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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsCulling the books. Sigh, probably one of the last at this late date in life span.
It's possible I had 300 or so books at the peak, starting from my teens into the post college years. In my 30s and up there have been 3 or 4 times when I winnowed out a score or two at a time, donating to the library, while continuing to add on.
There was this time when I went cross country to Boot Camp, lugging a very large box of books, knowing nothing about what Boot Camp would be and that there would be *no* space of time to refer to them or physical storage to stow them. Actually, it was a touching moment when all of us, the last time in civilian clothes and with our belongings, were told to put our stuff on the ground in front of us and the fellow in charge passed in front of us like browsing at a flea market to tell us what we could keep with us and what would be shipped home, and when he paused at my spot, he almost teared up until he collected himself and told me the books had to go. Actually, it was something of a relief, like taking a burden off my back.
Forty years later, I was on the giving end of things, having boarded a very small plane, and an ancient professor was taking up my assigned seat with a humongous bag of his books that he was temporarily looking to stow some place. I was in another seat waiting, when somebody said to me, "You're in my seat." I said I was just waiting for my seat to be vacated. The ancient professor was a bit embarrassed. I wasn't pissed at him, just reacting to the woman who reproached me, and I said to him, "You know there are now devices that can hold a thousand books." Actually, it's not likely that most of the old books are digital. Goes around, comes around...
Anyway, today did a lot of culling down and even more dusting off. Am down to probably 125 or so. Some things just don't need to hang around. I mean, once you've read how pitiful POE's horrendous life was, and the push and pull strains TCHAIKOVSKY's consisted of, I'm not going to read those again.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)Grasswire2
(13,565 posts)Anyone who comes to my home must leave with a book to take home wtih them.
The trouble is that I don't stop acquiring them at rummage sales and library sales. Picked up two at rummage today and there are three waiting for me at the library table at the farmers market tomorrow; I had them held last week because I was overloaded with corn and peaches and berries.
I have comparatively little fiction, btw.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)Like, I have another category of collecting = bells (hand bells, mostly brass, with different figures as handles). It started from Navy nostalgia, since every ship and actually land station in the Navy has a "ship's bell" on it - BIG ship's bell. So I've got way more than enough, as if "enough" was ever a factor. And several years ago I laid down the law, no more bells. HAH!1 The only way to enforce it is to stop going anywhere and stop looking at stuff. There's always *one* more that is just a must-have. Only this, one more, no more!1 HAH!1
As for fiction, yea, a couple of decades ago fiction lost any attraction for me. Non-fiction is way too fantastical now.
I have 10,000 plus pieces of collectible sheet music from the 19th and 20th century. Collected for historical interest and for the art work and for my love of American popular song 1850-1940.
And ephemera. Oy. My father was a journeyman letterpress printer and I blame my love of vintage paper on that.
Postcards. Oy. I actually sold many of those on eBay, though.
sprinkleeninow
(20,217 posts)Black square Bakelite [?] with white lettering and a hole on top.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)Last edited Thu Sep 12, 2019, 10:47 AM - Edit history (2)
I'm interested to know what the bakelite square with a hole is. What do the letters say?
When it (the Mid Watch) is over at 4 A.M. and you hit your rack you get to sleep in for a whole (one) extra hour after Reveille, wow!1
"Watch" is the Navy jargon for what the Army calls Guard.
sprinkleeninow
(20,217 posts)UTUSN
(70,649 posts)There are some practices that are local to a ship or shore station, not used everywhere throughout the Navy world.
I want it, haha!1
sprinkleeninow
(20,217 posts)No, really, you're interested?
I am currently undoing stuff. This 'thing' is sentimental bc it was with his service stuff, but more strongly he is in my heart. Reposed at 45 years, aortic aneurysm. Smack dab in front of me and mom. Bad scene. But 'twas so long ago.
I assumed it was Navy associated. Mb, mb not. He was temporarily stationed in Norfolk, then shipped out from the west coast to the Phillipines. Did I say--WWII? I knew more before, but dint retain the exact itinerary in my head.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)Any way you can post a picture of it next to a ruler or something?
Like, what are the dimensions and thickness? Are the letters centered horizontally or diagonally, or near a corner? Is the hole in a corner or in the center, what diameter, show signs of being scratched like for being hooked on a belt or something? Are the letters block, all caps, or capitalized (Mid Watch, or MID WATCH)? Are the letters on both sides or one? What color is it, black?
It might not have been worn or carried by somebody standing Watch, might have been hooked at the main check-in place like at a lectern, depending on how big it is.
