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IronLionZion

(45,403 posts)
Sun Sep 29, 2019, 10:49 PM Sep 2019

129 Ways to Get a Husband in the 50s

https://theheartysoul.com/129-ways-to-get-a-husband-in-the-50s/



Although the 1950s left its mark on today’s culture, much has changed since then. The time period gave us icons like Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, and Audrey Hepburn who we recognize today, but it was also a time of opposing communism and the Cold War. Meanwhile, came the baby booms, the suburban booms, and the pilot of I Love Lucy.

Old-fashioned movies and shows may give us a hint of the 50s culture, but there is another element that can be explored: magazines. Or to be more precise, a magazine article from 1958 teaching women how to snag a husband.

“In the United States today there are sixteen million women over the age of seventeen who are not married,” the article begins. “Presumably the vast majority of them would like to be.”

Over the age of seventeen. Yes, a lot has changed since the 50s. However, that does not mean there can’t be nuggets of gold in this list that might help a girl out in 2019.
The article was created by 16 authors who were instructed by the publisher to brainstorm ways lonely women could get the attention of men. The group included a marriage consultant, a song-writer, an airline stewardess, a police commissioner, a banker, a housewife, a bachelor, and a psychologist. They were told to “throw away their judgements” while writing, which might explain their more questionable suggestions.


Some of my favorites (my comments in parentheses):

Stand in a corner and cry softly. Chances are good that he’ll come over to find out what’s wrong.

Get a sunburn. (I really like a woman in pain who will get skin cancer.)

Stand on a busy street corner with a lasso. (that's how you catch him)

Carry a tow chain in the trunk of your automobile. (that's how you keep him)

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129 Ways to Get a Husband in the 50s (Original Post) IronLionZion Sep 2019 OP
Makes one wonder how people ever got married before then..... n/t DFW Sep 2019 #1
Their parents arranged it for them... Wounded Bear Sep 2019 #4
Over seventeen and not yet married? Ron Obvious Sep 2019 #2
My Mom and Dad got married in 1953... Archae Sep 2019 #3
Mine in 1950. DFW Sep 2019 #6
"I'm Past My Prime" malthaussen Sep 2019 #5
Hang out at hardware stores. frogmarch Sep 2019 #7
Well, I'm on it! smirkymonkey Sep 2019 #8
I believe it was Happy Days Dagstead Bumwood Sep 2019 #9
 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
2. Over seventeen and not yet married?
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 07:48 AM
Sep 2019

There's clearly something wrong them then.

I'm now insulted because I just realised why all these unmarried over-17 year olds were being friendly to me. Bah!

Archae

(46,311 posts)
3. My Mom and Dad got married in 1953...
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 10:14 AM
Sep 2019

My Dad gave a ride to two office workers, one of whom he started dating. Yup, my Mom.

DFW

(54,325 posts)
6. Mine in 1950.
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 04:35 PM
Sep 2019

A blind date. AT the end, my dad asked timidly, "is it OK if we DON'T go to a night club?"
My mom HATED night clubs. That did it for her right there.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
8. Well, I'm on it!
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 06:37 PM
Sep 2019

Thanks for the handy tips!

Men like to think they’re the authorities on perfume. Ask his advice on what kind you should wear.
Get better-looking glasses – men still make passes at girls who wear glasses – or try contact lenses.
Practice your drinking with your women friends first.
If you dye your hair, pick a shade and stick to it.
Wear high heels most of the time – they’re sexier!
Unless he happens to be shorter than you are!
Tell him he’s handsome.
Take good care of your health. Men don’t like girls who are ill.
If you look good in sweaters, wear one on every third date.
Dress differently from the other girls in the office.
Get a sunburn.
Watch your vocabulary.

Dagstead Bumwood

(3,615 posts)
9. I believe it was Happy Days
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 07:16 PM
Sep 2019

or some '70s sitcom that advised looking lost in a grocery's produce section as a way to meet women. So, that dovetails with the get lost at a football game advice. Beats a bar.

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