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onehandle

(51,122 posts)
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:51 PM Jul 2013

Anthony Weiner Apologizes: ‘This Is Entirely Behind Me’

Source: TPM

New York City mayoral candidate Anthony Weiner on Tuesday apologized for new allegations of sexually explicit chats between him and a 22-year-old woman, clarifying that some of the exchanges, published by the gossip site TheDirty.com, occurred after his resignation from Congress.

"Some of these things happened before my resignation, some of them happened after, but the fact is that that was also the time that my wife and I were working through some things in our marriage," Weiner said at a press conference in New York. "I'm glad these things are behind us. I know that this was a very public thing that we had happen to us. But by no means does it change the fundamentals of my feelings here, and that is that I want to bring my vision to the people of the city of New York. I hope they're willing to still continue to give me a second chance."

"This is entirely behind me," he added.

Read more: http://livewire.talkingpointsmemo.com/entry/anthony-weiner-apologizes-this-is-entirely-behind-me

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Anthony Weiner Apologizes: ‘This Is Entirely Behind Me’ (Original Post) onehandle Jul 2013 OP
He continued AFTER his resignation from Congress. Roselma Jul 2013 #1
I think that finishes him. You're right, he's toast. Faygo Kid Jul 2013 #13
According to Andy Borowitz... matthews Jul 2013 #57
lol nt BootinUp Jul 2013 #63
Look at her body language. This marriage is over. nt tblue37 Jul 2013 #94
That's what I was thinking but then I wondered, why would she put matthews Jul 2013 #96
All I can figure is that the Mrs. Vitter act will Ilsa Jul 2013 #101
OUCH Ash_F Jul 2013 #97
Only thing that should be 'behind you' Anthony is the boot in your ass kicking you out of NYC Purveyor Jul 2013 #2
his wife should boot him in the ass ZRT2209 Jul 2013 #4
She does not seem humiliated to me. DURHAM D Jul 2013 #8
he is not showing respect for her by continuing to engage in this behavior ZRT2209 Jul 2013 #10
In your view. AtheistCrusader Jul 2013 #40
Post removed Post removed Jul 2013 #47
That isn't very credible. The Stranger Jul 2013 #78
I have no idea the internal mechanics of their marriage. AtheistCrusader Jul 2013 #80
No, she seems humiliated. The Stranger Jul 2013 #77
In that pic she looks like she'd rather be ANYWHERE but there! CTyankee Jul 2013 #86
"It took a lot of work and a whole lot of therapy to get to a place where I could forgive Anthony u4ic Jul 2013 #100
As I told my hubby this morning tavernier Jul 2013 #74
Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! LuckyLib Jul 2013 #98
He's lying BainsBane Jul 2013 #3
I agree... Blasphemer Jul 2013 #88
riight Adenoid_Hynkel Jul 2013 #5
Actually, Anthony, its in FRONT of you. 7962 Jul 2013 #6
An overly obvious poor choice of words in his context, I'm sure Coyotl Jul 2013 #90
HA! 7962 Jul 2013 #99
He is a habitual liar. onenote Jul 2013 #7
Mark Sanford. . .case closed. Nanjing to Seoul Jul 2013 #15
Mark Sanford got elected Katashi_itto Jul 2013 #39
He wouldn't of been elected if he was tweeting dick shots. Eom Redford Jul 2013 #65
Just running off with his mistress using taxpayer money Katashi_itto Jul 2013 #70
"This is entirely behind me . . . and I mean it this time. Text me if you geek tragedy Jul 2013 #9
I neither believe him nor care if he does it again. last1standing Jul 2013 #11
Maybe he's referring to.... Link Speed Jul 2013 #12
who cares? Does this negate all the work he does for the progressive cause? Nanjing to Seoul Jul 2013 #14
what work? He has no legislative accomplishments to his name Adenoid_Hynkel Jul 2013 #18
Now he's a right winger. It's amazing what some on this board will say Bonduel Jul 2013 #79
The effect would be the same, since he has done no work for the progressive cause geek tragedy Jul 2013 #19
No Mz Pip Jul 2013 #20
That's the beauty of the USA. Each voter gets to decide independently what's important to her/him 24601 Jul 2013 #21
And you think electing Sanford and Vitter was a good thing? NYC Liberal Jul 2013 #23
Even FDR had a mistress. I don't see the problem here. Nanjing to Seoul Jul 2013 #25
Because it shows incredibly poor judgment on his part. He already had to resign from Congress MotherPetrie Jul 2013 #36
