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Next time you hear your dogs barking in the yard..... (Original Post) Nevilledog Mar 2021 OP
Holy cow soothsayer Mar 2021 #1
Damn! That was an enormous one! hlthe2b Mar 2021 #2
Did that dog bite the bear in the butt ? Wicked Blue Mar 2021 #3
I don't think so. ShazzieB Mar 2021 #30
Good doggies!! lark Mar 2021 #4
I like bears and I like dogs StClone Mar 2021 #5
Looked to me that the bear was pretty nimble Butterflylady Mar 2021 #21
Bears are much nimbler than you would expect: ret5hd Mar 2021 #39
Bear says,... magicarpet Mar 2021 #6
Wow! PatSeg Mar 2021 #7
Bears and dogs are related. Marcuse Mar 2021 #8
Rather distantly. wnylib Mar 2021 #20
Wow Moral Compass Mar 2021 #9
Cool... 2naSalit Mar 2021 #10
Looked like a Chicago Bear, always retreating ... aggiesal Mar 2021 #11
haha....too damn true.... dhill926 Mar 2021 #15
Ouch! (She said, laughing!) calimary Mar 2021 #23
I ws not expecting that, but have to say that is a well built fence. c-rational Mar 2021 #12
Bear says, "Whoops! Wrong house. I'm outta here" FakeNoose Mar 2021 #13
apparently not a mama bear.... samnsara Mar 2021 #14
That's not a problem I see myself having Victor_c3 Mar 2021 #16
Typical Cluster B personality disorder. Laelth Mar 2021 #19
Hmmm, interesting. That could explain a lot to me. Victor_c3 Mar 2021 #22
Same as Trump. Laelth Mar 2021 #25
Wow! That does sound like her Victor_c3 Mar 2021 #26
No. Don't worry about it. Please, vent. Laelth Mar 2021 #31
And if there's no bear in the yard and they are just barking for the sake PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2021 #17
That's impressive angrychair Mar 2021 #18
I wish markie Mar 2021 #24
Bear scared of dachshund. Good move TrogL Mar 2021 #27
Now that's something you don't see every day! Talitha Mar 2021 #28
Happened to me one night. Grumpy Old Guy Mar 2021 #29
I once had a dog that chased bears on multiple occasions. PETRUS Mar 2021 #32
Whoa! wendyb-NC Mar 2021 #33
Not just dogs... Ocelot II Mar 2021 #34
Honeyyy! We need a taller fence! With outward curved spikes, razor wire, and electricity!! NurseJackie Mar 2021 #35
Reminds me of a classic New Yorker cartoon grantcart Mar 2021 #36
It's the Size of the Fight... Deacon Blue Mar 2021 #37
Bears really don't like dogs. intheflow Mar 2021 #38

StClone

(11,688 posts)
5. I like bears and I like dogs
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 11:41 AM
Mar 2021

So this is kind of a comedy act, as long as no animal was hurt in the adventure.

Butterflylady

(3,550 posts)
21. Looked to me that the bear was pretty nimble
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:05 PM
Mar 2021

The way he got over that fence. I couldn't do that even when I was in my twenties.

2naSalit

(86,817 posts)
10. Cool...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 12:36 PM
Mar 2021

Believe it or not, that interaction might keep the bear from coming back. They respond well to negative reinforcement.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
16. That's not a problem I see myself having
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 12:53 PM
Mar 2021

After years of dealing with my ex-wife’s dogs, I’m done with them. I know I’m going to get flamed for this, but I’m not at all a fan of dogs. For the 15 years I knew my ex, I did all of the work and got none of the enjoyment.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate dogs, I’m just not crazy in love with them like many people are. I can tolerate them, but that’s it.

Actually, my kids and I aren’t even sure my ex (their mom) likes dogs either - and she always insists on owning two of them at all times. Now that my ex is living by herself and she has to do the work, she doesn’t seem quite as enthused about them as she used to be. One of her dogs is a really sweet dog (a pit bull mix) and is great with my kids, but he has a tendency to bite various men. My ex almost got sued as a result and she was booted out of the previous house she was renting.

So what did she do? She moved and decided to give away the other dog, a beagle that snores and always acts scared of her that she decided she never liked.

I don’t get it (or my ex)

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
19. Typical Cluster B personality disorder.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 12:58 PM
Mar 2021

Affects as many as 1 in every 8 adult humans. It’s progressive and incurable. It’s far more common than most people realize.

-Laelth

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
22. Hmmm, interesting. That could explain a lot to me.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:10 PM
Mar 2021

Thanks, seriously. Now I’m going to do some reading and learn more about that.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
25. Same as Trump.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:31 PM
Mar 2021

Animals hate him too. Selfish and exploitative. Emotional children. Quick to anger. Easily bored. Needs constant stimulation.

