, I don't even know most of the questions.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
26. You can't use the word physicist. It sounds like fizzy cyst and someone might
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 11:03 AM
Feb 2013

have a fizzy cyst and you'll make them cry.

Banning words is so tiresome. Once you ban it, another one replaces it. It's a poutrage treadmill. Has calling the N word the N word removed racism? No. Letting Oprah becoming a megastar has been a step in the right direction to end racism. Certainly electing an AA prez is a step in the right direction. Of course, now Merkan racism isn't against AA folks but Middle Eastern folks. I guess racism has its own treadmill, too.

union_maid

(3,502 posts)
4. I think it's just an inaccurate term
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 11:30 PM
Feb 2013

"Developmentally disabled" is the expression I see used most often now, but "intellectually disabled" works better in some situations. Either are more accurate than "mentally retarded", IMO and cover a broader spectrum of issues that can manifest themselves in superficially similar ways.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
7. That is exactly the problem with the PC.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 12:10 AM
Feb 2013

No matter what word they want banned, another word or phrase will take its place, which in turn will then become the next insult, slur, to be banned, ad nauseous, until there are no words left to ban and we are down to banning grunts and hand gestures. I'm sure they are already working the hand gestures.

How about just respecting each other instead? Apply context, the mind-set of the speaker/listener, to the situation, instead of blindly censuring words because they are on someone unpublished list.

Bibliovore

(185 posts)
18. Neil Gaiman had a nice post about PC -> respect recently.
Reply to RC (Reply #7)
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:00 AM
Feb 2013

"I started imagining a world in which we replaced the phrase 'politically correct' wherever we could with 'treating other people with respect', and it made me smile."

http://neil-gaiman.tumblr.com/post/43087620460/i-was-reading-a-book-about-interjections-oddly

bobclark86

(1,415 posts)
10. I guess the ARC needs to change it's name...
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 12:35 AM
Feb 2013

Many places have gone to "Arc" instead of "A.R.C.," but it's still there: The Association of/for Retarded Citizens.

I loled over the "black hole" bit... would the speakers prefer "clusterfuck?"

gordianot

(15,240 posts)
12. Give it time and Cognitive Disability will go the way of other terms Retarded, Imbecile, Moron.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 04:05 AM
Feb 2013

Some one will come up with a derogatory insult derived from cognitive disability and direct it toward those they dislike. The term "retarded" was originally used as an alternative description to "moron", "imbecile" that described level at which individuals scored on an intelligence test. The original assumption in using the term "retarded" was that the development of those who scored on standardized tests either the Wechsler or Stanford Binet was slower development than others. That view was flawed and does not adequately describe the levels of support a person requires to function.

As a person who worked in the field for 30 years I found people who were labeled "retarded" to be caring, considerate, competent, resourceful, empathetic, artistic, and very successful. I remember one situation that really changed the way I viewed the field and term "retarded". After evaluating a 5 year old the diagnostic conclusion was that the child was functioning in the moderate range of Mental Retardation. Since the child's father was a successful business man the team did not want me to use the term "retarded". My response was then you explain it I explained it in terms normative performance and am sure there was a lot of confusing jargon. After the better part of 40 minutes circumventing the label the father suddenly turned to me and asked if we were talking about "Mental Retardation". Yes was my response. To the looks of shock the Father stated that his son is just like him. He was late learning to talk, could barely read as an adult, could not do math without a calculator and had a poor memory. For all the things he could not do he stated he was "damn good" with bricks and mortar. He asked that those at the table not give up on his son the same way others did not give up on him, then added he was sure he made more money than anyone at the table.

I totally cringe when people are described by slurs "retard", "moron" etc. It is what is in YOUR heart not the word. Do not give up on people even if you think they are members of the 47% or 3 to 4 standard deviations below the mean.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
23. I'm waiting until DU's term "Moran" is deemed hurtful to the 3rd Way.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:58 AM
Feb 2013

And the PC swarm tries to ban that word.