Knowing that it is very hard to know who anyone really is on the internet, karynnj Jul 2013 #56
Those are Republicans. We have better people to choose from. Squinch Jul 2013 #31
The issue isn't the infidelity, it's that he's a pervo creeper.... devils chaplain Jul 2013 #38
He was a Clinton style Democrat until he saw the media he could get karynnj Jul 2013 #55
This guy is sick connecticut yankee Jul 2013 #16
Yep. Your political life is totally over. TheCowsCameHome Jul 2013 #17
OMG,he is a disgusting pervert Lunabelle Jul 2013 #22
I went through my dead grandmother's love letters from my grandfather when he was` Nanjing to Seoul Jul 2013 #26
Ahhh...Weiner wasn't sexting to his wife... onpatrol98 Jul 2013 #32
You think Weiner's sexting is akin to your grandparents love letters? Do you like your grandparents? Squinch Jul 2013 #34
He wasnt sexting his wife Lunabelle Jul 2013 #43
well I think most remember what was 'in front' of him azurnoir Jul 2013 #24
At this point I don't think he can win. He might get to the runoff but Quinn will beat him in the hrmjustin Jul 2013 #27
I've lost all respect for his wife michigandem58 Jul 2013 #28
She might be in on the kink 99th_Monkey Jul 2013 #30
Well, Anthony has learned at least one thing from all this 99th_Monkey Jul 2013 #29
Somehow I doubt that. DCBob Jul 2013 #33
Been thinking about the wife making comments and how odd that really is...so... Gin Jul 2013 #35
Good luck with that one. Hulk Jul 2013 #37
I do feel sorry for his wife.... onpatrol98 Jul 2013 #41
Hello, I think your post is very insightful. And I do think a counselor would probably suggest KittyWampus Jul 2013 #67
i wouldnt vote for him Garion_55 Jul 2013 #42
I am a liberal Democrat who will never vote for Anthony Weiner. kwassa Jul 2013 #44
If Mark Sanford can be "forgiven" by South Carolinans ShooterMG Jul 2013 #45
Or Vitter bahrbearian Jul 2013 #50
He would have been bad for the schools. We can't have more years Squinch Jul 2013 #46
How can anyone cheat on her? Yavin4 Jul 2013 #48
Who knows they may have an agreement. ForgoTheConsequence Jul 2013 #49
What a moron iandhr Jul 2013 #51
The details in this UK article reveal a very sick, sexually obsessed, out-of-control man. Divernan Jul 2013 #52
Nice insightful post. Alameda Jul 2013 #72
Jesus H Christ.... azbillyboy Jul 2013 #53
Intesting. I live in Nebraska. What HAS Carlos done? Thanks. nt matthews Jul 2013 #59
Dear azbillyboy, tblue Jul 2013 #60
Ultimately this is between him and his wife. AtheistCrusader Jul 2013 #85
oh fer fook's sake. Weiner just a self-promoting sleaze ball with a centrist's voting record cali Jul 2013 #91
For God's sake.... azbillyboy Aug 2013 #104
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2013 #54
Less concerned about Weiner's infidelity than I am that he gets his kicks exhibiting appacom Jul 2013 #58
Pay no attention to his actions, just his words, lol. nt BootinUp Jul 2013 #61
Dear Anthony, if you were wondering why I haven't donated to your campaign They_Live Jul 2013 #62
At least I got another laugh thanks to the Wiener. nt BootinUp Jul 2013 #64
Please leave forever......Please Bo Jul 2013 #66
Spare me CaptCaribbean Jul 2013 #68
Weiners little head thinking for the big head again.. Historic NY Jul 2013 #69
Get the hell out and stop embarrassing yourself and your Party. VPStoltz Jul 2013 #71
You changed the headline -- He did NOT apologize. Simply told us all to get over it. KurtNYC Jul 2013 #73
only ass shots from now on. mopinko Jul 2013 #75
I was going to post ... "And then he tweeted a pic of his ass." JoePhilly Jul 2013 #76
couldn't believe the thread got this far without that joke. mopinko Jul 2013 #81
Me too ... I was excited as I read down the list ... I was going to be the smart one. JoePhilly Jul 2013 #83
Yes, a very unfortunate choice of words on his part....."Freudian slip," perhaps? yellowcanine Jul 2013 #87
The pictures of his ass that is....nt Evasporque Jul 2013 #82
Has a politician's wife ever not stood behind her lying husband? nt abelenkpe Jul 2013 #84
Mark Sanford's wife didn't. nt tblue37 Jul 2013 #95
Very true. I think she even had to get a Ilsa Jul 2013 #102
Think its time PaulKersey Jul 2013 #89
"entirely behind me" sounds like this joke Kathie Lee told a couple of weeks ago UTUSN Jul 2013 #92
This is obviously addictive behavior. He cannot stop himself, tblue37 Jul 2013 #93
I thought it was in front of him but what do I know. Lint Head Jul 2013 #103

