Still missed

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The world lost Jerry 8/9/95 and I lost my DH spouse 8/9/16.
Both life-shattering events feel like they just happened.

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[samnsara]

1. (((hugs)))

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3. Appreciated

[EYESORE 9001]

2. Condolences

Anniversaries can be rough.

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4. Thank you.

This year hit harder than the last couple. We've all been through so much.

[underpants]

5. 14 months apart

My buddies and I had a favorite pre-golfing place to get breakfast.
April 1994 we see Kurt Cobain on the TV. “What’s up with….oh S!

14 months later. Same restaurant probably the same booth. “Hey! Jerry!….what’s up with…oh S!”

Grew up right down the road from the Mothership in Hampton. Lots of Deadheads. My brother saw well over 100 shows.

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8. We probably danced through 300, mainly West Coast

[mitch96]

7. Deadhead here too. Ran up and down the east coast going to their concerts...

Sorry for your loss as I have been there too... It's a hole that never quite gets filled back up.
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9. Thank you.

Covid loneliness deepened that hole, I think

[mitch96]

10. My only saving grace is that the gap between the sorrow periods gets stretched out....

but it never really goes away. I go days, weeks, months and then boom. there it is.
Not as intense but present. A grief counselor helped.
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11. Not as intense but present, so true.