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MissMillie

(38,560 posts)
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 08:55 AM Jun 2021

My dad is 90 years old today.

It's his first birthday since my mom passed last July.

This is going to sound morbid, but I always assumed that when one of them died, the other wouldn't be far behind. They were married for 70 years, and were a couple for 4 years before that. All they've ever known was being together. Anyway, I'm glad to be wrong about this.

I'm making a homemade chocolate cake to bring over this afternoon. Peanut butter frosting.


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My dad is 90 years old today. (Original Post) MissMillie Jun 2021 OP
What a kind, sweet face your dad has. Happy Birthday!! secondwind Jun 2021 #1
What a wonderful photo, MissMillie! Diamond_Dog Jun 2021 #2
Truthfully... I don't think either one of them ever considered MissMillie Jun 2021 #3
Aww. They were made for each other. secondwind Jun 2021 #4
They look like a very loving couple. brer cat Jun 2021 #5
Thank you for sharing your father with us on his special day. May it be joyous. niyad Jun 2021 #6
Happy Birthday Sir. Hotler Jun 2021 #7
Happy Birthday to your dad! CaptainTruth Jun 2021 #8
I'm so sorry for your loss :hug: (n/t) MissMillie Jun 2021 #11
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! And many more! Chainfire Jun 2021 #9
Happy Birthday to your dad! SheltieLover Jun 2021 #10
if this is recent, wow, he sure doesn't look anywhere near 90. lark Jun 2021 #12
That was about 10 years ago MissMillie Jun 2021 #13
I'm hoping I take after my mom in the aging department. lark Jun 2021 #16
Happy Birthday to your Dad!How wonderful that he is livetohike Jun 2021 #14
Happy 90th Birthday MissMillies dad! Niagara Jun 2021 #15
Happy Birthday Retired Engineer Bob Jun 2021 #17
So 💖 sweet! Happy Birthday to your dad.... electric_blue68 Jun 2021 #18

Diamond_Dog

(32,006 posts)
2. What a wonderful photo, MissMillie!
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 09:29 AM
Jun 2021

They look like a sweet couple who were genuinely devoted to each other!

And, don’t feel badly about feeling “morbid,” ... a lot of couples who are together for so many years go that route... but, I’m glad your dad is hanging in there. You sound like a devoted daughter. I know how much you miss your mom from your previous posts.

I hope he enjoys his delicious homemade birthday cake!

MissMillie

(38,560 posts)
3. Truthfully... I don't think either one of them ever considered
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 09:30 AM
Jun 2021

"unkindness" to be an option.

Probably why they were able to stay married so long.

CaptainTruth

(6,594 posts)
8. Happy Birthday to your dad!
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 10:50 AM
Jun 2021

We always thought the same about my dad, that he would pass within 6 months after mom did, but he lived another 3+ years, until last Wednesday. When mom passed they were a week away from their 75th anniversary.

I wish your dad many more years of happiness!

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
10. Happy Birthday to your dad!
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 11:02 AM
Jun 2021
🍰 🎂

I hope it is a happy one for him.

Ty for sharing a pix of your folks! They appear so serene & kind.

lark

(23,105 posts)
12. if this is recent, wow, he sure doesn't look anywhere near 90.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 11:19 AM
Jun 2021

Congratulations to him and to his lucky family.

MissMillie

(38,560 posts)
13. That was about 10 years ago
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 12:02 PM
Jun 2021

When my folks celebrated their 60th anniversary, we got them a gift certificate to get a portrait done.

The portrait may have been touched-up a little by the professional photographer. But Dad has always looked very young for his age. Mom too. I'm hoping I got that gene.

lark

(23,105 posts)
16. I'm hoping I take after my mom in the aging department.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 08:04 PM
Jun 2021

If she hadn't gotten undiagnosed tb for 9 months, she would have probably lived to over 100. She was the healthiest person I ever met - from clean living, eating a lot of home grown veggies, and hard work.

livetohike

(22,145 posts)
14. Happy Birthday to your Dad!How wonderful that he is
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 12:24 PM
Jun 2021

here to celebrate this milestone birthday. Have a great day

17. Happy Birthday
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 10:02 PM
Jun 2021

They look happy and comfortable together in the photo.

Sorry about the loss of your mother. Keep good memories.

electric_blue68

(14,912 posts)
18. So 💖 sweet! Happy Birthday to your dad....
Mon Jun 28, 2021, 04:40 AM
Jun 2021

Sorry he lost his wife, you you lost mom.

I hope he enjoyed the cake! 🎂

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