Faygo Kid

(21,478 posts)
13. I think that finishes him. You're right, he's toast.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:41 PM
Jul 2013

Folks are forgiving, but his regrets were clearly only because he got caught.

Then he kept doing it.

Stick a fork in him, he's done.

 

matthews

(497 posts)
57. According to Andy Borowitz...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:38 PM
Jul 2013

Weiner Continues Sexting During Apology



After seeing the candidate snap a photo of the pants region and then send a text, reporters bombarded Mr. Weiner with questions, asking him if he had in fact just sexted.

“Yes, I did, but I swear this was the last time,” he said. “This behavior is now behind me.”

Mr. Weiner then concluded his press conference by removing his shirt and snapping a quick shot of his naked torso.

http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/borowitzreport/2013/07/anthony-weiner-continues-sexting-during-apology.html?mbid=nl_Borowitz%20%28154%29

 

matthews

(497 posts)
96. That's what I was thinking but then I wondered, why would she put
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 04:45 PM
Jul 2013

herself through all this if she was going to dump him.

Then I thought, look who she works for. Look at what Honduras Hils has put up with. So who knows?

Ilsa

(61,697 posts)
101. All I can figure is that the Mrs. Vitter act will
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 06:52 PM
Jul 2013

insure she gets custody of the little Weiner and better-than-excellent child support without a fight if he can continue his political career.

Yeah, that one moment captured might be more revealing than anything they are saying.

 

Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
2. Only thing that should be 'behind you' Anthony is the boot in your ass kicking you out of NYC
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:53 PM
Jul 2013

politics.

ZRT2209

(1,357 posts)
4. his wife should boot him in the ass
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:59 PM
Jul 2013

how many more times is he going to publicly humiliate her? Geez.

Response to AtheistCrusader (Reply #40)

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
80. I have no idea the internal mechanics of their marriage.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 11:01 AM
Jul 2013

I know people who took the step to get married, yet have an open relationship. Not many, but some.

Not for me to assume what her feelings are on this matter.

u4ic

(17,101 posts)
100. "It took a lot of work and a whole lot of therapy to get to a place where I could forgive Anthony
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 06:43 PM
Jul 2013

it was not an easy choice in any way".

Doesn't sound like she was okay with his behaviour.

tavernier

(12,396 posts)
74. As I told my hubby this morning
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 10:16 AM
Jul 2013

If she's not willing to leave him knowing he's a perv, perhaps she prefers a perv with a job.
😄

LuckyLib

(6,819 posts)
98. Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner!
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 05:08 PM
Jul 2013

Anyone who makes such ridiculously poor judgments has two issues: (1) he can't keep it in his pants; and (2) he should be nowhere NEAR important decision-making required to govern.

BainsBane

(53,056 posts)
3. He's lying
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:54 PM
Jul 2013

Last edited Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:14 PM - Edit history (1)

If resignation didn't prompt him to quit, why should we believe he has now. Also he shows no understanding of how serious of a compulsion he has. "This is entirely behind me." Ever know of a recovering alcoholic who says that? If they do, it's a sure sign they'll soon be back to drinking.