*Stop* me before I question more!1 PICTURE!1 Haha!1
dweller
(23,613 posts)and i've said that more than once before... and didn't
there are some i'll never part you with tho, plan to pass them on to friends eventually..
luckily a new/used local bookstore buys for cash or store credit 😁
and i'll just buy more with
the credit 🙄 ...
remember when kindle et al came out ?
my 1st thought... there's gonna be so many real books available soon ... gotta start looking for them...
sigh, i had a library planned ...
✌🏼
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)But there's some kind of emotional attachment to the paper things...
hibbing
(10,095 posts)My father had hundreds and hundreds of books. They are a hassle to get rid of. Do a favor for whoever will be going through your things, reduce as much as you can
Peace
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)worrying about finding worthy recipients to have them, since really books in paper are likely going to be an increasing burden or irrelevant.
My lingering literary illusion is that Prosterity will be treasuring my every thought, interpreting what my every choice of book meant in an earthshaking way, haha!1
Still, as I handled each one, it brought back what it meant to me at the time...
Grasswire2
(13,565 posts)My sister gave me three very old and worn leather-bound books that were the only books my grandfather owned when they homesteaded on the Saskatchewan prairie in the early 1900s. One of them was missing the cover and I was told that it had blown away in a tornado and Grandfather had hunted it down and brought it back. If you only had three books, you would do the same.
That one is John Greenleaf Whittier poems. The others are Tennyson and Longfellow. Inside the Whittier volume I can see thumbprints where Grandfather held the book, and see that he underlined two poems. One about the coming of the bitter frost, and the other about flowers that bloom in snow. Ah. Saskatchewan winter fare.
So I like to think that an urge was instilled in me to keep books, get books.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)After our mother passed, the sister who is the hovering/controlling type, made a point of giving me Mother's prayer books, with lines and lines of date notations of prayers for me. Yay!1
JudyM
(29,204 posts)dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)It literally means reading pile.
Tsundoku is a combination of several Japanese words, including tsunde, which means to stack things; oku, which means to leave for a while; and doku, which means to read.
Somehow I became less hard on myself after knowing this.
SharonAnn
(13,771 posts)Took about 700 LPs to mcKays used book store in Knoxville last weekend. Theyll sort through and pay me something for things the can resell. Actually, I just didnt want to move them again.
And this is the second time ive Purged books in the last few years. Still have too many left, I suppose. Mostly biographies I havent read yet.
cstanleytech
(26,246 posts)to one small one and 2nd & Charles which wants to charge way to much imo for their books.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)to be able to know what the heck they really were about!1
Lars39
(26,107 posts)cstanleytech
(26,246 posts)LudwigPastorius
(9,110 posts)...then I could start in on the 1,500, or so, CDs, LPs, and cassettes.
First World Problems
MurrayDelph
(5,292 posts)Ellie and the Wave, featuring Natalie Morales. It's about a young woman who decides to document her life before the worldwide data virus that is wiping out ALL digital media hits, using an old-fashioned tape recorder.
If such a thing were to be true, books would be especially important.
canuckledragger
(1,636 posts)and then a huge movie library for some that have made the transition.
What I like is a good, honest story that makes you feel for the characters involved, and absolutely love the subtle morality tales that sneak under the radar of of good scifi/fantasy...
...like the 2nd season of the Battlestar Galactica series that was a direct commentary of the Iraq war that was going on at the time, down to the night vision invasion of peoples home for 'security'. Hard to get that across in a novel.
Ender's game was another good one about unforeseen consequences, when you assume and are reassured the whole way you're doing something for all the right reasons but in the end end lied to for the most horrible of such. (and that's just the impression I get from the Netflix movie)
Some books books/movies I want to keep around for those kind of reasons...like thinking when I'm in a money pinch I can can make some runs for some easy cash like in the "Requiem for a Dream" movie, because I think I know a few a things and angles only to learn the hard way that I have NONE of the angles figured out and was fooling myself the whole time. (the film is a creative, graphic description of addiction in overt and subtle forms.)
And then there's a quote from a Jack L Chalker series called 'The Rings of the Master' which describes a skynet type computer system in the near future that seized control for humanity's own good, mutated them so they could live among the stars but reduced the original population and environment to what amounted to museum exhibits.
The quote in the series amounted to one of the main, super cynical native american characters in the novel arguing against tradition as a way to move forward, shaping the future that they will be left with should they win, saying that although they technically have the bloodlines, their beliefs are as fake as the exhibits they were supposed to represent (being an imposed approximation of what a computer that they were in the first place) It was a powerful argument for making ones own way.
I find it hard to part with some for reasons mentioned. It gets me thinking in ways I wouldn't be exposed to otherwise.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)I hear ya, indeed.
blm
(113,015 posts)I feel for you, UTUSN. Sweet sadness.
