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pokerfan

(27,677 posts)
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 06:46 PM Oct 2012

High Schoolers Bully DUI Speaker Offstage



Sarah Panzau has traveled the country telling teenagers about her near-fatal decision 10 years ago to drink and drive.

The professional speaker hired by brewer Anheuser-Busch said she was so thrown off by chatter and disruptive conduct by some members of the school's junior class that she gave up talking and walked off during her 45-minute appearance Thursday.

The last of the disruptions came when someone mocked her appearance.

More: http://summerville.patch.com/articles/your-view-arhs-students-unruly-for-dui-lesson
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High Schoolers Bully DUI Speaker Offstage (Original Post) pokerfan Oct 2012 OP
Future FReepers Faygo Kid Oct 2012 #1
As a student, I would have proudly disrupted her jberryhill Oct 2012 #3
Proudly mocked her appearance? Really? McCamy Taylor Oct 2012 #4
She looks a lot better than dead... jberryhill Oct 2012 #6
I would probably have said something rude as a kid too. Like Bristol Palin coming and extolling the AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #7
BP made the Gulf Coast better! And Chevron cares! jberryhill Oct 2012 #8
Exactly. I DO NOT CARE how badly traumatised a drunk or hoon... TheMadMonk Oct 2012 #12
And here is perpetrator as well as sole victim. Any conflicted thoughts? marble falls Oct 2012 #28
I was always mature for my age in high school BrainMann1 Oct 2012 #26
I had that figured out in elementary school jberryhill Oct 2012 #32
Shame on you. That's the same sort of thing Mitt did, too. Take your grief out on Spudwiezer .... marble falls Oct 2012 #27
Do you think Budweiser would continue to fund her if she said 'don't drink at all'? AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #37
If she's talking to kids, she's telling them don't drink at all until they're 21. Do you drink.... marble falls Oct 2012 #38
Because in this case, the 'messenger' is part of their strategy. AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #39
I do drink and the message is good and wise. marble falls Oct 2012 #40
"hired by brewer Anheuser-Busch" jberryhill Oct 2012 #2
Precisely. DollarBillHines Oct 2012 #5
Still doesn't make the students' bullying right. alp227 Oct 2012 #14
Next up - Michael Vick on animal abuse jberryhill Oct 2012 #15
I still draw the line at bigoted remarks, alp227 Oct 2012 #16
"Her appearance" - you mean having one arm? jberryhill Oct 2012 #19
She's not a shill, she's a speaker regarding DUI. Do you turn off all those great PBS shows ... marble falls Oct 2012 #29
Damn them ailsagirl Oct 2012 #9
Them who? jberryhill Oct 2012 #10
That's not quite what they are saying. Bolo Boffin Oct 2012 #17
Yeah, I'd love to be a kid in her audience and ask jberryhill Oct 2012 #18
High school students are bombarded by so many motivational speakers... JohnnyRingo Oct 2012 #11
Several years back I wrote a LTTE, saying pretty much this. TheMadMonk Oct 2012 #13
The school admins threatened us with suspension if we didn't show up. AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #20
When I was in high school FlaGranny Oct 2012 #24
So is all heckling automatically 'bullying' now? AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #21
Guess not pokerfan Oct 2012 #22
It happens. AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #23
This particular incident is bullying. marble falls Oct 2012 #30
Based on? AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #34
Based on the fact they drove her off the stage, that the behavior was agregeous, making comment .... marble falls Oct 2012 #35
Did Condoleezza Rice feel bullied when Code Pink showed up to her press conference AtheistCrusader Oct 2012 #36
ok, so, certain types of bullying is OK with people here SemperEadem Oct 2012 #25
Good way of putting it. Situational ethics is as wrong when we use them as when Teabillies use them. marble falls Oct 2012 #31
Heckling is not the same as bullying. Quantess Oct 2012 #33
Something very similar happened Tien1985 Oct 2012 #41
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
3. As a student, I would have proudly disrupted her
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 07:00 PM
Oct 2012

As I did to other corporate sponsored speakers when I was in high school.

If you don't believe her sponsor spends a lot on developing brand awareness in the pre-legal market, then you are blind to what this woman is really all about, and why she is bought and paid for.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
6. She looks a lot better than dead...
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 07:15 PM
Oct 2012

...but I would have been the one walking out - which I did in response to some Coca-Cola sponsored multimedia "youth values" thingie.

As long as someone else is picking up the tab for my corporate prostitute, then I would demand a good looking one.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
7. I would probably have said something rude as a kid too. Like Bristol Palin coming and extolling the
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 07:17 PM
Oct 2012

virtues of abstinence. Or some wall street asshole coming to speak about good investment schemes.