Blasphemer

(3,261 posts)
88. I agree...
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:13 PM
Jul 2013

He may not have control over his lies due to his addiction but I don't believe he has fully addressed his issues. When the story first broke, I had no experience with sex addiction but since then I've come to know two sex addicts. Based on the stories I've heard, I truly believe that he's an addict and I don't think he's had sufficient time to rehab. I don't think he should be back in an elected office just yet. Though I do have far more compassion and understanding than I had previously, I just don't think he is ready.

 

Adenoid_Hynkel

(14,093 posts)
5. riight
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:01 PM
Jul 2013

once a narcissistic POS, always a narcissistic POS

Never liked the little self-serving prick and glad to see him make fool of himself again.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
6. Actually, Anthony, its in FRONT of you.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:04 PM
Jul 2013

But I bet he still does well, just watch and see.
And again he has to drag his poor wife out to stand by her man. I know its her choice, but still. It sux.

onenote

(42,748 posts)
7. He is a habitual liar.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:07 PM
Jul 2013

When he was caught the first time, he lied about it and tried to get others to lie about it.

When he resigned, he said he had made a "mistake" and was "seeking treatment".

Now it comes out that for six months after resigning, he continued to engage in similar behavior to what he had himself characterized as a mistake. Are there more tweets/texts? From how long ago? Does anyone have any confidence that he might not have engaged in this behavior yesterday or won't engage in it tomorrow? What "treatment" did he get?

He's done. He should be done.

I'm no prude and if a private citizen engages in this behavior it should be no one's business. But he is a former public official seeking to reenter public life. He is held to a different standard and should be. And the fact that some (not all) repubs get away with their own indiscretions is not a reason to look the other way when a Democrat does it. Forgive him once? Sure. If when he announced he was running he had acknowledge up front not only that more texts/pictures would come out but that his "recovery" had been a struggle and that for a time after resigning he could not resist engaging in that behavior but that with help from "treatment" he had been "clean" for X months, he might have been able to weather the storm. But with it coming out this way, he's toast.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
9. "This is entirely behind me . . . and I mean it this time. Text me if you
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:12 PM
Jul 2013

have any questions, and want to praise my abs."

 

Nanjing to Seoul

(2,088 posts)
14. who cares? Does this negate all the work he does for the progressive cause?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:43 PM
Jul 2013

Christ, they elected the Hiker Sanford and re-elected diaper hooker lover Vitter. So Weiner likes to sext. . .Big fucking deail!

 

Adenoid_Hynkel

(14,093 posts)
18. what work? He has no legislative accomplishments to his name
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:49 PM
Jul 2013

He just has a Bachmann-esque knack for getting in front of cameras and showing off.
In reality, he was a rightwing dick who launched his career on race-baiting and milked anti-arab sentiment for any gain he could get.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
19. The effect would be the same, since he has done no work for the progressive cause
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:51 PM
Jul 2013

but rather used progressive causes to get himself attention.

Mz Pip

(27,453 posts)
20. No
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:52 PM
Jul 2013

But it pretty much negates his chances of continuing it in the future.

Sanford and Vitter are creeps. So is Weiner.

24601

(3,962 posts)
21. That's the beauty of the USA. Each voter gets to decide independently what's important to her/him
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:54 PM
Jul 2013

and doesn't have to rely on anybody else to make that determination.

I'll predict NYC voters have had enough Former Representative Weiner and will judge that they can do better. It's not about anybody else whose not a candidate for NYC mayor and I don't see Sanford or Vitter on the ballot, especially not in the Democratic primary.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
23. And you think electing Sanford and Vitter was a good thing?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:58 PM
Jul 2013

Doing stuff like this is a reflection of a person's judgment, and he clearly has poor judgment.

I don't think people should have to resign over these issues (or be impeached for that matter), but when we're still in the primary stage and have a field of candidates to choose from then I think a person's judgment is worth considering. But if he gets the nomination, then yes I will vote for him in the election.

