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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsAre There Current Phrases You Are Tired of Hearing?
Some of mine: Deep dive. Reach out. Grill marks.
Generic Brad
(14,275 posts)March of 2020 was the first time I heard the team. I am near the point where I never want to hear it again.
True Dough
(17,305 posts)You can throw "unpack" in there as well. As in, "Let's unpack that statement."
mitch96
(13,905 posts)EYESORE 9001
(25,939 posts)Im tempted to ask the next person who uses this trite phrase exactly WTF *is* in your wheelhouse, if anything.
mitch96
(13,905 posts)but not... Aussies and 20 somethings do it a lot.
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grumpyduck
(6,238 posts)drives me nuts.
Laffy Kat
(16,381 posts)It drove him nuts.
zanana1
(6,121 posts)Words like "joolery, nucular and funner". I was an English teacher, but it should drive every literate person nuts.
yonder
(9,666 posts)with a statement, happens a lot with folks from the South or who speak with a drawl. Don't know if others do it also but that's where I mostly notice it.
Leith
(7,809 posts)if they are asking me or telling me.
It's especially bad when a well-educated, mature, knowledgeable, and - sorry - female spokesperson is discussing a serious subject.
I'm not being sexist. If you think so, please post a clip or two where men are doing it.
Patterson
(1,530 posts)Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)It's a tendency to end with an upnote, a questioning. WOmen are usually guilty of this. Irritating.
It's up there with the tag question after any given statement.
"I left the mail on the banister."
"You did?"
A kind of insidious gaslighting....
yonder
(9,666 posts)except it is "really?" for me. I always thought of it as a lazy acknowledgement to what someone said rather than asking a detail question. Same thing as "uh huh?"
"really?"
Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)A: Your password is invalid, hon.
B: It is?Try this one.
A: It's also invalid.
B: It is? OK, use this.
A; Passwords must have this bizarre combination of letters numbers and such.
B: It does?
A: The car needs gas, the light went off on the way home.
B: It does? It did?
No dear, I'm just making shit up to fuck with you...
Pro tip, it gets old.
yonder
(9,666 posts)heh, heh
Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)Like the fuck is that? Just say okay. Bet?! UGH!
bahboo
(16,339 posts)definitely impacts my overall mood....
3catwoman3
(23,995 posts)See my comment #24.
3catwoman3
(23,995 posts)See my comment #25.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)Fla Dem
(23,675 posts)A number of news folks use this phrase when they have a video to play while interviewing a guest commentator.
They'll introduce the video then say, "We'll discuss on the other side".
The other side of what; the moon, the room, the highway? Why not just say when it's over? The video doesn't have sides. Or just don't say anything. Introduce the video, play it and then discuss when it's over.
mitch96
(13,905 posts)bucolic_frolic
(43,172 posts)Sneederbunk
(14,291 posts)CurtEastPoint
(18,645 posts)luv2fly
(2,475 posts)Rarely are they THAT entertaining.
bucolic_frolic
(43,172 posts)False races created by someone who has little idea of what's going on
Iggo
(47,554 posts)Still takes me a second to code-switch whenever I see it.
orleans
(34,052 posts)had to go back and re-read it; oh... for the win.
i'm tired (and apparently i get a bit goofy when i'm tired)
SWBTATTReg
(22,129 posts)So overused...
Haggard Celine
(16,846 posts)Also, "at the end of the day." And "significant other."
Paladin
(28,262 posts)Orrex
(63,213 posts)Years ago, in reference to some annoying policy at work, a supervisor sagely noted "It is what it is."
"Yes," said my friend. "But do you know what it is?"
There was no reply.
SWBTATTReg
(22,129 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)LakeArenal
(28,818 posts)bottomofthehill
(8,330 posts)yonder
(9,666 posts)'touch base'. I still hear it sometimes.
Orrex
(63,213 posts)Also "we'll make it work."
"Want to meet for lunch on Thursday?"
"Yes, let's make it work."
zipplewrath
(16,646 posts)Mostly on CNN, but too many other anchors use it as well.
And I got really tired of the word "unprecedented" during the last administration.
