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niyad

(113,576 posts)
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:22 PM Apr 2021

Given that many of us here are, according to the quiz, "older than dirt", would it be useful to

form a "buyers' club", some kind of group where we could get discounts on things to assist our dotage? I know many items may be covered by various insurance programs. . .but. .is there need? Is it feasible?

Just an idle thought.

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Given that many of us here are, according to the quiz, "older than dirt", would it be useful to (Original Post) niyad Apr 2021 OP
I say if you "remember" all that stuff... LakeArenal Apr 2021 #1
Figuring out where things are Rorey Apr 2021 #4
Having dealt with memory care clients for many years, I do the same. I had one friend who niyad Apr 2021 #9
The one thing that frustrates me, and probably everyone, is passwords and codes Rorey Apr 2021 #13
It's worth looking into EYESORE 9001 Apr 2021 #2
I have no truck with aarp. Have never/will never, forgive them for selling out seniors on drug niyad Apr 2021 #6
Well, I had to look up the word "dotage" Rorey Apr 2021 #3
Glad to be of service. And very glad you have no need of such things yet! niyad Apr 2021 #8
I know that life can change in a split second Rorey Apr 2021 #10
I know that this past year has been really hard. It still stuns me sometimes how much has niyad Apr 2021 #14
Yeah, whenever I start feeling sorry for myself Rorey Apr 2021 #16
I think frequently of the song, "I'm Still Here", as sung by the incomparable Elaine Stritch. niyad Apr 2021 #17
Hilarious and touching Rorey Apr 2021 #18
As did I. I saw the one where all the women wore red.. A Sondheim tribute, if I remember niyad Apr 2021 #20
Ours is $50 each, per quarter. Croney Apr 2021 #11
I know, lol Rorey Apr 2021 #15
Rocketman Kim brought out the word when NK called Trump 'Dotard'. keithbvadu2 Apr 2021 #19
Which immediately brings to mind Sandy and Richard Riccardi's "The Lonely Dotard"! niyad Apr 2021 #21
have you checked aarp? getagrip_already Apr 2021 #5
As I said above, I have no truck with aarp. niyad Apr 2021 #7
The only two places I have shopped in the last year are my grocery store (no senior discounts) and niyad Apr 2021 #12

LakeArenal

(28,845 posts)
1. I say if you "remember" all that stuff...
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:25 PM
Apr 2021

You aren’t feeble. No dementia. Memory fine.

Now if I could remember where I put those keys.....

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
4. Figuring out where things are
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:33 PM
Apr 2021

I stayed with my blind aunt a lot in the last couple of years of her life to help her get through things, and one very good habit that I learned is to ALWAYS put everything back in the exact spot you got it. This works particularly well with the refrigerator and food cabinets.

I also now always park in pretty much the same spot when I go to my normal stores. Then I never have to stop and think about where I've parked, or look silly wandering around looking for my car.

niyad

(113,576 posts)
9. Having dealt with memory care clients for many years, I do the same. I had one friend who
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:49 PM
Apr 2021

Refused to admit that her memory was going, and I was constantly hunting for her keys. I would find them in the oddest places, including the freezer. Shops started calling me to say her wallet or purchase was with them.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
13. The one thing that frustrates me, and probably everyone, is passwords and codes
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:54 PM
Apr 2021

My son laughed at me because he was over one time and realized I keep a password book. Everything is sort of in a code so someone up to no good couldn't just use my book to access my accounts. If I forget that code, well, I'll just have to hang it up, I guess.

Really, what I've done is to put partial words and then dashes. My kids could figure it all out, I think, and that's fine. I trust them.

EYESORE 9001

(25,984 posts)
2. It's worth looking into
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:28 PM
Apr 2021

Much of the wares hawked by AARP on its website is of no interest to me. Perhaps the first order of business would be determining what people are interested in buying. I can't see this venture succeeding unless it gives people what they want.

niyad

(113,576 posts)
6. I have no truck with aarp. Have never/will never, forgive them for selling out seniors on drug
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:40 PM
Apr 2021

plans.

As I said, just an idea.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
3. Well, I had to look up the word "dotage"
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:28 PM
Apr 2021

So I guess I learned something today.

So far I'm fortunate enough to not need anything. I get $40 of products every quarter from my supplemental insurance company, which I think is a pretty cool treat.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
10. I know that life can change in a split second
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:49 PM
Apr 2021

About 15 years ago I had a mini stroke. It took me almost two years to get back to normal, and it taught me to never take my health for granted.

I still make a lot of health mistakes, even though I know better. This past year of pandemic has been tough.

niyad

(113,576 posts)
14. I know that this past year has been really hard. It still stuns me sometimes how much has
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:56 PM
Apr 2021

changed on so many levels. But I take heart from the fact that we are still fighting on.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
16. Yeah, whenever I start feeling sorry for myself
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:59 PM
Apr 2021

I remind myself that every one of us who are still here should be thankful.

niyad

(113,576 posts)
17. I think frequently of the song, "I'm Still Here", as sung by the incomparable Elaine Stritch.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 01:05 PM
Apr 2021

niyad

(113,576 posts)
20. As did I. I saw the one where all the women wore red.. A Sondheim tribute, if I remember
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 02:03 PM
Apr 2021

correctly.

Croney

(4,670 posts)
11. Ours is $50 each, per quarter.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:49 PM
Apr 2021

At first we were all excited to stock up on necessities. Now we can't get to the $100 every time. There is only so much toothpaste and Band-Aids and vitamins two people can actually use!

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
15. I know, lol
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:57 PM
Apr 2021

This last time I ordered sunscreen. Hopefully I'll have an opportunity to use it. I'm pretty much a sun-shunner, but back in the pre-pandemic life, I'd occasionally participate in sunny events.

keithbvadu2

(36,917 posts)
19. Rocketman Kim brought out the word when NK called Trump 'Dotard'.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 01:47 PM
Apr 2021

Rocketman Kim brought out the word when NK called Trump 'Dotard'.

The love letters came out later.

getagrip_already

(14,838 posts)
5. have you checked aarp?
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:37 PM
Apr 2021

I think they have group discounts and buyers club like stuff, but I'm not a member. I did get an email at 50, but they have left me alone since.

In any case, lots of stores have senior discounts. You just have to ask.

niyad

(113,576 posts)
12. The only two places I have shopped in the last year are my grocery store (no senior discounts) and
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 12:53 PM
Apr 2021

the ARC, whose senior discounts I have been using for years.

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