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elleng

(130,914 posts)
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 07:59 PM Oct 2018

I Know Why Evangelical Women Support Brett Kavanaugh. I Was Raised To Do The Same.

'It seems a lot of people can’t fathom why a woman, regardless of political beliefs, would support Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh in light of Dr. Christine Blasey Ford’s testimony about him sexually assaulting her.

I can, and here’s why.

There exists a generation of women who were never taught consent ― and I’m not talking about Boomers. I’m talking about the hundreds of thousands of us who were raised in church and came of age at the turn of the millennium.

In our world, we were taught that our bodies didn’t belong to ourselves. God owned them, they said, but really, that meant that men owned them. Our fathers. Our pastors. Our husbands. Our politicians. Never ourselves.

This is, of course, the foundation of the 1990s evangelical movement known as “purity culture.” A pendulum swing from the free love culture of the 1970s and the AIDS scare of the 1980s, the 1990s were all about abstinence. Evangelicals took it upon themselves to stop a generation from promiscuity. They forged a mascot, a slogan (“True Love Waits”), held “purity balls,” manufactured an endless supply of merchandise — and voila! Purity culture, a subculture within an already-bizarre evangelical subculture, was born.

Purity culture taught young girls to bear responsibility for men’s lust. When we got dressed in the morning, we were supposed to ask ourselves what our grandfathers would think of our outfits. We wore T-shirts that said, “Modest is Hottest.”

Our formative years were spent in shame over our bodies, in suspicion of our sexuality, and in earnest ownership over the behavior of men.'>>>

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/brett-kavanaugh-evangelical-women_us_5bb3a28de4b0ba8bb211985b?

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I Know Why Evangelical Women Support Brett Kavanaugh. I Was Raised To Do The Same. (Original Post) elleng Oct 2018 OP
Recommended for the insights. guillaumeb Oct 2018 #1
Right, NOTHING about nature, of course. elleng Oct 2018 #2
Sounds like Islam! RussBLib Oct 2018 #8
Except that it does not. eom guillaumeb Oct 2018 #10
Great article! She really gets into the WHY women support him. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2018 #3
Dealt with this in my own family. Wellstone ruled Oct 2018 #5
Sad situation. The one I knew about had an attitude that in another time MarcA Oct 2018 #4
Christianity proves the power of pure fiction. stopbush Oct 2018 #6
What a pantload. Dulcinea Oct 2018 #7
jesus christ almighty this reads like it was written in 1890. BeckyDem Oct 2018 #9
Appreciate her explanation but I can't relate to anything close since appalachiablue Oct 2018 #11
Ditto elleng Oct 2018 #12

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
1. Recommended for the insights.
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 08:08 PM
Oct 2018

Especially the part that females are responsible for inciting male lust.

RussBLib

(9,019 posts)
8. Sounds like Islam!
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 09:18 AM
Oct 2018

Cover your women head to toe or be responsible for inciting mens lust.

It's demented.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,625 posts)
3. Great article! She really gets into the WHY women support him.
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 08:23 PM
Oct 2018

I wasn't surprised at the word "control." A lot of what men try to do to us women is controlling.

They don't want us to be educated, or autonomous, or intelligent. Or sexual. It's a very patriarchal attitude, and it has no place in our lives.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
5. Dealt with this in my own family.
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 08:57 PM
Oct 2018

Just had to walk away and get on with my own Family. And yes,they really believe in the Patriarchal Family unit.

As a wise man once said,you can not choose you relatives only your friends.


And the axiom of Religion is the Opiate of the Masses is so true.

MarcA

(2,195 posts)
4. Sad situation. The one I knew about had an attitude that in another time
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 08:28 PM
Oct 2018

and place would have been suitable to Mao's or Jim Jones' self-criticism/confession
gambit.

Dulcinea

(6,631 posts)
7. What a pantload.
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 09:17 AM
Oct 2018

It's the same thinking in Islam that says women must wear burqas so they don't tempt men to impurity.

BeckyDem

(8,361 posts)
9. jesus christ almighty this reads like it was written in 1890.
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 09:51 AM
Oct 2018

Radical doesn't even begin to describe it. This is child abuse, what a bunch of disgusting people in love with their power over women.

appalachiablue

(41,136 posts)
11. Appreciate her explanation but I can't relate to anything close since
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 06:56 PM
Oct 2018

no members of my family are religious conservatives. Education and independence in women was encouraged for generations on all sides.

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