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CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 04:53 PM Apr 2022

Hubby has developed diabetes, discovered at his checkup today. He's going for further tests and diet

The funny thing is we no longer drink wine with dinner or anytime, we eat lots of vegetables and fruits and do not eat fatty meats, fish and chicken, not with heavy sauces.

He's 81, overweight and should get into PT. I am doing my part by going to PT for my back arthritis. I encourage him to go too but he says he's not "ready". Now he might be ready, I sure hope!

He has had 2 surgeries for spinal stenosis and uses a walker.

This diagnosis might be a good thing in that it will underscore what I have been telling him about how beneficial PT can be for him.

I do all I can in this situation. I can only hope this diagnosis will convince him to start moving around more, get back in PT, or use our stationary bike.



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CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
4. We have a JCC near us (my hubby is Jewish). I'm going to check that out. Thanks, I hadn't thought
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 05:03 PM
Apr 2022

of that!

Patterson

(1,530 posts)
5. Tip: Don't go by the ADA (American Diabetes Association) diet recommendations.
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 05:04 PM
Apr 2022

They allow or suggest way too many carbs.

Tetrachloride

(7,843 posts)
7. Find the safe exercises that work for him.
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 05:07 PM
Apr 2022

A walking swimming pool waist high or chest high.

Consult more than 1 physical therapist.

Stop all cheese, sugar,
ketchup (corn syrup), beef, pork.

(you probably did some of this. i am typing while my
adrenaline holds out)

Take an ibuprofen immediately after exercises, especially the first day

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
9. He can get on the stationary bike while watching TV.
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 05:58 PM
Apr 2022

Interestingly, I have to be careful on the bike. My knees are getting a real workout going up and down the stairs in my house. It helps with the arthritis in my knee joint but overdoing it only sets me back.

femmedem

(8,203 posts)
10. A different perspective on cheese and diabetics from what was posted earlier:
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 06:14 PM
Apr 2022

risks and benefits:

"Can people with diabetes eat cheese? The answer in many cases is yes. This delicious, calcium-rich food contains many nutritional properties that make it a healthy part of a balanced diet.

Of course, there are some precautions to keep in mind. Read on to find out what people with diabetes need to know about eating cheese."


Full article: https://www.healthline.com/health/diabetes/cheese#risks

And of course, ask his doctor.

MOMFUDSKI

(5,535 posts)
11. Being diagnosed at 81 isn't the end of the world.
Fri Apr 8, 2022, 08:45 PM
Apr 2022

He can learn about carbs and just cut back on those foods. Fruits are high in carbs, especially tropical fruits, so northern fruits are a bettter choice (apples, pears, plums instead of pineapple, bananas). Rice and pasta are super high in carbs. He may be given a metformin pill which will help. He will learn his A1C is the number he should care about. That is a 90-day blood sugar average and tells the whole story. Have him space out his food intake over the course of the day and not eat a HUGE carbo load at one sitting. Exercise is good for everyone, of course. He may be given a glucose meter/test strips to check his sugar which will help him learn what makes it go too high and how he is doing overall. He can have a visit with a Diabetes Educator which is extremely helpful. Best wishes to him.

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