I Know Why Evangelical Women Support Brett Kavanaugh. I Was Raised To Do The Same.
'It seems a lot of people cant fathom why a woman, regardless of political beliefs, would support Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh in light of Dr. Christine Blasey Fords testimony about him sexually assaulting her.
I can, and heres why.
There exists a generation of women who were never taught consent ― and Im not talking about Boomers. Im talking about the hundreds of thousands of us who were raised in church and came of age at the turn of the millennium.
In our world, we were taught that our bodies didnt belong to ourselves. God owned them, they said, but really, that meant that men owned them. Our fathers. Our pastors. Our husbands. Our politicians. Never ourselves.
This is, of course, the foundation of the 1990s evangelical movement known as purity culture. A pendulum swing from the free love culture of the 1970s and the AIDS scare of the 1980s, the 1990s were all about abstinence. Evangelicals took it upon themselves to stop a generation from promiscuity. They forged a mascot, a slogan (True Love Waits), held purity balls, manufactured an endless supply of merchandise and voila! Purity culture, a subculture within an already-bizarre evangelical subculture, was born.
Purity culture taught young girls to bear responsibility for mens lust. When we got dressed in the morning, we were supposed to ask ourselves what our grandfathers would think of our outfits. We wore T-shirts that said, Modest is Hottest.
Our formative years were spent in shame over our bodies, in suspicion of our sexuality, and in earnest ownership over the behavior of men.'>>>
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guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Especially the part that females are responsible for inciting male lust.
elleng
(130,914 posts)RussBLib
(9,019 posts)Cover your women head to toe or be responsible for inciting mens lust.
It's demented.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,625 posts)I wasn't surprised at the word "control." A lot of what men try to do to us women is controlling.
They don't want us to be educated, or autonomous, or intelligent. Or sexual. It's a very patriarchal attitude, and it has no place in our lives.
Wellstone ruled
(34,661 posts)Just had to walk away and get on with my own Family. And yes,they really believe in the Patriarchal Family unit.
As a wise man once said,you can not choose you relatives only your friends.
And the axiom of Religion is the Opiate of the Masses is so true.
MarcA
(2,195 posts)and place would have been suitable to Mao's or Jim Jones' self-criticism/confession
gambit.
stopbush
(24,396 posts)Dulcinea
(6,631 posts)It's the same thinking in Islam that says women must wear burqas so they don't tempt men to impurity.
BeckyDem
(8,361 posts)Radical doesn't even begin to describe it. This is child abuse, what a bunch of disgusting people in love with their power over women.
appalachiablue
(41,136 posts)no members of my family are religious conservatives. Education and independence in women was encouraged for generations on all sides.