As far as drunk driver's go, I'd be more impressed by a victim, rather than a perpetrator.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
8. BP made the Gulf Coast better! And Chevron cares!
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 07:40 PM
Oct 2012

I like it when prostitutes say "I love you!" when they are fucking me.

Some won't do it, and some charge extra.

"Hey kids, do something stupid and make a career out of it!" That's the message here.
 

TheMadMonk

(6,187 posts)
12. Exactly. I DO NOT CARE how badly traumatised a drunk or hoon...
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 08:51 PM
Oct 2012

...driver feels (or is) after the fact.

Light sentences, because the perp has suffered enough just knowing what they have done is BULL(fucking)SHIT.

Because the NEXT self important twit DOES NOT KNOW the feeling of killing another human being until AFTER they have done it, too late for the poor bastard smeered over the hood and a couple of hundred feet of tarmac.

BrainMann1

(460 posts)
26. I was always mature for my age in high school
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 08:56 AM
Oct 2012

and looked at the big picture. That's probably why my friends called me the shrink. Don't get me wrong I had fun but not at the expense of others.The message you lost here was the results of drinking and driving.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
32. I had that figured out in elementary school
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 10:19 AM
Oct 2012

And didn't really need a representative from RJ Reynolds to tell me not to smoke.

Unfortunately her real message is "Drink, drive, get injured, and you are set for life."

Bristol Palin on "don't have sex" must have been a real piece of news for some kids, I guess.

marble falls

(57,112 posts)
27. Shame on you. That's the same sort of thing Mitt did, too. Take your grief out on Spudwiezer ....
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 09:29 AM
Oct 2012

not the individual. She's not a spokesman for Spud. How are you about boycotting those corporations? Your answer rationalizing bullying is disappointing and typical of how Teabillies think when they pull their uncivil stunts.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
37. Do you think Budweiser would continue to fund her if she said 'don't drink at all'?
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 01:32 AM
Oct 2012

I'm guessing 'no'.

So that kind of changes things in this specific set of circumstances.

marble falls

(57,112 posts)
38. If she's talking to kids, she's telling them don't drink at all until they're 21. Do you drink....
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 11:21 AM
Oct 2012

responsibly or irresponsibly? I wouldn't drink any Spudwiezer product but I understand what they're doing, they are giving themselves a cloak of public service and a layer of deniability like bar owners do here in Texas by requiring servers to be TABC certified. The server is pressured to sell and then held responsible. The beer companies are doing this to keep themselves from some sort of control regulation. That said, getting kids to stop drinking is a good goal even though we all know it will never be 100% effective. Why kick the messenger with a good message regardless of the agenda of the messaging authority?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
39. Because in this case, the 'messenger' is part of their strategy.
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 11:35 AM
Oct 2012

Just as you highlighted with their 'voluntary' efforts to control excess consumption at the server level.

There are other sponsors happy to fund such efforts, that do not have a conflict of interest. Also, the beer company could fund her anonymously, and not do the 'we're so responsible' PR campaign.


BTW, I don't drink at all.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
2. "hired by brewer Anheuser-Busch"
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 06:56 PM
Oct 2012

So if asked by a student whether she believes saturation sponsorship of sporting events promotes drinking to youth, what sort of answer does she give?

Explain to me in 25 words or less, why are they paying her to do this.

Do they disclose to the students who is paying for this?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
15. Next up - Michael Vick on animal abuse
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 09:45 PM
Oct 2012

Although in all fairness, unlike drunk drivers like this scumbag corporate prostitute, animal abusers don't kill people.

No sympathy for this woman here. I have to work for a living.

alp227

(32,034 posts)
16. I still draw the line at bigoted remarks,
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 10:05 PM
Oct 2012

like the students allegedly directed at the woman over her appearance. While I'd think it'd be "OOAW-SOME" as Cenk would say if Vick ever got heckled during a theoretical motivational speech, I would condemn someone who heckled the N-word (Vick is a black American).

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
19. "Her appearance" - you mean having one arm?
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 11:20 PM
Oct 2012

I haven't watched the video because I don't condone the students' behavior. I do, however, detest these "corporate goodwill" charades. Like BP telling us all about how the Gulf is probably even better off now than before, how coal is "clean", and everyone agrees that Chevron should frack the shit out of everyplace - hell, use my backyard.

But Budweiser can get every kid from age five up going "Wa-sssuuuupppp!!!" with their buddies on the school playground and say, "Oh no, we are not advertising to youth! We are paying good money to tell them not to buy our product!" Bull-fucking-shit

marble falls

(57,112 posts)
29. She's not a shill, she's a speaker regarding DUI. Do you turn off all those great PBS shows ...
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 09:33 AM
Oct 2012

sponsored by David Koch????????