JudyM
(29,204 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,610 posts)One way to do it, if any of these are around, is to leave them in a Little Free Library. I put one up in my front yard several years ago and stocked it with books I wasn't going to read again. People took those books and left different ones. It's been fun to see how books come and go. Usually the thing is pretty full but when it gets a bit depleted I just add more of my unused books.
sprinkleeninow
(20,217 posts)Hotler
(11,396 posts)I end up reading something and nothing gets done, it's a vicious cycle.
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GemDigger
(4,305 posts)very gently. No dog ears, try not to bend the binding, clean hands and never ever throw a book away. It's time I have to do something with my books and I look at them everyday and think that I have to get rid of some. At least some....but..... I delay it one more day.
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lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)I believed strongly that a good library at home was a sign of intellect and knowledge. Even if I hadn't read everything, I was very proud of my collection. Guests would often scan the titles and authors, and usually would be dully impressed.
Now, approaching my 72nd birthday, my "library" consists of various serial killer biographies, cookbooks, and some poetry.
Guess my intellect took a hike some years ago, along with my waistline and good looks.
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)I'm down to 225 right now. I plan to keep 100 to 150 of my books. There rest I have been donating after I read them. There is a charity bookstore where I can donate them. I would like to get under 200 books by the time I move.
Raven
(13,879 posts)his house and take whatever they wanted. They took his books and the boys took some of his ties.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)It was book themed because the bride and groom and pretty much everyone there read a lot. Each of the twenty or so tables had a small pile of books, each guest was given a book bag with the date and names of bride and groom and encouraged to take books home. There were only four left out of about 150 at the very end.
I personally made off with about ten books.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)Last edited Sun Sep 8, 2019, 04:39 PM - Edit history (1)
I was resistant at first also, for all the reasons we know. But those damn birthdays come around faster and faster, eyesight changes, holding books in bed becomes uncomfortable after awhile, and the Nook offers a way to have a comfortable read.
The Kindle is even better. Like a lot of us serious readers, we often run across something that needs looking up...a name, a phrase, a book, etc.
So, in the beginning, one would lay down book, go to the huge 1939 Webster Dictionary on a stand,
look up word....( said dictionary is from my Grandma, I used to read it when I was a young kid)
has been replaced with
lay down book, go to the computer, find the answer, try not to get sucked into other interesting things on the page,...........
and now has been replaced by
touch the word and find definition in the pop-up that appears.
so...culling. About half of my books are now in e-readers and/or titles I now know I will never get around to reading, which still leaves about 300 or so in various bookshelves., which include a lot of out of print books, a few autographed ones, a few big lovely but tiny print things like The Encyclopedia of Southern Culture,
and of course the ones that have personal meaning.
I still have the tiny print small thick paperback of Laurel's Kitchen, which had the only recipe for home
made tofu I could find, back in the day.
and the late 1960's big Betty Crocker cookbook, which now has gained importance because it has real made from scratch recipes, including the best brownies I have ever baked.
And a complete collection of all the Doonesbury books, even tho I have them in e-reader format, because holding them to read is still a nostalgic pleasure.
Next cull....the closets....sigh.
Grasswire2
(13,565 posts)Today I brought home from the library's sale an enormous book of rare historic B&W American photos gathered by editors of American Heritage and published in 1969. When opened, the book spans 21 inches wide and 13 inches high.
yellowdogintexas
(22,235 posts)I decided I would no longer acquire any physical books with only a few exceptions: we will continue to purchase any additional parts of "Game of Thrones" which happen to appear (!) and books by Alexander McCall Smith. I suspect my husband would add Carl Hiassen to that list and while there will be no more to acquire we'll never let go of our complete collection of Pratchett
I've culled a bunch; I finally decided I wouldn't re read the Stephanie Plum novels again, so got rid of them. I also pulled out several books which I had owned for a long time and never read.
I'm studying on a few other potential books to donate somewhere.
There are a few books I will never let go of, naturally. All book lovers have those.
I totally love my Kindles! I have a Kindle Fire and read it at night because I don't need a lamp. My other one is a newer model of the traditional Kindle that fits in a purse and goes with me everywhere because you never know when you are going to have to wait around for something. My read in bed Kindle has a case which makes a great easel and I can read much more comfortably.
However those free/99 cent/$1.99 book services are the death of me. However I have discovered a lot of wonderful new authors and series through those services.
demmiblue
(36,824 posts)The library doesn't accept them, and my recycling service doesn't take them. :sigh:
I think I got rid of 30-40... and a lot more are staring at me. I thought it would be easier to let them go!
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)I have a lot of education books!
demmiblue
(36,824 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)I threw away a lot of old paperbacks too. It almost felt like a sin to throw away books, but they were so out-of-date. Im sure all college majors have evolved over time!
