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FBI says body found matches description of Gabby Petito (Original Post) Galraedia Sep 2021 OP
Of course they did! She's white. Cobalt Violet Sep 2021 #1
How sad all of this is. May Gabby rest in peace. CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2021 #2
Incredibly sad. So young, so lovely. Polly Hennessey Sep 2021 #6
I'm sad when anyone dies, but it's annoying that it's always some blond white woman Clash City Rocker Sep 2021 #3
Vanessa Guillen? LeftInTX Sep 2021 #16
It could well turn out that it wasn't murder. She could have died in an accident captain queeg Sep 2021 #4
I'm reserving judgement MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #5
Me too on reserving judgement, BUT THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS IS.....SHE IS WHITE. a kennedy Sep 2021 #7
I know and I agree MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #8
Cripe sake. Miss Gabby Petito didn't chose her race nor hair color. Budi Sep 2021 #9
I agree and two things can be true at the same time. madaboutharry Sep 2021 #10
Thank you Budi Sep 2021 #11
Thank You bobnicewander Sep 2021 #14
Right. Moebym Sep 2021 #15
Thanks Budi Sep 2021 #17
White Supremacy bothers some of us. Cobalt Violet Sep 2021 #18
He's Likely To Commit Suicide WHITT Sep 2021 #12
This story has struck a nerve in society. Cattledog Sep 2021 #13

Cobalt Violet

(9,905 posts)
1. Of course they did! She's white.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:39 PM
Sep 2021

Let me know when they start looking for the 5000+ a year Missing and Murdered Indigenous women.

Clash City Rocker

(3,389 posts)
3. I'm sad when anyone dies, but it's annoying that it's always some blond white woman
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:43 PM
Sep 2021

Someone I’ve never heard of, but I’m told that I should be distraught over her death, while they don’t mention any of the other people who were kidnapped or killed.

One would think that killers would have learned by now, just don’t go after the blond women, they’re the only ones the media cares about. Attack the minority women, and no one will mention it.

captain queeg

(10,092 posts)
4. It could well turn out that it wasn't murder. She could have died in an accident
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:50 PM
Sep 2021

And the boyfriend freaked out and ran off. Still very wrong. No use guessing at this point.

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
7. Me too on reserving judgement, BUT THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS IS.....SHE IS WHITE.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 06:56 PM
Sep 2021

and if she was any other color, the interest, would NOT be this intense. JMHO, and I agree California Peggy it’s just sad.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
9. Cripe sake. Miss Gabby Petito didn't chose her race nor hair color.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 07:09 PM
Sep 2021

Maybe out of respect for this tragedy, Start another thread or campaign for the unnamed, missing, & address it to the Reps that can make it a campaign for change.

Using this young woman's death by attacking her race or hair color is really a sad display that isn't needed.

Start with directly addressing the media.

Gabby Petito shouldn't be the poster child for the fault of media that runs the headlines.

I'm sure Ms Petito doesn't deserve the racial badgering I've seen here in every thread posted out of sincere sadness for her demise.

Grow up. Start a campaign on a national scale. Do something that moves the national & international message & demand to address the human tragedy of those unnamed & forgotten without using this young woman's face & name & tragic end to her life, to air personal grievances.

What have you personally done or are willing to do other than rage about the issue on social media using Gabby Petito as a beat board.

She's dead. Can she rest in peace for awhile ?

madaboutharry

(40,190 posts)
10. I agree and two things can be true at the same time.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 07:16 PM
Sep 2021

Yes, it is true that women of color, poor women, and women not attractive by current standards are overlooked and ignored by the media.

It is also true that this a sad and tragic story. You are right, Gabby Petito did not chose her race or hair color. She has lost her life at 22 years old and in the next few days we will find out how she died.

May she Rest In Peace.

Moebym

(989 posts)
15. Right.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 09:01 PM
Sep 2021

It's not as if Gabby Petito had (or could have) chosen for her missing persons case to become a media sensation - the news media has chosen to make it so.

No one here who posted about this case is suggesting in any way that less-publicized cases involving the poor and POC are any less important or that there is no media bias, but the truth of the matter is that her case is all over the news and many of us here have been following it intently.

Coming into threads such as these and bemoaning the fact that Gabby was just another pretty young missing white girl getting all the attention is akin to a protestor running up on the stage where a presidential candidate is giving a speech and snatching the mic away to go off on a tangent or rant about an entirely different topic. Doing this is not an effective way of bringing attention to a cause you are passionate about.

Cattledog

(5,910 posts)
13. This story has struck a nerve in society.
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 07:27 PM
Sep 2021

On TikTok, the #gabbypetito hashtag has been viewed more than 212 million times.

One-third of all women murdered in the United States are murdered by a current or former intimate partner.

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