I don't want your god in charge of my health care
Lets say a patient is considering a tubal ligation after a planned Caesarean section because she doesnt want to get pregnant again. Here are some factors that pertain to that decision: her vision of her reproductive future, her doctors advice, state regulations, the recommendations of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, the latest scientific research.
Here are some factors that, for most patients, do not pertain: Gods purposes, Gods will, the truth that life is a precious gift from God.
But if our hypothetical patient happens to be in a Catholic hospital, those factors precisely those words will be controlling the decision, whether or not she or her doctor believes in Gods plan. Its plainly spelled out in the ethical directives of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops: Direct sterilization of either men or women, whether permanent or temporary, is not permitted in a Catholic health care institution. She wont get the operation no matter how medically safe and legal it is, no matter what she wants.
Clearly, she should have picked a different hospital. But with the expansion of Catholic health systems all over the country, that might not be an option. A 2020 report by Community Catalyst, a nonprofit health advocacy group, found that four of the 10 largest health systems in the country were Catholic. The Catholic Health Association says that Catholic facilities now account for more than 1 in 7 U.S. hospital patients.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/09/26/catholic-hospital-secular-reproductive-health-care/
Farmer-Rick
(10,175 posts)Forcing birth and imaginary creatures in the sky on every suffering person for a huge price.
walkingman
(7,616 posts)Genki Hikari
(1,766 posts)I had a doctor refuse to give me a tubal without my owner's permission. Er, my husband. The one I was divorcing.
WTF?
This was at a military base, no less.
And not in 1962 or even 72, but 1992.
These sexists act like we don't know our own mind. I was 30 years old. I'd had a kid and knew I'd never want another one.
The MD next tried the tactic of, What if something happened to your child?
Only a man could ask something so stupid, as if one child could replace another in my heart. How sick and ghoulish do you have to be to talk about somebody's kid dying, anyway?
I ended up telling him he wasn't smart enough to speak for me, and to do the job he was paid for, or refer me to someone who would.
Turned out it was hospital policy for the spousal permission. No matter what the age of the woman.
So my next call was to my soon-to-be ex. I wasn't even nice about it: I told him what he'd do, and he knew better than to argue with it. I was there when he called the idiot MD. When asked if he was sure about doing it, my husband burst out laughing. The rest of the conversation went something like this:
"You don't tell her what to do. Her mother and I send each other sympathy cards after what she does to us when we try it. And she likes us. You, not so much. Just shut up and do what she wants, because you will, anyway."
I wasn't mad at him for saying any of that. It was all true.
LittleGirl
(8,287 posts)Nobody tells me what to do either. ha ha.
thanks for the early morning chuckle.
Hekate
(90,690 posts)Hekate
(90,690 posts)In a sense it is really not their fault, as they are simply doing what they do, which is practice medicine according to their gods dictum. In a world full of secular hospitals, this would not be a problem.
Unfortunately, small not-for-profit community hospitals have been driven out of business and consolidated under big for-profit chains generally in big cities. Are we a great country or what?
Small towns, rural communities, and so forth have remained in serious need. In step the Roman Catholics, hearts full of charity. Of course they have to be paid just like anyone else, because of overhead, salaries, and building maintenance but imagine the sense of relief youd feel if your kid with the laceration needing lots of stitches didnt have to be driven 60 miles to the nearest ER. Womens complete healthcare? Well cross that bridge when we come to it. Oy.
So now this particular chicken has come home to roost. What could possibly go wrong?
Just remembered: before COVID, the University of Californias medical school in San Francisco got into a kerfuffle with the Catholics over medical school training because the contract everybody signed about them sharing the hospital and not imposing their religious beliefs on UC students turned out not to be worth the paper it was printed on. I dont know how that turned out because COVID threw a monkey-wrench into both education and medical care.
Martin Eden
(12,868 posts)They use religion as a tool to enforce their own narrow minded bigotry.
It has nothing to do with God or Jesus and everything to do with politicians exploiting the beliefs and cultural attitudes of voters to gain political power.
Irish_Dem
(47,094 posts)How would they like it if doctors and nurses were in control of their churches?
twodogsbarking
(9,752 posts)Irish_Dem
(47,094 posts)Wear masks, wash their hands, and eat properly.
Turnabout is fair play.
Ladythatvotesblue
(122 posts)Ladythatvotesblue
(122 posts)in God.
I do not believe in the Catholic Church anymore. Their ability to trust that the human brain (which God gave us) can do miracles with Science is unfathomable, and infinite.
Religion is designed to control the masses.
Elessar Zappa
(13,991 posts)the Catholic Church is much more open to science than most evangelical churches. The Vatican has accepted evolution for instance. That doesnt excuse their misogyny and homophobia though.
ShazzieB
(16,399 posts)In my own conception of God, that is, and I sure as hell don't want somebody else's conception of God dictating my medical care, or that of my loved ones. Fortunately for me, I'm postmenopausal, but my daughter won't be out of her "fertile" years for a while yet, and I do worry about her sometimes.