Harker
(13,985 posts)Moving cross country a couple of years ago, I left behind maybe 1500 volumes.
On occasion I'll get wistful for one in particular, but on the whole it's good to be lighter and nimbler.
Now I have to reconsider having 50 tweed jackets...
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)I dont mean emotionally, I mean actually! We recently cleaned out the computer room and hauled boxes of books to the local library. We had to talk them into taking them! (Who needs a computer room anymore?)
I still have tons of education books from when I was teaching. I have no idea what to do with those. We used to have a big community book sale at the mall years ago.
That too has gone with the wind.
BTW, I am looking for a copy of Wuthering Heights (1943 edition) if anyone has one to give away! My husband gave mine to the above mentioned book sale years ago. Its the one with the Eichenberg illustrations. Thanks!
yellowdogintexas
(22,235 posts)Those illustrations were so awesome! I used to page through them obsessively, trying to figure out what was going on in them. I think I was about 13 when I read Jane Eyre for the first time. It is one of the few books I have read multiple times. I finally read Wuthering Heights when I was about 40 after attempting to read it several times. I have not re-read it.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Until this year, when I started again. Im probably 100 books up in just the last six months. I may have a problem.
trof
(54,256 posts)We do fundraising for things that the city budget doesn't cover.
NNadir
(33,475 posts)Marthe48
(16,905 posts)Has a lot of oldies on it
There are some other sites, such as Library of Congress, that you can access.
I feel for you. I have books that belonged to 3 generations before me, and all the ones I picked up (16 boxes for $3 and 11 boxes for $5 at sales) over the years, I probably have a 1000 books. But I'll let time cull them
Good luck to you. It isn't fun.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)and not available digitally. Sisyphus and his boulder.
Zaphod42
(92 posts)btw, this is my 1st post here at DU.
Reading was my 1st love!...and probably my only true love. I grew up in a microscopically small town in SE Alabama, no library, but the bookmobile came for a day twice a month. They would park at the Methodist Church a hundred yards from our house. In the summer, I'd be sitting there waiting on them! You could only check out 10 books at a time, so I'd grab 10 and head back to the front porch. I was 8 or 9, so these were "kid's" books...I could usually get all 10 read before they packed up and left; but not before returning those 10 and getting 10 more to hold me over for 2 weeks...!
Anyhoo, I have a HUGE problem with getting rid of my books. I currently have >1000. I could never get into ebooks, or audio books...there's just no better feeling than having an actual bound, paper book in my hands. Sigh...I see more bookshelves in my future.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)Iggo
(47,535 posts)lastlib
(23,166 posts)I have a bunch that I've never entered into the database for whatever reason, so I suspect I'm pushing 950. Most of mine were acquired from a retiring PoliSci professor in my senior year of college (forty years ago!). Everything from the Records of the Federal Convention of 1787, to The Communist Manifesto, to the Origins of Totalitarianism. I haven't been able to bear to part with them, and darn few people would want a lot of them, so I guess I'll keep them for the foreseeable future. Always dreamed of having a good library to put them in, but not sure that's ever going to happen.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)I've never had any fancy bookshelves, started as a teen with those cheap metal braces screwed into the wall (screwing up the wall), and at college using cinder blocks and boards. In my old age I have arrived at having everything in restaurant metal shelf things on rollers - no cabinets, doors - nothing on the floor, everything able to be rolled out of the way to sweep under ------------HAH, like I *sweep*!1
lastlib
(23,166 posts)Thirty years ago, I built a good bookcase--eight feet wide, six shelves one foot high, with a 3-1/2" kickspace under them (in a basement room that has a 7-foot-two ceiling, they're 6 feet, 9 inches tall; they're taller than the doors to the room, so they're never coming out in one piece.) Thirty years old, and they're still solid as a rock! Sadly, though, they never had the capacity to hold ALL of the books. I did make another half-assed bookcase on the same scale, but only 32 inches wide (that was all the space available), and it's still not enough space--I could use another case the same size as the first one. I know I will have to move out in the next few years, which I dread, of course--but the plus is I'm DETERMINED to build that dream bookcase I want, with enough shelf-space for all.
UTUSN
(70,649 posts)malthaussen
(17,175 posts)... from 1,000+ (but who's counting) to about 500. Still in boxes all around the walls, as there is no shelf space.
This doesn't stop me from buying more, especially used books from online sellers. There are still a bunch of things I want to read, but I'm resigned to the fact that I'm never gonna live long enough to get to them all.
-- Mal
Iggo
(47,535 posts)That was the hardest part. Decisions were simple after that.
Realizing that nobody wanted most of my books was...eye-opening. It's a different world, man.
I'm sad about it. But I don't regret it. It's done.