3catwoman3
(23,995 posts)...it irritates the hell out of me.
Why not just use influential?
conscientiouscitizen
(338 posts)1. Thats a great question
2. Im old enough to remember when ...
3. Unpack that
4. Not in a vacuum
5. Back in the day
6. At the end of the day
7. A lot on your plate
8.Standing around the water cooler
9. Stay in your lane
10. Cancel Culture
11. going forward
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)Usually, that stops the conversation for just a minute as folks figure that into the conversation.
Totally Tunsie
(10,885 posts)Can't stand it!
rickford66
(5,523 posts)Hunker down
chopper (I never heard anyone use that term when I was in the Navy)
drill down (referring to solving a problem)
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)But I also really dislike "hating on", partially for the extraneous preposition but also because it doesn't seem to be uses to mean nothing stronger than mild dislike.
Sorry to hate on a that phrase (blech!)
Orrex
(63,213 posts)And then I accidentally discovered that it dates back at least as far as The Tempest, and I hated it even more.
Thanks a lot, Shakespeare.
UTUSN
(70,696 posts)SleeplessinSoCal
(9,122 posts)Who started that one?
mitch96
(13,905 posts)Second Skin
(2 posts)I was never a diligent note taker and I'm tired of taking screen shots of everything i read.....In my head I'm thinking ~ i read it somewhere, maybe you can remind me after you've read it for yourself. But Oatmeal IS better than Creme O Wheat!
North Shore Chicago
(3,316 posts)* "Adulting"
* "Riiiiight?"
* "Woke"
blogslug
(38,000 posts)I do not like that phrase.
malthaussen
(17,199 posts)but I'll begin anyway with "at the end of the day" and "going forward."
-- Mal
Harker
(14,018 posts)PennyC
(2,302 posts)When the speaker really means "I want you to..."
And "right now."
And , of course, "So" as an opener.
wnylib
(21,468 posts)You wear your hair shoulder length for a few years and one day walk into your workplace with a pixie cut. "Oh, did you get your hair cut?"
I walked into a bank when snow was falling heavily. My head and coat had a layer of snow on them. The bank had large, glass double doors with a clear view of the outside. A teller said, "Is it snowing?" I said, "No. Why do you ask?"
The following irritations are grammatical.
Using "I" as the object of a preposition, as in "between you and I." Or, "He gave it to Dave and I." "Are you coming with Jane and I?"
Should be "between you and me;" "to Dave and me;" "with Jane and me."
"Should of" instead of "should have." What sounds like "should of" when spoken is actually "should've" when written. It's a contraction of "should have."
TxGuitar
(4,191 posts)Especially when in a professional setting with people you know are smart enough and/or educated enough to know better
wnylib
(21,468 posts)in childhood by teachers. Children often say things like, "Jim and me played baseball." Their grade school teacher corrects them by modeling "Jim and I." The children then get the idea that they should always say "I" instead of "me," without understanding the difference between "I" as a subject and "me" as an object.
TxGuitar
(4,191 posts)And worse--hand curated.
Nauseous/nauseated
The previously mentioned using I and me incorrectly
The way pundits answer questions with an unrelated comment and then say "Look" and answer the question
Laffy Kat
(16,381 posts)Any MBA vernacular is like fingernails on a chalkboard to me.
grumpyduck
(6,238 posts)Don't know why, but it really irks me.
Skittles
(153,164 posts)stupid
Coventina
(27,120 posts)I hate that!
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)Iggo
(47,554 posts)Maxheader
(4,373 posts)That would react to voice inflection, in the command....
Harker
(14,018 posts)No, it isn't
jcgoldie
(11,631 posts)Had a similar feeling 25 yrs ago about political correctness.
Niagara
(7,620 posts)MSNBC refers to Joe Biden as "The President", and not "President Biden".
I realize that we're 4 months into the Biden Presidency, but when the term "The President" is used I still continue to have a wave of terror that fills my chest for a brief moment. Then I have to tell myself that Joe is the President and the wave of terror slowly disappears. I don't know what anxiety feels like, but if I had to guess, this feeling would be it.
My only wish is that they would refer to him as President Biden.