Okay, Duer's I have a problem that I need someone's input on. The problem is with the "THING"

[The_REAL_Ecumenist]

I laughingly refer to as my fil. Without going to much into it, he's a MALICIOUSLY MALIGNANT Narcissist, witha heaping cupful of schizo effective disorder & more than a .25 cup of borderline personality disorder. Among the things this "man" has done is leaving my MIL alone on the strip in Las Vegas, literally driving off and leaving her there. While this is already a problem, it's INFINITELY worse when I reveal that she had a serious brain injury due to a ruptured brain aneurysm, (he called her a lazy cow & b**ch when she was dealing with the horrific headaches that presaged the Aneurysm)...He DROVE off & left her alone & why'd he do that? Who TF knows-assholery? He then went on to ATTACK his only daughter IN A HOSPICE, FFS!!! She was suffering from Appendiceal cancer & was considered terminal but seemingly was doing MUCH better. Her nurses & doctors felt that if she continued on what they considered a miraculous improvement, she might have had a chance to at least survive much longer than the original prognosis. (Side note: People come out of Hospice more than most people realise & I should know. Turns out I was in home hospice in 2011 after being Dx w/stage 4B cervical carcinoma but never knew it until I was cleaning out some old medical paperwork in 2016! )

Asshole literally came to her room, lunged at her and chased her down the hallway to the nurse station, only to turn & run out of the building. She died 57 hours later.
The craziest thing? The Hospice did NOT call the police, although this was CLEARLY an assault, at the very least. We called them from Northern California 2 weeks later! This happened in Phoenix AZ... Claims to LOVE tfg, got involved with a UBER racist "woman" who seems to have an extraordinary number of aliases, (including a few that are variations of my deceased MIL). What precludes this quasi-rant, is something that happened in January of this year. To make a neverending story less so, my Bae called to check on his sire as he'd heard from relatives that he'd died. He called all the hospitals, Morgues, police, trying to find out f it were true. He finally called asshole's mobile and "IT" answered. That "Thang" went on the most vile, racist oral diarrhea I have ever had the misfortune to witness. Among the things this idiot vomitted was his snarkily telling my husband, (a good dude, in spite of his father's pathologically fucked up thing that passes for a mind), that he needed to keep working to make sure that he could continue to get his FRAUDULENTLY acquired monthly 1500-1800 payments for DuPutryen's Contracture. He then went on to chuckle. The problem is that this man is worth AT LEAST 2.5 million dollars and has never declared the monies coming in.

This idiot is the the type of racist who was sending horribly ignorant racist memes when Obama was elected to the point where Bae blocked him, including the stupidity about black people voting for Obama because he promised free $h!t, (which I still haven't gotten, BTW ), how we're ALL, on welfare, etc, ad nauseum.

He lives in Surprise but has everything but the house , (his cars, the RV, etc), registered in Livingston TX. He brags that he's successfully hidden alot of his worth to avoid & recently, has transferred the monies to his girlfriend, the ignorant heifer who goaded him into disinheriting both my honey and the daughter he murdered, his ONLY children.

He's continued to torture other family members, actually tried to CHAT ME UP on FB, not realising that I'm his fucking DIL, (but black people are monkeys according to this idiot) and we've had it. He's stolen from THRIFT stores by changing the price tags-did I mention that he;s worth AT LEAST 2 mil? What I want to know is how do we report him & greedy EEEEVIL sidepiece, (he started with her BEFORE my beloved MIL died of Clear Cell Renal Carcinoma). We've had it. What I need to know is how & where do we report him for tax avoidance, fraudulently getting the monthly payments for 30 years, give or take? I couldn't get SSDI while I was battling a terminal illness because my husband makes more than 2K a month. Anyone who's dealt with cancer or any other catastrophic disease knows that even the best medical insurance doesn't cover everything and out of pocket is deadly expensive but this idiot TRUST FUND BABY get's money every month since the early 90's even though he wasn't working & is worth couple million ducats.
What is the protocol and which federal government agency do I contact? BTW: We have a manila folder full of PROOF!!


Thank you in advance for any help that is supplied. AND

[MLAA]

1. I have no advice just kind thoughts for you and husband for all you've dealt with

thanks to the evil asshole!

[MissB]

2. If he's given the gf access to some of his $

He will probably be broke before long.

Wait til he’s good and broke. That way when he’s prosecuted for hiding $, he’ll have a place to stay (gray bar).

I’m sorry, that was pretty flippant. Honestly, you’re better off without him in your life. Ignore his existence and his issues. Don’t let him harm you or your husband more. Disengage.

[Bayard]

3. That's a lot to deal with

You are understandably very angry, and it would feel good to report him, I'm sure. But sounds like the situation is ruining your happiness. He's not worth it.

Counseling may be helpful.

[Boxerfan]

4. The advice from "War Games" applies.

And if you google narcissists and how to deal with them you get pretty much the same advice.

Don't play-get involved or interact if at all possible. If you do have to do so without any emotional involvement I mean zero. They feed on your responses.

Sounds like the important bridges are already broken. there will be no resolution. The money is gone . And you can't try and help or "inform" the narcissist of the behavior that ALWAYS backfires.


Just keep walking.