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debm55

(25,785 posts)
Sat May 27, 2023, 04:55 PM May 2023

Why did Carol Brady need Alice as a maid? She had a job? Young children? I don't know.

Can come up with reasons why Alice did all the cooking and cleaning. My guess is was a relative. what's yours? And what was Carol doing all this time?????? Saw a post where the house is being sold for over 5 million.

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Why did Carol Brady need Alice as a maid? She had a job? Young children? I don't know. (Original Post) debm55 May 2023 OP
The show needed Alice as a personality... lisa58 May 2023 #1
But what was Carol doing all that time??? My grandmother had 7 kids --no Alice. debm55 May 2023 #2
Brady Bunch? The Blue Flower May 2023 #3
When Carol married Mike, no_hypocrisy May 2023 #4
Oh like a package deal.What do you think Carol was doing all that time. I would be bored. debm55 May 2023 #6
PTA, fundraisers, on the phone with Martha, selecting new curtains. no_hypocrisy May 2023 #27
That's right - thank you for reminding me... lisa58 May 2023 #7
Called my grandmother Baba, too. debm55 May 2023 #11
Marsha and Greg needed full-time chaperones sanatanadharma May 2023 #5
Why? Something is strange, very strange. debm55 May 2023 #8
They were, how shall I put this, rsdsharp May 2023 #9
24/7??????? debm55 May 2023 #12
Not even kids have that much stamina. rsdsharp May 2023 #14
So what did Carol do all day?? Shop, do volunteer work, do crafts? Help me people!! debm55 May 2023 #16
Probably plotted to get her architect husband rsdsharp May 2023 #18
I know-------- debm55 May 2023 #21
didnt Alice come with the family..kinda like Hazel? samnsara May 2023 #10
I very vaguely remember Hazel. Did she come with the family? debm55 May 2023 #13
She came with Missy, when she married Mr. B, rsdsharp May 2023 #15
Who the heck is Missy? Also. what was the dog's name? Maybe Carol took him to dog shows??? debm55 May 2023 #17
Hazel was Shirley Booth, starring in her own show as the maid of the Baxters. rsdsharp May 2023 #20
And what was Missy doing when Hazel did all the work???? debm55 May 2023 #22
Making herself beautiful for George, of course. rsdsharp May 2023 #25
I loved Hazel. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #34
Hazel! MuseRider May 2023 #30
wasn't Hazel looking for the little dog, Sheba.? We now know the Brady's dog was Tramp. Thank you debm55 May 2023 #39
I simply do not remember MuseRider May 2023 #40
I hated the steps up to the 2nd floor-they had open backs. Did Mick design the house, if so the debm55 May 2023 #41
Wasn't Carol a realtor? Freddie May 2023 #19
I remember an episode where June Cleaver was running the sweeper in a dress, heels and pearls. I debm55 May 2023 #24
She sold her prescription drugs at the playground cyclonefence May 2023 #23
What a Miltowns? Are they mother's little helper? Are YOU saying Carol or Alice was a druggy. Shame debm55 May 2023 #26
Yep. I think they were speed, essentially, or maybe Valium? cyclonefence May 2023 #28
Tiger Alpeduez21 May 2023 #33
She could have been reading the erotic book 50 Shades of Avocado and eating bon,bons. debm55 May 2023 #36
Tramp. nt BlackSkimmer May 2023 #35
Was that the dog? Didn't he ruin their wedding cake? debm55 May 2023 #37
Better question: Why did the Baileys (It's a Wonderful Life) have a maid & how did they afford her? Gidney N Cloyd May 2023 #29
Well, it was a fictional sitcom, but the backstory is that Mr. Brady was raising three boys on his BlackSkimmer May 2023 #31
I knew Mr.Brady was, didn't know Alice was gay. debm55 May 2023 #38
Wasn't Alice Mike's maid that he brought with him? Beautiful Disaster May 2023 #32
That show used to drive my mother crazy! Buckeye_Democrat May 2023 #42
Your mom sounds a good mother. The opening song was a little cheesy. And with all the work your debm55 May 2023 #43
Yeah, she was. Buckeye_Democrat May 2023 #45
"what was Carol doing all this time??????" LudwigPastorius May 2023 #44
When I was a kid girls would get jobs as GenThePerservering May 2023 #46

lisa58

(5,755 posts)
1. The show needed Alice as a personality...
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:00 PM
May 2023