( No in this post.)

gordianot

(15,240 posts)
31. It will probably happen at some point someone will object as for me I accept the term "moran".
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 01:15 PM
Feb 2013

To me "moran" describes very well those who make ignorant (non cognitive) nasty slurs about others and is a really descriptive icon.

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
13. You still use spaz over there as abb. of spastic
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:12 AM
Feb 2013

to convey clumsiness whatever.

In the UK that would be highly derogatory and as such has more or less 100% disappeared from use. Even the Spastic Society here changed its name to SCOPE back in 1994 to successfully help remove use of the word.

 

greiner3

(5,214 posts)
15. My mom's education, and teaching, specialty was the deaf.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:09 AM
Feb 2013

However, her duties also included teaching the mentally disabled.

I just had first hand knowledge of the hurtful, and downright wrongness, of the put down of the word 'retard.'

Also, in my time i have witnessed the term, 'dumb' to portray those unable to talk, change to mute.

As one who has had a lifetime bout with bipolar and major depression, I welcome the change of the overall term 'crazy' to mental illness.

Could it be that the stigma of the mentally ill will be the next 'civil rights' battle?

Jus' saying.

bemildred

(90,061 posts)
19. I can remember when "retarded" was the euphemism of choice.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:36 AM
Feb 2013

Now it's the worst insult. How is one supposed to make sense in those conditions?

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
20. Consumers
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:43 AM
Feb 2013

is the term used by people working in the field with developmentally delayed adults. Children are just generally referred to as special needs.

gordianot

(15,240 posts)
24. I have also heard the terms "lids" "mers" "bumper" and "ADD's" several others.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 10:08 AM
Feb 2013

Translation

Lids= Learning Disability
Mers= Mentally Retarded now Cognitive Disability
Bumper= Traumatic Brain Damage
Adds= Attention Deficit Disorder is particularly used towards a parent who makes excuses for poor parenting.
limper= client who refuses physical therapy


Professionals should know better.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
27. When I worked through a temp agency they had code words for the clients
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 11:52 AM
Feb 2013

These were for the people hiring temps, or more specifically the people that the temps would report to:

"Difficult personality" = manager who lacks social, managerial and motivational skills, aka 'asshole'

"Creative personality" = inconsistent or unpredictable, disorganized, possibly ADD or ADHD

"Moody" = on drugs and/or prescription meds

"it's a family business" = expect unprofessional, tension filled workplace with relatives who just fight each other yet can't be fired. Be ready to get blamed for everything.

"had an incident" = means they are sending a male temp because this exec or middle manager made unwelcome sexual talk or advances at female assistant(s)

"They need someone who can go with the flow" or "be flexible" = means that the general environment of the workplace may be unprofessional and not compliant with OSHA, federal laws, local laws, common sense, political correctness, etc. They need someone who won't walk out, sue or both.

alp227

(32,034 posts)
34. Go to your local jr. high school and you'll see why.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 01:53 PM
Feb 2013

Or if you've raised teenagers within the past 15 years you probably know.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
37. Well I sure don't see gay people objecting to being called gay.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 02:52 PM
Feb 2013

That's what they refer to THEMSELVES as. So it's not a slur.

alp227

(32,034 posts)
39. True BUT...
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 03:17 PM
Feb 2013

a BIG difference exists between the acceptable dictionary use and slang use of the word (not ok).

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
43. the words, "Idiot" and "Moron" were originally medical terms for different gradations
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 05:37 PM
Feb 2013

of mental disability.

In 19th and early 20th century medicine and psychology, an "idiot" was a person with a very severe mental retardation. In the early 1900s, Dr. Henry H. Goddard proposed a classification system for mental retardation based on the Binet-Simon concept of mental age. Individuals with the lowest mental age level (less than three years) were identified as idiots; imbeciles had a mental age of three to seven years, and morons had a mental age of seven to ten years.[9] The term "idiot" was used to refer to people having an IQ below 30.[10][11] -- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiot



So, is anyone talking about the word "douche-bag"???? Ohhhhh, no one seems to have a problem with that one, eh? Well, a lot of women don't like it, but hey, who cares what they think.

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