I don’t know. Could be.



-Laelth

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
26. Wow! That does sound like her
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:37 PM
Mar 2021

Fortunately, she is seeing mental health professionals and she does take some self-care steps to help mitigate symptoms. She always did yoga daily, exercises, and eats mostly healthy.

So much of the way she treated me when we were married fits. I’ve always been as patient and understanding of her as I could, but after years of being treated like crap I gave up trying to deal with her. After 13 years and 10 months of marriage, she left me to pursue a relationship with a guy she had a crush on in middle school. Two months later, we divorced, sold our house, moved from New York to Ohio, and uprooted the lives of our children. Within 5-7 months of my ex telling me she wanted a divorce and that she was in love with this other guy, her relationship with this new guy ended spectacularly and now she regrets ever leaving me.

Selfishly, I couldn’t be happier now. My kids also tell me that they are happier with us living separately. I live a 10 minute walk away from my kids and I get along well enough with my ex that child custody is not an issue. We celebrate holidays together and occasionally go out as a “family” a few times a year. I live just around the corner from my ex’s parents and I see them all the time.

Not that you’re interested in hearing my rant about life, but thanks for just mentioning that.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
31. No. Don't worry about it. Please, vent.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:50 PM
Mar 2021

You, your children, and those animals have all been traumatized. I know. I’ve been there. Mercifully, it looks like we both escaped.

Dead-pan, shark-like eyes. Will stare at you, silently, in a show of aggression. Able to turn emotions on and off, like a switch, to get what they want out of others. Manipulative. Highly, constantly deceitful. Given to sexual perversion. Sadistic.

Sound familiar? If so, let it out. I’m listening.

-Laelth


P.S. Mental health professionals can not help her. Personality disorders are hard-wired. They’re incurable and untreatable (although a lot of mental health professionals make a lot of money pretending that these disorders can be effectively treated). They can’t. Most importantly, the condition is progressive. They actually get WORSE over time. Escape is the only reasonable option when you discover that you are in a relationship with a Cluster B-disordered person.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,902 posts)
17. And if there's no bear in the yard and they are just barking for the sake
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 12:54 PM
Mar 2021

of barking, or because they're lonely, then take them inside. Trust me, your neighbors do not enjoy listening to your dogs bark for hours on end.

There are times when I understand why people put out poison for the neighbors dogs. No, I wouldn't do that, but I understand.

angrychair

(8,736 posts)
18. That's impressive
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 12:54 PM
Mar 2021

Both the dogs and the fact that big ass bear was perfectly hidden in that little clump of bushes until it was forced to move.

markie

(22,758 posts)
24. I wish
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:23 PM
Mar 2021

the bears in my yard would skedaddle like that when I bark at them

I just got a dog hoping that the bears (and foxes) this spring will take notice

TrogL

(32,822 posts)
27. Bear scared of dachshund. Good move
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:45 PM
Mar 2021

Dachshunds kill honey badgers
Honey badgers kill bears
Bears kill people
Are you absolutely sure you want to piss off a dachshund?

Talitha

(6,622 posts)
28. Now that's something you don't see every day!
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:45 PM
Mar 2021

But why did it scale the fence to get into the yard in the first place? Something might have attracted it - maybe the bushes had good-smelling fruit or berries on them. Like they say, "a Bear can smell the perfume your Grandmother wore at her wedding". Anyway, I'm glad there were no injuries but TBH, I'd call animal control and make a report. Things miight not end as nicely next time.

Grumpy Old Guy

(3,178 posts)
29. Happened to me one night.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:46 PM
Mar 2021

My chihuahua mix once helped chase a bear out of my trailer in the mountains. I don't know what she was planning to do if she caught it. LOL!

PETRUS

(3,678 posts)
32. I once had a dog that chased bears on multiple occasions.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 01:59 PM
Mar 2021

She was always fine, by my nerves suffered every time.

And yes, one was in the backyard (of mom & dad's house - I was visiting).

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
36. Reminds me of a classic New Yorker cartoon
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 02:11 PM
Mar 2021

Middle age couple is sitting on lounge chairs facing the pool with their backs to their house which is clearly on fire.

The dog is in front of them and barking aggressively.

The husband says "Isn't that cute he's trying to tell us something."

Deacon Blue

(252 posts)
37. It's the Size of the Fight...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 06:56 PM
Mar 2021

...not the size of the bite. But if the bear got pissed off, that’s where the smart money would be.

intheflow

(28,505 posts)
38. Bears really don't like dogs.
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 09:18 AM
Mar 2021

I've had a couple Dog vs. Bear encounters. They all ended up bloodless with the Bear scooting away like this one even though my dogs were so much smaller than the bears. Very interesting animal dynamics!

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