My mother had seven of her own children and did everything- never had an Alice

no_hypocrisy

(46,322 posts)
4. When Carol married Mike,
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:05 PM
May 2023

she also got as a package Greg, Peter, Bobby . . . . and Alice. She was the guys' surrogate mother figure before the marriage.

More or less the same thing happened to my parents. When they bought their house in 1955, they also got the owner's medical practice and his maid, who was 88 years old. She took care of me until I was 2. I called her Baba, which is Czechoslovakian for Grandma.

no_hypocrisy

(46,322 posts)
27. PTA, fundraisers, on the phone with Martha, selecting new curtains.
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:42 PM
May 2023

Stuff women did before feminism took hold.

lisa58

(5,755 posts)
7. That's right - thank you for reminding me...
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:11 PM
May 2023

Alice was already a ‘member’ of the Brady family- good recall

rsdsharp

(9,242 posts)
18. Probably plotted to get her architect husband
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:26 PM
May 2023

to redo that God awful kitchen. Orange AND avocado?

rsdsharp

(9,242 posts)
20. Hazel was Shirley Booth, starring in her own show as the maid of the Baxters.
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:31 PM
May 2023

Don DeFore played George Baxter, Whitney Blake was his wife, Missy. Bobby Buntrock was their doughy son, Harold.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
34. I loved Hazel.
Sat May 27, 2023, 07:45 PM
May 2023

I could only see that show if I stayed home from school. Same with Bewitched.

I loved those shows lol.

MuseRider

(34,142 posts)
30. Hazel!
Sat May 27, 2023, 07:16 PM
May 2023

Wow, that was a deep dive. I had totally forgotten her show. I LOVED it as a kid but it was gone from memory. Now I remember and it makes me smile. Shirley Booth?

debm55

(25,785 posts)
39. wasn't Hazel looking for the little dog, Sheba.? We now know the Brady's dog was Tramp. Thank you
Sat May 27, 2023, 09:02 PM
May 2023

BlackSkimmer

MuseRider

(34,142 posts)
40. I simply do not remember
Sat May 27, 2023, 10:31 PM
May 2023

but I did love that show. I do not think I was old enough to put it all together. I do remember Mr. B. The dog I cannot remember.

debm55

(25,785 posts)
41. I hated the steps up to the 2nd floor-they had open backs. Did Mick design the house, if so the
Sat May 27, 2023, 10:44 PM
May 2023

steps were an accident waiting to happen. Mike needed to fix them.

Freddie

(9,282 posts)
19. Wasn't Carol a realtor?
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:29 PM
May 2023

Maybe that was in later seasons.
Probably doing volunteer work and PTA mom, what bored housewives did back then. I vaguely recall June Cleaver had a maid too.

debm55

(25,785 posts)
24. I remember an episode where June Cleaver was running the sweeper in a dress, heels and pearls. I
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:38 PM
May 2023

don't think she had a maid.

cyclonefence

(4,483 posts)
23. She sold her prescription drugs at the playground
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:37 PM
May 2023

It takes longer than you think to repackage Miltowns. Then the hours spent lurking and luring.

No time for cooking, cleaning or courting Sam the butcher (well, somebody had to do it; otherwise the Bradys would have starved. Teenagers are bottomless gorges when it comes to food).

debm55

(25,785 posts)
26. What a Miltowns? Are they mother's little helper? Are YOU saying Carol or Alice was a druggy. Shame
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:40 PM
May 2023

on you. Do you remember the dog's name?

