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Tommy_Carcetti

(43,189 posts)
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 02:51 PM Apr 2019

So, I'm at the food market across the street from my office.

It's one of those places that occasionally has the samples out.

And I come to the coffee area. And lo and behold, there is a sample pot of coffee out.

And I'm a sucker for any sample, but especially we're talking about coffee.

So I go to reach for those little tiny sample coffee cups and as I do, I hear...

"Don't do it."

And I don't think much of it, since it's probably someone talking to someone else in the store.

Again I reach for the cups. And again...

"Don't do it."

So I turn around behind me, and there's this woman. She's not an employee, just another customer, and she's in conversation with someone else. But she's also looking at me as my hand is reaching towards the sample cups.

"Don't do it," she says. "The coffee--it's no good. It's old. It's been sitting out forever. It's lukewarm."

And I don't say a thing in return to her. But I have to admit I did shoot her a look. A look that says, "How dare you! How dare you cast your judgments on what I should and shouldn't have! How do you know that I don't actually like old, lukewarm sample coffee? You, a stranger who I have never met before in my life, just decide to cast your own decision on you think I shouldn't drink?"

And so...did I go ahead and show her how little I thought of her unsolicited input, and take that coffee against her wishes?

No.

Of course not.

Because I don't want to be seen as the weirdo drinking old, lukewarm sample coffee.

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So, I'm at the food market across the street from my office. (Original Post) Tommy_Carcetti Apr 2019 OP
she was trying to save you haha. I do that to people getting behind me in very slow line... samnsara Apr 2019 #1
She was trying to do you a favor! Glad you listened! Made her feel good!❤ Karadeniz Apr 2019 #2
I take my coffee, just like me gratuitous Apr 2019 #3
She did you a solid with a liquid Generic Brad Apr 2019 #4

samnsara

(17,625 posts)
1. she was trying to save you haha. I do that to people getting behind me in very slow line...
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 02:54 PM
Apr 2019

...esp if the person ahead of me is brain dead or the checker is....i warn them.....( go to another line!)

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
3. I take my coffee, just like me
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 07:19 PM
Apr 2019

Old and weak and left out too long!

You'da showed her, by golly.

Had it been me, I probably would have just said, "That carafe's been out a while. The coffee's not exactly fresh."

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