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hlthe2b

(102,320 posts)
3. Rings on left hand only for wedding rings is tradition. I know a lot of people who don't follow it.
Fri May 28, 2021, 08:32 PM
May 2021

So, best not to assume.

Claire Oh Nette

(2,636 posts)
5. When I was single?
Fri May 28, 2021, 08:35 PM
May 2021

I wore my grandmother's ring, a marquis cut ruby with diamonds, to ward off overly friendly playas in my misspent twenties. Could always move it to different hand if any one interesting was around.

Know several men who wear their service academy rings where their wedding ring ought to go. I wear my mother's wedding ring on my right ring finger, and I'm eyeing a new anniversary band for my wedding ring finger, just to change things up after twenty years.

Do what you want.

bamagal62

(3,264 posts)
6. I used too before I got married.
Fri May 28, 2021, 08:38 PM
May 2021

I can’t wear rings or bracelets on my right hand at all. It drives me crazy.

no_hypocrisy

(46,146 posts)
8. I do and I thought it was cool that a female office manager not only wore a gold band
Fri May 28, 2021, 08:44 PM
May 2021

on her left ring finger while unmarried, but it had a huge diamond in it.

You go, Girl!

torius

(1,652 posts)
9. Sure
Fri May 28, 2021, 08:46 PM
May 2021

I didn't even know that was a thing, unless you're going to a singles event or something and nervous people might specifically be looking so you might want to avoid doing that if you choose. Unmarried people don't have to avoid doing things just because married people do them. They can even have kids and buy homes. They don't have to care what others might think if they wear a ring on the left hand. We're not in Mad Men.

elleng

(131,028 posts)
10. I do, but not on 'ring' finger,
Fri May 28, 2021, 08:52 PM
May 2021

on small ('pinkie') finger, 2 rings, one daughter gave me 30? years ago, malachite (from school 'grab bag,') and Dad's gold ring, may have been HIS father's wedding ring.

Ocelot II

(115,783 posts)
11. I do. I have several different ones that I swap out.
Fri May 28, 2021, 09:01 PM
May 2021

I wear my mother's wedding ring on my right hand.

ShazzieB

(16,455 posts)
12. Just my opinion, but...
Fri May 28, 2021, 09:07 PM
May 2021

As long as it's not on the left ring finger, I say wear anything you want.

Also, if it's not something that would be readily mistaken for a wedding band, I say wear anything you want on the left ring finger.

Not sure if Miss Manners would concur, but I don't think many people are hung up on those traditions these days.

Ocelot II

(115,783 posts)
15. I sometimes used to wear a fake wedding ring when out with friends
Fri May 28, 2021, 10:57 PM
May 2021

at night clubs or pubs when I didn't feel like getting hit on by creepy drunks. Now that I'm old this is no longer a problem, but I can still wear any damn thing I please on any finger for any reason.

yonder

(9,669 posts)
13. I've always worn my band on the right. The same finger
Fri May 28, 2021, 09:18 PM
May 2021

the Orthodox priest placed it upon almost 37 years ago. That might be a tradition more common outside of the U.S., dunno.

The other reason, and a biggie, is that rings sometimes get caught on things causing severe injury. Or worse. It's not uncommon. If you're a musician relying on your left hand to play a fretboard, be careful. Think of Jimmy Fallon's left ring finger accident many years ago. Not sure if he's gained full use again but anecdotally, I don't see him playing guitar like he once did.

I'm just saying be careful with rings and things that can get hooked and take fingers off with it. Then again, Django Reinhardt suffered burn injuries to his left hand leaving him with a few useful fingers and his thumb. Who would've told him he couldn't play?

KatyaR

(3,445 posts)
17. I wear a silver ring on my left ring finger
Sat May 29, 2021, 09:13 AM
May 2021

that says "Serenity." Been wearing it for years.

It's actually more comfortable wearing rings on my left hand because I'm left handed and that hand is a little bit smaller than the right.

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