Alpeduez21

(1,761 posts)
33. Tiger
Sat May 27, 2023, 07:45 PM
May 2023

Then the dog disappeared. If memory serves I remember scenes of Carol looking through catalogs and organizing the shopping list. She did a hell of lot less than Alice that's for sure.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,847 posts)
29. Better question: Why did the Baileys (It's a Wonderful Life) have a maid & how did they afford her?
Sat May 27, 2023, 05:58 PM
May 2023

Pa Bailey's business was a "cheap, penny-ante Building and Loan," money was tight, and Ma Bailey only had 2 kids to raise.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
31. Well, it was a fictional sitcom, but the backstory is that Mr. Brady was raising three boys on his
Sat May 27, 2023, 07:41 PM
May 2023

own; he was all alone. (you can sing that)

He was a busy and well-off architect, and he hired Alice to take care of the boys.

When one day he met this pretty lady, and he knew that it was much more than a hunch...he decided to take Alice with him to help with the day they all became The Brady Bunch!

The funniest thing is that Mr. Brady and Alice were both gay in real life. Can't make this shit up.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,860 posts)
42. That show used to drive my mother crazy!
Sat May 27, 2023, 10:59 PM
May 2023

And the fact that Carol Brady had a maid was one of the main reasons that she hated that show.

When she happened to see a bedroom scene with Mike and Carol (while I was watching a rerun in the 70's, after school), she said something like, "Oh, so that's what she does! She well-rested for another night of sex!"

Mom mostly just yelled at me to "turn off that garbage" whenever I watched it, especially if she happened to hear the opening song from the kitchen.

My mother was strictly a housewife at that time (later getting a job when I was a little older), but she stayed busy doing it. Our home was like an operating room, it was so clean and sanitized. And every evening was like Thanksgiving, with all of the food on our table.

Representative Tony Hall was invited inside our home during dinner, as he was campaigning for Congress by actually knocking on doors, and it looked like his eyes were about to bulge out of his head when he saw so much food! He asked if he was interrupting a special occasion for our family, but Mom and Dad said it was just dinner time. Then Mom insisted that Tony Hall sit down and eat with us, grabbing an extra plate from a cupboard. He paused and acted very tempted, but then said it was projected to be a close race and he couldn't afford to lose any time requesting votes in our neighborhood. Mom was disappointed, but hugged Tony and promised that he had my family's votes.

We were probably the most "food rich" family for miles around, but poor in other ways. I usually wore clothes bought at garage sales, for example. It's because Mom's parents were so poor during the Great Depression that she often went to bed hungry. Maybe a small potato and some milk for the whole day, many times. So food was always her priority in later years.

Anyway, she indeed despised the Carol Brady character in particular!

debm55

(25,785 posts)
43. Your mom sounds a good mother. The opening song was a little cheesy. And with all the work your
Sat May 27, 2023, 11:07 PM
May 2023

mom did to feed your family, I can see the disliked Carol Brady.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,860 posts)
45. Yeah, she was.
Sat May 27, 2023, 11:32 PM
May 2023

She was kind of Puritanical, especially in regard to work, but that's not such a bad thing.

She was demanding with me, always expecting me to excel at school. But with no help, unlike other kids who I know received help from their parents on various school projects. And she drove me to apply for a paper route when I was only 7 years old. (That's when I first got my Social Security card too, with Mom thinking it might be required for the job.) I was hired, and the man who gave me the paper route acted like I must be a real go-getter to want a paper route at that early age. I felt like saying, "I'm only doing it because Mom insists on it!"

Whenever I got straight-A's in school, or performed well at anything, Mom would then be upset if I seemed proud of myself. So she was kind of impossible to please. On the other hand, it seemed to keep me motivated to keep improving. I generally had low self-esteem, but it's not like it really hurt me... except I'd be a misfit in some business atmosphere where "projecting confidence" is seemingly emphasized more than just doing the work (if any).

Edit: Perhaps the afternoon paper route was a reaction to me watching "The Brady Bunch" one too many times!

GenThePerservering

(1,886 posts)
46. When I was a kid girls would get jobs as
Sun May 28, 2023, 12:22 AM
May 2023

'mother's helpers' - i.e., work 8 hours a day for 50 cents an hour doing the drudge work around the house. What a racket.

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