 

Nanjing to Seoul

(2,088 posts)
25. Even FDR had a mistress. I don't see the problem here.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:02 PM
Jul 2013

So Weiner likes to Sext. . .that's an issue for him and his wife. . .not the electing public.

If he were one of the pious, holier than thou assholes then it would be an issue of being a hypocrite. . .but he's not. So, again I ask, who cares?

 

MotherPetrie

(3,145 posts)
36. Because it shows incredibly poor judgment on his part. He already had to resign from Congress
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:21 PM
Jul 2013

for being caught lying about tweeting an inappropriate photo of himself to a young woman.

An experience which apparently taught him nothing.

I'm as liberal and progressive as they come, and I wouldn't vote for this no-impulse-control fool. If he got elected, odds are too good that he'd just end up having to resign again.

I don't give a shit if he sabotages himself, but sabotaging the people who vote for him is inexcusable.

karynnj

(59,504 posts)
56. Knowing that it is very hard to know who anyone really is on the internet,
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:24 PM
Jul 2013

could he in the past or future send one of these lovely photos to someone under 18?

devils chaplain

(602 posts)
38. The issue isn't the infidelity, it's that he's a pervo creeper....
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:27 PM
Jul 2013

I'd vote for Spitzer, but something is not right with this man. "Carlos Danger"... 22 year old girls... Really? It's a free country, and he can sext whomever he likes, but that's not the personality profile I'd want for someone with an enormous degree of power and responsibility.

Mr. Danger should first try 60 days in an inpatient rehab for sex addiction and then do a few years in a 12 step program, then maybe we can talk elected office again.

karynnj

(59,504 posts)
55. He was a Clinton style Democrat until he saw the media he could get
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:21 PM
Jul 2013

playing to the left. It doesn't match his voting records. Put this with the obvious lie that he saw that kind of behavior as a mistake and he was getting treatment - now knowing he was STILL doing it.

Listing bad Republicans elected does not mean we can trust Weiner.

 

Nanjing to Seoul

(2,088 posts)
26. I went through my dead grandmother's love letters from my grandfather when he was`
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:04 PM
Jul 2013

in the navy in WW2 after she died as I went through her effects in her home. I guess it's not sexting, but it was pretty jarring. . .I guess, by your standard, my grandfather is just as much a disgusting pervert. And my grandmother is a disgusting enabler

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
32. Ahhh...Weiner wasn't sexting to his wife...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:14 PM
Jul 2013

The equivalent would be if you went through someone else's effects and found steamy letters from your grandfather to another woman while married to your grandmother AS they were trying to get through a rough patch caused by your grandfather in a totally different steamy situation than even that woman.

It's just not the same.

In your case, your grandfather was simply away from his wife and missing his wife...in all the great ways a couple can miss each other...but, decided to put it on paper.

In the second case...the guy would be a perv.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
24. well I think most remember what was 'in front' of him
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:00 PM
Jul 2013

however while I'm not from NYC or even NY State I would hate to see this IMO progressive poseur back in politics

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
27. At this point I don't think he can win. He might get to the runoff but Quinn will beat him in the
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:04 PM
Jul 2013

runoff. It has always been anybody but Quinn for me.

 

99th_Monkey

(19,326 posts)
29. Well, Anthony has learned at least one thing from all this
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:07 PM
Jul 2013

Last edited Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:19 PM - Edit history (1)

"This is entirely behind me" <-- Exhibit A

How to create a sound bite that doesn't have some wierd sexual double-meaning,
showing his Freudian slip. Exhibit A is a big improvement over:

Wiener "won't pull out"

"Weiner 'comes clean'"

"Weiner makes hard choice"

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
33. Somehow I doubt that.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:16 PM
Jul 2013

This guy has a serious sexual addiction and unfortunately Huma will likely suffer more humiliations in the future.

Gin

(7,212 posts)
35. Been thinking about the wife making comments and how odd that really is...so...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:18 PM
Jul 2013

This crossed my mind that this was HER first political speech...for HER future campaignes...

Supposedly she is politically savvy......time will tell. IMO

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
41. I do feel sorry for his wife....
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:30 PM
Jul 2013

Really sorry for his wife...

