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Jilly_in_VA

(9,999 posts)
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 12:32 PM Oct 2022

Gone girl

I was finally able to get a vet appointment for my Vicky this morning. It was not a happy occasion, although she behaved well once I got her in the carrier (surprise!). Other than a mild hiss at me while I was catching her, she was gentle and well-mannered, not usual for her. Unfortunately, the X-rays confirmed my worst fears. Her pelvis was completely smashed; the vet thinks she was run over by a car or something, possibly even an ATV as Vicky was afraid of the road. There was no way this could be fixed, so we elected to have her put to sleep. My girl is now frolicking at Rainbow Bridge. I'm glad she came home so I could give her this last gift of going easy. I will miss her, her tiny meow, her big green eyes, and her inexplicably heavy-footed run as she came down the deck stairway for meals. We'll bury her this evening under the holly tree where she liked to lie in wait for small critters.

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Gone girl (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Oct 2022 OP
I am so so sorry. I know your pain. Blessings on Vicky and you. CurtEastPoint Oct 2022 #1
I'm so sorry, Jilly! cilla4progress Oct 2022 #2
I'm so sorry Jilly Diamond_Dog Oct 2022 #3
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. CrispyQ Oct 2022 #4
I'm so sorry 😢 live love laugh Oct 2022 #5
I was hoping this was a movie review True Dough Oct 2022 #6
Sooo sorry! I had to give up on letting my cats outside... they could get to a highway. Karadeniz Oct 2022 #7
I'm so terribly sorry. Rest in peace little Vicky. sinkingfeeling Oct 2022 #8
I'm so sorry, Jilly. But you did the kindest possible thing for Vicky after she returned to you highplainsdem Oct 2022 #9
I'm so sorry AmBlue Oct 2022 #10
Hugs to Jilly_in_VA and all who loved Miss Vicky.. Tikki Oct 2022 #11
Sorry to hear this Jilly. debm55 Oct 2022 #12
Terribly sad, many condolences ironflange Oct 2022 #13
😥 Duppers Oct 2022 #14
Oh Dear. I'm so sorry. So glad she was able to make it home one last time. Fla Dem Oct 2022 #15
I'm so sorry Jilly. At least you got to be with her. My heart is broken for you. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #16
So sorry to hear this, huge hugz! Celerity Oct 2022 #17
I am so sorry. I send you my condolences and a big hug. It's never easy. SoBlueInFL Oct 2022 #18
She came back so you could help her. TexLaProgressive Oct 2022 #19
So sorry for your loss, Jilly. gademocrat7 Oct 2022 #20
I am so so sorry. irisblue Oct 2022 #21
Vicky sounds like a very sweet soul. BittyJenkins Oct 2022 #22
So sorry creeksneakers2 Oct 2022 #23
So sorry to hear this, Jilly. calimary Oct 2022 #24
I am so very sorry. 💔 herding cats Oct 2022 #25
Glad you had closure, and a chance to say goodbye to her. 70sEraVet Oct 2022 #26
So sorry. Scottie Mom Oct 2022 #27
Jilly_in_VA .............. Upthevibe Oct 2022 #28
RIP, Vicky. So sorry... Ocelot II Oct 2022 #29
She came home to you lunatica Oct 2022 #30
So sorry. Hate this. stopdiggin Oct 2022 #31
Condolences for your loss. EndlessWire Oct 2022 #32

True Dough

(17,331 posts)
6. I was hoping this was a movie review
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 12:55 PM
Oct 2022

But it's a tale with an unhappy ending. Sorry to read about Vicky's demise, Jilly. We've lost a number of pets over the years, never easy.

All the best to you.

highplainsdem

(49,041 posts)
9. I'm so sorry, Jilly. But you did the kindest possible thing for Vicky after she returned to you
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 01:31 PM
Oct 2022

knowing how much you cared for her, how you would do everything you could to help her. I believe in reunions with loved ones on the other side, where Vicky is healthy and young again, playing like a kitten. I'm sure you will see her again, and she'll be able to thank you very clearly.

AmBlue

(3,117 posts)
10. I'm so sorry
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 01:32 PM
Oct 2022

It's so touching she made it home to you despite her grave injuries. She trusted you to take loving care of her in her moment of greatest need. And you did exactly that.

Condolences to you my friend.


Tikki

(14,559 posts)
11. Hugs to Jilly_in_VA and all who loved Miss Vicky..
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 01:36 PM
Oct 2022

You truly did show love and concern for Vicky.
Now she'll rest under tree and in your heart, forever.

Tikki

Duppers

(28,127 posts)
14. 😥
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 02:26 PM
Oct 2022

Holding back tears here. Your post was a perfect tribute to your girl and to your love for her.

Truly know your pain & empathize. AmBlue above said it best.


Fla Dem

(23,764 posts)
15. Oh Dear. I'm so sorry. So glad she was able to make it home one last time.
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 02:29 PM
Oct 2022

At least you know she had tender loving care before she passed, as opposed to never
knowing what happened to her. RIP Vicky.

TexLaProgressive

(12,158 posts)
19. She came back so you could help her.
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 02:46 PM
Oct 2022

It is hard, but I insist on being with our animal friends when they need to cross over. Bless for your caring heart.

calimary

(81,507 posts)
24. So sorry to hear this, Jilly.
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 03:08 PM
Oct 2022

Gotta say, I look at our three cats (who are still young) and always wonder how long God will let me keep them.

They’re 100% indoor cats.

Thinking of you and sending hugs.

70sEraVet

(3,516 posts)
26. Glad you had closure, and a chance to say goodbye to her.
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 03:17 PM
Oct 2022

Many pet owners never know what happened to their little friends, and are left worrying about what their last days were like.
Sorry, Jilly.

Scottie Mom

(5,812 posts)
27. So sorry.
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 08:22 PM
Oct 2022

I had a roommate who passed away in Dec 2018 and well before this happened, he worried every day who would take care of his cat when he went -- my roommate was well into his 80s so he was dealing with a very real concern. I said that I would -- and now the cat, Domino, is 18 years old and on his last legs. I wonder every day when I get up and check on him if this is the day that I will have to make that trip to the vet.

The hardest thing about a pet is the day they cross that Bridge. Domino is my first cat but to this day, I miss my six Scotties who passed way...I still love each and every one of them and have their pictures close by.

Again, so sorry.

Upthevibe

(8,072 posts)
28. Jilly_in_VA ..............
Thu Oct 20, 2022, 10:57 PM
Oct 2022

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

IMHO, you absolutely did the right thing.

Good vibes to you and your precious Vicky

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
30. She came home to you
Fri Oct 21, 2022, 03:46 AM
Oct 2022

Knowing you would take care of her. Remember that when your grief overwhelms you.

She’ll be there to greet you when it’s your time.

EndlessWire

(6,569 posts)
32. Condolences for your loss.
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 02:09 PM
Oct 2022

I believe that you will see her again someday. She's just on the other side of life, as we understand it. Take care of yourself.

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