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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsDo you use the phrase "negative feelings"?
Do you use the phrase negative feelings?
If you do, quit it quit it quit it quit it.
Use the phrase, painful feelings. Thank you. Thats just a pet peeve of mine.
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)About such a change.
EYESORE 9001
(25,947 posts)Adjectives are subjective and have no place in discussion of feelings. Be explicit in describing feelings; ambiguity is among my pet peeves. For example, someone may have negative feelings toward someone else, but WTF does that mean? Perceived dishonesty? Halitosis? Disagree with political views? These may or may not be painful. A Venn diagram would be blurry on where negative and painful overlap.
Beakybird
(3,333 posts)marble falls
(57,108 posts)Yonnie3
(17,444 posts)We need positivity in our life. Try it! A sample below.
I have positive feelings about not hearing the expression "pet peeve". Please stop using it.
marble falls
(57,108 posts)How ya doin' Yonnie? Good as me at least, I hope!
Yonnie3
(17,444 posts)Got old man creakiness this morning. Once I move around it usually gets better. Now I understand the noises my late father made getting up from the couch. "EHHHHH!"
It's a minor matter, all things considered.
marble falls
(57,108 posts)man's evolution to becoming upright.
The floating aspect is when my knees finally give out and I get a Hoveround. That last one is the great inevitable.
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,350 posts)The outdoor, feral, peeves are negatively annoying.
marble falls
(57,108 posts)Yonnie3
(17,444 posts)I can have negative feelings about something. For instance, I have negative feelings about a plan the city has to remove parking spaces where I often park.
I have painful feelings when I read about yet another shooting incident.
marble falls
(57,108 posts)... about further expansion of gun 'rights'. Being peeved about it might make me sound a little superficial about my commitment to gun control.
Yonnie3
(17,444 posts)marble falls
(57,108 posts)raccoon
(31,111 posts)RobinA
(9,893 posts)are too ambiguous and don't really indicate degree. I'm more likely to say I feel like s*it or That bugs me because... I don't use "painful" at all because I think it is over used to the point of meaninglessness. It's become a weasel word. It has come to the point where every unpleasant feeling is described as painful. I feel the same way about "devastated." I have a friend who is devastated about everything. "I was devastated when my dinner didn't turn out right." If that is true, you need to seek help.
Ocelot II
(115,735 posts)about TFG; I will say that I detest his f*cking guts. I don't have negative feelings about the GOPers in the Senate; I think they are the dumbest, most pernicious and useless assholes in the history of the universe. I don't have negative feelings about creeping bellflower; it's a loathsome weed that I hate with the fire of a thousand suns. Be specific and don't beat around the bush.
YoshidaYui
(41,832 posts)I WOULDN'T know what to feed them.