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Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 10:31 AM Dec 2021

Does anyone get Christmas cards anymore?

I’m not talking local business mailings. Should we have a DU Christmas cards mailings? Do we trust enough for that, or does anyone care about cards anymore?

I’m not sure , any suggestions?

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Does anyone get Christmas cards anymore? (Original Post) Corgigal Dec 2021 OP
I not only receive them, I send them. femmocrat Dec 2021 #1
I received one from a cousin and two from neighbors so far this year. jimfields33 Dec 2021 #2
Still a tradition with the ancients.... OneBlueDotS-Carolina Dec 2021 #3
So, to many Corgigal Dec 2021 #4
Mail is expensive in Costa Rica so I can't LakeArenal Dec 2021 #5
I've gotten one in the last 6 years. But that is about to change. Runningdawg Dec 2021 #6
One from a neighbor, the insurance man and car dealer. doc03 Dec 2021 #7
Lord, Corgigal Dec 2021 #8
Oh I forgot the one from my health insurace doc03 Dec 2021 #11
We get quite a few LNM Dec 2021 #9
I have received two so far this year. mnhtnbb Dec 2021 #10
So far I have sent out 4 and received 3. It's not a big deal anymore, AFAIK. Nay Dec 2021 #12
Yep, California Peggy sends me one every year. malthaussen Dec 2021 #13
Have not sent or received any physical cards in the last 30 years. nt Binkie The Clown Dec 2021 #14
Thanks for reminding me. Harker Dec 2021 #15
I mailed out 54 this year...... MyOwnPeace Dec 2021 #16
We've only gotten 7 so far this year. I mailed about 30. 50 Shades Of Blue Dec 2021 #17
I both send and receive holiday cards. sinkingfeeling Dec 2021 #18
I still send them TuxedoKat Dec 2021 #19
We send and receive about 30 Christmas cards each year. patphil Dec 2021 #20
Very few. Ocelot II Dec 2021 #21
It's down to one card a year. bikebloke Dec 2021 #22
Yes, but the list has been greatly reduced in the past 20 years. Fla Dem Dec 2021 #23
I got one from a niece MissB Dec 2021 #24
we send and receive onethatcares Dec 2021 #25
My Friends Do RobinA Dec 2021 #26
One of my siblings sends a card every year malaise Dec 2021 #27

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
1. I not only receive them, I send them.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 10:42 AM
Dec 2021

I look forward to hearing from relatives and friends, Merry Christmas, DU!

jimfields33

(15,822 posts)
2. I received one from a cousin and two from neighbors so far this year.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 10:50 AM
Dec 2021

No others. Back in the day id get 50 or so. Those days are long gone.

OneBlueDotS-Carolina

(1,384 posts)
3. Still a tradition with the ancients....
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 10:53 AM
Dec 2021

in our family, so we send a receive a slew of them, the younger set, who knows, are there instagram Xmas cards?

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
4. So, to many
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 10:58 AM
Dec 2021

it’s starting to slim out. Does anyone here want to get a card? Private message me an address, and I will mail a card. I understand the privacy with all of this, but so many of us have been here for so long.

Up to you. A little DU holiday spirit would be a nice touch.

LakeArenal

(28,820 posts)
5. Mail is expensive in Costa Rica so I can't
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:00 AM
Dec 2021

But I used to make Solstice Cards as that is the real event of this time of year.

Not fake a fake Birthday

Not a arbitrary New Year

They don’t celebrate Thanksgiving everywhere.

But the Solstice now that’s a real celebration.

Runningdawg

(4,517 posts)
6. I've gotten one in the last 6 years. But that is about to change.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:09 AM
Dec 2021

A music group I am a part of on FB is really tight. This year a Christmas card/gift exchange was suggested. Gift can't cost more than $5 and must fit in card envelope. So far, I have 7 people to trade with, I guess we will see how it goes.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
8. Lord,
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:13 AM
Dec 2021

You sound like me. We got one from my husband health insurance. Yuck.

Will mail a card, if you want to shake up your postal carrier. Ha.

LNM

(1,079 posts)
9. We get quite a few
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:13 AM
Dec 2021

It's surprising since we don't send out any. Most of them are from the younger generation, my kids friends and cousins and our friend's kids. I love getting them.

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
10. I have received two so far this year.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:14 AM
Dec 2021

I used to send out 80-90 cards/year as recently as five years ago. Then my husband and I separated, and the last cards I sent out were literally right before he committed suicide in 2018. Haven't sent cards since then and have only received a handful each year.
Just finished writing a card to my cousin. Maybe I'll send a couple more this week, but nothing like what I used to do.

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,009 posts)
17. We've only gotten 7 so far this year. I mailed about 30.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:37 AM
Dec 2021

Sadly, there's a been a lot of attrition due to older relatives/friends passing in the past 5 years, but a lot of people I used to exchange cards with just don't send them any more. I can't seem to end the tradition though.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
19. I still send them
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:50 AM
Dec 2021

I don't get that many, maybe a dozen or so. I love sending as much as receiving them. There is one DU'er I send a card too. I'll send one to you too if you like.

patphil

(6,182 posts)
20. We send and receive about 30 Christmas cards each year.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 11:51 AM
Dec 2021

I remember as a young boy watching my mother prepare well over a hundred cards. She would write a Christmas message in most of them...different depending on who she was sending it to.
She sent so many that she would start making them out in November, and kept track of them in a notebook with columns for each person's name, and with sent and received columns for each year.
It was actually a manual version of a spreadsheet; way before computers.

Ocelot II

(115,732 posts)
21. Very few.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 12:37 PM
Dec 2021

I remember years ago when it was a big deal - my mother spent hours addressing cards, and we'd always get a ton of them, sometimes including mimeographed (!) letters bragging about the sender's brilliant children and lavish vacations and we'd always get a good laugh from those. These days it's just email, if that.

bikebloke

(5,260 posts)
22. It's down to one card a year.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 12:58 PM
Dec 2021

I exchange with some Dutch friends. They call it my "proof-of-life" card. My father remarried before he died. His wife and I exchanged cards. But I haven't heard from her in a couple years, so suspect she's dead.

Fla Dem

(23,690 posts)
23. Yes, but the list has been greatly reduced in the past 20 years.
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 01:33 PM
Dec 2021

Probably sent out about 20 this year.

MissB

(15,810 posts)
24. I got one from a niece
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 01:43 PM
Dec 2021

And I suspect the other niece will send one out too. Generally we see close family around Christmas and well, all year round.

I did get a nice arrangement from a local realtor. We had her over two years ago when we thought of moving but ended up not moving. She’s someone I’ve volunteered with over the years at the school. It is a nice arrangement with a small succulent, orchid and evergreen (all potted) and some decorative items. Better than a card.

onethatcares

(16,172 posts)
25. we send and receive
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 02:07 PM
Dec 2021

we don't send out yearly history like some do, but it's nice to see the same names on the mantle at this time of year.

It's sad not to see some names on the mantle too, but such is life.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
26. My Friends Do
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 02:12 PM
Dec 2021

They don't reciprocate much, but I will send as long as I want to. It's sad really. Doing a small nice thing for people is too much trouble. Or something.

What I want to know is do brides and grooms send out Thank Yous anymore? I'm 0 for 2 this fall. The one I had to check my bank statement to see if they had gotten my check. They had. The others I can only assume they got the gift, as I took it to the groom's parents' house as instructed.

malaise

(269,054 posts)
27. One of my siblings sends a card every year
Wed Dec 15, 2021, 02:44 PM
Dec 2021

without exception- she started this the year she left for college 1968

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