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So one of my siblings and I were discussing the death of a good friend (Original Post) malaise Sep 2021 OP
I received a birthday card that said: You have entered the Wonder Years... LakeArenal Sep 2021 #1
Ha malaise Sep 2021 #2
Shhh. But almost everyday I say.... LakeArenal Sep 2021 #3
Aging is not for the weak. marble falls Sep 2021 #4
That's the truth malaise Sep 2021 #5
I saw something on facebook recently MiniMe Sep 2021 #6
Sometimes it requires the but scuttle lunatica Sep 2021 #8
It's much easier to just place a covered board on a spare bed malaise Sep 2021 #10
Seriously we now have a covered piece of light board malaise Sep 2021 #9
It's gotten more difficult since I had my surgery MiniMe Sep 2021 #11
I don't waste time hating getting old malaise Sep 2021 #12
I tried ignoring getting old, it didn't work MiniMe Sep 2021 #14
My turn will come malaise Sep 2021 #15
At 92 the doctors told my dad they saw no reason that he wouldn't live to 100.. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #17
LOL malaise Sep 2021 #18
My dad had all his marbles and a sense of humor. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #19
Only those with a sense of humor can handle old age malaise Sep 2021 #20
My husband and I used to joke about our mothers csziggy Sep 2021 #22
And that's the truth malaise Sep 2021 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Sep 2021 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Sep 2021 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Sep 2021 #13
Yes. Very true. lunatica Sep 2021 #7
Ah! Too have a good pee again. One can only hope. Floyd R. Turbo Sep 2021 #21

malaise

(268,885 posts)
2. Ha
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 05:47 PM
Sep 2021

Well I put the car keys in the clothes pin basket not so long ago

Until I wander off the property I'll be good to go.

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
3. Shhh. But almost everyday I say....
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 05:55 PM
Sep 2021

It’s a biotch to get old....

...Youth is wasted on the young.

MiniMe

(21,714 posts)
6. I saw something on facebook recently
Sun Sep 19, 2021, 09:08 PM
Sep 2021

Says Don't sit on the floor without a plan on how to get back up. I'm understanding that more and more lately.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
8. Sometimes it requires the but scuttle
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 02:12 AM
Sep 2021

Especially if your knees can’t take the pain of kneeling. Just use your buttox to scuttle your way to where you need to go.

malaise

(268,885 posts)
10. It's much easier to just place a covered board on a spare bed
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 09:28 AM
Sep 2021

and do all the floor exercises there

malaise

(268,885 posts)
9. Seriously we now have a covered piece of light board
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 09:26 AM
Sep 2021

that is on a spare bed for floor exercises and the Ab slide - getting up from the floor is now a task.

MiniMe

(21,714 posts)
11. It's gotten more difficult since I had my surgery
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 12:32 PM
Sep 2021

That was bypass surgery, it took a lot out of me. Had the surgery just before Covid hit, so being on lockdown hasn't helped either. Ugh, I hate getting old!

malaise

(268,885 posts)
12. I don't waste time hating getting old
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 12:54 PM
Sep 2021

because it is either get old or die, so I work hard to stay fit and well. And yes I know that too will be a struggle one of these days. Hope you're healing well.

MiniMe

(21,714 posts)
14. I tried ignoring getting old, it didn't work
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 01:34 PM
Sep 2021

The surgery was a complete surprise, went in for a test and boom, the next day was having the surgery. Covid set me back a bit, didn't have a chance to recover before it hit, and like most, I've been lazy since it did hit.

malaise

(268,885 posts)
15. My turn will come
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 01:58 PM
Sep 2021

None shall escape except those who die suddenly and don't get hit with the old age issues truck.

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
17. At 92 the doctors told my dad they saw no reason that he wouldn't live to 100..
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 02:26 PM
Sep 2021

He wasn’t that thrilled by the idea.

malaise

(268,885 posts)
18. LOL
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 02:35 PM
Sep 2021

My dad's youngest sister died at 97, but she didn't even know she was alive.
Her best friend died the year after at 98 - she was lucid but could barely move a muscle.

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
19. My dad had all his marbles and a sense of humor.
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 02:48 PM
Sep 2021

But... he could barely hear or see and mobility was getting worse.

So basically he was inside his own head all day and night. He said it’s very lonely.

I was lucky because he could still hear me on the phone. So I called him everyday.

csziggy

(34,135 posts)
22. My husband and I used to joke about our mothers
Mon Sep 20, 2021, 11:06 PM
Sep 2021

His mother had severe COPD but a sharp mind, mine had dementia but a body in pretty good shape. We'd joke that if we could combine them, we'd have an old lady that would live forever. Unfortunately, they are both gone, but by the time they each went, it was a blessing since life was a burden to them at the end.

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