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Although the 1950s left its mark on todays culture, much has changed since then. The time period gave us icons like Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, and Audrey Hepburn who we recognize today, but it was also a time of opposing communism and the Cold War. Meanwhile, came the baby booms, the suburban booms, and the pilot of I Love Lucy.
Old-fashioned movies and shows may give us a hint of the 50s culture, but there is another element that can be explored: magazines. Or to be more precise, a magazine article from 1958 teaching women how to snag a husband.
In the United States today there are sixteen million women over the age of seventeen who are not married, the article begins. Presumably the vast majority of them would like to be.
Over the age of seventeen. Yes, a lot has changed since the 50s. However, that does not mean there cant be nuggets of gold in this list that might help a girl out in 2019.
The article was created by 16 authors who were instructed by the publisher to brainstorm ways lonely women could get the attention of men. The group included a marriage consultant, a song-writer, an airline stewardess, a police commissioner, a banker, a housewife, a bachelor, and a psychologist. They were told to throw away their judgements while writing, which might explain their more questionable suggestions.
Some of my favorites (my comments in parentheses):
Stand in a corner and cry softly. Chances are good that hell come over to find out whats wrong.
Get a sunburn. (I really like a woman in pain who will get skin cancer.)
Stand on a busy street corner with a lasso. (that's how you catch him)
Carry a tow chain in the trunk of your automobile. (that's how you keep him)
DFW
(54,325 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,618 posts)and sadly, that is true in far too many cultures.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)There's clearly something wrong them then.
I'm now insulted because I just realised why all these unmarried over-17 year olds were being friendly to me. Bah!
Archae
(46,311 posts)My Dad gave a ride to two office workers, one of whom he started dating. Yup, my Mom.
A blind date. AT the end, my dad asked timidly, "is it OK if we DON'T go to a night club?"
My mom HATED night clubs. That did it for her right there.
malthaussen
(17,183 posts)Imogene Lynn singing for Leslie Parrish.
-- Mal
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)It worked for me!
JK
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Thanks for the handy tips!
Men like to think theyre the authorities on perfume. Ask his advice on what kind you should wear.
Get better-looking glasses men still make passes at girls who wear glasses or try contact lenses.
Practice your drinking with your women friends first.
If you dye your hair, pick a shade and stick to it.
Wear high heels most of the time theyre sexier!
Unless he happens to be shorter than you are!
Tell him hes handsome.
Take good care of your health. Men dont like girls who are ill.
If you look good in sweaters, wear one on every third date.
Dress differently from the other girls in the office.
Get a sunburn.
Watch your vocabulary.
Dagstead Bumwood
(3,615 posts)or some '70s sitcom that advised looking lost in a grocery's produce section as a way to meet women. So, that dovetails with the get lost at a football game advice. Beats a bar.