Anthony did not have a legislative resume. He was a big mouth looking for a camera. He was not supported by major democrats behind the scenes because he wasn't considered a worker. He was a show boater. He lived for the camera. And, his current woes are part and parcel of the same problem. He's narcissistic.

He didn't think about his wife, when he was sexting. He didn't think about the voters as he was sending pictures of himself in his undies. Anthony thinks of Anthony.

I say, give him the Mayor's post, if you like him. But, if you're thinking Anthony is thinking of getting into the trenches, pulling up his sleeves, and fighting for the good people of New York, there just isn't anything on his current resume that suggests it's his top priority. Anthony is Anthony's top priority.

Being Mayor of New York...looks good on a resume. If he's elected, I guarantee you'll see his image on buses and billboards IMMEDIATELY. His ego is huge. Expect kickbacks and corruption...again, symptoms of his ego.

But, the stress from the spotlight he craves, will cause his risky behavior to get more intense. He needs professional help. And, no reasonable counseling would have suggested this return to the spotlight, so soon. He needs an intervention. To trust him with the lives of so many...foolhardy.

What is startling is that Weiner is supposedly one of the best New York has to offer. I used to have such high regard for this city. Now, I'm astounded. My how the mighty city has fallen...if he's a serious candidate. It's a shame.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
67. Hello, I think your post is very insightful. And I do think a counselor would probably suggest
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 11:15 PM
Jul 2013

a bit more time to get things straight.

But as you said, Anthony's top priority is Anthony.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
44. I am a liberal Democrat who will never vote for Anthony Weiner.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:46 PM
Jul 2013

Bad judgment is incurable. Sexual compulsion, maybe.

 

ShooterMG

(2 posts)
45. If Mark Sanford can be "forgiven" by South Carolinans
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:48 PM
Jul 2013

for spending taxpayer dollars on trip to Argentina so he could be with his mistress and divorce his wife, surely Anthony Wiener can be "forgiven" for something totally private and not your business.

Squinch

(50,993 posts)
46. He would have been bad for the schools. We can't have more years
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:50 PM
Jul 2013

with someone trying to dismantle the schools and working against the unions. I'm glad this came out.

Divernan

(15,480 posts)
52. The details in this UK article reveal a very sick, sexually obsessed, out-of-control man.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:13 PM
Jul 2013

And a woman/wife who accepts his demeaning ridicule of her Muslim family and his negative comparisons of her genitalia to that of his girlfriend's truly reflects the destructive impact on a woman's self-esteem and sense of self-worth from being raised in Saudi Arabia. Choosing to stay with him apparently alienated her from her family, and she is a sad example of an abused wife who stays with her abuser. What a terrible situation in which to raise her son.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2047846/Anthony-Weiner-called-wife-Huma-Abedins-parents-backwards.html

This article is from 2011. I never bothered to read any of the details of the original scandal back then, but they really are necessary to understand the extent and significance of his continuing sexting/infidelity.

It's pathetic that some try to excuse his behavior by comparing him to Roosevelt, who had a mistress. FDR also behaved with class and discretion. Weiner, by contrast, tweets about masturbating in the Capitol men's room. This kind of sexual addiction, like that of sexually abusing children, does not lend itself to a cure. Neither does the level of it remain static. He will get more out of control as time progresses. And if he were to be elected Mayor, he would use the power of that office to attract and manipulate even more needy women for his satisfaction. I believe mental illness to be contagious. If you maintain an intimate relationship with an addicted person, you have to divorce yourself from reality in order to excuse and enable him.

Alameda

(1,895 posts)
72. Nice insightful post.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:31 AM
Jul 2013

I really feel sorry for his wife and child. How horrible it must be for her. By marrying him she has alienated her family, making getting out of the situation even more difficult. Then, she is having a child with him, so she will never really be free of him.

It's sad to see such lack of compassion for her here.

azbillyboy

(56 posts)
53. Jesus H Christ....
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:14 PM
Jul 2013

Those moral purists within the Democratic Party who are so quick to condemn Weiner are just plain idiots.

Fine. Purge the party of anyone who accomplishes anything for the plebes...

