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A little girl and some lipstick (Original Post) Lotusflower70 Sep 2019 OP
SUper cutie! Fla Dem Sep 2019 #1
Precious. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2019 #2
It's where all the mirrors are lunatica Sep 2019 #10
Yep, with free lipstick samples. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2019 #11
Adorable. Marie Marie Sep 2019 #3
A sanity saver! What a sweet patootie!! Guilded Lilly Sep 2019 #4
unpopular idea Piasladic Sep 2019 #5
What a lousy response. nolabear Sep 2019 #16
"I agree..." LanternWaste Sep 2019 #18
stalk me much? - nt Piasladic Sep 2019 #20
Her dad has no idea of what his future is going to be like as his dtr. grows to the teen years. in2herbs Sep 2019 #6
I'm Surprised She Was Able to Find Anyone to Help Her at Home Depot Stallion Sep 2019 #7
I think she has a future career as a lawyer or politician. BigmanPigman Sep 2019 #8
"I asked myself!" Dem2theMax Sep 2019 #9
He'll need it to remember why he loves her lunatica Sep 2019 #12
Oh boy, Dem2theMax Sep 2019 #13
I've told parents that their kids come back to them in a few years lunatica Sep 2019 #14
How true. Dem2theMax Sep 2019 #15
I did the same with my mother lunatica Sep 2019 #17
I feel for you. I did not have to deal with Dementia. Dem2theMax Sep 2019 #19
You're right. The gifts that family give are priceless. lunatica Sep 2019 #21
I'm sorry that brought back sad memories. Dem2theMax Sep 2019 #22
Yes. It was lunatica Sep 2019 #23

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
2. Precious.
Sun Sep 15, 2019, 06:09 PM
Sep 2019

Nothing more fun and innocent than playing with a little child's imagination........ .....

Lipstick at Home Depot is in the Paint Dept., right?

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
9. "I asked myself!"
Mon Sep 16, 2019, 09:12 PM
Sep 2019


I sure hope that dad never loses that video. It will be priceless when she graduates from high school, college, and of course, her wedding!

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
12. He'll need it to remember why he loves her
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 12:21 AM
Sep 2019

when she hits the early teen years and he suddenly becomes eyerollingly stupid and she hates his guts with the heat of a thousand burning suns.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
13. Oh boy,
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 12:58 PM
Sep 2019

Being a daughter, I can remember those years!
Thankfully, I grew out of them and realized what a wonderful person my dad was.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
14. I've told parents that their kids come back to them in a few years
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 01:11 PM
Sep 2019

It’s a time when the kids need to learn their vital importance as separate human beings. Rebelling against their parents is truly a sign of mental health. If you’re a good parent your kids always return as better people. And parents too are better people after the experience.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
15. How true.
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 01:19 PM
Sep 2019

In the later years of my parents lives, I moved in with them and became their caregiver in addition to being their daughter. And I got to know them as people in their own right, and not just as my parents.

It was hard work, but it was a priceless gift at the same time. I am quite sure a lot of people never get to know their parents as anything other than parents. I feel so lucky that I got to spend those extra years with Mom and Dad.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
17. I did the same with my mother
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 01:31 PM
Sep 2019

As hard as it was I am at peace with taking care of her for her last years. She had Dementia so the care had to be constant. I feel like those are the years that made me a good daughter, deserving of the care she took of me all my life. The circle was complete.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
19. I feel for you. I did not have to deal with Dementia.
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 04:12 PM
Sep 2019

Both of my parents were 100% there, mentally. And they lived into their mid-90's.

"The circle was complete." You touched my heart. That is exactly how I felt.

In the last month of my Mom's life, I realized that we had switched roles. She was now the child/infant, and
I was the parent. I realized that I was doing for her, all the things she had done for me when I was small.
Too small to have any memory of that care and love, but now I saw it in reverse. What a gift that was.

We are lucky. We both got to complete the circle, and I can tell that you did it with love, the same as I did.
I know of so many people who have had to take care of aging parents, and they did it with resentment.

It is such a blessing to be able to see what we both saw, felt, and learned.


lunatica

(53,410 posts)
21. You're right. The gifts that family give are priceless.
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 05:19 PM
Sep 2019

But luckily for me my mother knew who I was to the end. She lost many memories, and abilities, but she always knew me and my son.

Now I’m all choked up!

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
22. I'm sorry that brought back sad memories.
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 09:11 PM
Sep 2019

But it made me smile when I read that she knew you and your son to the end. That in itself was a huge blessing.

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