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Aristus

(66,388 posts)
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:21 PM Apr 2020

I'm overwhelmed. I just got a gift from an old friend.

My old Army buddy, whom I have known for thirty years now, sent me a package in the mail. Just got it today. He lives in Hawaii, and sent me and Mrs. Aristus a fine array of island treats, including Kona coffee and macadamia nuts.

He included a card, stating that it was in recognition of being on the "front lines" of the pandemic. I shot off a thank you message at once, but didn't have the heart to tell him I've been sick for the last ten days, and self-isolating at home. If all goes well, I plan on returning to work on Monday, and hope to be able to do my part in all this.

I've mentioned him here before; he's Filipino, and faced a great deal of racism when we were both in the Army. His roommate at our first duty station was a pretty nasty Confederate flag-waving redneck. I stood up for him because it was the right thing to do, but never dreamed it would solidify a friendship that is now in its fourth decade.

I'm blessed with some wonderful friends.

Tankers for life...

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I'm overwhelmed. I just got a gift from an old friend. (Original Post) Aristus Apr 2020 OP
K&R. nt tblue37 Apr 2020 #1
Aristus, do you think you have the virus? Skittles Apr 2020 #2
No. I tested negative. Aristus Apr 2020 #7
oh dear Skittles Apr 2020 #10
Oh yeah. I get all of my regularly-scheduled immunizations. Aristus Apr 2020 #11
I went ahead and got shingles shots and first pneumonia shot Skittles Apr 2020 #18
You could have added that diamond to your OP lol. grantcart Apr 2020 #21
Island Goodies are da Kine! Nictuku Apr 2020 #3
Thanks for that heart-warming story. KY_EnviroGuy Apr 2020 #4
How wonderful,.. you deserve the pat on the back and gratitude for sharing ... magicarpet Apr 2020 #5
((Ari)) blm Apr 2020 #6
Really nice. Good friends are hard to find, babylonsister Apr 2020 #8
Macadamia nuts are the best! How nice for Phoenix61 Apr 2020 #9
I'd love to share with my Lounge peeps, but that's a kind of file-sharing the internet Aristus Apr 2020 #12
I'm sorry your Filipino friend was bullied while in the army. Makes me mad. My dad was stationed Karadeniz Apr 2020 #13
I lived one floor down from him in the barracks. Aristus Apr 2020 #14
I am so glad you are feeling better... Grey Apr 2020 #15
That's very kind. Thank you. Aristus Apr 2020 #16
KNR niyad Apr 2020 #17
Cassandra Farms proud patriot Apr 2020 #19
One of the bet parts of serving is just what you've described The Polack MSgt Apr 2020 #20

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
7. No. I tested negative.
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:35 PM
Apr 2020

Ten days is much longer for me than a typical respiratory illness; but I think it's the bronchitis Mrs. Aristus has had for the last month. (She's immunosuppressed due to diabetes.)

I'm finally feeling better. My colleague who tested me told me not to come back to work until my cough was gone. Monday it is...

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
10. oh dear
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:42 PM
Apr 2020

I knew you had a flu shot.....I guess I forget these days there are plenty of other illnesses around

keep safe!

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
11. Oh yeah. I get all of my regularly-scheduled immunizations.
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:44 PM
Apr 2020

I try to set the example for my patients (many of who still don't follow it...), but there's no vaccine for this.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
18. I went ahead and got shingles shots and first pneumonia shot
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 11:43 PM
Apr 2020

I always get a flu shot

just......anything to try to stay well.....yes indeed

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
21. You could have added that diamond to your OP lol.
Sun Apr 5, 2020, 12:50 AM
Apr 2020

Had a little imaginary heart murmur until I read down thread

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,492 posts)
4. Thanks for that heart-warming story.
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:29 PM
Apr 2020

I suspect many of us are thirsting to rekindle old friendships not just with those few that were special, but also some we feel are likely suffering more pain than ourselves.

In isolation, I think of some old long-lost friend every day and wonder how they're doing.


KY............

magicarpet

(14,155 posts)
5. How wonderful,.. you deserve the pat on the back and gratitude for sharing ...
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:33 PM
Apr 2020

... your knowledge and expertise to combat this Coronavirus and guide patients through that dark and scary tunnel.

babylonsister

(171,070 posts)
8. Really nice. Good friends are hard to find,
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:38 PM
Apr 2020

the really good ones hang around and reach out.

And be kind to yourself, get better. You'll be no good to anyone otherwise.

Phoenix61

(17,006 posts)
9. Macadamia nuts are the best! How nice for
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:40 PM
Apr 2020

ya’ll to get a surprise present. They’re my favorite kind.

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
12. I'd love to share with my Lounge peeps, but that's a kind of file-sharing the internet
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:45 PM
Apr 2020

still hasn't figured out...

Karadeniz

(22,537 posts)
13. I'm sorry your Filipino friend was bullied while in the army. Makes me mad. My dad was stationed
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:52 PM
Apr 2020

In Hawaii...we lived in schofield brks...and we were the only nonFilipinos at our wahiawa church. Beautiful people! Also, my father was in charge of all army transportation for the state, and he opened up several quality jobs to the locals that had previously been filled by(white?) people from the mainland. I hope your friend knows there are more decent people in the military than not...well, he had you!

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
14. I lived one floor down from him in the barracks.
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 10:57 PM
Apr 2020

Often, when everyone else was out, I would go up to the room he shared with redneck-boy and paste anti-Confederate notes all over his slavery flag. Reportedly, it drove him to fury. My friend knew it was me doing it, but never told me he knew until long after we both left the service.

Grey

(1,581 posts)
15. I am so glad you are feeling better...
Sat Apr 4, 2020, 11:26 PM
Apr 2020

I'm a long time lerker and almost never post but I always read everything you post.
Thank you for the work you do and hugs to your wife.

The Polack MSgt

(13,190 posts)
20. One of the bet parts of serving is just what you've described
Sun Apr 5, 2020, 12:27 AM
Apr 2020

Finding stand up people and executing real tangible missions with them.

Learning about folks strange to you. Becoming colleagues (and sometimes friends) with people you'd have never encountered around the old home town. All these things are benefits of earnest service in the U S military

I hope you are well. I respect your service and wish you well.

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