Run with your HRC/BO-types who only use the rank and file to get elected and then proceed to crap all over the prolls...

Keep the effing Party nice and pure and continue to lose because so many elected Dems have acute testicular shrinkage...

But Oh no... The Repukes embrace serial fuck-ups who have done a lot worse than Weiner.

Christ no wonder we're on the short end of a long stick....

tblue

(16,350 posts)
60. Dear azbillyboy,
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:16 PM
Jul 2013
I don't jump on bandwagons and I sure don't relish a Democrat's demise, unless he's closet neoliberal or a Blue Dog, in which case, bring it on.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
85. Ultimately this is between him and his wife.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 11:40 AM
Jul 2013

He made a mistake resigning the first time, I think.

Doing something illegal? No.
Doing something immoral? Maybe, depending on his wife's position on the matter.

Which makes it not my problem.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
91. oh fer fook's sake. Weiner just a self-promoting sleaze ball with a centrist's voting record
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:54 PM
Jul 2013

I was never fooled by that anti-Palestinian bigot shit stain.

Response to onehandle (Original post)

appacom

(296 posts)
58. Less concerned about Weiner's infidelity than I am that he gets his kicks exhibiting
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:40 PM
Jul 2013

his weiner online. This is sick, and says a lot about his propensity for exhibitionism and his lack of self control. He and his wife are suspect to me. I think he is running for office because he knew the new sexting stuff would come out and he gets off on that.

I don't care to know anything about politician's personal/sexual histories except when their behavior indicates narcissism, and recklessness, and untrustworthiness . . . .

They_Live

(3,239 posts)
62. Dear Anthony, if you were wondering why I haven't donated to your campaign
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:37 PM
Jul 2013

I think you might have just discovered the reason!

Sometimes I hate being right about human behavior. Oh, also, I told you so. And I knew this would happen.

CaptCaribbean

(15 posts)
68. Spare me
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:03 AM
Jul 2013

Anthony, Back home in Brooklyn we have a name for guys like you, and that moniker is DOUCHEBAG! You've betrayed everyone's trust including your old lady. Obviously, you have neither pride nor shame. Give it UP.

Historic NY

(37,452 posts)
69. Weiners little head thinking for the big head again..
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:11 AM
Jul 2013

WTF is wrong with him? He obviously needs some sort of physchological counseling. His fetish behavior is overtaking him. Who the hell signs up under their proper name on internet sites like these sounds like he has a need to be a voyeur and to be caught.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
73. You changed the headline -- He did NOT apologize. Simply told us all to get over it.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:44 AM
Jul 2013

Actual headline: "Anthony Weiner: Explicit Exchanges Continued After I Resigned"

Takes no responsibility for his actions. Says instead "these things happened..."

What is "behind us" is any chance he had to run for office successfully.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
83. Me too ... I was excited as I read down the list ... I was going to be the smart one.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 11:13 AM
Jul 2013

And then YOU screwed it up.

UTUSN

(70,725 posts)
92. "entirely behind me" sounds like this joke Kathie Lee told a couple of weeks ago
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 04:09 PM
Jul 2013

Over in the Riviera or S. France or whatever, where the women sunbathe topless and the rich old men wear speedos, this rich old man paraded up and down the beach and got *nothing*.

So he asked an old fisherman at the pier, "What happened, I got nothing!1" And the old fisherman at the pier said, "There's a market over there, buy a potato and put it down your speedo." So the rich old dude did it and paraded up and down the beach, and now everybody RAN AWAY!1

So the rich old dude said to the old fisherman, "I did everything you told me to and now everybody ran way!1"

And the old man said, "Put it in FRONT!1"

tblue37

(65,483 posts)
93. This is obviously addictive behavior. He cannot stop himself,
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 04:19 PM
Jul 2013

and if by some miracle he were to get elected, he would continue this behavior, ultimately getting caught and being forced to resign.

If he had it in him at all to think about the well-being of others and not just about what he wants, he would never have entered the race in the first place, knowing that these more recent sext messages were out there.

There is something seriously wrong with that man. I am surprised that his wife hasn't dumped him already.

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