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(23,656 posts)KY_EnviroGuy
(14,490 posts)Nothing more fun and innocent than playing with a little child's imagination........ .....
Lipstick at Home Depot is in the Paint Dept., right?
lunatica
(53,410 posts)In the bathroom section.
KY_EnviroGuy
(14,490 posts)I love the line about looking like a newlywed.......
Marie Marie
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(5,591 posts)Piasladic
(1,160 posts)She didn't buy it. She stole it.
nolabear
(41,960 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)"If you like plants, don't eat them..."
Piasladic
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(2,945 posts)Stallion
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(51,590 posts)Dem2theMax
(9,651 posts)I sure hope that dad never loses that video. It will be priceless when she graduates from high school, college, and of course, her wedding!
lunatica
(53,410 posts)when she hits the early teen years and he suddenly becomes eyerollingly stupid and she hates his guts with the heat of a thousand burning suns.
Dem2theMax
(9,651 posts)Being a daughter, I can remember those years!
Thankfully, I grew out of them and realized what a wonderful person my dad was.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Its a time when the kids need to learn their vital importance as separate human beings. Rebelling against their parents is truly a sign of mental health. If youre a good parent your kids always return as better people. And parents too are better people after the experience.
Dem2theMax
(9,651 posts)In the later years of my parents lives, I moved in with them and became their caregiver in addition to being their daughter. And I got to know them as people in their own right, and not just as my parents.
It was hard work, but it was a priceless gift at the same time. I am quite sure a lot of people never get to know their parents as anything other than parents. I feel so lucky that I got to spend those extra years with Mom and Dad.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)As hard as it was I am at peace with taking care of her for her last years. She had Dementia so the care had to be constant. I feel like those are the years that made me a good daughter, deserving of the care she took of me all my life. The circle was complete.
Dem2theMax
(9,651 posts)Both of my parents were 100% there, mentally. And they lived into their mid-90's.
"The circle was complete." You touched my heart. That is exactly how I felt.
In the last month of my Mom's life, I realized that we had switched roles. She was now the child/infant, and
I was the parent. I realized that I was doing for her, all the things she had done for me when I was small.
Too small to have any memory of that care and love, but now I saw it in reverse. What a gift that was.
We are lucky. We both got to complete the circle, and I can tell that you did it with love, the same as I did.
I know of so many people who have had to take care of aging parents, and they did it with resentment.
It is such a blessing to be able to see what we both saw, felt, and learned.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)But luckily for me my mother knew who I was to the end. She lost many memories, and abilities, but she always knew me and my son.
Now Im all choked up!
Dem2theMax
(9,651 posts)But it made me smile when I read that she knew you and your son to the end. That in itself was a huge blessing.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Thank you.