Nothing Out of the Ordinary: How a Russian Law Normalizes and Legalizes Domestic Violence
Nothing Out of the Ordinary: How a Russian Law Normalizes and Legalizes Domestic Violence
For the first three years of our relationship he was kind; he bought me flowers and gifts. We didnt have any problems. But when I was six months pregnant with our first child, he started to beat me, says 38-year-old Irina Petrakova, a lawyer living in Moscow. He started punching me in the stomach. I was six months [pregnant]. Over the years, it got worse and worsehe beat me more often and it was more severe. When my son was three, he started beating him, and when I intervened, he got violent with me.
A woman stands alone in an empty area of a Russian city. (Khuroshvili Ilya / Creative Commons)
After leaving the hospital following one brutal attack, Petrakova filed for divorce from her then-husband, Alexei, and moved into a new apartment with her children. This is the fourth flat because he kept finding us and beating us, she says. I complained to the police, but they said it was nothing out of the ordinary and advised me to find a man and start a new life without bothering them anymore. In her testimony to the police, Petrakova outlined more than 20 cases of abuse during their marriage, but she says Alexei only received 120 hours of compulsory work as punishment for two of the beatings.
In Russia, 40 percent of all violent crimes are committed by the victims family members, according to government statistics, with about *********14,000 women killed each yeara rate of one woman every 40 minutes.*********** Sexist attitudes in Russia fuel the problem, with beatings dangerously described as a form of affection: If he beats you, it means he loves you. Women are [held] responsible for an emotional atmosphere, says Marina Pisklakova-Parker, founder and director of the Moscow-based ANNA National Center for Prevention of Violence. An admission of domestic violence is an admission of [their] failure. In 2015, the U.N. Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women addressed domestic violence in Russia in a statement that expressed its concern about reported barriers that women are facing when they seek justice, including social stigma and negative stereotypes, [and] lack of awareness of their rights. But since then, the situation for Russian women has gotten worse, not better.
In 2017, the Russian parliament voted 385 to 2 to decriminalize any domestic violence that does not cause significant injury (defined as requiring hospital treatment). Emotional and psychological abuse dont count. Nor do physical assaults, unless they cause broken bones or concussionsbruises, scratches or bleeding arent taken seriously unless there are repeated beatings within a year. Supporters say the law is designed to limit state meddling in the family and to preserve the tradition of parental authority. It was introduced by ultraconservative lawmaker Yelena Mizulina, who has said, A man beating his wife is less offensive than when a woman humiliates a man, and that it was ridiculous that a family member could be labeled a criminal for a slap.
The law is a symptom of intensifying conservatism in Russia. The Russian Orthodox Church has become vastly more powerful since the collapse of the Soviet Union, and feminist activists view with alarm the increasingly close partnership between President Vladimir Putin and the church. Having long advocated for less interference in family life, the church strongly backed the law decriminalizing domestic violence. In 2015, a church commission proclaimed that it views the notion of domestic violence in terms of radical feminism where a man is often portrayed as a potential aggressor. Mayor Yevgeny Roizmanmayor of Yekaterinburg, Russias fourth-largest city, said the effects of the new law were immediately palpable. Just two days after the bill was signed, he announced on Facebook that the number of domestic-violence-related calls to the citys police had more than doubled. The law sends a message that physical violence in the family is not a bad thing, Pisklakova-Parker says. It was already very difficult for women to prosecute their abusers; now itll be not possible. Activists argue the law is likely to worsen a system in which Russian police dont take cases of domestic violence seriously, providing little help to women who report such assaults.
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http://msmagazine.com/blog/2018/07/05/nothing-ordinary-russian-law-normalizes-legalizes-domestic-violence/
tblue37
(65,328 posts)WhiteTara
(29,703 posts)looks to be even more of our future
niyad
(113,259 posts)lark
(23,091 posts)RW judges are even now giving out ridiculously low to no punishment for rape because they are infected by misogyny, just like the Russians. drumpf wants this to happen all the time and will look for judges that don't care if white men rape. There are laws in several states giving rapists rights to the product of their crime and making the victims let them come to their houses. (I still can't even believe that anyone, no matter how hate filled, would go for this, yet I know there are a number of states where this is law!!!) Ryan tried to make it a national law, but it failed. All the worst of Russia, hating and jailing gay people, letting women be raped and beaten and stalked with no recourse, having not enough food to eat and waiting in long lines for any food at all, living lives of quiet desperation because if they make enough noise, they will be killed. This is what drumpf wants, a fascist dictatorship with him as the titular head but Putin being the true person in charge.
niyad
(113,259 posts)WAYYYY past ""The Handmaid's Tale) into a misogynistic wet dream.