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Masks Off - A Challenge to Men (Original Post) seabeyond Dec 2013 OP
Kicked and recommended! In_The_Wind Dec 2013 #1
and again trof Dec 2013 #2
I wanted to like it, but... Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #3
maybe you will like this better ... Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #4
No, I'm afraid not. nt Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #5
yeah, not surprised. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #6
Oh? I am surprised that you like the second... Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #7
did I say that I liked it? NO. I just said that I am not surprised that you didn't. Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2013 #8
He didn't have to do it. tblue Dec 2013 #11
Or you could take your mask off passiveporcupine Dec 2013 #14
Have you considered moving to a part of the world where men are less confused? nt Ace Acme Dec 2013 #9
Name one. Triana Dec 2013 #12
Anyplace off the plains, I believe. Ace Acme Dec 2013 #13
Oh yeah. Love this! nt tblue Dec 2013 #10
 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
3. I wanted to like it, but...
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:12 PM
Dec 2013

It didn't speak to me -- far too proselytizing and prosey to be good poetry. It failed to paint any pictures in my mind beyond that of some faceless angst-poet, no doubt in a Starbucks and typing on an Apple, staining to craft rhymes out of the statistics he picked up in his first women's studies class. That's not really a good start for a poem. Setting it to a music video doesn't save it.

As for the video...

hammy acting by a fabulously Takei miscast thespian, saccharine piano, the slowly twirling camera and lens flair that would make JJ Abrams shiver, and the end result can only be described as pretentious and painful. When they called this mess, "A Challenge to Men" they missed warning half their audience.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
4. maybe you will like this better ...
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:08 PM
Dec 2013

A Concerned Mother’s Letter to Teenage Girls
After seeing pictures of her sons’ friends online and being shocked by how provocative they were, one mother wrote a wise letter to all teenage girls online. Read her original post below:

Dear girls,
I have some information that might interest you. Last night, as we sometimes do, our family sat around the dining-room table and looked through the summer’s social media photos.
We have teenage sons, and so naturally there are quite a few pictures of you lovely ladies to wade through. Wow – you sure took a bunch of selfies in your skimpy pj’s this summer! Your bedrooms are so cute! Our eight-year-old daughter brought this to our attention, because with three older brothers who have rooms that smell like stinky cheese, she notices girly details like that.

I think the boys notice other things. For one, it appears that you are not wearing a bra.

I get it – you’re in your room, so you’re heading to bed, right? But then I can’t help but notice the red carpet pose, the extra-arched back, and the sultry pout. What’s up? None of these positions is one I naturally assume before sleep, this I know.

So, here’s the bit that I think is important for you to realize. If you are friends with a Hall boy on Facebook or Instagram or Twitter, then you are friends with the whole Hall family.

Please know that we genuinely like staying connected with you this way! We enjoy seeing things through your unique and colorful lens – you are insightful, and often very, very funny.


more at link:
http://www.viralnova.com/a-concerned-mothers-letter/

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
7. Oh? I am surprised that you like the second...
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:07 PM
Dec 2013

Apparently this woman believes that once her boys see a girl as a sexual object they are then incapable of viewing her otherwise or exercising any sort of self control, and it is therefore the girl's responsibility to avoid this possibility. I could not disagree with this nonsense more. Instead of trying to change the world to conform to her ideas on morality, she should try talking to her own kids. Clearly she has a great deal she needs to talk to them about.

Actually, forget that. She is the LAST person I want talking to her boys.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
8. did I say that I liked it? NO. I just said that I am not surprised that you didn't.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:20 PM
Dec 2013

DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
11. He didn't have to do it.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:35 PM
Dec 2013

I applaud anything that points us in the right direction. It may well speak to someone who needs to hear it, even if it doesn't to you.

 

Ace Acme

(1,464 posts)
13. Anyplace off the plains, I believe.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:11 PM
Dec 2013

Last edited Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:41 PM - Edit history (1)

My experience with, and sense of, the plains is that the people there have largely lost their sense of mission, and thus the men must invent macho and often violent fantasies to get any sense that their lives are significant. It's the "What's the Matter With Kansas" syndrome.

Of course, I haven't been there in about ten years. Things may have changed.

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