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
10. Them who?
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 07:59 PM
Oct 2012

The kids, or the beer company saying, "Get drunk, drive, and we'll make a career out of it for you?"

Bolo Boffin

(23,796 posts)
17. That's not quite what they are saying.
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 10:49 PM
Oct 2012

It's more like, "Get drunk, but not drunk enough you kill yourself and stop buying beer." No less despicable a message.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
18. Yeah, I'd love to be a kid in her audience and ask
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 11:11 PM
Oct 2012

"So, why not just never drink? Shouldn't we just ban alcohol, like we do with marijuana?"

JohnnyRingo

(18,636 posts)
11. High school students are bombarded by so many motivational speakers...
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 08:19 PM
Oct 2012

I recall it was hard to take any of them seriously after a while.
The drunk driver thing is an annual event now in every school, and I'm sure kids feel like rebelling after going through three or four as these juniors no doubt have.

Kids aren't stupid, they can smell a scared straight routine before it gets past the principal's office.

 

TheMadMonk

(6,187 posts)
13. Several years back I wrote a LTTE, saying pretty much this.
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 09:05 PM
Oct 2012

A "reformed" anything carries almost zero weight outside of church. You seriously want to scare kids straight, go down to the local equivalent of Skid Row, find a street addict, find one with their pants full of shit and vomit in their beards. Make sure they have the jitters before bringing them onto the stage.

Now pay them in front of the kids, pay them in goods like a good set of clean clothes, and ask what they're going to do with their payment.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
20. The school admins threatened us with suspension if we didn't show up.
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 12:57 AM
Oct 2012

Maybe one out of the entire pack of them my senior year was any use to me at all. One out of probably 30.

FlaGranny

(8,361 posts)
24. When I was in high school
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 07:10 AM
Oct 2012

back in the 1950's, we had a couple of kids do a presentation on drinking and driving. It made a deep impression on me at the time. They had the smashed up car on a trailer out in front of the auditorium for everyone to see. Inside one of the survivors spoke on stage. The car had been full of kids. If I remember 3 or 4 of them died. One or 2 survived. Due to the condition of the car, pre-seatbelt days, it was amazing that anyone survived.

The event was sponsored by a volunteer group and not any beer company. I still keep an eye out for drunk drivers; it's always in the back of my mind when I drive.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
21. So is all heckling automatically 'bullying' now?
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 01:10 AM
Oct 2012

Or is it only bullying if the recipient is offended?

Because anyone worth heckling is worth offending.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
23. It happens.
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 01:46 AM
Oct 2012

I think the twin issues of being on Aunheiser-Busch's payroll, and the self-inflicted nature of the injury didn't serve her in this case.

I expect someone on the payroll of maybe MADD, or just there on her own, and someone that was a victim, rather than the perpetrator, would be better received.

marble falls

(57,112 posts)
35. Based on the fact they drove her off the stage, that the behavior was agregeous, making comment ....
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 11:18 PM
Oct 2012

on her appearance for one thing, at least according to the report. Walking out would be understandable and mature. But what these kids were engaging in was hate speech and the equivalent of what Teabillies were doing when they shouted down "liberal" legislators at the town hall in 2008 and 2009. If a few hundred of my friends showed up a venue you were speaking at and pointed out how ugly and fat you are - wouldn't you feel bullied?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
36. Did Condoleezza Rice feel bullied when Code Pink showed up to her press conference
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 11:32 PM
Oct 2012

and used fake blood on their hands to demonstrate the logical conclusion of her foreign policy?

She walked off stage. Poor, poor bullied Condoleezza.

SemperEadem

(8,053 posts)
25. ok, so, certain types of bullying is OK with people here
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 07:10 AM
Oct 2012

If a corporation is picking up the tab for you having been invited by the school to speak on why drunk driving is a stupid thing to do, it's ok if a room full of snotty nosed brats bullies you... glad to know I got that straightened out here.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
33. Heckling is not the same as bullying.
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 11:55 AM
Oct 2012

However, those kids are jerks. Laughing at someone else's expense. Teenagers can be such a-holes.

Tien1985

(920 posts)
41. Something very similar happened
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:52 PM
Oct 2012

when I was in the first quarter of my 10th grade year. I was making up a test, so I wasn't there, much less a part of the heckling. In our case, it wasn't about drunk driving, but drug abuse. I would have NEVER been disrespectful to someone who was on our stage. HOWEVER, our year was forever banned from all future assemblies throughout high school and I can honestly say that was the best thing ever. We all HATED assemblies. If anything, most of the rest of the school was jealous.

By high school, if you are going to do drugs, drink, bully or otherwise do stupid stuff, no amount of someone getting onstage to talk at you is going to make you stop. Can we just stop with the assemblies?

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